Im 26 and have been with my girlfriend for 4 years and I cant stop thinking about other girls and wanting to break up with her. There is nothing really wrong with her either. What the fuck is wrong with me?
>>82465312Nothing, this is how all men feel about their girlfriend/wife.
>>82465312thrill of conquest, probablydon't give in, do what it takes to see the girl you fell in love with back then again in heryou're going to end up in a world of pain if you let your lower head think for you
>>82465327My main fear is that I will never overcome this feeling and that I'll lose the few years left I have to play the field, so to speak. I dont want to be bitter and resent her forever. I just feel terrible about it all
>>82465312Why are men never satisfied? Ive noticed this thinking in men all around me. Male family and friends all think like this. Is it just their nature or something. Very Sad to watch
>>82465405I'D be satisfied but im just a high inhib schizoid so its over
you're doomed to be a manwhore, anon
>>82465372>I'll lose the few years left I have to play the fieldanon if you're worried about that then leave hersimply put, no one deserves to be stuck with a partner who wants to whore around, be it men or womenif you want to fuck around then break up with her, tell her with all the words that you're a manwhore and go fuck other girls' brains out as much as you want
The best thing to do is to stay with her and go out and try to get other girls. Once you realize how bad it actually is out there, you realize how good you actually have it. My gf and I had a big fight and stopped talking for a few months. I immediately took the chance to talk to other girls, went on some dating sites, went a few dates and realized IT FUCKING SUCKS. We eventually made up and I couldn't be happier
>>82465405We're pretty much biologically inclined to never be satisfied, as you might as well be dead if you don't have another hill to crest. What you should be doing is finding a proactive direction in which to point your dissatisfaction.
>>82465312Well if you can't get over it you should probably break up with her just to free her to find someone who will actually like her. Not sure what is wrong with you. Maybe you just got with her out of convenience in the first place and failed to build an actual lasting connection. Just a guess tho>>82465405I promise we are not all like this
>>82465449Frankly id be ok with this if I wasnt acutely aware of how aging closes the window shut on this. Beyond your early 30s at most it seems our sexual options largely evaporate
>>82465319Is monogamy a failed system
>>82466243Women are a biological failed system
>>82465532>stay with her and go out and try to get other girlsAre you trying to give awful advice
>>82465405For the same reason that you'll always want Chad.
ur gna regret it man, just had a friend in the same position and when he got back out there he said it was terrible. could hardly get matches on tinder and went on a couple dates and said it was awful and regretted leaving his gf but it was too late
>>82466708we wont always want chad because we dont pick men we are interested in and want to be with forever by looks, sure a guy can be hotter than our bf but he wouldnt be better, evrything about a man becomes hot once we love him, therefor, yearning for other men purely over chad looks isnt something we do. if anything for us we might hear for a better man, in terms of charcter or personality, not by looks, a better candidate would have to come in our lifes before we consider that, for men, you can look at other women and instantly start wanting a better looking gf, personality and the human does not matter to you guys. all really shallow.
