I have a Bestfriend (37M). He is like a slightly younger brother to me.When I asked him, he said he doesn't use any dating apps. He has expressed disinterest in relationships. It's really disappointing to see him (Who could very well be described as one of the rare good or even great ones) be such a commitment phobe. Male forever bachelorhood seems anti women to me. Just my opinion.Regarding dating apps, he said it's a trap to get guys to pay for premium subscriptions and that it encourages shallowness and lookism. When I asked him why he hasn't seriously thought of dating to settle down, he described it as a waste of potential. That dating then marrying then having kids is a societal scam and very few married or committed men are actually happy. That most probably resent their wives, long term girlfriends and children. He says he doesn't want to end up regretting anything.When I told him he would grow old and die alone with that mentality, which I admit was a little too much, he stopped talking to me and continued typing on his laptop.I hate to see my eligible Bestfriend waste his life like this and be so bitter about relationships. He could make a great boyfriend or husband but decides not to for no reason.I see this becoming a more widespread mentality especially in countries likes Japan and Korea where men willingly choose the single life as it's deemed easier. There's a term for that. "Herbivore men". It's really selfish to be so self centered and abandon relationships and family for your own convenience.Opinions?
tldr
>>533902401This copy pasta sucks and yet it gets posted a bunch
>>533902401Single men die earlier, have more heart attacks, and kill themselves more than married men. It gets really bad after 50+.
>>533902589yes hopefully all the divorced single boomers i know die soon
>>533902401Once you reach your mid 30s it's over.
Here, everything is censored by feminists. If you date, feminists will file false accusations of sexual assault and send you to jail; prostitution is illegal, and simply watching pornography is illegal, so you cannot even watch it. If you are born a man here, you literally have to live as a second-class citizen. If I hadn't been born in this cursed trash country and had been born somewhere like Southeast Asia, I would have already married a beautiful woman, started a family, and lived a normal life without worrying about censorship. Born in a truly filthy and cursed trash country, I have to live under censorship by Korean women 24 hours a day simply because I am a man.
>>533902890move to Thailand
Juice isn't worth the squeeze
>>53390240137 years old... He was a fucking kid
>>533902401 I think I finally understand what it means to be truly broken. It didn’t happen all at once—it was a slow, painful process. But the final straw? Pan Piano’s net worth.I work 12-hour shifts, come home to my fat bitch of a girlfriend who wasn’t always like this. She used to be normal, decent even, but once she hit 20, she started ballooning like every other American woman. First, it was little things—more fast food, less effort, more nagging. Then, before I even realized what was happening, she was just there, a miserable, entitled blob, treating me like some human ATM while complaining about everything.Still, I kept my head down. I worked. I saved. I told myself it would get better. Then I made the mistake of looking up Pan Piano’s net worth.Three million dollars. In just three years. All because she plays piano while wearing stupid, sexy cosplay outfits. That’s it. That’s all it took. Meanwhile, I’ve spent years breaking my back for less than nothing—just enough to keep myself alive in a world that doesn’t care. No talent, no innovation, no hard work, just sex appeal and a piano and she’s set for life.I haven’t been to work in a week. Didn’t even quit. Just stopped showing up. What’s the point? There is none. There never was. I see now that my entire existence is just a joke played at my expense. I can’t even bring myself to be angry anymore. Just empty.I used to think there was some fairness in the world. That hard work meant something. That if I suffered enough, things would eventually even out. But no. Life is just one long humiliation.
>>533902401Estrogen-powered hands wrote this bullshit.
>>533902401>Opinions?okay, i feed the beast>37he's already checked out and all you told me about him, it seems that he knows about the nature of women, so there is almost no chance to getting him invested in females anymorehell, even more and more teenage guys have given up on the female dealone can only imagine how awful modern women have become, if hormone raging young guys had enough>Male forever bachelorhood seems anti women to meit low key is, since naturaly, men want to be with womennow women are so horrible, that men overriding their biologoy to be free of those harpies>It's really selfish to be so self centered and abandon relationships and family for your own convenienceyeah, that is one big fat reason why men are opting out, the sheer avalanche of demands, brought forth without any hint of compensationwhen men realize that they are viewed as providers at best and slaves at worst, while the top 5% get anything they want for free, they stop being good little goyim. sadly for females, niggers and kikes, good little goyim are the muslce, heart and blood of this system. and the system has already atrophytl;dr, women fucked up and men are not in the mood to help anymore
>>533902401He wouldn't have a choice anyway at 37. Most of the good women are already taken by their early 20s. The rest are merely a liability that will make your life much worse.>>533902890How about you initiate a change then? It's not like foids could do anything about it.
>>533902589yeah, but those have had a marriage or two prior to being singlewhen it comes to men, tradcons can't be honest>>533902890i heard so much shit about worst koreahow long do men have to serve in the army? and women still cry suppression, while they get two years of studying while the guys have to watch out for the champions of juche
>>533903637Almost half of men under 30 haven’t even risked talking to a real woman because internet porn and OnlyFans have rewired their brains. Endless algorithmic feeds pump out high-def tits, silicone curves, flawless skin and zero drama—an on-demand fantasy that conditions guys to expect a Candyland girlfriend: no flaws, always horny, always performing. Then you have creators like Pan Piano—she isn’t selling nudes, but her pay-to-unlock model works the same way: subscribe, tip, unlock exclusive ASMR-level performances, surprise “thank you” DMs, personalized video shout-outs. It’s a dopamine slot machine with variable-ratio rewards: you never know when the next bonus clip or private message will drop, so you stay hooked.Real women, by contrast, have messy schedules, jobs, moods, limits and boundaries. They won’t send a sext at 3 AM for $5, they won’t perform on cue or ghost you when they’re tired. Instead of rolling with rejection, negotiation, compromise and genuine emotional growth, a growing chunk of guys log off IRL and retreat into screens. Over time, their neural pathways hardwire “real = costly, fantasy = free,” so they literally lose the will to approach.If nearly half a generation opts out of dating flesh-and-blood partners, birthrates crash, loneliness epidemics skyrocket, entire markets for family housing and night-out economies shrink, while parasocial and subscription empires metastasize. What happens to a society when men start treating women like paywalled content providers and decide real relationships aren’t worth the effort?
>>533903840The military understands. I can tolerate it by living in prison for two years, eating regularly and working hard, but I can't tolerate the censorship law created by that damn Mongoloid Korean bitch. I feel like I'm being watched 24 hours a day. Just looking at those fucking cockroaches, inferior race, plastic surgery monsters, and Korean bitches fills me with disgust, and my dream is to escape from this fucking trash country. The problem is that if that cockroach falsely accuses you of sexual assault, you will end up with a record of sexual crimes, and you will have to live forever in this fucking trash country without being able to escape. Because it is impossible for ex-convicts to immigrate... So need to avoid as much as possible with those plastic monsters, cockroaches, radioactive inferior race maggots.My wish is to save money and escape to Africa or Southeast Asia even when I am old.
>>533903945>because internet porn and OnlyFans have rewired their brainssome, maybe, but the fact is that men of all ages decide more and more that the female deal is a shitty one15 years ago, manosphere and MGTOW lingo was niche as fuck, now it's mainstream and in some cases even hip>What happens to a society when men start treating women like paywalled content providers and decide real relationships aren’t worth the effort?why would they treat them any different, since they are paywalled content?women went from human beings to a fucking concept and they did this to themselvesall those OF whores would have been prime wife material, but they decided to cash in money from guys they openly hate and to repulse the guys they actually wanted
>>533902401It is difficult to overstate just how much psychological damage occurs in the young mind in never experiencing love when it was supposed to. It creates invisible but ever present and outwardly manifesting psychological wounds that may heal over time, but never disappear. It is a lifelong crippling of the mind, affecting things like confidence, self-esteem, healthy thought processes, and inability to cope with the difficulties in life in a healthy way. It breeds attitudes of perpetual envy and anger and depression. Especially when said individuals are constantly bombarded by images and media of people having lived their best life while they missed out and can never experience, ever. Because time is only linearly forward.A means to try and "heal the mind" which has already happened for many who have resigned themselves to apathy and quiet resentment, but it doesn't remove the scar. The scar is always there. Always present. And it will always serve as a reminder, and always influence future thoughts and decisions and actions.
>>533903945society collapses, and men will pay the least price for it. What do you think it will happen when Islamists will finally take over the west? these men will have to choose between getting slaughtered for women that never looked at them twice, if not belittling them, or being reinstated as the respected head of the household...women in the west will be in chain in less than 50 years, and it will take centuries before they are handed back some of the rights they had 300 years ago.
>>533903945It's funny how boomer men and zoomer women have the exact same approach to life."Your difference in basic experience is due to you".
>>533902401>He could make a great boyfriend or husband but decides not to for no reason.Maybe he found better things to do than running after women for the privilege of being their slave..?
