As we all know single mothers with Borderline Personality Disorder traits often emotionally enmesh their sons, turning them into lifelong dependents who serve as surrogate husbands. Without a partner, these mothers recruit their son as emotional provider and companion, blocking normal development through guilt, suicide threats, idealization then devaluation, emotional incest, gaslighting, and sabotage of independence. The result is permanent: most become eternal NEETs unemployed, isolated, living in their mother’s home as her therapist and emotional husband. The damage occurs during critical developmental years and creates trauma bonds so strong that escape feels impossible. Society ignores this abuse because it is private and mother-perpetrated. How many of you grew up this way? When did you realize you were her emotional husband?Share your stories.
>>534458700> hating your motheryea no we don't do that in India i suggest roping yourself
whats the point of this thread
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>>534458700My son's mother had borderline personality disorder.Her grandfather was wealthy, he hired a very successful lawyer after I filed for a parenting plan.I ended up winning, and we shared custody with my son going to school in my house, and visiting his mother every other weekend, more in the summer.She eventually moved on from me, had another child with someone else.One day she was driving back into town from a trip to the woods with her other son.She had asked to have my son with her that weekend, I had said "no, we should follow the parenting plan."She collided with another car in a head-on going over 50mph.Her other son survived with a broken hip.He's a very good bowler now, about 10 years old.My son still lives with me, and started his first job last month.Sad shit dude.Thanks for coming to my ted talk.
>>534458700just bang her sisters bro
This thread will certainly die, it is quite an uncomfortable topic, especially for the /pol/ crowd.Kinda explains the "...or your mother will die in her sleep" shit that confused me for years on this shithole.
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>>534458947>in IndiaWho would ever care? Disgusting
I've had this theory since realizing 2 years ago my mom was an enmeshing narcicist that most of the Incel question is due to women. I was pondering why everyone talks about the effects of women with daddy issues, but almost never about men with mommy issues.My whole personal life I looked up to peers, externalized my emotional processing, copied what everyone else did instead of differentiating myself, had extreme social anxiety, and always craved attention and when I got it I sucked the air out of the room leaving everyone exhausted.I was so bad that in stressful situations even as simple as talking to women on a lunch date or trying to fit into a new group I would Dissociate and do/say something very off putting thinking they would think im funnyAll my life I couldn't understand why who I was could never connect with people, and I just assumed I hadn't met "my people" yet but after 34 years old it became clear the problem has always been me.As a small child to 18, she made it my #1 skill to master to keep her happy, stop her from screaming, and manage her emotions. I had this Persistent dichotomy of feeling my mom was stupid and crazy and at the same time the most important thing for me to obey.She wasn't even a single mother, but she ground down and emasculates my dad who free dove in the middle of the ocean to hand harvest selfish into a shrivveling blob. She then treated me like her husband in everyday but physically.When I went out on my own, I treated everyone like they were a combination of my mom or I acted like my mom and vampire sucked their energy. It turns out people, particularly women do not like that.If you think anything like this feels familiar to you, GO GET THEREPY and go to church! I lost 15 years of my life reaching the maximum peak of a mommy issue man could get. I'm now having to restart essentially from high-school to relearn how to interact with people, women, peers, and develop an identity at 36 years old.
>>534460198Good catch, I thought this feels like a psyop thread. Thanks for pointing it out, fuck glowniggers.My story is true, so they probably won't bump this one.
>>534460358Glad you saved your son anon
>>534460277Kinda sounds like me, except my father is a useless moron who can't even have a conversation without dumbing the rest of the room down, and he's totally clueless to my mother's needs, almost as if he married a younger version of his mother, which left my mother to use me as a masculine figure in her life instead of my father. Also didn't help that my sibling is gay and basically acts like female with a dick.Boomers dropped the ball hard and deserve every bit of hatred.
