Are you guys "invisible"?I swear no one actually knows I exist, like it's my destiny to just meet someone at that moment in time, we have a thing for a while, and after that I'm gone from their livesI don't have friends who actually know me for me, not even my family knows what I do or don't doLike, I just exist in the moment and then adios
>>82358898Fuck, even my thread is invisible
I feel you. I believe no one actually knows who I am. Most of the people from my past know absolutely nothing from me now. The only people I've kept for a long time, I actually barely talk to them at all apart from maybe a few times a year. My family knows nothing about me; they never really cared to ask, and when I turned 18, I just left. I do have friends, but they have no idea what I'm actually like, and they've only known me for a little while and will eventually drift off like everyone else. I guess this is just how life is for some people. I personally believe it is because I am incapable of forming deep connections with people, and that may be rooted in the lack of deep connections I ever formed with my parents
>>82358898yes. fear of vulnerability and all. wants to get close but doesn't let anyone get close.
>>82358898I see you and understand it :3
>>82358898>woah I had't seen you. How long have you been standing there? (the full time, right in front of them)This exact situation has happened to me more times than I can count.
>>82358898Some people are just like that anon. We have that tendency to vanish, but it's also quite hard to reappear in my experience.
>>82359286>>82359287>>82359332>>82359357Is it fixable? Like, if I hang around enough times will I eventually be noticed?
>>82359540I think it is fixable, but I haven't found a solution to it yet. I guess if you put yourself in enough circumstances where you can meet and talk to people, then yes, eventually you would find someone. But I think the problem with being invisible is that it makes you avoid those types of interactions.
>>82358898yes, zero friends no gf not that I want one, absolutely no one knows I exist. the only person i see is my boss coworkers and the customers who come into the store where i work. ive tried and failed at making friends. half of my family is dead and the other half doesnt like me. I am a ghost.
>>82359286>>82358898I kinda relate to this, especially the part about people drifting off. I don't know about you all, however, I've only got "friends" in the last few years and most of those I met eventually drifted away. Sad thing is that I may know a lot about them, and even think about some of those that drifted away, but I doubt it's the same for them. It's because they never asked anything about me and when I tried to talk to them about stuff that I liked, it would go nowhere. It's almost like being a faceless puppet, constantly floating in an ocean where you're pulled and once you're no longer useful, you're quickly discarded. And it's sad because I look at certain times, missing those memories, just to realize that they didn't even know me. Nor cared to get to know me. Nostalgia becomes meaningless by then, because what's the point? Those people never knew us, how can I miss a relationship with someone that never even acknowledged me as someone with his own past and interests? It wasn't even a relationship. Then, you get to the point where you blame yourself and try to do everything to even be perceived as someone, just to get burnout and they just don't want to know you. And you stop even putting effort, and they leave quicker and you end up more lonely because you don't even feel stimulated by the idea of making friends. How do you anons cope with it? >inb4 stop being self-centered It's not about that, it's just that it'd feel cool if I had someone that knew me, I guess.
