>28>recently divorced>live with my parents>try tinder>half of the girls my age have kids>other half want a "real" man>match with one girl who lives a few blocks from me>got her number>ghosted me after telling her i've been enjoying talking to her
>>82467788Have you tried hitting on any college girl's? Those are the one's that'll change your life.
>>82467788>28>recently divorcedWhat?I'm like 27 and I'm still having pb&j's for breakfast (plus a shot of vodka oj)
>>82467788>divorced back in april >wife trooned out last year>started taking testosterone and wearing binders>got more and more disgusted by it>tried to be supportive because I loved them>we'd still have sex but wouldn't let me touch her tits and would ask me to take pictures of her clit to see how big it got>got in a roid rage at my parents because my dad yells at the dogs>parents kick her out>she moves back to her parents>see her maybe once a week at most>realize how much happier I am without her in my life>try to stay friends at the very least>texts me she's moving to new york with her trans friends >she remembers I fucked her feet in her sleep like a week before leaving>I literally just jerked off on her soles because that's the kind of porn I like to watch>I wanted a video of me doing the same thing to my wife>we do a lot of kinky shit and I didn't think it would be a big deal>I show her the video the next day (this was back in like 2022)>nothing>she could have brought it up at couples counseling>tells me in a text about how disgusted she felt from it and that she didn't say anything because she felt trapped since she was a NEET living in my old bedroom>feel guilty as fuck about it>didn't even get to say goodbye to the girl i've spent the last 10 years of my life withWe went through so much together. Lots of ups and downs. We went through covid together, a miscarriage, family dying. In reality though I would more than likely just be doing my own thing in the same room. I was glued to my steam deck or tablet. But that's just how our relationship worked. I miss who they were quite a bit. They're not the same person now. Just a lot to take in. I miss talking to her about whatever vidya i'm playing or what manga i'm reading. She would listen. She supported me 100% before she trooned out. It's devastatingly depressing to me. I was close to her family and I can't say anything to them because of the whole foot thing.
>>82467876Got married at 22. Did it way too fast and when the world still looked hopeful. Covid changed all that. She quit her job at a grocery store and due to health reasons couldn't get a job. We relied on my parents for financial help. We then had a miscarriage and I was relieved. I worked at fucking mcdonalds to support ourselves. I didn't want a child at that time. >>82467902To continue>saw her baby brother grow up from a 4th grader to graduating high school>helped him build a computer>took him to movies>he was basically a little brother to me>all that gone
>>82467927Starting over, huh?Here's to your new life, anon
>>82467943I'm trying. I've been enjoying the single life. I have all my wallscrolls up and I have a 2b ass mousepad. I have a big supply of weed, ambien and 7ho next to my desk. Enough about that though. I basically work, go home, drink with my dad and then usually go to sleep for about 12 hours. Rinse and repeat until I have a day I don't work the next day. I'm a bank teller. It's a tedious job but pays well and I have a fuck ton of downtime. So I was just on Tinder all day on my phone. Not healthy I know, but it beats hanging out on here all day. I'll give Tinder a few more days before I just uninstall it. There were a few girls on there I think I would really connect with. The girl that ghosted me I see myself really getting along well with. I'll try texting her again tomorrow.
>>82467981How'd you bag your wife in the first place, man? Why don't you try doing that again?>inb4 high school sweetheartsOkay maybe not someone that young, but still, Tinder of all places?
>>82468037I knew her in high school. We really met at a birthday party of a mutual friend. We went and saw a movie (don't remember what) then we went back to my place to watch Coroline. Met her parents the same day. We would hang out a few times a week before we started dating. Sort of rushed into dating because it felt like the next logical step. She was nice and treated me well. We would stay up all night just talking. I remember her parents were gone for the weekend a few months after we started dating and that's the first time we had sex. The sex wasn't that great, I never came from sex, but that could probably be from being a coomer. But anyways it was nice being her first. We see each other every couple days for about a year before she popped the question. She proposed to me. We then move in together and while it wasn't perfect, it was nice at the time. Our wedding was the happiest day of my life. Everyone in my life was there. She looked beautiful in her dress. I'm heartbroken it had to turn to being transgender. NEETing in your husbands teenage bedroom has to do a multitude on your mental health. She would spend all day on discord and with our cat. Our cat unfortunately died last year and that's when things really started to go downhill.
One last thing before I go to bed. I'm genuinely terrified of getting officially divorced. I know she wants nothing to do with me now. But the fact that i'll have to communicate with her is just such a hard pill to swallow. Our relationship is forever tarnished from my little foot fetish thing. I probably wouldn't even recognize them now. I have no idea how they're doing, if they're in town or not or if they moved back to New York. It's upsetting.
F. I once had a foid actually have a convo with me on FB Dating. It actually flowed; wasn't like pulling teeth.She then suddenly blocked me when I said I liked how small she was (as I'm a manlet myself). FFS.
>>82467927You deserve your fate for finding peace at the death of your child, faggot. Hopefully you remain alone.
>>82467788>persuing women>ever
>>82468233I had a similar situation, anon. Girl I was with since highschool basically NEETed off of me for years. First everything basically and it's not like we didn't get along well. Anyway, the troon mind virus got her and she started hanging out with those ftm anarchist types and watching Hasan or Vaush or whatever and she just completely transformed as a person. I had to be okay with her wearing fucking fake mustache makeup and binders and getting a buzzcut when she was just a normal kind of autistic girl beforehand. It sucked because even though I fought her so much about it, after she destransitioned like 2 years later somehow it was my fault and I was the one pressuring her to go troon. Apparently I killed my dog and raped too according to all of her BS. All he friends called me a narcissist and that she was my supply and just a bunch of tiktok psychology shit.Anyway anon, about the whole feet thing. She completely blew that out of proportion as an excuse to make you the bad guy so she gets pity points from her friends and so she doesn't have to feel bad about any of her actions like leaving her partner of 10 years for nothing. Its some women justification shit so she doesn't feel bad. I can tell by the way you described it, she was using it as like some sort of guilt leash and transferring all her side of the responsibility of the partnership onto you. She probably didn't even really truly care. Even if you didn't do that, she would of found or made up some other bullshit to bully you with. Now I have a boyfriend and completely sworn off women and life is pretty good compared to those times. Its whatever man, use all those memories to choose your future partner better if you still want one. Also go radio silent with this bitch, if you don't it'll constantly haunt you and you won't be able to get past it. Good luck buddy
>>82467788I'm 28 and I tried to get married young in life. posts like this even if its a fake story make me glad I didn't succeed in marrying any of the men I pursued online. I did end up hooking up with men irl but this was in my mid twenties and later on, not in my youth
>>82467876I'm 30 and my mom still brings me breakfast in bed. The only adult thing about me is that I have a (pretty good) job, but otherwise, I love being a man-child. I also save a shit-ton of money living like this and I can afford most of what I want. I'm grateful that I was born to good parents, who spoiled me and also knew how to deal with the problems I had growing up (high IQ, alcoholism, slight schizoid/autistic behavior).I've also noticed I've aged very little so far. Others my age look like grown-ass men while I still get referred to as "the boy" by people who don't know me and a new coworker who's 28 thought I was 23. I think getting 8h of sleep, avoiding women and taking things easy has kept me young. Growing up really is a trap.
>>82467788>recently divorced>still wants to pursue women in 2025are you stupid?
>>82470332I get insanely jealous whenever i encounter posts like these. Only about the parents part. There is two giant gaping wounds in my soul where a mother and father should be and my life has been so much harder from being an orphan. I will literally never know what it's like to have a family tell you that they love you or for someone to be obligated to care about you because of blood ties. I grew up as a ward of the state from government facility to government facility and when I was legally an adult I basically got a " 2 weeks to get the fuck out of here". Fucking hell. I only know what envy feels like because of seeing people with parents. Atleast you're grateful, so many people take it for granted.
>>82470484Posts like these are why I sometimes tell people to adopt whenever they tell me they want kids at some point in the future. Why create an entirely new human when you can give an unwanted child some parental love? I don't want kids, but if I ever change my mind, I'm definitely going to adopt. I think rescuing a child from a life in an orphanage can create a bond just as strong as the one with a child of your own blood.I'm sorry your life had to be like that and yes, too many people take this for granted, probably because most people around them also have parents. But even having parents doesn't guarantee a good life, as some parents also kick their kids out at 18 as if the whole "having a child" thing is just an 18yr old job.
>>82467788>my ageFound your problem, always date younger women
