I got into an argument with my mom yesterday night and I feel bad about it now.She can't help behaving a certain way. She's a woman after all.I need to be more patient and kind.
>>538203867Respect your mother, you son of a bitch
>>538203867Do it for me anon.I can't.Never thought I would hate my own mother.
>>538203867I've made it very clear to my mother that the onlu reason she gets to be that disrespectful with me is because I got no where else to go. We're in 2026 not 1930, no one takes disrespect nowadays if they don't want to, but honestly that doesn't bother me anymore, my whole family will hear news about me once a year when I get away from them.
>>538204000It's part of growing up. Happens to all of us. It's not a permanent hate. It's not really hate at all. It'll be alright in the end. And even if it isn't, that's fine too.
>>538203867women never grow beyond 14yo, she makes sense when you were a toddler because a 14yo can take care of that, but once you grew up it won't, and you have to treat her just like how you treat a 14yo, you don't argue with 14yo girls, they will never understand your point, you pretend you understand them and do whatever you want at the end.the issue is fathers should step in once the kid is old enough, and take it from there to further polish the kids, but they don't, because boomers muh happy wife happy life BS, resulting in destroyed houses
My mom suicided when I was young because of some shit beyond my knowledge at the time. Wanted to keep things stable but just inadvertantly made things a little worse. It's not your fault. It's your parents' job to protect you, not the other way around. I'm far away from that shit now but the scenario haunts me.
>>538203867Once you move out of the house you'll forget she ever existed.
>>538203867If she's a good mother then you should cut her a break. She's probably doing what she thinks is best. Luke 11:11-13>"Which of you fathers, if your son asks for a fish, will give him a snake instead?""Or if he asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion?"Tell her you're sorry and you love her
>>538203867My mom watched me grow up in trouble at every turn, while also getting only As and being a standout athlete who followed her only rules : get good grades, be respectful to friends parents, and be polite. Those were her hills she'd die on as a single mother to a brute son of a bitch like me. I was all of those things and a massive booze hound who'd smash any drug put in front of me besides meth and heroin. Got out of high school, finished college, she literally just agrees with everything I say now with her whole heart. There's not a more antiemetic person on the planet than my own sweet mom
>>538203867Just apologize and move on fren. It's hard dealing with parents sometimes but they are there for you when it counts.
>>538204292I'm so sorry fren, my dad suicided too. Nothing has been right since. We have to love one another while we are here.