Who was in the wrong here?
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>>534485860If there’s significant disparity between what you and your gf or bf makes you pay what you can afford. Nothing more nothing less. Is it fair that she pays too little out of what she can pay? Yes. It’s also unfair to give someone a number when you’re the one that’s the high earner of the two.Neither.
>>534485860This entire scenario is pure judiazed faggotry. Both of these people should die.
He has a point but approached it clumsily. If he had just said something like>I want you to move in but we should figure out a way to equitably split stuff like chores and living expensesShe probably would have agreed with the principle and they could have hashed something out, instead of making it sound like he basically wants to charge her rent
>>534485860>Who was in the wrong here?The man who is in a relationship with a whore and expects it to end well.
>>534485860Jewish couples are funny.
>>534486136>It’s also unfair to give someone a number when you’re the one that’s the high earner of the two.Not when it is 1/3 what she is paying now.Either 1000/month or pussy on demand with no right to veto, for as long as she lives there.
didn't read but the woman
>>534485860if you’re working, you’re paying something or you can be barefoot and pregnant and not pay anything
>>534485860This proto boomers post history is a trip, you can can tell exactly what kind of mood he's in by whether he's giving advice like taking care of your self or just spazzing out about his ex wife and her feet and the divorce settlement.
>>534485860>3000/month for a 2bed apartmentGood lord, do citycucks really?
>>534485860ToHellWith Women
>>534485860OP for posting trash and sucking a barrel full of dicks
Either the woman is a comple idiot or the dude is pants-on-head autistic, this is a good deal for the bitch but the guy needs to drive that into her and not do faggot shit like post on redd it.
>>534485860>>534486986You mutts are just like kikes, that boomer clearly stated he's rich, yet he wants to jew a thousand bucks from his gfIt's not like they're both struggling and decided to live together to suffer less, in that case both paying their fair share would be rightShameful behavior, just like kicking your kids out at 18
>>534486607Women don't want to do chores either. They want to leech off of you because there's no incentive not to. You can never be her authority figure. The state is.
>>534486607I think you might be giving her too much credit Anon.
>>534485860the guy. why is he letting another woman move in? absolute idiot
>>534485860Dont let her put any money into the house. Dont want her entitled to equity when the 2nd divorce happens
>>534485860whites are worse than jews
She should start charging him every time she sucks his dick, I mean could do it for free but that just doesn't sit right
>>534485860I'd raise it to 1500$ and then bang her friends
>>534487231$1400/mo with utilities included for a basement suite in a house made in 2022 here. Living in a city. As for OP question. I'd tell that bitch 1000/mo or she can find a new place to live. Basically, stay in the relationship and pay a third of the mortgage or move on with her life. No compromising
>>534485860america is beyond saving at this point
>>534485860is bro in trouble for saving her 2Gs/month?
>>534487638Based jew>>534487759>Short term win for long term lossSour the relationship by charging the bitch then lose your house when the inevitable divorce happens, after all she put money into it
>>534485860the jew, of courseit's one thing if you're renting, but charging rent to your girlfriend for your own place is peak kikery, the woman was rational in her offer
>>534486229/threadEverything is wrong here.
it's decided
>>534487590if you married without intercise, your allready fucked and lost half of your worth.And women hate when you says "lets marry, but you bring nothing, so do intercise", cos modern woman thinks its offensive if rhey cant steal half of your shit for granting you their puss privillege...
>>534486607>we should figure out a way to equitably split stuff like chores and living expensesWoah.. asking a woman to do chores us even worse than asking her to split bills.
>>534487413This dude literally bitches about people not voting for Harris because Trump is going to deport all the illegals he hires at his construction firm, where he uses AI to pick his employees because it's cheaper, I surmise he actually just is a Jew.
>>534485860Not wrong but the divorcedfag needs to come with grips that he is changing his 5br house 15 mins away from her work for young pussy, that's the deal. If he doesnt like the deal then dont move her in, but if he does he has to reminder her constantly that she could lose the free house 15 mins away at any time she acts up or doesnt bang him every night. He doesnt seem like the type to be able to handle a situation like that so she will move in, he will resent it and she will take as much from him until he grows a pair and kicks her out.
>>534488535Also considering his ex probably cucked him because he was a footfag and she wasn't having any of it and the new chick "has legs so long you need a ladder and feet as smooth as silk" he should count his blessings.
>>534485860He should be a man and tell her to put all her money into his bank account and he will pay for everything.If your woman doesn't give you all the money in a relationship(regardless where it came from) you are fucking up BIG TIME.
>>534485860Trying to negotiate with her or rationalize or explain how he got to that number was his mistake. The correct way to do this is just to give a number and then stick to it and don't explain yourself and don't make it negotiable and don't flex on it at all.You also need to make absolutely sure that it's a zero tolerance policy if she doesn't come up with her part because otherwise she will be testing this constantly. If you ever have to chase her down for the money or get into any kind of discussion or debate or argument about it it's done, she needs to go find her own place to live.
>>534487878>girlfriend>divorce>not co-habituating>divorce(((justice system))) isn't that kiked yet
>>534487175this is another reason why i dont like reddit. Weirdos going through your post history and judging you. Same with steam fags going through your steam history and judging you based on time played or whatever.
>>534485860He should just marry her and put her name on the deed. When she takes his house in the divorce, and moves her new black bf in, he'll become a chud, like the ones on /pol/.
>>534489975You don't need the memeflag to hide your reddit name here footfag
>>534487878How will a girlfriend get his new house? He is divorced with a new girlfriend. If she refused to pay rent, he isnt expected to house his girlfriend. I know you're from BR but is reading comprehension really that bad for you?
>>534485860When she hands you an apple and says take a bite, you take a bite.You want that sweet poonanny, don't you?Pussy on the Pedestal.
>>534485860He should have asked for help with utilities which is the only thing that would increase by her moving in. Otherwise he’s already been paying for a house for himself. Bringing up that he’s 15 minutes to her work is irrelevant. If he thinks she’s using him and he’s not getting sex out of it then break it off and kick her out.
I hate how gay this world is. I just want to be able to provide for a woman like a real man. You move in with me, baby, and I'll take care of you. The last exgirlfriend made 10k more than me.She lived with 3 roommates who worked 3rd shift and she couldn't sleep.I had just gotten laid off and lived with my hoarder parents and she was mad she couldn't sleep over there. I hadn't moved out because I was saving as much of my shitty 26/hour pay for a house as I could. I had 100k saved. She knew that. I was trying to go back to school and finish my degree. I could have split a one bedroom with her. Fuck, I could have dropped almost a quarter my savings on a lease for one myself. Then just gotten another job once I was settled with classes. Nope instead she left me and probably had sex with a nigger 45 minutes later. I replaced her but I'm still tempted to text her after the semester ends in 3 days. Why not?I fucking hate that I can't take care of a woman. And honestly women with college degrees have no reason to commit to a man. Even though her job was fucking miserable and I knew she hated it. I paid for all our dates. I wasn't even worried about money. I really need to start making 100k/yr in the next 6 months or my life is no longer worth living. Not even exaggerating. That's just reality in 2026.
>>534491151Men provide security and provisions. But the modern world is quite secure and full of abundance. It's pretty lonely out here..
>>534485860there're no winners here. many such cases.
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>>534485860She was in the wrong.
>>534487397While I agree people should have their own confidence and common sense and not base their lives off other peoples opinions. Not considering the wisdom of others is just as stupid. I avoid non common sense areas of reddit and skim for info usually taking 1-2 min occasionally. This guy asking advice on women, the more you know the better. And just looking in the comments in this thread (no idea which are bots and which arnt) there is a lot of bad advice. Ignorance though is only occasionally beneficial to idiots surrounded by bad information.
>>534485860I'm a neet and my gf works, we're living together too and I pay half of the rent aka the state pays the half.She doesn't care about money and gladly shares her income with me.Feels good, I couldn't handle such spastic whores who believe they deserve everything just because they have a stinky hole down there.
She's obviously in the wrong, not only would she save $2000 per month but also the infinitely more valuable commute time.
>>534487878If that soured the relationship it would be to his benefit. You dont want to be in that relationship long term. Just picture dating a rich woman and getting offended when she offers you chip in a fraction of the rent from your peasant hovel. Women are hoovering up corporate jobs and fucking the same men, getting covered in tats and vaping/drinking/doing drugs and men are still bending over backwards for them. Pure lack of logic from the logical race.
>>534485860I have never dated or lived with a man and paid for anything. That's the purpose of them. If you are splitting living expenses with a man you are retarded. Personal expenses sure you can do whatever you want but if a man loves you he will pay for those too. In return just listen to his deep emotions, comfort him, give massages and cook every once in awhile, if you are together you would want to do it anyway. Seriously I don't understand women splitting rent or dates, just go be with your friends in that case, a man who isn't providing or protecting you is worthless.
>>534489520Our fathers never taught us this because at some point they had not explained so long they couldnt do anything else.
>>534489520>You also need to make absolutely sure that it's a zero tolerance policy if she doesn't come up with her part because otherwise she will be testing this constantly. If you ever have to chase her down for the money or get into any kind of discussion or debate or argument about it it's done, she needs to go find her own place to live.So much this. Made the mistake of covering her part once and she just upped her amazon/door dash orders and never paid rent again.
>>534495724k
>>534488788>>534487175>feetDid he delete this stuff or something? I went looking for the lulz but couldn't find anything.
If she's not getting equity in your house then she should just be helping towards upkeep. 50/50 is fine. If she has any desires to own with you, it's a different conversation.
>>534485860Where is this tard living that he's paying more than $12,000 per year in property tax?
>>534487878>Based jewBasement-based
>>534485860Look I hate to say it but if you fuck her good enough and hit her sexual/emotional buttons she will basically do whatever you ask including pay for everything. It's borderline abusive but I've lived it and seen it and know it's true. When a chick pulls this "My rent is expensive, I'm in debt, have student loans we should totes move in together and you can pay all the bills"You're getting played, the same way she is getting played when broke chad decides he's gonna bunk at her place for the next year with no job and just play video games all day while shes at work.
>>534491394That's the thing. These women say that they don't need mens money anymore, and now men are being judged based on their character. But then if a man is unemployed for 3 months, or wants to go back to college, and is still providing for her on dates, but he doesn't seem like good beta bucks, she drops him. This girl had 3 roommates and she expected me to have my own apartment for her to sleep at rent free.
>>534497912FACTSArgued with my friends about this. When my girl left me for having no job, I knew I was just betabucks. They told me I was retarded for thinking I could keep a girl without a job. I told them she's probably had sex with multiple broke niggers. I still believe that. With real genuine attraction it doesn't matter. Seeing Fox News kvetch about "Stay At Home Boyfriends" is fucking hilarious, these old roasties can't stand that Chad is living rent free while providing nothing but good dick, while they can't even find an ugly guy to betabucks for them. HahahahahahahhaAnd now I have an Asian girlfriend who lets me act like a man instead of constantly trying to hold the door herself or pay for her own shit, or constantly emasculate me. I've had ZERO pushback or bullshit from this Asian girl. Meanwhile my ex tried to pay for half our dates, like she didn't want to even be there, and then acted like such a girl boss I avoided even carrying shit for her because I didn't want to offend her.
>>534485860Him for being a loser idiot who didn't tell this cunt to go pound rocks the second she refused to his already too simpy terms.
>>534485860/Kick@Curb
>pay 0 in rent a month and have never paid rent because I will never leave my parents house Not envying the normies much these days.
>>534497912I did this more than I can count. Believe me or not, I just don't care. I was homeless and crashed at my gf's house. She made me breakfast every morning and paid all the bills when we went out. Then same thing happened with another girl. She also didn't have a place and I was out of money to rent a room. So she took over her sister's house and we lived there for free. Let me talk about 3rd girl. She was Dutch and was living with her grandparents. I crashed at their house for 3 months and got the best homemade meals. There were also couple more girls that I was mooching off of. I am not Chad or even close to it. Just an average skinny dude. But also bright, sensual and affectionate.
>>534486136if she can pay 3k now, she can pay 1k.it would be okay for her to pay nothing if she was a traditional woman, but who are we kidding.
>>534501473>I am not Chad or even close to it. Just an average skinny dude. But also bright, sensual and affectionate.height?
