This pretty much a sums up my entire childhood. Why do parents do this to their kids? Don’t they realize they are going to end up with a 30 year old nihilistic manchild?
instead of blaming your parents go get a job faggotit should be a crime if you are over 17 and have any relation to your parents besides telling them hi on christmas
>>537672086This is a kike>>537671934Boomers deliberately sabotaged and/or outright murdered their sons. The reason is that boomers were doing the work of their masters and partners, the jews, and in return they were given opulent wealth.
>>537672230found the neet/neet pay pig
>>537671934Blaming your parents it's skirting responsibility for yourself. YOU decide what kind of man you want to be not your parents. My parents had substance abuse problems my father died young I grew up constantly getting evicted out of section 8 housing because my mom does meth. I didn't let that define me or drag me down. I left when I was old enough I got a job I joined the military I took care of my own self. Now at 34 I own a house have a reliable car and make 81k a year I want for nothing.Blaming your parents is just selfish and whiny you decided to be a failure not them.
>>537672086>>537672316Jfc, you are a country of neets. You produce nothing and live off of eu gibs. You’ve been seething and malding ever since you were kicked out of the dorm, asshole.
>>537671934current NEET here. worked off and on. had a semi normal life. can confirm about parents.
>>537672528>muh fat pedophile youtuber said le greek should pay le debts to eu!there is no convo do be had with mutts like you, you know nothing and will get nuked by iranian hypersonic missiles if you dont contain your orange pedo
>>537672763Nigger, your entire population lines up at atms to take out their weekly gibs, just like the curly-haired, swarthy niggers you are. Your ancestors are turning in their graves at the Muslim mongrels you have become. You call me a mutt, while you laze around all day, as you dig in your Arab nose, with hairy fingers, wearing shitty flip flops, and stinking like the sweaty, falafel grubbing, butthole fucking faggot you are. You stand outside the Parthenon, yet you are incapable of building anything other than a tent to house your fat, mongrel wife and the camels you rape. Kys, greekneet shitskin nigger.
>>537672086>>537672316>>537672763holy shit dormogenes had to move out and find a jobso they FINALLY kicked you out o algoalso OP is right and us neets have to realize the first thing is to divorce yourself from your parents which isn't easy as it's ALL WE HAVE EVER KNOWN
>>537673787using stories the lugenpresse said 20 years ago to get a paycheck from tel aviv about how life here is and calling Whites "brown" wont do ita 98% white ethnostate btw while in california whites are 20% Sad!at least your 300 billion that will fund social programmes in iran such as healthcare and free college (things white countries in europe have) are gonna be spent on better (and whiter) people
>>537674134>greece>98% White ethnostateAnd you call me delusional, anon? Fucking kek.
>>537674253hermano, no matter your seething for calling you a mutt (which you are and you seethe because i hit home), greece will stay a white ethnostate, cant say the same about californialet this blue and white flag (representing my white skin and blue eyes) to make you seethe!
>>537674512>only 10-15% of Greeks today have blue eyesKek. You are a moorish mongrel with hairy knuckles, brown skin and curly pubic hair on your head.
>>537671934It's true. They were always around to tell me to not play bad games or listen to metal music, but they were never there giving me praise for things I built. Dad just got insecure and always told me whatever I made could be better and asked like why I didn't add 10 other things. They never questioned the school to move me up a grade or two or do AP placements because I came from a nigger school to a nicer school and they didn't offer it.I did work, made 120k/year in sales but then I just stopped and NEET it up now. I would have really have liked to get a college degree but I never learned how to study properly and I had to work two jobs to afford community college + rent so I ended up burnt out. A little push and praise would have been nice! It was only criticisms of minor faults like my handwriting or some stupid shit that didn't matter. Definitely they didn't help! Nothing I do for myself ever feels good enough. There's always a problem, I fix the problem, then there are more problems I recognize and nothing ever gets done. Oh well! Thanks for paying for neetbux taxpayers : )
>>537672490You didn't read or understand the OP image. Substance abuse parents are just enough of a problem to encourage you to get away from them like you did.The OP image describes a more mild and sinister existence.I'm not a NEET but I've spent some years recently living off savings so I know what kind of pressures or lack their of can do to people who've lived it their whole life.I similarly had a mom who tried to shelter me, say she wanted to support me, but then refused to let me and my gf in HS ever be in my room w/ the door closed (even though I was a straight A honor student who didn't get into trouble) and then she kicked and screamed about providing actual assistance for anything when requested (like assistance in college etc).I'm also a polymath which is an easy non-starter since you have choice paralysis, so I know what actual NEETs are going through but from the other side of the lens than I.It's an insidious poison that parents might not even realize they're dumping into their kids' lives, but it's a very real problem.Of course personal responsibility is still important, but if your parents go out of their way to stop attempts at you building self-reliance and accountability, that doesn't leave you instilled with it, now does it?
>>537672490you are typical retard who can only thing in terms of "me, me, me"You have no idea how psychical abuse is far worse than physical one, and those destroyed psychically will hear from retards like you that "they had it great, but blame parents".
>>537676261this. I'd rather be beaten up by alcoholics and resent them with a fucking enormous social support from everyone around than being brought up again in narcisstic family where even if I had straight A's and was the best student my parents would find a way to tell me I am shit and will achieve nothing in life despite that while presenting themselves around as the greatest people on earth leaving me alone without any support against them and constantly gaslighting me when I tried to break away. And telling this to anyone around? Well I would hear that I had it great and that my parents are great. Fuck that. Nobody will tell drug addict parents' kid that his parents are great. But with these pieces of shit who use psychological warfare on their own children?
>>537671934Confirm but worked as an animator.But like most of NEETs I will die childless (not by choice), thing is, I will never have a beef with my parents, only people I have, I can hate the world but not then as that will mean I will be truly alone, the only demoralization that will never reach me.
>>537676261I agree mines were very similar but at least they didn't scold me for being a neet because their whole retirement plan lies in I taking care of them and they enough foresight to understand I cannot work my ass off and also provide 24/7 care. I would have told them to fuck off if I had any semblance of relationships in my life, but I had just one girlfriend in my entire life and then never again so my agenda was kinda free to be a caretaker. It sucks some days, but at least I can smoke weed without problems, a good arrangement
I am NEET and I disagree with this as slackers have withdrawn from society. I don't see any trace of laziness given how controlled education is. The busybodies have won and the best the Donald can give is boomers or the guy with six children.
>>537672490I think that your situation is a make or break one, you had to do that stuff or you woulda been fucked in life, for the kids in OP situation it's learned helplessness, I agree they can do stuff about this but i have seen this in middle class western guys our age they are dejected worse than any alcoholic or meth head.
>>537671934my parents always used to say>at least we arent drug addicts, at least we dont molest youwhenever i complained about the way they treated me. One time I read a book on parenting I found in the hallway closet and i asked my mom why they never tried to apply any of these things with me and she laughed it off. I still remember stuff like constantly forcing me to do extra activities like band or piano which I hated, but also complaining when im practising and it doesnt sound good yet, like when i was trying to play a mozart piece by reading the music for the first time so im going very slow just building muscle memory and getting a hang of it, my mom complains it sounds terrible and to stop bothering her. Parents are always making comments on what im doing on my spare time or going through my things at home and it feels like they are constantly omnipresent and micro managing me but at the same time not really guiding me or putting me down when i dont get something right the first time like a piano song.If i had known my dad had a 300k life insurance policy before he was retired i probably would have rolled the dice and seen if i could get away with it.
>>537681925>I wanted to kill my dad for moneyNigger
>>537671934demoralization thread, all fieldsbe smart enough to recognize theseyou will get past your hurdlesyou will succeeddon't listen to the jews and the shillsyou can do this
>>537671934There would be no NEETs if people earned as much as they did in the past. They culture used to be- "you're stupid for not working, there is so much money to be made" and now it's the opposite. Your thinly veiled parents versus children divide and conquer tactic is not working. Let's end the Federal Reserve and see what happens to average wages instead.
>>537682132> for moneyif thats your take away then you have the reading comprehension of a nigger. how ironic. Thats typical for americans though, i guess.
>>537672490Went through all that yet you lack the introspection and humility to empathize with others. I won't say your situation was better like some anons are, but you're being a dick. This is a common mentality of "let's ignore a problem and victim blame because I turned out alright and am also probably envious", it's lazy and shitty. Good for you getting a mid wagie life, but it doesn't mean you're better than anyone.
I should be getting bitches and riches everyday for the work I put in doing nothing, oh wait too bad I'm not black and therefore don't get the lazy nigger pass from my christian peers who turn a blind eye while funding their lifestyle.
>>537671934I'm neet because there are no jobs available. But yes, parents did everything they could to sabotage me too
>>537676261I suspect the root cause is overbearing BPD/anxiety+depression mothers and timid/absent fathers. I rebelled enough to run away @17 but I see how my life could have taken a different path. My mother asked if my wife and I were "using protection to prevent unplanned pregnancies" when I was 29. Wtf.
>>537671934i keep saying it. we need mass prosecutions and severe life-changing punishments for most parents. anytime someone under 20 commits a crime parents should pay 5x the sentence for starters.
>>537671934I think I just have always been a timid, angry loser. I guess my parents could have done more to mitigate that but not even I would know how to deal with myself at that age if I was in their place. Some people are not optimally wired in the brain in order to assimilate into society. Whether that makes them defective or too smart to buy into the con is a matter of perspective. Speaking as a 30 year old neet, meds and exercise are your friends
>>537671934I was in the gate program as a kid. One time I asked my dad for some poster board for a science project I had to do. He turned around off the computer and just screamed at the top of his lungs " The store is all the way across town!" Later we moved to some Hick school that was ran by fucking Mormons and swingers. The swinger that ran the town turned out to be a fucking pedophile. The whole time growing up they always said oh oh Gary's okay they're all cool from the fucking stupid boomers. They're a bunch of abusers and child molesters. They should be lucky I never shot the fucking school up. Later my mom would try to sabotage my online school education. My fucking grandparents even lied and baited me out there saying they give me a room. It was a lie they didn't give a shit they fucking refused me right at the first day after offering it for over a year to me. The older generation sabotage the mother fuck out of us. Now all I have is PTSD rage. One of the fuckers from that swinger Hick school Jeffrey charbonneau, went on to promote common core to the rest of the nation back in 2013. All these stupid fucking Hicks brag about how cool it is that they had the teacher of the year here. God damn all you motherfuckers deserve to die. You're not allowed to have a real education here in America.
>>537683032I'm starting to agree with this based on things I've been witnessing lately.
>>537672490Nigger, I got smacked in the nuts so many times growing up in school they wouldn't even let me join the military. Fuck you in your trailer trash family. I hope you die in a car accident.
>>537672086>it should be a crime if you are over 17 and have any relation to your parents besides telling them hi on christmasI refuse to believe you're actually ethnically greek or even originally from anywhere touching the Mediterranean (except yidsrael).
>>537672490You're entirely missing the point to say you had bad parents and then go on to talk only about shekels instead injuries they caused you.
>>537671934well said. i learned that any step forward is progress, that it's all productive.But a fear of failure will keep people shut inside.
>>537685493Because that's people's only sense of self worth in clown world. Even if you inherited every shitty trait from them and learned no fundamental lesson, outside of not taking their detrimental behavior to the extreme of self sabotaging a stable roof over your head, as long as you made shekels, you "made it"; even if making shekels involved using many of the traits and behaviors you despised in your parents. Not shitting on that anon nor saying that's the case with him, but I've seen it plenty of times in people who still actually didn't grow beyond their shit upbringing, they just had more motivation for material gain and money.
>>537676261>im a polymathlmao
>>537676573Yeah, it's a completely different beast that people really don't understand, because it's easier to conceptualize something one can see or experience immediately as a problem, rather than a slow march with a positive exterior and all of the inexplicable sabotage, justified or unjustified, large or small, that you know about or don't know about, that occurs.
>>537671934Yeah from talking with my buddies with older parents the Zoomer childhood is essentially>never taught how to do something>try to do it, and get mocked>(they still don't show you how)>GIVE ME IT, JUST LET ME DO IT ALREADY FOR CHRIST'S SAKEAnd then I just went to my room because I don't want to start an argument about being treated like shit because "I deserve it" or only children need to respect their parents not the other way around or something kek(My parents are Boomers [my grandpas served in WW2 and they were raging assholes] so it might be different for Zoomies with Gen X parents)
Boomers are narcissists
>>537682429The people who say there's plenty to be easily made are people who already have a successful family business to walk into or have absolutely no scruples scamming and fucking people over in virtually any way. "It's just business!" Is 9 times out of 10 just the socially acceptable way of justifying fucking someone over and glazing over it, and everyone knows it, but it sounds nicer throwing it under a blanket term than explicitly saying one fucked another over in any form or fashion.
>>537672086This, unironically. The game may be harder, but it's not unplayable.
>>537688806But they are increasing the difficultly level and you need EXP to advance, so start grinding now before you lose any potential for reaching a high level.
>>537688286When I was 7 years old I was really good at video games like Resident Evil 2 and complex puzzle and strategy PC games, my father encouraged me to learn things by myself. A few days ago I was playing a video game with my 7 year old and seeing just how much he sucked at it made me want to take it from him and finish the level, but he was stubborn and wanted to finish it himself. My irritation grew and I took the game and finished the level and then I scolded him for not collecting all points. After some introspection I realised just how bad what I was doing was, I wasn't giving him the opportunity to learn and develop skills, I was actively being irritated because of his noob skills. It made me realise just how assholish that was... If my father did to me what I do to my sons I would've hated video games.
>>537671934I will play video games and do drugs and that's about ityou aint my dada mind ur own biz
>>537671934neglectful junkies for me lol
>>537682240This anons right and im only 8 months in, but my situation was a really unique bad combo(one of which still had the biggest nightmare of mine happen to some dude just this year in the exact scenario I feared)Stay away from srni effexor and disability anons. Off the former after 2 years of weaning, off the latter very soon. Lady at SS said in 25 years never saw someone getting off like me. She thought it was smart im double dipping in job+retard bux at the absolute line. Whole things been a terrible waste of my 20s but thats probably the only decade you can waste and bounce back.
>>537671934pretty spot on desu
>>537674067probably a troll that knows of dormogenes and is on a vpn to greece specifically in reference to him
>>537688045Yeah bro I was like a total genius in every aspect but my mom was a total stupid bitch so now I'm fucking retarded.
>>537688286it was like this for goylennials too tho but they didnt have nearly as many distractions (vidya/social media) as zoomers and gen alpha have now
I think it's all cope BUT i do think fathers play a MASSIVE role in progression into worklife especially for young boys.Fathers with skills, teaching their kids how to do said skill is very important even if it doesn't work and it didn't work for me, my dad taught me everything about farming but i still became a useless neet because i hated farming but the point is, having A SKILL is better than ZERO skill and it also builds character and if anythng teaches you the reality of life which then impacts you as a person and alters your brain on how you perceive things in life, such as politics etcIt's like your first redpill, having your dad guide you at that stage in your life makes it much easier.When you spend your early teens stacking hay for horses in desert scorching heat, you definitely question why so many retards cry about their jobs kek
>>537672490>have inherent mental issues>obsessively spying mother tells me god will help>makes it worse>kicks me out at 18 because I wasn't acting christian and she was off her meds>makes my insanity worse for years killing myself with guilt and scrupulosity to the point I almost kill myself, just for my whole family to say they never kicked me out and god will never help me>surprised when I torment them and refuse to work more than I need to so I can go marry a church girl or whoreI was shitting myself for months from the stress of it, I can't properly explain insanity. She has nothing to say when I tell her her god almost made her son blow his brains out. I will take from normies all that I will, for my will is the whole of the law. Anyone who values hard work over their own self and what they desire is a slave
>>537690173>srni effexorSounds like heavy duty shit, I was just on basic SSRI and ADHD meds, like the absolutely lowest dose they could give me, and getting off them since early last year has been hell. Everyone I know tells me they never could've done that, and how proud they are, how much I matured in just a few months. Right before they go back to shitting on me. Hate normgroids
>>537671934>lazy, ineffective parents often raise lazy, unmotivated kidsIs this really something that people can't piece together themselves?
>>537690173Agreed, any younger anons here in their 20s or 30s need to go get a fucking apprenticeship like right now, you dont work to be a slave, you work for you and your peace of mind.I wish i didnt neet so many years away.
>>537672086>>537672086Yeah everyone knows that once you turn the magic number 18 your previous childhood experiences don't matter in the slightest and you have Godlike power over the environment and can mold your personality and disposition in any way through your will alone. Why do we even bother raising kids, when we can just throw them to the wolves? Once they hit 18 they can turn from feral children into astronauts at the drop of a hat. Don't you know that you cockslobbering fucking retarded rapemonkey?
>>537672086There is no way this guy is actually in Greece or Greek. Gotta be some kind of VPN.Most Greeks dont even move out of their parents house until they get married, and thats including Greeks outside of Greece.
>>537671934Yeah but if you are that pathetic not to overcome this and get a little uncomfortable and step out of your box then you deserve to rot as a neet.Sorry/not sorry if you are white and that pathetic you deserve to die as well when the day of the rope happens
>>537672490Ironically you had it easier because you could just separate from your parents especially psychologically. You were free to do your own thing.Parents in the OP pic are next level when it comes to gaslighting and fucking people mentally. You have to live it to understand it.
>>537681925My parents probably were actually drug addicts but hid it well. They never had money in spite of them both working. We also moved house every year or two but they could present themselves as middle class.
>>537691317Yes, it is. Do you notice how people blame things on a whole generation being some way, just things like video games or porn or comic books or whatever (usually inconsequential things or things that are only a symptom of a problem and not the root of it), usually things that were around even in their own youth or were created/spread by their generation, but never think about any accountability for those things, despite all of the misplaced blame on those things? Almost as if all those things just materialized out of nowhere, or something. So yes, even in people's misplaced blame that could implicitly still place blame on themselves, they still won't entertain the idea, much less blame for things they were directly responsible for, because that hits too close to the root in many cases.
>>537682862I'd agree. That was my setup except that my father was a weak man but still a violent asshole. He just wasn't stereotypically abusive.
Why is anti neet rhetoric being pushed so hard lately ?
>>537692471Well that's shitty
>>537692663they are afraid
>>537692663they need us working their dead end jobs so they can live a life of luxury.
>>537692672Yep, it is. Sometimes it's beyond just lazy, ineffective parents, where they deliberately sabotage their children, whether maliciously, or in some misguided and/or sincere, but still just as damaging, manner. People can easily conceptualize the existence of, for example, a sneaky, manipulative shark who has a pleasant outward appearance and great reputation, they've likely worked with plenty of those and know them from firsthand experience, but many never think about how their home life is with their own kids; if this type of person is baffling and bullshitting grown men and women who have experience with plenty of different personalities by that point in their lives, what do you think they're capable of with a child? People just don't think.
>>537690509this is some avant-garde shitposting
>>537688286>>537672539>>537671934This was my story as well.My dad is a narcissist who was distant but just enough to where he could still "maintain control" of me.Him and my mom told me how hard and difficult it was to do basically anything in the world.My dad suddenly turned on my mom after she stopped seeking work by not speaking to her about anything. Suddenly he stopped buying food to punish her and I ended up having to find a way to feed us both while he eats fast food 3x a day and steals shit that I bought from the fridge without asking.Mom finally understood his fucked up behavior because he was cussing her out over the slightest things like asking how expensive his weed is when he cant pay the rent on time. She never could muster the resources to leave because she's poor and dad was too much of a pussy to divorce her officially so she started living on the couch until I moved out.He always paid rent but acted like a gigantic martyr because he was going to work at a job that didnt pay well to afford us staying home. Which was his choice, he intentionally chose to hold onto a shit job he hates just to "punish" us. Meanwhile he would refuse us to use the AC at all, shit would break like the laundry machine or the lock on the front gate in the house and I would have to fix it with my own money and hands.He would sit outside all day in his car just to avoid being around us when we're home so he could make it seem like mom was kicking him out.Basically all this shit made it impossible to study or go to work without worrying so I stopped going to college and I became comfortable in a mental institute of a home.It became hard to find work because of COVID so ultimately I joined the army behind my dad's back to get away from that fucked up situation because it was my only way out.Yeah that was all really hard to follow and not in order but it literally wouldn't fit in 2000 characters if I didnt supercut it.
>>537672490You were born into failure and had no choice but to try or be homeless. A ton of neets are born into successful families who do what OP described as well as finance their entire lives. Why would you bother working when you're getting a free ride at home already? Worse off you know fuck all jack shit about anything and will likely only be in a worse position for the first 5 years of trying to be out on your own. Many neets have literally no reason to bother, they will live off their parent's inherit a house worth a mil and then be set for life neeting. It's very similar to the story of the prince, who was born into wealth and success but felt hollow and empty and chose to abandon his wealth to go walk among the peasants and explore the world as a nobody to build character and live life.
>>537688286Same here, except my dad was a dead beat. Everything but driving a car, I taught myself. Everything has been a fight with my mother, she stunted me and made me waste the best years of my life with her bullshit, especially her religion
parents, you can't live with them and you can't live without them. story as old as time.
>>537671934>Why do parents do this to their kids?because parents aren't thinking about their children at 30, or even 20. They are thinking "I want things right now and fuck this kid for distracting me from them and costing me money I should be spending on myself right now. I'm kicking this leach out of the house at 18 unless he joins the military so I can take credit for it, or I'll just have the cops remove him". Parents have been dogshit for a long time. Neither one of my parents taught me a single survival skill or thought for a single second as much as a week into my future. Both were surprised when I packed a bag, told them to go fuck themselves and left, never to return. My mother has the emotional range of a preying mantis, so she never actually give a fuck about anything but what the rest of the family thinks because I dipped... my dad did drink himself to death over it, though. So that's something to live with.
>>537672490>Blaming your parents it's skirting responsibility for yourself.How are people supposed to behave responsibly if their parents won't teach them responsibility, you fuckin retard?
You are a child from birth to adolescence. After that, you better be gaining your independence. By law you are a minor but you are not a child.
>>537692463>My parents probably were actually drug addicts but hid it well.My mother was a cokehead who dated a coke dealer who got arrested with cocaine on her while driving his porsche 90 down the wrong side of the highway, blitzed out of her mind, and to this day she insists "I always put my kids first" and that she wasn't a junkie. I used to think my mother was particularly evil... then, one day I realized she was straight down the middle typical of women
I don't blame my parents. Is it their fault that:- jews took over the west?- houses are unaffordable? - Canada's manufacturing was outsourced? - we're getting flooded with millions of immigrants?Losers from the past could easily get a job that could afford a detached home and a family. Nowadays we've been priced out of our own society.Don't blame your parents. It's not their fault.
>>537672086parents won't let methey bitch about transportation>so just get your own transportationthey bitch about that too; "why did you buy your own car, you could've just taken ours"
>>537671934>divide and conquer threadYour parents share some fault in making you who you are but it’s your fault for staying that way.
>>537695508I mean you have to blame the jews but boomers are shockingly ignorant to what's been going on for thousands of years. I'm honestly curious when everyone just become entirely ignorant to the jew and his ways. I guess maybe television? I have seen some of the old fucks pre boomer who were redpilled on jews hard and denied the holocaust and everything but just get labelled as senile crazy old fucks by the boomers themselves.
>>537695508okay, boomer. the same parents who voted for it all? yeah, sure, it's not their fault at all. "they did the best they could!" sounds a lot like "i was just following orders..."
>>537695771voting doesn't do anything. Notice how every white country has identical policies? Like they're synchronized by globalists to all accept Indians and niggers without pause?
>>537672490nigger, it isnt even up for debate that bad parenting causes lasting harm. I've achieved material success too, big fucking deal, but I could have been so much further along if the one person in my life that was meant to guide me thought parenting was more than alternating between ignoring or making fun of their kid.
>>537695867i notice what the news says, and then i notice what the scene looks like when i go out. i don't currently have the means to travel to other countries, so i can't speak to that.
>>537671934OP, that post describes me. Now my boomer parents are raging because I won't move out.38, neet, getting £25k in bennies. No I won't move out or pay rent. They deserve it for raising me like this.
>>537695555>they bitch about that too; "why did you buy your own car, you could've just taken ours"The thing I've realized about boomers is... they never stop complaining. All they do is complain. And when you try to hold them accountable for being unrealistic, they accuse you of whining. Boomers are evil.
>>537672490>I joined the militarypussy ass bitch nigger
>>537682468americans dont even have speech comprehension. they're like predatory monsters that have learned how to sound sapient enough to make humans think they are.you have no idea how bad it is.
>>537672230>>537684937>>537691854meh, he's right if your parents are like what OP describes. it's their survival instinct to raise a caretaker if they feel like their health is waning. once you identify that your parents are training you to be a NEET slave, you should take a plane to the cheapest city and flip burgers immediately. it happened to me and I actually still want to take care of my parents. but I would be driven insane. pains me to say it
>>537671934>Why do parents do this to their kids?Because parents are just people, too. They do the best they know how to do but they don't know any better.
>>537692663>Why is anti neet rhetoric being pushed so hard lately ?Because their system is on its last legs and they think they can still save it with enough cheap labor.
>>537696737this. i am waiting on a settlement and this will likely be me. hopefully i make it out before the collapse happens.
>>537696737Cutting ties with your parents is extremely difficult. But when even third parties start telling you that your parents are psychologically abusing you in almost every interaction, I reached my limit and restricted contact to two visits a year and a few phone calls. Strangely enough, this led to them treating me better.
>>537696737>it happened to me and I actually still want to take care of my parents. but I would be driven insane. pains me to say itIt's amazing how your life just doesn't fucking exist to them. All you are is what they want from you and if there's nothing for them to leach off you... you are nothing to them.
>>537691308It was the actual last resort, it worked but after a few years a truck accident happened and caused 4 days without them, the withdrawals are nightmarish and last for life uncommonly. In some cases they come out after 3 months of being fine.Was on a disability=no fulltime job because of restrictions= no health benefits=rely on free medicare for $400 drugs so I wouldnt withdraw. People regularly lose job+benefits and are destroyed for life since they cant afford the out of pocket.
>>537671934>a family had a child for the sake of having a child and not a slaveEnvious cunt
>>537671934Neet here, yeh thats basically the sum of it.. they also sabotaged my attempts to break free, job prospects etc. I broke free for a while and made q bunch of money, invested and made more. so I live alone and comfy financially but I still neet. Idk how to change it.
>>537671934Each generation has its stereotypes but gen X in particular have ones as being angsty rebels, super independent and free minded and not trusting of “the system” or the man for anything. So what happens when people like this become parents? Seems a lot of them tell their kid not to worry about whatever shit would be seen as selling out to the man… like wanting to have a professional career or go to college. Because mom and dad got by fine enough without needing to be tryhards about it so why can’t their kids do the same. The part I can’t piece is why the parents do kind of control and hold back the kids too, but maybe that would be Gen X type vibes of remembering the times they fucked up something as youths - had bad friends, almost died, had kids too early etc and want to make sure their kids don’t make the same mistakes. Something like that maybe.
Boomers enabled narcicist mothers. All gays, incels and neets are exclusively the result of narcicist mothers that would have been beaten by their husbands otherwise. If you had a narcicist mother, you are at least one of not two of these. >>537672490This isn't really true. You're childhood had something tangible that you could name. If you have a narcicist mother and "loving" doormat father, you likely grew up exactly as OP described. Abused or neglected in such a covert and mundane way that the only answer why you're a failure is you are a looser. You can look and say "my parents were shit heads, I will surpass them", but it's harder to say my boring comfortable childhood was actually awful.
>>537672086Drop that VPN faggot
>>537671934This is a very female way of raising kids. The mother genuinely just assumes the kids will go fuck off and learn to do things other ways if she is unhelpful as possible.if the kid was lucky the (usually single) mom realizes something is wrong and does a 180 in going hard on the kid to fuck off and go to college or some other guaranteed form of success. or they have a father figure to instill at least some principles or values.
>>537671934Nah fuck off kike, I’m not going to blame my parents for my refusal to play your Jewish game.
>>537671934>>537695555Pretty accurate, desu.My ma when I was growing up pretty much always had one of three opinions about me doing anything.1. I should do more of my own accord [so long as I read her mind and had the exact same priority for doing things]2. I should never do anything without consulting her because I could fuck it up or "she was planning to have it done a certain way/do it herself" even though this would never happen3. If I consulted her about doing something, she was of the opinion I should not do that thing because she did not want me doing that thing even if it needed to be done.Also no matter what anything I did I would be seen as doing it wrong and she would have rather done it herself.Took way too long to eventually build the skillset and mentality on my own to do shit because of it because of how that shit kinda just trains to to instead focus on tanking/turtling through because that's your best option for most of it especially when you're younger and literally can't do shit. Especially if you're not an only child and you're not the favorite because any time you do manage to try and get the things you need for independence or the like it will be put off and deprioritized, especially since by the time the big stuff comes around you've probably been taught to not complain and that being pushy, something you probably aren't good at, doesn't work out.
>>537688286Gen X is if anything actually worse about it. Gen X has huge resentment towards their boomer parents and honestly, a lot of shit late millennials and the zoomers attribute to boomers is 100% Gen X's fault for burning so much shit down in terms of breaking generational ties.The golden ticket as a late millennial/zoomer is to have boomer grandparents who your Gen X parents hate and being smart enough to suck up to said boomer grandparents because then you can usually end up inheriting or being taught/given access to all the shit your parents snubbed their noses at to be "modern and independent". I know at least a couple guys who own small companies or have fat fucking inheritances because of that.
>>537700638>Gen X is if anything actually worse about it.Ive noticed this tooGen X explicitly and openly say "fuck you I got mine"Boomers have this attitude, but its largely subconscious or unspoken. Gen X will blatantly laugh in your face from the top of the ladder that the boomers pulled up
My first crush at 6 years old brought mockery from family members.My parents divorced at 8. Therapy taught me to keep my own council.I lived in poverty without a real 'home'. Nothing I would bring other people to. I have moved so many places I don't remember some of them and I don't even bother remembering my address.There were no kids in my neighbourhood.Women are not to be trusted, especially if you have money; so success is counter-productive to finding one.Work pays more than a complete ascetic life needs so I can't work a job more than a year before having no motivation to continue working instead of living off savings.Will never have a home or family so why even do that much.Father died so nobody to feign happiness for.Did the world travelling thing.Spent half a decade picking up women and became even more disgusted by them. It doesn't matter how much effort you put in you get nothing back. The final straw was the one who showed up to meet me wearing a wedding ring.
How about you "neet" to get off my website, parasite scum
>>537696806>They do the best they know how to doNot always. Some of them are just shitty people who never really cared about their own flesh and blood.
>>537672490So you had a mother who loved you but loved the meth a little more, understandable.My father is a proto aspie savant, PhD.He used to come up with all sorts of weird and wonderful ideas on how to raise children. One of them was that he would come home and randomly my two brothers and I would here our names called and be asked to line up. He would then go down the line one by one starting with the oldest and ask 'did you put the screw in the toaster'. Keep in mind this nigger had over a thousand scews, washers and bricka brack on the kitchen counter as he'd decided to go full auto on some random problem he'd randomly decided was the most important thing in the world. Fixing the leg on a 40 year old stool that was in a cupboard which happened to catch his eye. So he would ask 'did you do it' and if you said no, you had to walk up to him and be open hand punched across the side of the head. This would continue until someone admitted it.This was just one of many little shenanigans he would get up to. Beating the shit out of us for pissing the bed at 4 years old etc.Interestingly my little brother has a debilitating disability, a if you don't give this child drugs and care for his whole life he will die type. He was spared most of it or given the pulled punch. Often a scenario would be invented where he couldn't have done something. He is the only brother who has done anything with his life. Me and my older brother are fucked up. I'm just neurotic as fuck, my older brother had a big old mental breakdown inventing a reality where . . . he was a bused as a child. Just in a we never met that celebrity and those scenarios are just impossible kind of way.But yeh I am very confident if you have me 15 minutes and a room with a chair and the straps in it that I'd be able to change your personality quite drastically.Bottom line is by using your own childhood as comparator you are victimising yourself which is what you are complaining about....
>>537671934That hits way too close to home. I was a latchkey kid that had to teach myself how to shave. I got one driving lesson and had to walk to drivers ed. I took the training wheels of my bicycle when I was a kid. Taught myself how to mange my money and have never taken a cent from them since I was a kid. At least in their absenteeism. I learned not to depend on anyone.
>>537672490Oh and you joined the military anon? The military is for types of people;1) poofs that like hanging around with other men2) cunts that don't know when to wake up, when to take a shit, when to eatI know this because my father taught me it as a child. You probably don't realise that many seemingly held in high regard professions and vocations are for shirt lifters, losers, or ain't all that shit. You probably just weren't taught this as a child so don't realise it.
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>>537701740Your brother was abused as a child, just not sexually.
>>537671934It's called helicopter parenting and it's nothing new. Social media and bad economies just made some people extra sensitive to humiliation and/or failure.
>>537671934I ended up a "NEET", but my parents weren't like this.There aren't enough jobs for people. I have multiple degrees, language and IT qualifications but there are no jobs.I'm mixed race and people prefer to hire their own. The DEI system is like a lottery for retarded black/brown people or women.
>>537671934>resonating with a raw aislop outputlmao fucking retard kill yourself
>>537702197the sooner retarded white christcucks lose power and we return to rationality and tribalism the better
>>537671934>picrelyepthose are parents who want their kids stuck at home to take care of them in their elderly yearsextremely selfish
>>537671934I'm a neet because my father was a neet, and his father was also a neet. I come from a long line of neets. No one in my family has jobs. I didn't have helicopter parents though. My dad treated me like an adult from the time I was 12. He drug me to construction sites constantly. We were up at 5:00am every morning to work on something, except Sunday when we slept in until 6:00am. I don't think I ever had a day off or slept past 6 until I moved out at 17. Other than that he let me do whatever the fuck I wanted. I never had a curfew. I could stay out all night as long as I was home in the morning to work. But, he would lock the door when he went to sleep, so if I didn't come home before he went to sleep, I'd have to sleep on the porch or the barn if it was cold. Then, if he found me sleeping in the barn he wouldn't say anything, but he would make sure we worked on something that sucked that day. I couldn't take it anymore and left at 17. Anyway, jobs are for midwits, do something yourself.
>>537702197There are jobs you're just looking for nice jobs
A few things happened.Tradition of raising kids evaporatedTechnology advanced faster than ever in human historyParents had kids later, where grandparents had less energy and impact to maintain the same traditionKids were increasingly useless in providing labour to the homeThis happened to boomers + genxThen millennial and z kids were multiple generations removed from the tradition of parenting. And kids are, at this point effectively negative to their parents time.There's no monotonous task to get your kids to do. Making them, far more taxingJust making shit up, breaking a lot of eggs.
>>537702962nah ive been denied work at factories too.most shit jobs go to foreigners, who hire other foreigners from the same tribe like a mafia.tribalism is everything. never give up on racial tribalism or you will be conquered by people who do value it.
>>537672086Yeah you belong right next to the Jews in the guillotine line.
>>537703261adolf hitler was the only white leader who gave a shit about mixed race people btwfuck christcuckery
https://youtu.be/IAIJCv9PN7w?si=VHXe5XiRrkd6pYo6
>>537703418https://youtu.be/gF5vWnaA07c
>>537703590https://youtu.be/s64HwyhHlW4
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>>537699008I had a narc mom and doormat dad and can confirm what you're saying is 100% true. It's not possible to open up to anyone about this (including a therapist) because it makes you sound ungrateful and unable to take accountability, when in fact this type of parenting instills the exact opposite - a deep sense of guilt and shame that leads to you blaming yourself for things that are objectively not your fault (often just to spare your parents the guilt that they should be feeling for doing something they did wrong).
>>537671934When my sister had kids she asked me about our parents and if I saw anything wrong with how they raised me.I said right away, our parents were supportive conceptually, but they never actually encouraged doing anything, it was always 'yeah you can do anything, what does that mean? I dunno, but I'm going to sass you for not being perfect and not give you credit when you do well' which absolutely destroyed any sense of ambition I had, if I had any to begin with.To be fair she took this to heart, was constantly encouraging her kids to excel, celebrating their successes and talking through their failures.They're all doing well now, save for one, but that's a more complicated issue.
>>537703914narc mom and socio dad is the norm>everyone thinks their dad is innocentthey're feminist enablers who don't give a fuck about you https://youtu.be/gHkTLE44X1c
>>537671934there's no promise of a good life for the average man. no carrot = no workhorse.
>>537704196unless you're an introGod and buy land and destroy normies dailyhttps://youtu.be/ySp-u9kWVaQ?si=p4SPL-jmuo2BSFKT&t=215
>>537671934Basically how I was raised desu.You really do need to rebel when it all starts. Basically the smothering stifled and killed my spirit. Moved out (to my sister's families basement,) but I think the damage is too deep. I left it too long and now I'm far behind to peers my age so I don't relate to them well. At least ti have a job but only work 3 days a week. I just want the simple life desu It's pretty eye-opening when it's written like that
>>537672086pay debts
>>537704410Feel it in the Airhttps://youtu.be/Q9ZBUtANFNQI wasn't "raised"My parents don't existI'm the main characterhttps://www.soul-zone.org/https://youtu.be/NJwMbbP1MpM?si=WfRy5dCasskUcZOr
>>537672490>Blaming your parents it's skirting responsibility for yourself.I just blame the jews instead
>>537704410It's funny too though. I guess my siblings rebelled but I didn't.When my sister did everything "right" (university, only 1 bf) Her wanting to get married was met with "you're so young". The when she got pregnant after marriage, instead of a congratulations it was met with "how about the further studies in your career". Which is when she semi cut them off and only sees and interacts with them when need be Even during covid, when I was out of work for a period. When I finally got called to work again my mother was disappointed like she was sad he was going to be home alone most days . When during that down time I was sjust reading or playing video games in my room.So there definitely was something off with my mother like she didn't really want us (or at least me) to truly succeed or always make negative comments at anything you mention (like a job being too far, or parking being hard in that areaLiterally you give any snippit of information and she would find some negative possibility about it. It's very bizarre to witness. She even does it with my nephews and nieces. Where if when they try or do anything she always goes to ther worst case scenario of injuries and getting hurt.What is this called
>>537704775Malleus Maleficarum>1:11RAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHAAUUUUGHHHHRAUUUGHHHHHHRAAAAAUUUAUAAAHHHHH>My Skin Is Cold..
>>537672490>militaryFyi: you joined an adult daycare where stern father figures taught you to make your bed and fold your clothes for the first time ever, because your junkie parents didnt. Good for you for having the brains to seek out real parental figures, but that doesn't mean you raised yourself. Your DI was your real spiritual dad.
>>537704775These people are just evil. Yes, your mother is evil. A crab in the bucket narcissist You need to mindfuck her back before she dies.
>>537671934Can confirm it's 100% true. And they are also completly unaware that you even have any problems at all.
>>537705122NPcs don't even exist.
>>537672086who's hiring ex-NEETs?
>>537705122Shed always hate on her friends/coworkers who would study or get promotions to do better things. Acting like they thought they were so "high up"Then when we were young she always tried to instill getting a "good job" so people wouldn't look down on us. Even now when I've been working a chill min wagie job, she still refers back to my old career and has to bring up to other people that i studied and worked in that field when I've been doing this longer lol
>>537705220I'm hiring pro=NEETS. I spend a good deal of time dealing with horrendous sports injuries and seeing the demonic side of "family" and (((friends))) I'm the elemental hero now supposedly I guess. God entrusted me to help save humanity cause you're all so evilhttps://youtu.be/Y7aRx5PzO6M?si=d_taE7P-fTlZse_S
>>537672490See it from the point of view of somone poisoning you.Your parents were the equivalent of someone pouring a vial with poison into your food in front if you, while the parents in OP subtely poison you in secret over several years. You sont know its happening until its to late.Regretfully my parents were exactly like what OP described and I didnt wisen up until it was almost to late.
>>537671934My parents were like this. I legitimately can't live within 250 miles of them because I would legitimately end their lives if I did. Words can't even begin to describe how much I hate them. But I'm starting to do a bit better for myself now that I'm nearing my 40s. The problem is that these achievements should have been accomplished in my early 20s.
>>537684820Blessing in disguise. Your life is worth far more than being a zogbot, brother.
>>537671934you are only the passive product of your parents if you choose to become so, anonyour picrel is true, but only applies to the kids who let their parents be their godsyou can always break free
accurate, i wanted to get a job? parents wouldnt let me. i wanted to go do karate? i need to get my bro to do it (he is autistic). i wanted a guitar? lol youre getting a bass and youll like it. i wanted girls? lol just jerk off. also they moved away from all their extended family members.
>>537672528>dabbing at countries instead of addressing individualswhy do amerimutts do that so much?and no i'm never bothered personally by it when targeted for being french, but this behavior is uncannymutts have a mixture of pride and shame about their own nationhoodtheir need to take down others is ingrained in what i can only surmise to be a deep-seated inferiority complexwhat's the deal mutt, you're not a europoor? you dont have a history? what's so bad about being born an american?i love america and americans, dont get me wrong, but seething muttposters are something elsealways on a hair trigger! >oh no, you said something i dont like, i'm gonna bash your country!ridiculous
>>537672763>you know nothing and will get nuked by iranian hypersonic missiles if you dont contain your orange pedokekers indeed, indeed, my dear old civ friend
>>537673787the muttpig is in his element, rolling in the mud of national bullyingwhat a spectacle
>>537674740>>only 10-15% of Greeks today have blue eyesthat's enoughwe french dont have much more, if at all
>>537705534>schizoprhenic brother who needs my support or he goes to the mental hospital>long lasting sports injuries from being forced to "hang out" with my dad doing extreme mountain biking/snowboarding shit I wasn't prepared for>taking care of my mom's piece of shit retard doberman permanently destroying my finger>just run all the time and eat slop food to grow it won't ruin your growth and knees and wristsMy parents are pure slop don't act like it can't destroy a man entirelyhttps://youtu.be/q7I0T9vEWDM?si=N2EnxJsam2IzvmvvMy only respite is that there is a simple shift in consciousness where they don't exist. It happens on a daily basis, it happens when I read this naive retard post.
>>537674134>at least your 300 billion that will fund social programmes in iran such as healthcare and free college (things white countries in europe have) are gonna be spent on better (and whiter) peoplelol greekbro is bantsing the mutt something fierce
>>537705781my "friends" in highschool were pedophile french nonce faggots who deserve to die too.Spies must die.
>>537691854>ou have Godlike power over the environment and can mold your personality and disposition in any way through your will alone.that's rightthat's called having a soul and using itbut even more importantly: a spirityou wouldnt understand
>>537705866You're a motherfucking pedophile cuck dude shut the fuck up
>>537671934This is the result of a legal system that is all stick and no carrot, they will imprison you for breaking laws, but they won't pay you for obeying them.
It's mom trying to control and you subconsciously resisting by doing nothing, likely trapped financially.
>>537671934I couldn't see it until I saw the old man taking care of my niece. There was lots of fucked up shit, but hearing him tell a 4-year-old, "If you try something and mess it up, you should just never do it again." In days, she was moping that she was no good at anything.If you had too much energy and were acting up, his remedy was that you'd have to lay on the couch and close your eyes. No talking, no moving, for hours. You might fall asleep, you might not. That part didn't matter.At one point, I'd advanced in martial arts sheeit enough that I wanted to start going to tournaments n' stuff, but wasn't old enough to drive and didn't have my own money. He told me I'd get bad grades if I wasted my time on that, and that he wasn't paying for shit. Then, he encouraged me to get hooked on the cigarettes. Perfect for him, since a kid wth fucked-up lungs isn't gonna be doing anything athletic.Anyway, it's not parents just being useless, but knee-capping their kids so they can't be anything the parent isn't, or do anything the parent isn't capable of.
>>537691105I am surprised how much I read about moms being the bad ones. For me it was the opposite, my mom was the one who tried to encourage me, tried to get me into sports, apply for jobs, courses, whatnot. Sure, she had her failings but nothing so grievous as my dad.All I ever learned from him from being constantly talked down to, being shit on, gaslight and his defeatist attitude was not doing anything and just wasting away. I honestly think his favourite saying was "why doesn't god shoot me". It took me until my 30s until I finally got it trough my skull what that crap has done to me, fucks sake washing myself was a hassle for me since I only thought why fucking bother.Now that I think about it, when I got my drivers license I drove once with him only for him to shit on my bad driving and not allowing me to drive ever again with his car. Years later he said that he'll drive with me cause it's high time I finally learn how to drive.
>>537691870This. 28+ or something is the average age to fully move out. With fully I mean permanent, a lot of Greeks rent something for like 3-4 months per year while they work at a hotel. The hotel work often pays a lot more than most other available jobs. >>537681925> Parents are always making comments on what im doing on my spare time or going through my things at home and it feels like they are constantly omnipresent and micro managing meThe trick with these type of people is to just stop giving a shit about their input. Let them seethe with anger and laugh at them.
>>537671934fuck boomers
>>537706981Yes its subhuman behavior. I just assume most people are out there giving shit advice and actively trying to sabotage other people. Either knowingly or unknowingly.
>>537672490eat shit and die you subversive nigger, language is all you have because you can't fight, fucking weak coward
>>537676261>>537676573>>537688147the flock of sheep polices itself quite well
>cunt mother constantly yells at me to move out and that I’m an adult and she didn’t sign up for this and on and on and Laos how I cheated her out of a lawyer career and how she could go places she can’t even handle a trip to Walmart and wouldn’t even be able to make it as a prostitute>dad constantly tells me I need to get away from my mother and that she’s setting me up to live with her forever and he’s right but every time I make a move for independence mom tries to snuff it out and if that fails she asks him to which he does because “happy wife happy life” and doesn’t seem to find it contradictory I think he just likes the idea of being a father so he just gives token advice but doesn’t want to actually put in the effort>rent a apartment and move out>mother opens my mail finds out and freaks out steals my keys despite needing them to work and saying I’m not ready to move out and I’d be lonely pure projection on her parent>mother goes on to be a uber cunt the entire week talking about how she’s worried about my future (bullshit) and she cries herself to sleep how I treat her and worry about how I’m going to treat my future wife (also bullshit I have no interest in woman after her and dad’s hell marriage)>gets to be too much by the third day and ask landlord to move in early and he says yes and I pack my shit and move out it’s a couple of hours away>half way their I get pulled over and arrested because my cunt mother reported my car stolen and I have to stay a couple nights in jail so a judge can let me go>lose my job and now trapped in a lease that I can’t pay>cunt mother acts like it’s a told you so moment and how I’m not ready and my dad calls it a “learning lesson”>few months later credit score is destroyed and my landlord break the lease and I’m in debtThey are never going to let me go are they? Why do parents do this to their kids? Jesus Christ.
>>537691870>>537691870you are fucking delusional, your worldview is based off of pedophile (((hollywood))) movies or fat pedophiles on youtube, or in that "croat"'s case (fake country build by NATO and ethnonationalists in the 90s) by working with pajeets as a blue collar worker in the tourist sector
>>537671934Calling ur dad or mom a bitch or loser and bullying them takes ur power back, u don't have to catch a charge, u literally just have to rough house a little and assert dominance, even in a calm charming manner.
>>537705910non anon i really stepped outi kept my headthe parents have a pull, but your life drive is superioryou just have to follow it, anchor yourself to it
>>537695555>parents won't let medont let them stop you
The answer is goy fantasy sold by masonic usury.
>>537705220doordash, uber etc, they're hiring-freeyou just show up and have a job
Interesting thread. Keep it going. In Finland it's all that in the OP and also the whole system is designed to suck the life out of everything, pull the rugs and push to bushes if someone really insists on "succeeding". It's a rigged game with preselected winners and losers. At least it most surely looks like one.Here's a new angle, at least to me, on all this:https://youtu.be/pVu-0-C_1co
>>537672490>It's not our fault >take responsibility >Man up >Pay your own wayAll boomer parenting, advice, and politics is a one trick pony and they are completely blind to the hypocrisy of telling you to take responsibility while assuming none of it themselves. They are an entire generation of mini Jews with the gaslighting and terminal lack of self awareness.
>>537671934Sounds like every demoralization thread on this board.
>>537704886I'm convinced no government would ever want to truly address broken homes or dysfunctional families, because it would cut military enlistment down much more.
>>537688286>children need to respect their parents not the other way around or something kekIsn’t that explicitly what the Bible says?
>>537674949I was encouraged, ie manipulated, into enlisting after 9/11. No talk of the trades was ever tolerated while simultaneously no arrangement paying for college was discussed. Basically GTFO and get the govt to pay for it after you "serve your country" aka the Jew. Likewise though, thank you taxpayers for the lifetime military gibs. No refunds.
>>537671934Hurts to read but it's true. I have exact same parents and they have caused lots of damage. The "fuck you I got mine" mindset, punching down, never teaching properly, and being edgy but overprotective is definitely gen x thing. Because of their stupid principles and because I wouldn't be allowed to improve and shine anywhere, because of lack of any kind of encouragement and their retarded punching dowb I progressively ended up self loathing and passive over the years, which is why I never learned how to make friends or learn useful skills. Hell, I never was taught that cheating and manipulating things is how you do business and get things done overall, I was always told to be servile, be nice, and don't ask any questions, and to be afraid of failures and success. All life was just endleas rush and every single seemed crucial, like world is ending. I had to learn and prove that I'm capable as person through sheer force and suffering, and trial and error approach. If it wasn't that I probably would have killed myself.
>>537707694>Heh, acknowledging something exists and explaining it to someone means you're le sheep.Alright nigger, have fun turning your own kid into the same thing you are, and then having the same reaction to their hatred of you as you had for your own, and never learning anything.
>>537671934if you're a neet it's your fault not your parents you sound like a fucking woman trying to claim your average suburban upbringing was a traumatic identity altering experience>it was awful they made me get a college degree and tried to stop me from ruining myself!
>>537708751I had the same thing but I don't blame my parents. my mom was manipulative but my dad grew up in mayberry and had those rose glasses his whole life of being a perfect age boomer, he had no idea himself what the jews were doing he didn't think about such things. Noone did, becuase till now we couldn't all notice at once.
>1pbtiddo you mind if i spray for pajeets real quick
>memeflagsyeah i better spray for pajeets
pajeets should be posting on bharatchan and living on the subcontinent
>>537709291For free. and no recognition.
the majority of pajeets on /pol/ try to hide the fact that they're pajeets. in addition to "leaving that part out" they will proactively, persistently misrepresent their true form. pajeets are all about assuming other people's roles, from today's outsourcing and replacement migration all the way back to thuggee bandits lying to travelers about who they were. pajeets are devoid of their own identity, making them the ideal globalized goyim. they don't want a home where they belong. all that means to them is "compete in squalor." much better to go somewhere nicer, built by other people, and do their jobs for less pay and live slum-barracks life in their suburbs. pajeets don't want to be home. they also don't want to be pajeets. jews know exactly how to play their insecurities and dopey ambitions like the innocent rube fresh off the bus from the cornfield. this is their new golem to replace the ones that don't love them anymore
>>537707806Yeah, when I left I had the police come and contain them while I moved every last one of my belongings, so they couldn't pull shit like this.
>>537709217In my case it was because dad is always a narcissistic hardass. He'd often mock instead of teaching and if I outdo him he'd only say plain cold congrats.
when in doubt, try thisCLINICAL TEST QUESTION>are you descended from south asian subcontinental ancestry?any answer longer than "no" means yesnot answering means yeslying means yes
>>537703914Brother, it's possible. Name your mom as an abuser. Say it to yourself "she emotionally molested me" "she abused me"Outcomes of narc mom's are similar to dad's that physically molest their daughtersFind a therapist that does EMDR, after a month of trauma dumping, one light session unwound a lot unresolved need i tried to get from people they could never satisfy. you have probably been looking inside everyone for "mom". Getting past the therapists own feminism is the hurdle but if you name your abuse explicitly it can help.Took me 18 years since turning 18 to finally be able to be able to stop excusing what my mom did and understand what my dad didn't do.
EVERY PAJEET SAYS≈≈≈>$45T stolen by britain ≈ abrahamic/desert/yahweh ≈ according to [AI chat product] ≈ actually jews are cool ≈ age of consent ≈ AI singularity/waifu ≈ aryan ≈ booba/sexo/would ≈ built for bbc ≈ can't breed ≈ capitalism ≈ caucasian ≈ ceo doctor technology ≈ chang seething ≈ cherry picking ≈ chess/cricket/spelling ≈ christcucks ≈ cletus ≈ consent is a western concept ≈ daily reminder ≈ divorce ≈ eglin afb is behind it ≈ elon/vance/vivek ≈ epstein files more important ≈ eugenics/dysgenic ≈ faustian spirit ≈ feminism/foids/simping ≈ fentanyl ≈ forced/inorganic/psyop ≈ full sapport for israel ≈ good morning ≈ haplogroup ≈ [height/penis/testosterone concern] ≈ household income ≈ human capital ≈ i can pass for xyz ≈ [incel noises] ≈ indo-[whatever] ≈ [iq insecurity] ≈ jesus was jewish ≈ jidf is behind it ≈ latinx ≈ left/right/voting matters ≈ lil bro ≈ maxxing/mindset/grind ≈ meritocracy ≈ mom/sister on onlyfans ≈ कुछ भी महत्वपूर्ण नहीं है ≈ nordic ≈ npnw ≈ obsessed/rent-free ≈ october 7 ≈ [other ethnicity] is guilty of [pajeet thing] ≈ outcompete ≈ paganism is your real heritage ≈ rape ≈ [redditor noises] ≈ [report snitch squeal] ≈ reverse colonization/conquest ≈ saar ≈ send bobs/vagene ≈ slave morality ≈ slop ≈ state mandated [entitlement] ≈ stem skill issue ≈ stolen land ≈ stop [cars/dogs/guns/meat/etc] ≈ thanks for the rupees jidf ≈ that's a paki ≈ timmy ≈ trannies ≈ trvth nvke ≈ unc/aunty ≈ voted for it ≈ we have nukes ≈ where should i move ≈ whiter than you ≈ why are white women like white people like this ≈ wiggers/wignats ≈ without a single shot ≈ yamnaya ≈ you need us ≈ you will be extinct ≈ you won't do shit ≈ you worship xyz ≈ zindabad ≈ zutt
who cares desu. ww3 is coming soon. might as well lie down and rot till draft and death.
there was never any good reason to share a country, a language, or the internet with pajeets
>>537682429This. End the fed, stop outsourcing, give the power of money to the people. The banks are fucking us all over n so are most corporations.
>WHAT IS A PAJEET?the best way to define pajeet is>descended from south asian subcontinental ancestry.political distinctions on maps or signified by flags are false and irrelevant. everything south of the himalayas that isn't gooky-chinky is pajeet. pakistan, india, bangladesh, sri lanka are all pajeet territory. enough of nepal and bhutan are jeeted that they may as well qualify too.all of these pajeets could stay where they belong and call themselves what they like, and nobody would disagree because nobody cares. however, because they profusely shit up the internet, and they mass migrate to shit up everyone else's homelands, they're all pajeets now. all counted together as the same thing, on the same visiting team as far as the human world is concerned.hindu, muslim, sikh, atheist, etc; male, female, gendersexual, old, young, etc; deformed, odorless, fair & lovely, dark & deep, etc... forget all of it. none of that diversity matters once they exit designated land to race with the globalist rats. now their entire overcrowded neighborhood at the bottom of asia is known as one source of one type of trespasser: the pajeet.>ONLY A PAJEET DISPUTES THIS DEFINITION
yea i had a controlling dad that would check the odometer in the car, yell at me for driving too much, then turn around and yell at me for not driving enough after i would stop from the yelling. he even drew lines in the garage and would yell if you werent directly over it. I don't know it pronbably fucked me up. Or he would yell at me to get a job but then say a job wasnt good enough or i will probably get sued or get into an accident at work some kind of disaster worse case scenario. He would yell at me to get a girlfriend and then when i got one he would pound on the door and kick her out and say he doesnt want her over anymore. A lot of the stuff you guys talk about plus when he would get angry he would call me an accidnt and how he was supposed to be a bachelor and before he met my mom he was dating an asian woman. I was like oh great hes one of those nerds. He would keep bragging about his asian girflriend before my mother and i eventually got mad and said "any white loser can date asians, they are low hanging fruit for white guys" and he would proceed to flip the fuck out. But yea everything you guys said plus when he would get mad "I was supposed to be a bachelor and you are only my financial responsibility" He also had an obsession with death and told me when i was a little kid that his dad died when he was like 50 and told me im not going to live very long. weird thing to tell a kid. nevermind his dad smoked like 10 packs a day of unfiltered cigs
40NEETpro with gibsLive with motherI love having not to do anything, no shackles.
>eet
>>537709260hey that rhymes with neetslolbut we all know pajeets are overachievers, not leeches on society....so it would never be pajeets leeching gibs in the westlmaowhat a silly rhyme
>>537709291also silly because neet sounds like neat, meaning tidy and orderly, which is... not a good fit.so a neet pajeet would be a thing of irony any way you slice it
>>537709325what's your favorite way to slice pajeets
>>537671934>wah wah I'm a pathetic piece of shit but it's mommy’s faultAbsolute cope for enjoying being a lazy sack of shit.It's actually the OPPOSITE every neet I've seen has a huge narcissism problem of being a "formerly gifted child" thinking they are genuises and thus don’t do anything because facing the real world would mean accepting they are not the world’s most special little boy. Fuck them.
>>537672490>I joined the military I took care of my own selflol no, the military took care of you. they house you, feed you, teach you a job, and pay you a wage, all provided. the government has become your parents.so long as you dont get killed in a warzone, by the time you leave you will have at least enough to buy a house, and some trade/skill you can take with you.most people join the forces because they are not much good for anything else, or its their last resort.
>>537713413Antipope Francis is the Porn Pope
>>537671934If you are not a homonculus or quasimoto, be a gold digger. Literally go back in time with Mystery and pick up artist strategies and techniques. You can hangout at claire’s if you want. I go to a high end gym, Equinox, you will find richer women to bag than your poor jersey mike working twenty four year old. Just find a woman of wealth is the main concern. I dont care about weight and age. So those made me get higher neet adventures. I am a neet and graduated finding an older divorced woman. She has some years ahead of me but I dont care I eat at michelin star restaurants and at least chilis at the worst. I suck her hairy pussy on command. She mops my face and makes me remember where my place is. She feeds, clothes and gives me shelter. I go on celebrity cruises. Even gives me a car to drive us around in. She usually sits in the back and I chaffeur her around but I dont care. Not paying taxes and I like this arrangement coming direct from my parents basement. Oh I have a basement too just not living in it. We dont sleep in the same bed. She comes and uses me like a human sex traffic toy that she owns and leaves my room. I am ok with being used for sex and being a slave. So fuck you aint dying for your war or Israels. Suck old hag vagene anon. Or fatties. As long as they have money. I just reverse and use the same gender strategies. I am her driver, pool boy, chaperone, and a hot piece of ass. My cougar that trapped me has money which made me crypto wealthy just playing with money and making more money. Its better than flipping burgers for tree fiddy unless you are a faggot. So next time when you are driving your honda accord or your jeep wrangler rubicon on your wagie schedule I hope you remember reading this. Get off your high horse middle management is still wagie tier. Be like me. I play vidya games, I wear burberry polos and even drive a BMW i7. You just have low standards. Your fren, gold digger anon.
>>537671934I was raised mostly like this.>Told I was smart, then an idiot>Told I had mental health problems, forced to see shrink etc. Become an adult and actually have a manic episode for real - suddenly "I'm making it up" and I just need to "snap out of it" and that mental illness isn't even real>Told I was autistic, then that autism wasn't real, then that it was but caused by the vax, then told by my mum that she "prefers I got it anyway"(?)>Told I was a loser who never socialized. Told them I actually am degenerate and take drugs at parties. Suddenly I'm seen as some whacko pervert or some shit>(as a teen) do more chores of my own volition - I am then making them feel bad. Become lazier, suddenly I'm useless and I should feel bad
>>537714356Oh yeah and I forgot also I was physically hit repeatedly and verbally abused. Then shortly after I turned 18, my mum pulled me aside and had this talk about how child abuse is bad and she never did those things kek. Full-on gaslighting
>>537672490there you gotake that, stinky neetsblame yourselvestake accountabilityand try changing
>>537714418I also think my mum might of had muncahusians by proxy? When I was 5-12 I used to have seizures and I vaguely remember my mum crushing pills in nutella and feeding it to me as a 'treat'. Beyond 12 I never had another seizure again in my life (I'm almost 28). What meds could invoke seizures in a healthy person?
>>537672490>unecessary ALL CAPS, dead giveaway this was slapped together by an oldfuck boomer>reddit spacing>it not our fault! Pull up yer bootstraps!>when i was yer age I had a livable salary job! Why cant you!???Im excited for the webms of your generation bonding with the niggers and pajeets in the retirement home.
>>537676261>It's an insidious poison that parents might not even realize they're dumping into their kids' lives, but it's a very real problem.you can still break freeyou carry lifelife breaks out of any barrierbut you have to make the leap
>>537708751>>537709213pussy ass deleet faggot
>>537708751>I never was taught that cheating and manipulating things is how you do business and get things done overall, I was always told to be servile, be nice, and don't ask any questions, and to be afraid of failures and successlol jew
>>537671934these types of parents also make you naturally tolerate abusive people, even when you are no longer under your parents' control you find yourself surrounded by these types in every environmemt, these types can sniff you out and latch onto you. learning how to recognize them and how to get rid of them might be the first thing one has to do in such situation.
>>537671934I aint reading all that. sorry that happened to you or congratulations with your win
I am not a NEET because I have a job but it's a public sector job and I basically just shitpost in an office with AC on all day without doing anything productive, I am 34 and still live in a shack for rent alone rather than get a mortgage and find a woman to have a family. I feel like I'm spiritually a NEET and I don't know how to solve this
>>537671934just never increase the minimum wage.The dumb ones will work just for the sake of having a job. The even dumber ones still will reproduce and have children. But the smartest will realize the game is rigged and choose not to play. You play the blame game. I see the system for what it is. A man eater who wants to swallow everyone whole.
>>537713413>accepting they are not the world’s most special little boyThat's where you're wrong PierreI am the world's most special little boyMummy said so
>>537672490The very reason you became independent is because you had to be, dumbass. Obviously this isn't going to be the experience of someone whose parents shelter and provide for their every need while discouraging risk and ambition. Being a midwit must be such a blessing honestly, never having to think about anything deeply or consider how or why things happen and the repercussions of them.To be clear I'm not a neet, just not so stupid that I can't understand basic cause and effect. A person's experiences predict their psychology, you just happened to be lucky enough to have a shitty enough life that put you in a position to want more and to panic when you feel the bottom falling out from under you. Neets don't have this because they have a safety net and emotionally incestuous parents whose greatest fear is their kids flying the nest.
>>537672490You don't know any better from ages 4 to 10. It's just normal. When you realize the wrong it can be too late. .5 acres yard and somewhat forested. Beautiful yard that we could never leave or have friends over, mom needed us for anything and everything. Dad didn't care, did shit for himself. Called us shit for brains and dumber than boxes of rock. You believe it when you know nothing else.
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>>537695508>>537695867>posts list of things boomers voted for and still unilaterally vote for today after they can clearly see the consequences >poor widdle boomie dindu nuffinVoting doesn't matter because quasi retarded crypt mummies who take pride in sabotaging their children are still voting en mass for whatever the TV tells them too.
>>537671934Boomer dollars, communist daughters
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>>537715248See honestly if you're a neet going "I'm too much of a special boy to do anything other than eat nuggies, oh yipee my new vidya is out ! I love my neet life !" I respect you a billion times more than any snivelling pathetic bitch going "mmmmh I HAVE to stay home and watch anime because my bitch parents never taught me to wipe my own ass boohoo".
Though I'm a NEET, and a failure that's been going on for far too long, and I certainly can pivot it to my parents (mainly my dad) for being kinda shitty... I also can't really blame him for becoming that.I know his story, the lack of support his own parents gave him, and all the crap the state made him go through for the mistake of having a kid at such a young age.It's as if society at large expects you to know how to raise a kid, entirely on your own. While constantly policing and criticizing every single tiny mistake you may make. Which is what the post is describing in the end. Society puts all these expectations on the parents, and parents in turn put them on the kid. Which leads to failure in both ends. Kids who hate their parents, and parents who despise their kids.Which of course makes the current situation even funnier. For naturally the next generation refused to have any kids, having learned its a fucking suicide if you do so. But hey, that's bad, gotta pump those numbers up.Sigh, its all such a fucking joke...
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>>537707806Unironically join the military or go homeless
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>>537671934the problem isnt just moms who divorce its also moms who threaten divorce
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>>537671934Delete OPicrel, it's literally describing me and I don't like it.
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>>537672086>greeceman I almost underwent some small manner of self-reflection in response to OP's image, thanks to Greece I can just laugh at a greasy brown country though. Thanks Greece!
>>537709291ways to monetize /pol/ pollution>baiting for (You)s>time occupying catalog spaceboth are matters of record and anyone who wants to ruin /pol/ can pay pajeets to do these things 24/7 if they're not already motivated by pajeetism
>>537671934> Why do parents do this to their kids?I honestly think that this is due to TV mind fucking the parents into some altered reality. It causes the parents to abdicate actual responsibility, helping the child grow. They’re convinced the world is capable of providing enough hints for the kiddo to figure it out for themselves because it’s too much work otherwise. The only thing they maintain is constant talk thinking saying some words will fix it. Even if they state correctly exactly what needs to happen, it will never work because they NEVER DEMONSTRATED what to do. They think that the child landing in a stable enough home, the end result of providing implicitly demonstrates what the child should do. I think it’s extreme sloth coupled with arrogance and stupidity, but some people are just assholes.
>>537701886>boomer traitorsthey learned it from hollyslopGran Torino and the Subversion of Heroism (Wyatt Stagg)https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eEh1A_Tcu7k
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>>537693959>your parents dont care about you?>Join the army now!Not very subtle john.Try to improve.
>>537671934True for me.But add the fact that I lived in a racial jungle with female hysteria (that even comes from disgusting women from inferior races) and other narcissistic dysgenics for 20 years of my life.Thank Perun that I have started to learn C/C++ by myself since I was 14 years old.
>>537671934>>537672230these guys get it, the boomer question is the world's first and foremost problem
>>537674253thisgreece is more like 0% white
>>537689391being a gamer is a curse and a blessing
>>537726353dont conflate White people with the safest cities in the world with the districts of vienna anon
>>537671934It's called "helicopter parenting". They actively shield their children from failure and pain 24/7. If a parents only job was to protect children from physical danger it would be the right thing to do. But a parents job is to train adults. You have to let kids make mistakes. You have to let them experiment with boundaries. Especially in this day and age. Like who and the fuck wants their kids growing up to be little sycophants in this day and age? With how corrupt public institutions are. Like my brother full on high fived his son once for mouthing off to some teacher that was being a dumb institutionalized bitch. I can't imagine what kind of disability my autism would have become if I was raised by ineffectual helicopter parents so thank fuck that my parents weren't retards.
>>537703783>>537704065>>537704255>>537705304Unrelated to thread topic, but I really appreciate you sharing all these dope tracks anon, good stuff
>>537672086I love my family. Fuck bitter depressing blackpill shitskins. Youre a fucking blight. A dumber, less crafty kike.
Isn't it weird how so many people trip over themselves to run defense for their shitty parents that neglected them entirely if not actively fucked them over?Why do they expect children to raise themselves or adults to change all of their mindset and behaviors all of a sudden after getting taught wrong for +18 years?
For anons who feel they grew up in an unhealthy environment that shaped them in a negative way, I recommend the book Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay C Gibson, solid material that can really help understand certain mechanisms and developmentsWe all gotta make do with the cards we were dealt, it can suck, but not much you can do about it other than adapt
>>537676261Parents were the same with my brother. Both grew up. I managed to get a job because of a friend but my brother is stuck as a neet who never had a GF because parents keept holding him back from going to parties and socializing as a teen because they were afraid he was gonna get drunk or some other of the typical fears this type of parents have when it comes to teen parties. Instead they incentivize him to stay at home in his room with his PC and no matter how much i tell them it was their fault they keep wondering what went wrong with him. He is in his 30s and just gave up on everything because he feels he is past the time were dating and job hinting was supposed to be done
>>537671934I want to know what the post he was replying to was.
Being a BSB is the main culprit of being a complete loser.
>>537676573>I'd rather be beaten up by alcoholics and resent them with a fucking enormous social support from everyone Shit this describes a friend I knew from school. He had a shit early childhood with a violent abusive father who was like 20 years older than his mom who was 18 at the time she got knocked up, his dad would do shit like drunkenly chase them around the house with a knife. But he ended up well because he's also inherently charismatic and had friends everywhere he went. Meanwhile I had a life similar to described in the OP and I was drained of any ambition. My childhood was such a clown show I don't even bother talking about it with normies because they misunderstand every bit.
>>537676261>but then refused to let me and my gf in HS ever be in my room w/ the door closedY'know, although I wanted to have a gf in high school really badly there's a part of me that's glad I didn't have one because my parents would have destroyed the relationship instantly through their usual micromanagement of my life and interrogation about every damn person I interacted with
>>537671934>This pretty much a sums up my entire childhoodMy dad is going blind at 80, we need a new garbage disposal unit, he was going to call a guy, I said I can buy one at Costco and do it, he reluctantly said ok, i am going to have a t alk with him about it, he installed his and I will ask him beforehand if his father watched him install the garbage disposal, if he kept asking why not do it this way or why do it that way, if his dad was in the room watching and judging him the whole time, he is going to say no of course then I am going to say to not do it to me then. Most things I dont do around the house, I take care of him a little, as he is constantly asking questions or adding his 2 cents in of why whatever I am doing is stupid and wrong.
>>537689391lol
