I'm 21y/o virgin who probably has autism and definitely has poor social skills. I'm into nerd shit like manga or w/e but I'm not a pervert and I'm anti-porn. I feel like it only makes sense to try and find a gf with more or less similar life circumstances and outlook but I feel like it's almost impossible. I mean by definition two people who normally don't socialize much have a very small chance of meeting or talking for very long.I would prefer to make friends with someone first and slowly become more romantic with them but I understand a lot of girls feel that that can be kind of manipulative. At the same time being super forward when first talking to someone is creepy and weird. Can you give me some tips? What would be the ideal way to meet a boyfriend from (you)r perspective?
>>82455810to be entirely realistic you would have to come across me in a really weird circumstance and then just be nice to me and talk to me a lot. there was a guy who helped me recover my account on an old mmo weeks ago now who was friendly and i ended up imagining he would offer to play with me and help me with the game, and we'd become friends and then he'd be like oh i'm so in love with you and we would date, but obviously it didn't happen he just helped me recover my password and never spoke to me again.but the point is to find someone like this you would have to luck into an opportunity, capitalize on the opportunity, then slow burn it while maintaining some level of flirt so it doesnt feel out of nowhere.
>Can you give me some tips?Woman here, stop writing like a faggot first of all. What you think is le 'tism is probably just you being a faggot. Most autists act like faggots. Austims isn't real btw.
>>82455936The only women who write like this have autism nigga >>82455927>to be entirely realistic you would have to come across me in a really weird circumstanceThat's what I was afraid ofIn fact basically everything you described is pretty much what I would imagine. People who end up socially isolated in the first place usually end up that way because they don't seek out conversation for conversation's sake, which means I would need some kind of external excuse to hang around any theoretical girl for a while until we can slowly get to know each other. Oh well, I shouldn't complain. All this is a direct consequence of the stuff I'm asking for so it can't be helped. Good thing I'm religious because I will probably need God's help
>>82455810>Fembots, how would IFembots don't exist, you faggot. Stop entertaining the trannies here
>>82455988>The only women who write like this have autism niggaYes, which are the type you're looking for. Sorry to say, but we're not into failed normalfag wigger "autists" like you. Sorry!
>>82456008They might know something>>82456031Low tier ragebait. Might have gotten me 3 years ago but the meta has evolved
>>82455810I met my boyfriend on an mmo rp game; started talking out of necessity, then out of interest in each other, then started to fall in love with each other, and then dated a year after that.I'll give you my opinion, so this may not be something that works for you nor fits you; but I think it's better to be friends with a girl before dating.Best place to look is somewhere where your interests are; imo it's better to look in places that are more obscure as there's less people and generally easier to get to know people, but I'm sure you can also have success in large places.Start talking to her, and talk to her like you would a guy (but tone down the insults, especially any about appearance) and just try to be friends. While I wasn't really talking to anyone else when I met my bf, I probably wouldn't have continued talking to him if he didn't stand out especially as I just didn't really care for talking to others. What made him stand out to me was because he was able to give me some helpful info about my interest (the mmo), was very funny, and wasn't afraid to make any sort of offensive jokes (I mean like the sexist, homophobic, sexual kind, etc. kinds, not the evil sort); like saying he hates women and asks if he can see my feet which was a humor I've never faced personally, so it was new and funny to me.I'm trying to remember how I fell for my boyfriend. His joking comments acting like a desperate simp went from me laughing at them, to making me feel flattered for the chance that maybe his words might hold some sort of truth. He would make it known to me once every blue moon that I'm important to him, and a special person to him in his life. His genuine compliments about me would turn from something you'd say to a friend, to something a bit sweeter. He'd care about me and my issues, and be there for me when I struggle, trying his best to cheer me up.But everyone is different, so who knows, thought I'd share
>>82456274So we're 2 for 2 on mmo fans... Everything you're saying makes sense. Unfortunately it reminded me that if I want to fall in love I have to actually open up to someone again which straight up feels impossible rn but whatever. Carpe diem and all that.
>>82456274What year was this? I feel like this isn't really an option these days--at least, not if you aren't willing to hop on a shitty game like Valorant or Apex. >He would make it known to me once every blue moon that I'm important to him, and a special person to him in his lifeWhen he confessed his feelings for you, you should have replied with "NO WAY, FAG!", and blocked him for maximum keks.
>>82456316Haha he was like that too. You know what's funny? If he had stopped messaging me back one day, I'd probably leave it at that because I was a depressed faggot and thought being alone was for the best. But a few days after talking or so, before saying goodnight, he said "I've really enjoyed talking to you, can't wait for us to eventually distance ourselves from each other over the next few weeks and stop talking completely like how it always is" and it made me feel sad that he thought that, because I actually did enjoy talking to him as well; so I made it a point to never be the one to distance myself and it's been about 5 years of messaging each other every dayI guarantee it's always worth opening yourself up for the risk of hurt, because no matter how many times you get hurt, the reward and light at the end of the tunnel is always worth it.I've been there, where I didn't want to be vulnerable and leave myself open to hurt, but I guarantee, regret will hurt a lot moreYou don't have to bear your soul to every women you meet, nor get yourself worked up, thinking this lady is the one; you need to be open enough for her to know you are genuine but also brace yourself for impact if it goes wrongVERY IMPORTANT: DO NOT FALL FOR LOVEBOMBING, I guarantee you loneliness will feel so much better than that bpd shit I swear man. It's not just that you'll be left, but you'll always be chasing that momentary unconditional love. You notice her matching what love bombing is? Or she mentions she has bpd? Run man, run, please trust me on this, don't think that you can be with her without giving your heart to her, that you can take it, you gotta run man.>>82456416>What year was this?2020>Valorant or Apex.Ew, no. The mmo we met on was wow>When he confessed his feelings for youThat wasn't him confessing his feelings, it was him essentially saying "You are a very good friend to me, and an important part of my life". He didn't confess until a year post meeting
>>82456461>VERY IMPORTANT: DO NOT FALL FOR LOVEBOMBING, I guarantee you loneliness will feel so much better than that bpd shitYeah, it would be really terrible to be a sucker who falls for a bpdemon's temporary obsession only to be completely abandoned after a month... haha... In my defense we were friends for years before that so it's not like I legitimately thought this girl was my soulmate overnight...My shit aside tho this was genuinely a heartwarming story>>82456416I do play valorant sometimes I can't lie
>>82456533>haha...I'm sorry anon....And thank you, you'll have a heartwarming story of your own one day. But that's only if you act and do something to get your life moving in the direction that you want. You can't ever forget that.I hope you have a good life, I'll pray for you that you will get what you need
Im a newfag on this board and its taking all my energy to not hit on girlsHow do stop this
>>82455810You've kinda hit the nail on the head. It's hard for two people who don't like to flash their true colors to find each other. You genuinely just have to go talk to people in as small of groups as possible, and get to know them, some people click and some don't
>>82456461>2020Huh, well that certainly subverted my expectations. I was under the impression that this all occurred back in the early 2000's and that you two were oldfags. Perhaps things aren't so bad after all.
>>82456627>Im a newfag on this board and it's taking all my energy to not hit girls
>>82456586Thanks anon>>82456627Just tell yourself they are all trannies>>82456632Basically like everything in life ig. Just try harder>>82456689Kek, based
>>82456274>>82456533I was too much of a retard to even make long term friends in my mmos let alone find a fembotI wonder what my fat friend who would always talk to me about wh is doing
>>82456936Warhammer? He's probably fighting for the last bed in the homeless shelter after his mini addiction left him unable to pay rent
