Are multigenerational homes something that should make a comeback to hedge against an unruly housing market?I'll just say this, I live in the same home as my wife and my mother and it fucking sucks. Constant bickering and female emotions running wild. Mom gets mad at the wife. Wife gets mad at mom. Mind you we are all the same political and religious affiliation so it isn't even because of ideological differences.Cohabitating only really works if the house is big enough. This place is 1400 square feet so it's constant tension. Nevertheless neither my mom nor we as a couple can afford to live on our own.What do you think about multigenerational cohabitation?
Of course an actual mossad asset posts this
>>535394419Ask again after the Boomers are dead
>>535394419works best if you can have your own space like a little granny flat or pool house etc. living in the same space is always going to have frictions.
It's like when you put too many fish in too small a fishtank, they start eating each other from stress.
>>535394419I already do this because I'm not an anglo. italian families are more than happy to stay together and my mother watches my children when I go out a with my wife. I'm inheriting the house so I don't have to worry about buying one and I'm planning on buying a home in italy. not my problem roasties.
We tried and the boomer.dad wasn't able to deal with seeing grand kids more than once a year and isn't bitter old POS and sits in his room watching TV all day every day. He cant banter and attacked me after I made a comment in regards to him fucking up a while.pot of food for the family by adding half a bottle of cayenne because he cant taste.He cried he feels like a prisoner because he might have to interact with children or have more than a one sentence exchange that isn't about Ukraine or why Trump is great.Face value Christian who cant debate for shit.I blame my wife as she talked me into it. Now I have to build us a house on some property before he goes insane and murder suicides us all because fox news told him im lazy.I have had two jobs in two years aince we relocated 4000 miles and he berated me foe this saying I cant hold a job. When we got here we worked 12 he days for 8 months building this place but it doesnt matter.I hate boomers so much. Meanwhile my mom's a total chill hippie weirdo who is happy living in a shed and having a garden.
>>535394870Yeah this. Or like a Mother in law suite would be so much easier
>>535394984Holy shit is that why they called the show that?
>>535395473you have to really. with most people there just needs to be some extra bit of space.
>>535394419This is something I am actually well versed in as I live on a family compound in Maine, north of Bangor. We had to update the arrangement over time as social living norms have changed. Originally all of us lived in one house, now we have individual houses in a courtyard type arrangement. Three total. They’re not large houses by any stretch as the original house had a much larger kitchen (designed for multiple families).Overall it’s fine. Clashes happen but not nearly as often as when we all lived in one house. We save on everything because we can buy in bulk. We usually will buy an entire cow at a time, for example. We also all three in on a solar system with inverter and battery backup, so we are largely off grid. We can tie into the grid but have enough power most summers that we don’t have to. Social wise it’s great as me and my brother always have babysitters on hand.
>>535396626yeah its great for these reasons, especially with kids having extended family around all the time. we lived with my wife parents and her sister in two properties next door to each other and it was good like that. i never worried about my wife and kids when i had t work away etc.
>>535394419Separate buildings on the same property maybe, in the same house as my parents? I'll just die of a stress related stroke or kms instead. Homelessness is unironically less stressful and more fulfilling than having your mother pestering you 24/7 going through all your stuff constantly, throwing your stuff out without asking/telling you, setting up plans and just inherently involving you without even consulting you etc etc wtc. Even worse when you have no control over the living space and there's just random people in/out being invited over, showing up whenever the fuck they want, barging in on your space, bitching and whining that you aren't doing what they want you to do or talking to the random guest they brought over. And all of this in your 20s/30s? Seriously, just go become a meth head on the street instead, you'll be significantly more happy in that scenario if your family is anything like mineI remember when I moved out like over a decade ago and within 6 months I had a dentist calling me to berate me for missing an appointment because my mother just decided to schedule one for me, without telling me at 22 years old, when we didn't even live at the same address anymore. Do you have any idea how fucking toxic the mother archetype gets on their sons in this environment?
>>535396751It’s really great too when you have newborns. Women need other hens to cluck around with.
>>535394419only brownoids do this. its annoying as hell. street is blocked cause 10 cars are parked outsidewhite people are self-sufficient rugged individualists. You cant build an empire with your parents breathing down your neck.yes, many will fail, but those who succeed will come out stronger.
>>535396790yeah i remember that being the case for sure. her mom was there, one sister was there and another one lived 30 mins away.on disadvantage is that with multiple families living close, you get less say over who can and cant come to stay and be around your kids. fucking pissed me off a few times due to certain friends and boyfriends of relatives being around sometimes that i really wouldn't let be around my family otherwise, but maybe thats not something everyone has an issue with.
>>535396774>your mother pestering you 24/7 going through all your stuff constantly, throwing your stuff out without asking/telling you, setting up plans and just inherently involving you without even consulting you etc etcset boundaries, use your big boy words - "i don't touch your shit, you don't touch my shit - savvy?" imagine being so lacking in an established relationship with your own mother
>>535394419fuck nomy parents didn't do anything for me.And now that they're getting old they expect me to take care of them.Fuck that noise
>>535396936Yeah, that’s an issue sometimes for me too. The good thing is my kids are pretty level headed so they know who and what to avoid. Other than that it had made my life much easier.
>>535394514Fpbp>multigenerational homes are for stupid idiots and it's really hard and tough, I hate my familyMeanwhile kings and queens be doing it for years
>>535396938>words will stop a toxic motherlollmaohahahaThe only boundaries that work int his scenario are physical ones, like not living near or with them. There is no boundary enforcement when the person has unfettered access to your living environment. That is called a honor system, and it only works when you already don't have a problem.
>>535396626Did your uncle diddle you?
>>535397117>a toxic motherYour tumblr-tier ability to describe human dynamics has shed light on the issue.But yes if you fail to establish basic boundaries with your relationship, of course you're going to have a bad time.
>>535397015definitely good overall yeah. its funny, im just over the border in NB and might have driven somewhere near your place.
>>535397289You've obviously never encountered this kind of problem, which is why you pose impotent solutions like 'just say stop"Your parents likely already respected your boundaries and you thought you solved a problem by asking them to stop and took it as a solution to to a problem you've never actually had. What's your next step when they just don't stop? And when you have no control over the living space because it's not your property? Let's hear it. You say respect my boundaries, they say "ok son" and you leave for a day and come back to all your boundaries violated. Just ask "hey don't do that" again?
Separate buildings on the same property maybe. Tried to save some money by living with my wifes family because the home we bought had some issues to fix and those 6 months did about 10 years worth of damage to the marriage.
>>535397159>memeflag kike immediately tries to relate a wholesome post to pedophila and incestYou’re going to die screaming.
>>535394419I will dutifully extend this opportunity to my children because I love them. I'm currently extending this opportunity to my wifes aunt who is battling cancer because she helped us not literally starve after our parents bootstrapped my wife and I nearly onto the streets while she was pregnant, because they're mentally stuck in the 1970s(her and I are 25 and 22 respectively). They will die in a nigger infested nursing home as they should. Boomers and early gen x are nigh indistinguishable.
>>535394419My mother in law is in my house every week, 5 days, to watch the kids. She and I share no common language. So it's great, we can't even talk. Retardmaxxed passport bros keep on winning. And niggas act like I should learn something other than English - kek no.
Depends who holds the mantle of patriarch. If upon having children the power was given from now grandparents to the new parents sure. If not the older generation will just abuse the younger too much. It’s the same thing if not that boomers are doing now hoarding power at the expense of the rest of us
>>535394419I would love to but my family is dead. So I didn't get to choose.
>>535399827Make a new one.
>>535394419I think this whole website is just info harvesting.
>>535400027Trying my best to but it's hard when you are desperate for family. Women want nothing to do with it lmao. I have better luck just trolling for booty.
>>535400266Checked and you are correct.
>>535394419>Just be longhouse'd broNo Anglos have never live in multigenerational hovels like jeets and niggers. Multigenerational households is rule by old women.
>>535395138You are a slave to your nona.
>>535397852>our parents bootstrapped my wife and IIs your wife your sister?
>>535395274It sounds like you suck lazy asshole
>>535395274Would be a shame if your father in law died in a freak accident
>>535394419Only if separate houses on the same land, like in the picture. Not 15 people in an apartment, like jeets and spics tend to do here.
>>535394419My wife’s father lives with us and our 4 kids. Moved in last summer and it’s been a boon to our lives. Today he did laundry while I napped before work. He doesn’t help much with our kids but just having an adult at home makes everyday life so much easier. His gf died from a brain tumor and was depressed. Now he’s very close to his grandkids and our home is always clean.
>>535394419>Are multigenerational homes something that should make a comebackMultigeneration homes were the norm for thousands of years in every human society up until the Baby Boomer generation cramming their parents in retirement homes. Technically the way we are living now with non-multigenerational homes is unnatural and goes against all of past human history.
This is quite normal in Japan. Often you see two sometimes even three houses on the same land and they'll belong to the parents and their children so for example you'll have grandparents and then the children who are married and their children all living on the same property.
535396831It’s a way for young families to get ahead. It’s not meant for fat virgins who will NEVER have a family. So, You being an obese genetic dead-end, well you have no worries. Stay in your lane wide-load.
