I feel really creepy because every time a woman talks to me in a remotely nice way I start feeling attracted to her I know women dislike it and I understand why but at the same time it kind of pisses me off because it's always "ugh why do men confuse basic kindness for me being into them" and never "huh, what life experiences might cause this man to automatically assume that I would only be nice if I was attracted to him?" I'm not really sure how to cure myself of this. Maybe I just need to have a lot of female friends again.
>>82452696The cure is to remind yourself how retarded, disgusting and hateful every whore is. Even if you're being nice on the surface level, you should be psychically throwing daggers.
>>82452748I don't particularly enjoy doing that thoughMy hatred of women mostly just manifests as trust issues
>>82452783It's not a trust "issue" if the mistrust is justified. Start hating.
>>82452696>every time a woman talks to me in a remotely nice way I start feeling attracted to hersame, but i'm quick to suppress thathaving a downer attitude (somewhat) is convenient in that sense because i can quickly gaslight myself that she doesn't like me and then feel all the disappointment unprovoked, which turns to indifference later and then i'm free of it for goodit's yet to fail me
>>82452797Heh, I did kek at this. Fair enough>>82452849I mean yeah I basically do this, it still hurts tho
>>82453053I ain't even joking chief but I'm glad you can still laugh at it
>>82452696>And never 'huh, what life experiences might cause this person to behave this way.Nobody ever thinks like this except for me, and if they did the world would be a much better place.
>>82453217Me too anon :)It is kind of a curse though
>>82453053>it still hurts thoyeah, i knowbut that pain is small compared to what it might feel like if things drag on, so...either way, we seem to have it under control, even if not at first
>>82453272That is true. I just wish I didn't have to do things like this to myself
>>82453398yeah me neither, anoni haven't done it in a while now but then again, it's not like i've been talking to people outside here muchit's been a lonely road, freni wonder if it's worth it to avoid the pain...
>>82453590Who knows. It would be nice if there was someone particular to blame but idk if there is. Am I really "wrong" for being different and not getting people? Are they wrong for not wanting to be around me when I don't really add anything to their life? Am I somehow wrong for being attracted to women like all male mammals? Are they wrong for feeling weird about being the object of attraction for people they don't really know? I'm not sure man
>>82453719well anon, what they don't know doesn't hurt themstill a chance to keep the friendship if those feelings die off fast enough, you know?and blaming anyone or anything won't solve shit, so... best not to dwell on thatthe question is what we're gonna do about it
>>82453738I don't know if there is anything to be done about it anon
