Me and this girl have been texting back and forth at first it seemed like she really liked me but now it seems like i am just in the friendzone, i basically just want to be straight forward and ask if she likes me or not if it's a no i will leave and try and forget about her, is this the right decision or should i take things slow, she has genuine respect for me and actually makes an effort to text me first almost every day so it's not like i'm just a cuck stuck in the friendzone, should i ask her rn if she likes me or do i just have to be patient, I'll be posting an update in the thread to say how things went between us if i decided to ask her or not
For context I'm 21 and this is the first time I've actually spoken and had feelings for a girl in this way never had a girlfriend before so it's probably my insecurities leading me to get into a relationship as fast as possible
>>82348296No, I wouldn't ask her. That seems weak. Ask yourself if you like her. If you like her, then you tell her that you like her. That's more forward and you don't have to waste your time wondering.Don't put her on a pedestal. They're all the same in the end.
Fuck idk if i can do it I'm really nervous rn
waiting for her to reply
>>82348296You fucking moron you're just an ego boost for her. If she actually liked you she'd have shown significant interest in you and invited you over.You're just an orbiter she's letting on to make herself feel better. Like a dog she wakes up in the morning to see the reaction of.>Its not like in stuck in the friendzoneMassive cope
>>82348296better idea: ask her if she has any single friends
>>82348413That's the point. Do what makes you uncomfortable. Trust, they'll be others. You're literally 21. You have decades of pussy if this one is a bust
>>82348596I don't quite understand the point of this question? Do you mean other male friends she has?
>>82348296send a couple memes, it might work
>>82348296Women fuck the alphas and use the betas for attention and ego boosters, thats the Cold hard truthYoure wasting your time If she hasnt make any move, just move on and try with a different one, you will be amazed at how open women are with it comes to sex with a man they are actually attracted toNo text, no bs, just straight to fuck
>>82348817not a bad idea but since it's your first time, you need to learn hardship of being rejected.It shows you don't have interest in her, which is actually a turn on for women. But you're pretty desperate so you should play your cards first to stamp out that nervousness before it becomes a habit for you in the future.btw the guy is right about the alphas/betas. You would already be at third base if alpha. Only betas text for real
>>82348296You probably aren't flirting because you're insecure and new to it all and that confused herWomen don't talk daily and message first constantly with guys they don't like But they're used to men flirting hard fast and constantly with themYou don't have to be incessant with it, but you have to flirtEstablish that air of mutual attraction and then meet up
Maybe I'm just over thinking
