>"Ask women out on dates"No.>"Sign up for a dating app"No.>"Hang out at the bar and talk to women"No.>"Go to church and meet a religious girl"No.>"Ask women at work out for a coffee date"No.>"Get a hobby where you can meet new women"No.>"Ask your friends if they know any single women"No.>"Make friends with women and see if things progress into a relationship"No.>"So you're just gonna stay single for life and not even try to get into a relationship?"Yes.Can someone remind me again what's the point of relationships in this day and age?Hard mode: no saving heckin rome
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>>534431007I always wanted a small family and nice modest homestead for myself but even this is apparently a huge ask in the modern day.
>>534430727For chadly men like me it's just having a woman to cook for me sex is good too
>>534431007Based. The reason for societies degradation is that women are having children too late.
>>534431136I will never have sex
>>534430727You can't ask her out for a drink when it's a depressant, but you can ask her out for coffee which is a stimulant. It gets her talking and hyper and more likely to fuck. Why does courting women revolve around giving then drugs to alter their mood? Even taking them out for food or bringing them treats is a mind altering stimulus.
>>534430727Maybe he is trying to be a good man, to be a just man, but they have this gay plot against him from the devil doing that plot.
Well, there are two kinds of relationships.There are surface-level, casual relationships and romantic engagements. This is the bulk of what you see today. It is a transactional exchange, a mutual selection process guided by what the parties are able and willing to do for one another. Like a consultant, when the obligations or benefits of this engagement become inconvenient or you feel you're giving too much and getting to little, one or both of the parties begins examining different people to strike up a transaction with, where you might get more for less. This constitutes 98% or more of the pair-bonding environment in our modern, distended, artificial culture.There is a second kind. It is the only way in this temporary existence in which you can be actually liberated from the skull-prison of your own isolated experience. To be actually blended with another real person, not their facade created to appeal to others or manage their expectations, but to be truly seen and known. There is no substitute for this spiritual connection. Yin (femininity) and yang (masculinity) become an undifferentiated whole, a gestalt that knows what the other is thinking and feeling. You see a cereal box with a funny word on it, and you know exactly what your dead wife would say about it, the inflection she would use, the thing she would say it reminded her of. You can hear it in perfect HD, like you have absorbed her consciousness and carry her around with you. You water her plants like she did (it's all in the wrist), you scoff at junk mail using the sound she would make, and in some way, she is still alive. She has left an indelible mark in you so deep and perfectly shaped to her every feature, such that you are no longer just yourself.
>>534431402>You can't ask her out for a drinkBecause she works with the devil that why; she openly satanic, that woman.
>>534431007Literally me except my wife is italian.
>>534430727I'm a lite chad who can get women with the right amount of effort.Honestly doing drugs is genuinely more fun and rewarding than dating
>>534431679Make sure to remind her every chance you get
>>534430727Jews need tax cattle, but also not really because you're easily replaced with robots and brown people, the future is bleak either way you swing it, if you're any self respecting person, you're either to end the Jewish grip on your society to ensure a reasonable living standard for your progeny, or die alone, these are your only options and Jews (along with the useful golem idiots)crammed you into it, if you're incapable of acknowledging this- it's your own fault for being ignorant to the JQ. If you're breeding right now, you will deserve all the hatred your children will throw at you, just as gen x, millenials, zoomers, alpha, have a right to throw all their hatred at baby boomers.
>>534430727You choose that life OP
>>534430727I don't even know what the point is in living these days. Literally no hope for anyone under 40.
>>534431134If you really wanted that you'd have it. You obviously dont actually want it
>>534431007Why does this keep happening?
>>534430727So you can ejaculate into the holes of females, retard.
>>534430727To share the burden the problem is that the modern burden are the jews.
>>534432572I can pay, that way I dont have to chase
>>534432488Pussy feels good = 7 billion people
>>534430727I spent nine years with a woman who was everything I could possibly want. She was beautiful, determined, intelligent... younger than I, and very malleable. I taught her about art, music, cuisine. Expanded her pallet. Provided her first real orgasm. She worshipped me and followed me wherever I went. We were the couple that were aligned in every possible way, even though she was the Type-A go-getter and I was the lazy, former gifted kid coasting through life. We complemented each other really well. But I was honestly never happy. I didn't really understand why I wasn't feeling fulfilled, as any time I looked critically at my relationship it was like: "Yeah, obviously this is great. Look at us! We're a power couple. I literally don't know anybody who has what we have". Even nine years in, I never had that moment like "Fuck yeah, this is the woman I'm gonna marry". I was always waiting for that a-ha moment that never came. It didn't help that my friends started to drift away, and her friends became my friends. Her friends were almost all male. What for her was a fun camping trip with all of her favourite people, was for me a constant battle of putting on a good face while forced into situations with guys I don't really care about, who all seem to really enjoy the company of my girlfriend...As soon as I got home from work, it was always "The guys want to hang out. So we're all going to blah blah's to blah and then blah!" If I said "Nah, I just don't feel like going out tonight" I would be the boring guy. After we broke up, I realized how much of an introverted shut-in I truly am. I loved those little moments at home with my partner, the random acts of affection, snuggling, etc. but above all - I just craved peace. Peace. I needed to be left alone with my thoughts. I had completely lost myself. Being in a relationship, even a great one, damn near killed me.
>>534431007I'm infertile, so why bother? You literally can't give me a valid reason.
>>534430727The decline of men approaching women functions like a political shock even when nobody frames it that way.It reshapes family formation. Fewer approaches mean fewer relationships, later marriages, lower birth rates, and accelerating demographic decline. That feeds directly into labor shortages, pension stress, immigration politics, and generational conflict. Governments can pass incentives but they cannot legislate attraction or courage.Second, it polarizes gender politics. Many women interpret non-approach as disinterest or resentment while many men experience it as rational risk avoidance shaped by social sanction, economic precarity, and fear of misreading norms. Each side builds narratives about the other and political movements harvest those grievances.Third, it weakens informal social trust. Approaching a stranger used to be a low-level civic act that trained people to tolerate rejection, ambiguity, and difference. When that disappears, people retreat into apps, algorithms, and identity-filtered spaces which harden group boundaries and reduce empathy.Fourth, it shifts power to platforms and institutions. Dating apps, HR departments, and legal frameworks mediate intimacy that used to be negotiated face to face. That concentrates cultural authority in systems optimized for liability management and profit, not human bonding.Finally, it produces downstream radicalization. Large populations of unattached men historically correlate with instability, withdrawal, or extremist politics. Most do not become violent but many disengage from civic life, work, and optimism itself which is politically corrosive.
>>534430727women work all fucking day how are neetchads supposed to fuck
>>534434677Marry a chud and adopt a white baby. It's that easy. Also show us your tits.
>>534430727>Ask women out on dates?wtf just rape em
>>534434732This is like the 3rd time I've seen this pasta now, but there's some wisdom here.I think it parallels the court of public opinion where it's basically become "guilty until proven innocent" - strangers out the world "are not worth my time, until proven otherwise".Which was exactly the opposite of how people moved through the world in the 20th and early 21st century. A stranger was a new opportunity to have your entire worldview shook up. There was a chance for a dalliance. Maybe there was a job opportunity. A new friend. You befriend your neighbour, and maybe they'll lend you their tools or watch your place while you're on vacation. Now everybody just assumes the worst of everybody else. Especially the opposite sex.Women never enjoyed being catcalled or approached by the Fresh Prince rubbing his hands & licking his lips "ayo shorrtaay", but they actually enjoyed engaging in new conversations with strangers. Even men, who may or may not have latent sexual desire for them. Before the Internet, meeting new people was the only real way to gain new information. We killed that arrangement.
>>534430727Based
>>534434888>Marry a chudwasted digits, I'm not gay
>>534435791>I'm infertileThat's not how a man says that.
I'm never dating or getting married and (((they))) can't make me. Imagine wanting to be constantly nagged 24/7 without a moment of peace, I can take care of myself just fine. Your instincts will compel you to do something stupid but always remember that women can now 'revoke' consent and ruin your life. Don't forget that a woman nowadays has every right to wake up one day and decide that she doesn't love you anymore on a whim. Suddenly you're hit with divorce, losing half your shit, paying child support if you have kids, and god forbid alimony payments. On top of all of this, there are many STDs (HIV, HPV, HCMV, Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, Hepatitis, Herpes, Syphilis, Trichomoniasis, Ureaplasma, etc) going around, and I don't trust women to not lie about their past sexual history. Keep in mind that falling marriage rates will bankrupt many Jewish divorce firms.Unfortunately the women in my family seethe whenever I tell them this. It’s as if they can’t fathom the fact that I will be alone and celibate my whole life. Does this scare them? I've seen too many people that I know get cheated on and their lives subsequently upended by their whore girlfriends and wives. It's truly an epidemic.
>>534430727How can you be sexless in the year 2026 when Grindr literally exists?
>>534435912I'm also ESL, anon.
based incel thread
>>534431007Never ask a maga chud the race of their wife.
>>534431181>>534433689Make up your mind man.
>>534436087Fair enough. For what it's worth, I think your English is fine. Idioms are the final boss.
>>534430727The only constant in all of this is a charisma void incel
>>534431007lel
>>534430727But Rome is worth savingThat's why I'm trying to teach my kids Classical Latin (with moderate success)
>>534430727Well i remember writing a love letter to a girl once when i was like 6 in response she laughed at my face about it and was constantly bringing it up years after it happened to demean and make fun of me. All women are whores
>>534443673She was hitting on you and you were constantly in her mind. But, you are a dumb loser narcissistic nog
>>534431007lmao literally me, except half of my kids are hapa. always be bleaching
>>534434359If this is real then thanks for sharingI have never been in a relationship but I've also never really made a great effort to be in one. I have asked out a couple of girls but that's it, now at 28 I have a house and live alone.Sometimes I feel ashamed, like time is running out and I need to find a wife, like it's something I really desperately desire and I just can't motivate myself to do it. But I think I'm actually quite like you. I think if having a woman around really was something I actually wanted then I would have made it happen by now. I think I actually am in love with coming home from work and having peace and quiet to do whatever I want.It's just a weird kind of feeling because society is constantly trying to push you towards having a relationship. I do love women and I think having a girlfriend would be nice in an abstract kind of way, but I never look at any of my friend's relationships in reality and actually desire the life situation they have for myself. Thinking of all the time, money and mental energy they spend trying to keep another person happy.
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I'm close to 30 and a kissless handholdless hugless friendless virgin. But I've recently rediscovered my joy for gaming so I guess I'm ready to become a wizard in a few months from nowI'm just disabled
>>534430727Sex. Have it. Now.
>>534431402>Stimulants like caffeine or nicotine make females more likely to let you fuck themElite baal knowledge
I can relate. I just can't be bothered.As I understand it, the options are:1. Preserve your time and money for activities you actually enjoy but be single.2. Go out of your way, wasting time and money, to find someone that's worthwhile which might be on the first roll or it might take many rolls (waste compounds, plus the headaches) to do so.It's a "Better the devil you know than the devil you don't" kind of situation.
>>534444888checkedstay based, king>>534446032well put, yeah
>>534430727You can get free money for putting up with them, it's called a dowry>nobody does that anymoreYeah maybe there is no point
>>534434732Keep posting this. It's very true
>>534431007literally me but I only bleach married subhumans as married with kids with another finn
>>534444888This was me a few years ago. I now got a CRT and some old consoles and play old games. I also have a decent rig for the handful of new games that are worth playing. Never been more content. Haven't really worried about women in years, if I get too pent up I just have a wank and that's it.
I don't believe that someone who can handle rejection can't get a girlfriend. I understand the embarrassed faggots who don't talk, approach, even try dating apps not getting girlfriends. If you're trying at all, lowering your standards to the lowliest chick who might possibly get your dick hard, you should be fine. It will never just come to you.
>>534430727>financially better off as a duo>get older you have someone who can help out in life>get older you might want kids>having a permanent friend who lives with you to do stuff with and isn't gay
>>534446951Dating feels like a humilliation ritual for men on this age. I don't care if I get rejected, it's more like I don't want to put up with the bullshit to begin with.
>>534446951The type of mind broken whore that you'll find on a dating app is genuinely not worth your time. You're better off just having a little wanky woo and going about your day.Further, those apps are obviously bad for your soul. Imagine the thousands of fat, entitled, alcoholic or drug abusing sluts briefly glancing at your carefully chosen profile picture only to sneer and swipe whichever way to reject you, to give themselves a bit of dopamine.Have more respect for yourself than subjecting your image to that.
>>534430727This is me except I'm not angrily self-righteous about it I just don't like relationships.Not incel, just don't like 'em. Simple as.
>>534431007why do only brown girls try to have sex with mei feel like god is mocking me
>>534430727>>"Ask women out on dates">Get rejected recorded and mocked on social media OR arrested for harassment and put on sex offender register for life because she felt unsafe>>"dating app">80% of men on dating apps are considered bellow average attraction and the only way to get engagement is to pay for boosted visibility which only leads to onlyfans advertisments>>"Hang out at the bar">who only want you to pay for drinks for her and her friends which even if you do they "don't owe you anything" like conversation>>"Go to church">born again virgins with 3 children by 4 different men, debt, and no desire for more kids or sex because thats their past life of sins and you only get religious guilt if any of that upets you because she's holding a bible now>>"Ask women at work out for a coffee date">and get called to HR for creating unsafe work environment, attend mandatory sensitivity classes OR lose your job and future employers WILL see this interaction on your permanent record>>"Get a hobby where you can meet new women">where there will be no women because men and women have diffrent interests OR you become that creep who joined not to enjoy the hobby but to hit on women like a predator, why can't you just let women enjoy things without thinking about sex???>>"Ask your friends if they know any single women">"friends" .... also, if they did, they'd be trying to date them>>"Make friends with women>get friendzoned and have resources siphoned like money, time, labor like a good friend but if you want more you're entitled and ruining this great friendship OR oh you were only in it for the sex and not real friendship?>>"So you're just gonna stay single?>"have you tried BEGGING the scorpion not to sting?">>remind me again what's the point?>Children. Who she will take from you, turn against you, castrate or push into the dirty hands of her new boyfriend and his mates because that's progressWomen did this. They have to undo it.
>>534430727Jesus, incels are such weak, flimsy dickheads. Shut the fuck up!>OMG I got rejected and can't handle it. All women bad!What a pussy.
>>534433689>I can payLOL. What a cuck.
>>534430727because you are homosexual and a chronic masturbater women can sense this
>>534447762Accurate despiction.
>>534431176That's an excuse. It's a symptom, not the problem
>>534431007shut it down. No need to keep the thread going. FPBP.
I actually enjoy seeing the other side of things. I have tried with a couple women over the years that just didnt go anywhere, but they still seek the validation that they COULD be wanted, and i pay no attention. good thing though is im just going to hold out for a twenty something year old with perky tits, or just stay single. god is either going to give me exactly what i ask for. or exactly what i ask for. failure to acknowledge is not my problem, just like its always been.
>>534430727If you are Chilean, just install tinder or whatever and ask a woman out to drink/smoke weed/sushi. It's as easy as that you dumb zoom zoom. it works 8/10 as long as you are not some unfuckable truecel that takes his profile pictures on his gooncave. Bitches here are EXTREMELY superficial and only care about your looks and if you show them the latest meme about Kast, after that is hot sex in a cheap motel or you car and then never see her again for 3 months until you match with her again. But assuming you are posting this shit here, you are beyond helping anyway.
>>534447836>Shut the fuck up!No. Cry about it.
>>534430727Extremely fucking based OP
>>534448229>cRy aBouT iT dUrRExacly the kind of comment I'd expect from a dickless incel loser. You have any idea how pathetic you people are?
>>534444438Yeah, that's just my experience. I don't know if it's a unique one or not. But I can confidently say that my relationship, though ultimately flawed, was mostly good. I loved the way people looked at/treated me while I was with her. My Dad was proud of me, my friends never worried about me, other women wanted me.But I just wasn't happy, y'know? Like I feel I need so little to be happy, but the traditional hetero relationship dynamic is basically "happy wife, happy life", so my happiness always came second. Which I'm okay with to some extent, as a man I really do find joy in holding frame/providing for/being a boon to my partner. But it's such a dangerous game with women - you give them an inch, they take a mile. You've also got to keep in mind that my relationship was basically 2013-2022. Which was the peak of wokeness, liberalism, and feminism among young people in major cities. So a lot of stuff I let fly in the name of "being an ally". By the time we broke up, she was basically saying that I wasn't masculine enough in the traditional conservative sense. So I played by her rules, and still lost. As a man, you do kinda have to set the table for how your relationship is going to go. I am a natural leader, but I also just like my weird little niche stuff. I don't feel the need to push my interests and desires on other people. I just wanted to live my life my way, and if somebody else wanted to join me - come on down! But I ended up losing years living someone else's life. No wonder I was quietly miserable. I didn't know I was allowed to leave.
>>534448288>It's so based to embrace jewish psyops that contribute to White ExtinctionLOL. God you people are such coping retards.
>>534430727Ultra based, its pointless playing their games
>>534444438You should be ashamed. You're not a real man.
>>534448358>You have any idea how pathetic you people are?I sure do. Not my problem. Deal with it.
>>534431652>You can hear it in perfect HD, like you have absorbed her consciousnessYeah and the bitch divorced me thanks for the reminder
>>534431007>>534431134You can have kids through surrogacy (or later) artificial wombs, and it's way more economical than a wife/marriage.
>>534431857>Honestly doing drugs is genuinely more fun and rewarding than datingBasically this, "dating" is a women game they get the enjoyment out of. Fuck that shit
>>534430727i don't want to deal with women. social media has made them so infuriating. really inflated their egos
>>534432325The women are still wrong tho
>>534434006Lol this species is doomed
>>534431859Is Ethel Jewish or Irish? Sounds to me like she's Jewish.
>>534430727You just had to meet a girl in school or shortly after. Women have literally all of their life experiences in their 20's, it's completely different to us. If you don't snag one early before she is >fucked >well traveled>pumped and dumped by a chad x5 over>gone through a females midlife crisis which unironically happens in their mid 20'sYou are cooked
>>534434359>etc. but above all - I just craved peace. Peace.Bro are you me? I will NEVER let a women run my (nonexistent) social life ever again, that shot is fucking exhausting. And they NEVER get tired of it.
>>534448743You won't be cooked if you stop caring about women and their problems. Once you stop doing that, life becomes easier and brighter.
>>534448743Well too late for meMonk it is What is better bros To not have the thing or to have it and lose it?Isn't that the question
>>534434732>Many women interpret non-approach as disinterest or resentmentLmao they think you're the problem for not playing their idiot game.
>>534432488>chud hates negroes for purely logical reasons>ladasha hates negroes for purely emotional reasons>benis in bagina>muttspawn created
>>534448429fuck off, simp
>>534435983>Don't forget that a woman nowadays has every right to wake up one day and decide that she doesn't love you anymore on a whimThis. They will do this too. Oh that whole i married you thing? Nope, dont care lmao
>>534448863>just stop caring broNo. A lot of men want a family and they cant because they're unable to find a suitable mother for their kids
>>534435983>Does this scare them?In the womenoverse not playing their emotional game to their specifications is the equivalent of a declaration of war
Iliterally CAN’T TAKE IT ANYMORE. I work a hard job many hours every day 6 days a week and I can barely afford rent. Meanwhile roasties are making 6 figures posting their butthole pictures on OF.My city just keeps getting browner and browner every month. All the girls are fat and the few that aren’t have golden pussy syndrome and only want 6/6/6 gigachads. I don’t know what to do. I am filled with rage and also sadness on a daily basis. I’m about to explode. I CANT TAKE IT ANYMORE I SWEAR TO GOD I WANT OFF THIS FUCKING RIDE
>>534430727get off of 4chan and develop an actual personality.the reason why no one wants to date you is because you exude chronically online energy.
>>534431007look at those little chudlings lol
>>534441035Ultrabased. Women HATE this too
>>534431007The American Experience
>>534443673>writing a love letter to a girl once when i was like 6 in response she laughed at my faceMany such cases. The only thing that matters to them is do you embody the chad game the way they want. Writing them literal letters is considered 'needy' god i can not stand these women games
>>534430727>make friends with womenno. everybody knows that doesn't work they just take your money.
>>534430727Based. Women and relationships are a bad deal. Here's an album to listen to as we slide toward the abyss. Funny thing, this band is from Chile too. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OylIKBzPtaI
>>534431007>darkest one is the naziestKek it's perfect, he would never stop reminding you he is half-white
>>534443948Oh so sorry, didn't play 'the game' exactly to her specifications, therefore you are worthless!
>>534431857>>534448618Was talking to my ex a few months ago because I'm a pathetic retarded loser who never learns.I was telling her how dating has been hell (I don't give a shit if she gets off on it, she's a turbo narcissist whatever I say)And her response was "I'm just getting started", as if it's an open buffet feast.It's literally a losing game for a man, unless you get ultra lucky. Like 99.9% I got in thinking I could get some support from a "partner", but now I'm almost at the point of desperation where I try to find and beg a woman to divorce rape me.Yeah, I'm fucking done. I'm not even lifting a finger for a woman anymore.
>>534444438>Thinking of all the time, money and mental energy they spend trying to keep another person happyThey have to actually enjoy this constant socialization. I'm not even an introvert psychologically but the constant effort of endlessly socializing is so fucking exhausting its not even worth it. I get invited out to events or to the club bar whatever and i just don't go anymore. I dont care. There is nothing to learn or do there. Its a women con game. Im not playing it. They HATE you for this too.
>>534431402>buying them alcohol, coffee, food and treatsLiterally paying for pussy. They are prostitutes
>>534434359>Expanded her pallet. Are you forklift certified?
