how do i know if im ugly and unlikeable
>>82460470Look in the mirror and then look at how people treat you and how often they want you around.
If you arent accepted by the group you are ugly, likability is just based on physical attractiveness. If a 6 foot 5 man was an asshole he would be considered humorous and charming, if 5 foot 5 does it he is bitter. Same for if they are being nice, tall guy is being nice even though he does not have to be and a good person. Manlet better be nice and is a creepy nice guy
>>82460470people not liking (You) is a good indicator
>>82460470>mfw ugly but likeableThis is worse imoThere was this one time me and my friends went out clubbingWe were at our table, about six of us, and I guess it was the club promoter and he came by and asked us to pose so he could take a pic of usTwo days later, I go the their instagram page and the pic was up! ...and they cropped me out of it
>>82460470Idk. I'm ugly and unlikable but other people can only see it when I'm having an emotional breakdown and I force them to face it. The rest of the time they insist I'm very attractive, even though I'm revolted by my own reflection and I have no manners because of my upbringing.
I'm confused because I for the longest time generally thought of myself as ugly and unlikeable. Peer groups, family etc treated me this way. But when I date average or slightly above average women they tell me I'm attractive and they genuinely want to be around me. The last girl I dated cried after one date with me when I said I didn't think it'd work between us. This has made me extremely confused
>>82460611i have a similar situation, i have always thought of myself as ugly, but i while back i did in fact have a girlfriend, and on i have gotten decent results of ai looksmaxxing apps.however i am often ignored in large groups which probably means i am ugly
>>82460470>do you look similar to or better than other people you see outsideIf not you're ugly.>do people like youIf not you're unlikeable.
>>82460646Call me face blind but I genuinely can't tell if a person is ugly or beautiful objectivelyI'm old enough to know there are weirdos out there who are into all kinds of folks
>>82460470>how do i know if im ugly and unlikeableIf you have to ask...
>>82460470if you're over 22 and alone then spoiler the problem is (You)
>>82460470Well being on /r9k/ is probably a bad sign.In all seriousness I don't know. Probably don't have many friends and your family keeps you at arms length. That's how I figured it out for myself.
