Why is it perfectly acceptable to shame virgins? Apparently no one should be shamed yet people don't extend this to virgins
The media pushes irresponsible sexual behaviours by command .
>>534026102only sluts look down on virgin men. normal girls would kill to find a guy with no history.
>>534026102If he's a 61 year old virgin, a 19 year old wife who's a virgin is acceptable but I'll let all of you think about that one on your own. Welcome to life.
>>534026102Because you care about foids opinion
>>534026102Because it's okay to shame men in general. that's feminism.
>>534026102Your life will be easier once you realize that everyone plays by "it's okay when I do it".Their own rules never apply to them, so you'd be retarded to play by their rules. If a woman tries to shame you for being a virgin, simply shame her for being a slut. It is much more shameful to open her legs for everyone and then be discarded by those guys like a used tissue than to simply do your own thing.
>>534026102Because Americans worship promiscuity.
>>534026205>normal girls would kill to find a guy with no historyI don't want a virgin: I want someone with a low body count relative to their age. I find that normal. A virgin into adulthood, be they male or female, is going to be a problem. With a man, it's usually not by choice that they are a virgin. With a woman, it's more likely by choice, and often for religious/fantastical reasons. You can bet she's sucked dick before, just she's never had sex. I live in a very Catholic area, and at 19, my body count was 5, but including other sexually activites, it would have been about 30. Most of those other 20-25 were likely virgins until their first long-term relationship in college.My first wife lost her virginity to me. She was 18, and I was 19. She's a bitch period, but she was always a little angry I had been with other girls before her. She sucked her fair share of dicks in high school. It's just she had never fucked anyone else and felt cheated. She was number 5 for me. This was communicated to the point that when she admitted to having cheated on me, I forgave her, thinking this is at least out of the way, and she can't hold it against me anymore because what she did was far worse.That was 5 years in. Another 5 years later she left me. She never got to have a whore phase and shop around and wanted that. I don't think she understood approaching 30 wasn't going to be the same as having done this as a teenager. I have spoken to a number of other men in similar situations who have had this happen to them. It's impossible to meet, marry, and stay married to a girl who lost her virginity to you in the 21st century, especially when all her friends are out whoring around, and she's jealous of what she sees on social media. This is especially so because they remained a virign on purpose out of a fantasy expectation of a traditional life, and when cracks form in that fantasy, they become disallusioned and resentful of you.
It's totally fine to be a virgin.What's often a motivator behind the ridicule is when those poor unfortunate souls who, for lack of a better term, are sexually undesirable, become bitter about their genetic misfortune (which to be fair, is understandable) and start up pseudo philosophic ideologies as a coping mechanism rather than accept they're just ugly and/or weird/stinky/autistic
>>534026205kek no, almost all women look for expierence, from the second they get sexually active. I spoke with a few about this topic the sentiment was "i wouldnt know what to do with them". Good news is you can fake it. There are many man that are just bad at sex and even an 40+ virgin can outperform them.
>>534028397If you want to be very conservative these days, you look for a partner that has rarely had sex outside of a relationship and who grew out of promiscuity when they were in college.Hook up aps didn't become a thing until after I was married, and most of us met someone in college and were married by our mid-20s. Friends who didn't go to college were already having kids while we were in college. No one who married someone who lost their virginity to them is still married to that person. No one who married someone who often had sex outside of relationships is still married to them. It's the normal people who married other normal people who are still married, and that's the ones somewhere in between the two extremes of being sluts or virgins.Oh, and my second marriage would have worked out, but I was already an alcoholic after my frist marriage ended, so it ended because I wouldn't stop drinking.
>>534028682Whores are weird
>>534027424>Your life will be easier once you realize that everyone plays by "it's okay when I do it"True with almost all women, but come on: there are guys who have integrity. Memes aside you just have to look at Charlie Kirk. The guy was kinda blue pilled on quite a few topics but he wasn't really a hypocrite.
>>534026102seems like gen x and later are all brainwashed into it by media
>>534028682>There are many man that are just bad at sex and even an 40+ virgin can outperform them.LOL, NO.After my second divroce, I purposely went on a 4 year dry spell because I just wanted to be alone. I went 6 months after my first wife left me before I started a new relationship, and prior to that, I hadn't gone more than a month without a girlfriend or wife since I was 14.Boy. Fucking. Howdy. You cannot just jump back in the game after that long, and you certainly can't be a 40 plus virgin and jump in and fake it. I don't know what porn brain fantasies you have, and what you think you can do, but no. First of all, for the virgin, you have no skills. For someone on an extended time out of the game, you're not going to be able to eat pussy more than 10 minutes (good, that is) without muscles and tongue getting tired. A virgin not only wouldn't know what they are doing, but they wouldn't have the fine muscles or cooridination to do it.I hate to break this to you, but 40% of men and 90% of women develop some form of sexual disfunction in their 40s. You'll learn if you ever lose your virginity and fuck a woman in her 40s.
>>534029270>seems like gen x and later are all brainwashed into it by mediaIt's always been different for men and women. There were always the whores that men lost their virginity to and fucked. There were always the women who waited. They did not wait for virgin men, though, and in the modern age, that does not work because they will develop resentment.
>>534029087There are obviously always exceptions, but I am not a fan of constantly putting an asterisk on my posts to explain that there are exceptions.Everyone with half a brain quickly figures out which people in their life have integrity and can be trusted anyway.For the rest, don't bother to try and follow their rules because they themselves don't follow them, either. With the majority of people, an eye for an eye is exactly the way you have to approach it. When they fuck with you, fuck with them to let them know that it doesn't pay off and they better look for a different victim.People also let themselves get shamed way too easily for things that aren't shameful. Someone else dunks on them and they immediately fall into a defensive position and feel bad about it, but if they had thought about it rationally for a moment, they'd have realized there was nothing wrong with their actions. And once you realize that, the shaming no longer works. Self-defense needs to be exercised verbally too, and the best defense is offense.Obviously, if someone shames you for something that is actually shameful, think about if maybe they don't have a point.
>>534027424This. Based
>>534029400Why would you put your mouth near a bio-hazard?
>>534028682that's because most women nowadays are whores, and virgins and whores fit poorly together.the virgin will resent the whore, people the virgin will feel like he was choice D at best.and the whore will resent the virgin because they haven't been used and discarded over and over. (regardless of which side is the virgin and which the whore)same reason why in most relationships that last, you either have both of them being fat or both of them being at a healthy weight.you need to have similar virtues and vices to be able to match well with each other. an alcoholic will be more willing to tolerate a drug addiction in their partner than someone who has his shit together.someone who is fiscally responsible will not match well with a debt-maxxed retard.someone who wants a quiet family life should not get into a relationship with some anti-natalist party addict.a neat-freak is a bad match for someone who prefers to only do chores that are actually necessary.and so on and so forth.these women look for someone "with experience" because they know that anyone who isn't just as much of a manwhore as they are a whore will eventually start judging them for it.it is a rational decision, since they cannot unfuck themselves.the problem isn't that the guy is sexually inexperienced, since fucking him would quickly fix that, the problem is that it won't work out.
>>534028397>>534029400>I'm a twice divorced manwhore>listen to my advice on why you should be more like me
>>534026102because it's okay and encouraged to attack White men exclusively.
>>534026102The social order of "You can't make people sad or offended" is made by women. Virgins are men without established female approval, so of course in a feminized society these unvetted people are the scum of the earth who would be depopulated if they could be.
>>534029400>i cant do it so no one canhave you heard yourself?
>>534027424>Your life will be easier once you realize that everyone plays by "it's okay when I do it".>Their own rules never apply to them, so you'd be retarded to play by their rules.*Huff puff* I hiked up here to say *huff* that you're right, fella.
>>534026205Nope. Women are creatures of social consensus. The more desireable a man is to other women, the more desireable a man is to an individual woman. A virgin man is the single loaf of bread in the shelf, they don't have the pre-approval of other women so there must be something wrong with them.
>>534028682>bad at sexAs long as you can pump missionary that's like 80%. Porn industry turned sex into something else. Some people actually watch it to "study". Take me back in time please
>>534026102Forgot hollyoaks was a thing. Remember that time Luke got raped by a dude and his gf got the ick so cucked him with his best friend? British tv is next level humor sometimes
>>534026102Male virgins are shamed because it meant something was wrong with you. You were either rejected by girls for being an abject fucking weirdo and a complete loser, or you were gay. That was the reality from the dawn of civilization until maybe 15 years ago. It may even stretch back into prehistory.It’s not the case anymore. Something like 30% of men are sexless, so there’s no way they’re all losers and freaks. But the attitude remains. Keep that shit a secret. Pic rel has had more sex than you.
>>534026102>says nigger, kike, tkd, ...>"mommmy they are shaming vurgines again! bwahhhhh!"
>>534029723eating pussy is the best>>534030022>I'm a twice divorced manwhoreI was in a 10 year and a 7 year relationship, and I fucked no one else outside of those relationships. That is not a manwhore. Silence, ugly virigin. I fucked 2 women in 17 years, but I'm a manwhore? You are a retard.>>534030302>>i cant do it so no one canNo, nigger. Take a several year sabatical and attempt a pussy eating marathon. It ain't happening. Women will orgasm multiple times, but most can't last more than 20-30 minutes. Rarely you will meet a woman that can go over an hour before her clit is too sore. It's a matter of being inexperienced or out of the game so long you physically can't do it. The woman who can lay back and have her pussy eaten over an hour is the one you marry, if you are skilled enough to do it.
>>534030371They really need to update humans are social creatures to women are social creatures.
