apparently this is a thing?? like they actually feel good doing it, they get a dopamine hit and they dont see it as a chore? they even go out of their way to meet new people. im sorry but this is groundbreaking news to me and i wanted to share it...
>>82454160at this point I'm just trying to accept that this is obviously me being forced out of the gene pool via natural selection. I fucking hate talking to people, which will result in me never having a gf
>>82454160In a certain way, we're just like them when we are here.
>>82454160Well cognitive social skills are a muscle you flex and you'll hate working out at first if you arent good at it the same as any other hobby. but sometimes you are just too different to fit into the normgroid group or navigate their social situations and thats okay, theres plenty of personality disorders that make it more difficult. ask yourself this anon, are you happy without talking to people? in that case you dont really need to change at all or at least fake it for a work environment. The people i expect you to refer to as enjoying that arent really that interesting anyway you'll find out how close minded and boring they are after a while.
>>82454160You see this shit on /r9k/ daily. We literally have at least a dozen /soc/ faggors simultaneously browsing /r9k/ and discord, and making threads about their normalfaggotry.How slow do you have to be to not notice that, lol?
>>82454234Yep this is pretty much me too. Not much you can do about being an autist.
>>82454160If I'm in a conversation, my goal is to end it as fast as possible. Shit sucks, every single time for decades. It's just somebody trying to get something out of you.
>>82454160That probably means you haven't met people who socialize in a way that suits you.And that probably means the tism.