I havent met a happily married man in at least 15 years. I used to know some but that was a long time ago, every married guy I know now is some state of permanent cope, completely numb, or openly miserable.Surely this cant be normal?
>>534531287Happiness is a commodity if you cannot afford it you'll be worried and frustrated about your spending
>>534531287It’s funny because Jews aren’t telling their own not to get married or not have kids. Only the goyim are being told not to get married or not have kids.
>>534531287Men getting nothing by getting married. They lose a lot though
>>534531287Its because they married horrible people that never truly loved them vice versa, if you aren't with your soul mate, you are basically marrying into hell, these idiots ignore the red flags before the marriage,its their own fault. I can tell a marriage is successful when one of them dies, they just straight up suicide or become catatonic.
>>534531287I'm happy with my marriage and you know me, OP.
>>534531287TrueEvery married man I know hates his wife lol
>>534531527whites telling there sons to be their own man has been a devastating domino effect
marriage is such an outdated psyopjust fuck and have kids
>>534531592And what woman I ask is your "soul mate"?? kekAccording to my estimate and i'm +70 yrs old I'd say 2 women out of 2000 at best...at least that's what I could see from the people of my time. i'm not sure how that works out for Gen X or Z though.
>>534531287I'm happy. Tradwife I met in highschool. Gave me a beautiful daughter and were working on another. Moving to the country to run an off grid homestead. Have you tried trying OP?
>>534531287That’s because you only know gay niggerfaggots Mystery solved, ty
Men are marrying women who are just their mothers. People can't experience true love until they forgive their parents and let go of their anger and hatred.
>>534531287I'm happily married
>>534531287>Surely this cant be normal?Normal doesn't mean good.But yes, it's normal.The only way to have a happy marriage is to never ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever show yourself getting comfortable.You cannot be happily married because women see contentment as getting lazy. And if you're lazy it means you're insulting her.And if you insult her she's gonna treat you like an enemy.You need to treat your woman like each day with her is graciously offered charity on your part. If you act like you don't deserve her just once, she'll end up agreeing.The reason why Abrahamic religions ban homosexuality is because semitic women are especially guilty of this.An incredibly large number of married men eventually go gay because they relaxed once in the past and got intimacy weaponized more and more since then.Most of the guys you know probably have done it or will soon.It's called being DL and it's the majority of gay dating.Treating your wife well will eventually lead to sucking cock.Just remember that if nothing else.
>>534531287Marriage is a trap, just get a girlfriend and be long term partners/life partners. And don't live in a common law marriage state if you can avoid it
>>534531719This really seems to be the answer
>>534531287Every relationship I've seen where the man or woman is unhappy, is because the guy is either retarded/naive/lets himself become brow beaten.I don't feel sorry for these men If I'm going to be honest. I have never been in a relationship where I've been unhappy at the state of my relationship, because it never gets to that point. Every relationship I've been in, it's ended because of extraneous circumstances(mostly moving, or me wanting more free time).What I don't get is...do you not realize what kind of person you're going to marry when you're dating them? After a year together you should know the ins and outs of them. If I had a gf who was constantly nagging me and making me unhappy, either I'm fucking up big time and not realizing it, or that's just who she fundamentally is as a person, and I can fuck off if I don't want to deal with that forever.
>>534531719shut up sexpest
>>534531948True love is imaginary Don't be retarded
>>534531719True, some other retard will just end up taking care of them, so it is ideal to have as many as possible. There’s a reason every other family has a child that definitely isn’t the current dad’s spawn
>>534531719>Tells people to fall for another psyop instead
>>534531719>just be a nigger dad says the sexpat with nothing to contribute to society. just stay in your little corner of the world fucking your thai whores you have nothing of worth to give
>>534531287>Surely this cant be normal?It's the historical norm, so yes it actually is normal by definition. What isn't is that you're not supposed to have an alternative.
>>534531409Personally, I think the only thing that brings me happiness these days is being out enjoying nature for a bit. At least that's relatively low cost.
>>534531287>I havent met a happily married man in at least 15 years. I used to know some but that was a long time ago, every married guy I know now is some state of permanent cope, completely numb, or openly miserable.can confirmI used to think I knew what loneliness wasthen I got married and discovered depths of loneliness I had never thought possible
Happily married for 11 years.Trick is not having children.
>>534531719>marriage is such an outdated psyop>just fuck and have kids
>>534531287my friend married a feminist now I have no friend
>>534531287it isn't normal it's a result of allowing females to have human rights, making divorce legal, and making it illegal to beat femalesthe solution to 90% of the problems in the world today is quite simple and straightforward but you bunch of simps and cucks are too pussy whipped to implement it
>>5345317191% men have 200 lifetime sexual partners. It's all right with fucking. But curious you never tell these men to have kids.
most guys just settle for someone in their league or lower that's why it sucks lol
>>534531287>FlagChecks out. Ask your kike overlords about their constant efforts to destroy the nuclear family.
>>534531287My marriage was the happiest when wife was stay at home mom busy with kids and houseduties I was in corpo rat race and things were working out fine. Now feminism has won and she can finally pursue her career for mr shekelberg and we barely have any time for each other. I believe it's by design.
>>534531603You must be young. Give it a few months kiddo.
how large is your sample size?because most married guys i met have a default of "life is good" and takes months to years before you can get to the truth.
>>534535172I'm 45 and been with her since 3rd grade.
>>534531287Look at those subhuman eastern faces. Yuck.
>>534531287What does it say about this board that all the slide threads are about women?
>>5345312871 Corinthians 7:28 remains undefeated as usual.
>>534535649>I'm 45 and been with her since 3rd grade.How old were you when you met her though?
>>534535991they're a bit of a global issue
>>534536098Issue is putting it mildly. Mind you, it's not exactly just women but rather feminists, both male and female.
>>534531287that's ai
>>534536180>it's not exactly just women but rather feminists"It's not jews it's the heckin zionists"
Happy is for children. Satisfaction is for adults.
>>534531287I'm getting married tomorrow. Wish me luck boys
>>534536254spoken like a true gypsy, without proper english and sexually suggestive criminal undertones
>>534531287>demoralization thread >Fear, uncertainty, and doubt (often shortened to FUD) is a disinformation strategy used in sales, marketing, public relations, politics, cults, and propaganda. FUD is generally a strategy to influence perception by disseminating negative and dubious or false information and a manifestation of the appeal to fear. These threads and articles are demoralizing propaganda. Don’t believe the kike lie. If you don’t have friends or family, go join a church. The people in the church believe that IT’S THEIR JOB AS CHRISTIANS TO MAKE YOU PART OF THE COMMUNITY. They will go out of their way to fit you in. It doesn’t matter if you don’t have strong social skills. Just be honest and they WILL take you in and teach you. At least a good church will, so if you don’t find it at one, then keep trying until you find a good one. It’s God’s plan that you have a good mate and family and be supported by a strong community. It’s amusing that there’s a fat tranny shill like you being paid 10 cents per post that barely makes enough money to pay for your dilating supplies. But your time here will be over soon when you kill yourself for not being a real woman.
>>534531287Being married typically means being enslaved to your wife. The rightoid male will complain about women being in the government and ruling, but the fact that a woman runs his household is lost on him.
>>534537104Faggot
I'd rather die than get married. Fuck that.
>>534537104https://archive.4plebs.org/pol/search/text/If%20you%20don%E2%80%99t%20have%20friends%20or%20family%2C%20go%20join%20a%20church/Literally over a thousand instances of this pasta dating back to 2020does this worthless astroturfed kike website consist of anything other than pasta and shill posts?
>>534531287simps. these are simps. theyre miserable but they still stay with the woman. why would they do this.you must get rid of these men in your life.
>>534531287Fuck that's hot. Balkanoids have peak humor.
>>534531287There mus3be a happily married couple out there... It's probably gay couple tho...t. Unhappily married
>>534531527It's funny, Jews also don't tell their children to rent. Some still do, but as a group they don't have the ridiculous notion their kids should be wasting their dynamically produced income on static shelter indefinitely
>>534533173You can still take care of your kids and partner without getting married.
>>534531287marriage is pretty great if you marry the right woman.people will marry a mean bitch because she's pretty and wonder why their life sucks.it's your own damn fault; no one can force you to marry.when you date, drop her if she is mentally unstable, unkind, doesn't want kids, or objects to chores.those are huge red flags.t. happily married longer than you would guess.
>>534531287I got cucked after 5 years and never touched a woman since.
I'm on year 8 of my second marriage. Very much happy in this one and can compare it to miserable nature of the first. All of my friends are still on their first marriages of 10+ years. Seem happy to me.
>>534531592>>534531789>>534533961No woman will ever love you anons, 90% of women out there do not love their man, they don't know how to love anyway; they only tolerate him as long as he provides.Learn to be stoic and get by without their fake and subpar love therefore about 90% of women should be invisible to you. Rise up above your biological programming.Take care of your health anons and find distractions to help pass the time, that's all most people do anyway, the difference is they do it with somebody so time spent together flows differently. It's merely an illusion though
>>534531287jews saw that women were your weak point so the exploited this weakness ruthlessly.you complete fucking moron.
>>534541772The woman has to want to be a role player and you have to have command of your financial situation so she doesn't have to worry about it. My first wife was the ssri, pothead imbecil who didn't plan for the future, spent endless money on credit for clothes. Could care less if the children were happy or educated.
>>534542020they do it all by themselves stop coping, your women are just shit.
>>534531287i know some happily married millennials. But for some reason I know way more who are together, having children, but they don't bother getting married. Not sure what that's about. Are they scared to make it official? I should ask them.
>>534531527While this is true, it doesn't change the fact that women are retarded garbage. They are not fully sentient. I consider them to be lower order primates. For the straight male, there really is nowhere to go. Sometimes I envy faggots, but poo frightens me, so that's not an optiont. married for 10 years and just about McFuckin had it
>>534531287I work 12 hours a day, 6 days a week. I come home so tired I can barely even think. My body hurts, my soul hurts, and somehow after years of this, the grand prize I’ve unlocked is… living with my parents forever. No friends. No girlfriend. No “wild memories” or “fun experiences” people my age are supposed to have — just work, sleep, pain, and more work.Meanwhile, Pan Piano just wears sexy anime cosplay and shows off her tits and ass on YouTube while playing a piano and she’s somehow living the dream life. She has a husband, two kids, a paid-off house, a nice car — all for dressing up like anime waifus and jiggling a little for a camera. That’s it. That’s literally it. I’m dragging my rotting corpse into a warehouse every morning at 5 AM to get barked at by a guy who smells like beef jerky and depression, and this woman just had to own a cosplay wardrobe and lean forward a little. She wins. She f**king wins.America is crushing. It’s a machine built to grind you into meat and then tell you it’s your fault for not smiling about it. My parents have basically told me to just accept that when they die, I’ll be homeless. They said it with the same tone you’d use to tell someone to take out the trash. “Just be grateful you have food now,” they said, like I’m supposed to feel honored to be fed crumbs before getting kicked into the void.
>>534541927This is a misread of the nature of women. If a woman loves you she is dedicated and very loyal no matter what, as long as you keep your household safe and secure. There will be moments where she feels truly in her heart that she hates you and is disgusted by you, but you can't react to that emotion with your own unhinged emotion. Alot of guys can't properly navigate those irrational outbursts and they fight the irrational and those conflicting emotions never settle within her, which eventually leads to break up.
>>534542119shut the fuck up and sit in the cuck chair, hanz.
>>534531287I'm what I call reasonably happy but it is only after dating or seeing like dozen millennial women in my 10s-20s before realizing just how much of a hive mind they all are. I married the best one I could find, raised by a SAHM, bonding ability still intact , semi traditional family, wanted kids, wasn't a whale etc but there's a lot you just trade off. The big drawback is that pre boomer generations of men had ways to deal with biological realities, like their muted sex drives, open disobedience, general inability to be accountable and women were actively discouraged from going overboard on these by other women lest they end up spinsters, boomer women started doubling down on these, and they quadrupled down on it raising their daughters/letting public school/Jews raise then while boomer men just took it all without any fight whatsoever other than swapping out wives. If I had to start over, I'd probably just move innawoods
>>534531287The point to life isn't happiness; it's meaning. You get married to get rid of your ego and make it about the marriage. Now whether you can find a woman who agrees.....
>>534542246Lots of guys don't know how to listen to women, because women are emotional - and sometimes irrational - beings. But that doesn't necessarily make them wrong. They usually have point, but it can be hard for a logical man to understand.
>>534531287>I havent met a happily married man in at least 15 years.I have. The common denominator to a happy marriage is that both sides accept each other for who they are, and don't try to turn their partner into a project. They still build a life together despite the differences.
>>534542287you have the greatest whores in america and theyre so proud of it. obviously its your culture and your men dont care because you seem to like these brainamputated whores.
>>534531287Im happily married. I was going through a rough time over a few years a while ago and wouldn't have made it probably without her.I had broken my leg and she helped take care of me while I was recovering and helping with the kids and thought that I wouldn't have been able to do it alone. Also it's a good way to just help out with everything in the house especially moving furniture and yard work and such. It's a good bonding experience and I would be a much different and unfulfilled person had I not started a family.
>>534531948The only people who experience true love are incredibly attractive, and both are young and naïve together. Everyone else is just banging the cascading effects of those people breaking up or cheating on each other.
>>534542340The happiest men I have seen in marriage are the ones who accept that this is a one-sided trade and are OK with it because they already have children and are ready to do anything for their kid. Because it is socially unacceptable to bail on your family.
>>534542506Maybe for you but that wasn't my experience. Don't knock it till you've tried it.>11 years now
>>534542413why did you blow up your own country like, 80 years ago?
>>534531527Because jewish men keep their women of a short leash and essentially lock them in the kitchen to cook for them and their 6 kids. They understand what a chaotic force women are, so their keep them chained up, which in turn makes their communities very effective when it comes to dominating others. Meanwhile, they actively keep advocating for more rights and privileges for your women, precisely because they know how destructive they are when they get unchained and gain control over society.
>>534531719>have kidsnot feeding more victims into the loosh farm
>>534531287Marriage with woman is deal with devil. Even stupiest man finds that out after wedding.
>>534531287It's pretty normal.I love my wife, but she can't be normal and is seemingly incapable of showing affection. I stayed with her for decades despite having a number of other options over the years because I would have felt responsible for ruining her life if I'd left her alone.I don't resent her, it is what it is.
>>534542307 It’s weird. I’m 50 and my daughter ls say that all the men their age just want to play video games, smoke weed, and have no job or thought of getting a job. I do see young men at work and they are starting to talk to women, but there were a couple of years when all the young men straight up ignored women their own age. Easy pickings for an old guy like me if you don’t mind paying a cellphone bill or buying a Zoomer-chick a purse or boots every now and again. Glad things are turning around.
>>534542134Easier to get gibs if you are living in sin.
>>534533416true nothing to do about money bet most would fix their mental state by leaving cities
>>534542902That is why Christ warns against marriage
>>534531287>Surely this cant be normal?It is normal surely you don't believe in true love and all that bullshit they needed people to reproduce but not so much anymore the robots will take over lol. Fuckin useless cattle go extinct now.I plan on being immortal so no point in having kids just a massive burden plus marriage/career and relationship problems. She gets old and fat too. I'll have countless AI waifus. Just look at any old boomer couple is that how you want to end up lol.
>>534531287Men still getting married must be genuine retards.
>>534531527As long as women can effectively wake up one day and just take half your shit, make you subsidize her fucking other men and keeping you from your children. Getting married is a sign of mental retardation. Adapt, and force the rules to change, instead of “hoping”, faggots. Only people getting married at high rates and staying together are in non-secular environments where divorce isn’t just something for the foid (initiates 80%) to decide at her whim, backed by the states firepower.
>>534542372>Understand my illogical point or I'll break up with youNo, they really don't. You just have to pat their head and placate them by telling them their batshit thoughts (read: feelings) are totally heckin valid and equal. They're worse than children, because at least children know their place on the totem pole. Women have forgotten theirs.
>>534531287I'm Gen x and most everyone I know is divorced now, and now most of the guys I know are "dating" the most horrible bottom of the barrel full blown alcoholic bitches because that is all they can get, they cope to me about how that they aren't going to get married even though they let them live with them in a common law State. It's crazy the headaches these guys are dealing with on a daily basis.
>>534543571Yeah, yeah ….. yeah, but is that really something you forever-children should be worrying about? I mean. You have to get to first base before you can call a home run. It’s all hypothetical for you guys, right?
>>534543449Pussy struck
>>534543571You do know in Ireland, the divorce rate is minute. Most of the things you are referring to only happen to the extreme levels in the US and UK.
>>534531287Men are the ones enabling it. If men started their own NGOs that would spread the word about marriage discrimination(in case there is a man in Europe/NA who somehow still hasn't heard the news, somehow) and how society and the system is rigged in women's favor. As it is right now, the ones who point this out are the vast minority, while the vast majority that is both married and unmarried is aware of the issue, but keeps silent and just goes along with it. The inequalities range from men having to financially uphold women's wishes and lives(ie a woman gets to chose whether she will abort a life, but a man doesn't get to chose whether he will pay for her choice), men are the ones that get drafted into wars while women are a protected class, women have an advantage in getting into places of higher education and work through legal initiatives coming from the governments themselves and much, much more. When there's a war, men need to and die for a system that discriminates them in peace.
>>534531287every married person IRL is miserable, fat, stressed, balding, etc.every married person on 4chud is 6'4", six pack abs, $500k+ income, 7-8 figure net worth, wife is an 11/10, 7 aryan children in a 110% white based, rural, AND trad neighborhood, etc.really makes you think.
>>534544299In ireland it’s does seem low for natives. And maybe islamics. It’ll get there as it gets more multicultural (which is happening rapidly) like with the UK and US.
>I havent met a happily married man in at least 15 years.Hi there. Breaky here. How are you doing?
>>534544869>he calls himself breaky
>>534544912I could have used my rap moniker Yung Breaky but decided not to. I am just Breakroom at the end of the day.
>>534545024Buck Breaky
>>534531287>be my neighbour>spiteful, epicly fat, Norf FC man>always throwing his rubbish over the fence into my garden>his bungalow garden is a carpenter's workshop basically>nothing for his wife>all of the neighbours hate it>all he does all day is make noise and slam things in rage>very fat guy>his wife is a very nice woman>always with him and never cheats>never complains about him>literally the perfect wife>I saw him a few months ago and he said he's making her sleep on the couch because she snores at night>he was fucking raging>saw her some time after and she confirmed it>he was going on and on about it>he said "never get married" top kekI can confidently say in this case it's the man's fault. This foid is legit, somehow he found the good one and still he hates her.
>>534531287Doesn’t sound normal. My brother has a happy marriage, mid 30’s, wife is late 20’s, 2 little kids. Seem pretty happy Must be financial stability+her not being fat or feminist+him not being an emotional faggot who’s in his head all the time. Hope I can duplicate this.
>people will look at this and think "he must be miserable"Kek
>>534544333Checked >while the vast majority that is both married and unmarried is aware of the issue, but keeps silent and just goes along with itThey go along with it because they always think that they are going to get some sex at the end, just talk to any guy a year after his divorce he will talk about all the pitfalls and how to avoid them but then they do desperately will jump right back into a relationship that is even way worse than the last one without even a thought. That is why it's never going to change until Islam or whatever strong outside force takes over.
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