that's because you were supposed to lose it in your youth with someone fairly attractive. the ones that claim that losing their virginity was overrated was because the first pussy they've ever gotten was some insufferable ugly roast that had to settle. her body and vag wasn't tight or aesthetic so it was like fucking a musty hole.now imagine your first time being with another virgin in high school both peaking in attractiveness. it would be an experience you would never forget.
>>82467967yup, I remember being a teenager and being horny all the time, that's the only real thing when your hormones are at its peak.Now I am in my mid 30s and my libido is really low, and losing it to someone who was already used by plenty of dudes doesn't really sound appealing.If you weren't able to lose it when everyone was horny af, you truly are someone undesirable, even if you lose it later.
>>82468127which age group do you find most attractive because a woman your age would be at her lowest in terms of attractiveness
>>82467967I lost my virginity at 22 with a tiny, ugly SEA woman I met on Omegle. We were both virgins. I got a toothy blowjob, some mid anal that hurt her and I didn't go inside her pussy because we were both scared of pregnancy. She had an ugly face with a big nose and small tits. Ass was pretty good but nothing special and pussy felt pretty good to finger but nothing amazing. Have not had sex since and don't care for having it again. It's risky and too much of a hassle when I can just masturbate. Maybe I'd now have a different opinion if she would've been hot but I kinda doubt it. And the fear of being trapped with pregnancy has only gotten more intense for me since, so I'd avoid going inside a fertile pussy anyway. Most women want kids and marriage so it's pointless anyway. So yes, even sex with a 21yr old virgin is not worth it. It doesn't feel better than a good wank. The only thing that you can't do on your own is cuddling and that's unironically what I enjoyed most from all the experience. If you tend to get touch-starved, cuddling is definitely worth it.
>>82468653>tiny, ugly SEA womanthere's your problem
>>82468673But that's the problem for literally every non-Chad, or non-rich normie man. You can only get a 5/10 at best if you're not at least an 8/10 as a man. I regularly see men who mog me in every way looks-wise holding hands with very mid 5/10 women. Just yesterday I saw a guy who must've been 6'3'' with a pretty chiselled jaw holding hands with a woman that looked like a small fridge. Guy slightly taller than me, slightly musclier and with a better face and his gf looked slightly worse than my ex, because at least she was slim. I have never seen guys who look like me with beautiful women. They're either permavirgins or holding hands with fatties or nearly-anorexic 3/10s..
>>82468703yeah, its horrible isnt it?seeing ugly old roastie hags as your only optionwrinkles, tattos, loose nasty roastie, long history of fucking every chad, tyrone, drug dealer, criminal, badboy, musician, celebrity and normieshe is so old her cant concieve naturally and is a high risk of having a retard or autistshe has polycystic ovaries because of the amount of drugs, birth control pills, age, alcohol, smoking and dick she's been throughthese are the women available to losers. "im ready to settle down now! where are the good men?!"what a miserable life. id rather die alone. i just wish i could be strong enough to endure a lifetime of virginity. id muther rather take that than women my age, or a decade younger than me (women 25 and over)
>>82468703the only looksmatched couples i see are the ones under 20. you have to factor in the age difference being a factor, being a younger woman can bring her up a few points.
>>82468786Right now my only option consists of a tatted, very skinny, likely BPD, 6yr older than me coworker from another department. She seems to really light up when I'm around and stands too close to me and touches me for no good reason. Holds strong eye contact too and her coworkers have once joked about her needing a man when I was around and she blushed.I don't want her. Even when I get drunk, I don't want her. She is basically the same league as my ex. Same small tits, slightly worse ass, slightly better face. Still nothing to get excited about. I hate that she is the only kind of woman giving me attention while I'm told I should be some kind of Chad for being well-paid, 6'2'' and slim. Can't imagine how life must be for average height or short dudes who are otherwise the same as me and work bottom-wage jobs like she does.>i just wish i could be strong enough to endure a lifetime of virginity.Just keep telling yourself you are not missing out on anything. It works for me. My only options suck, so it's better to just not play the game at all. And life as a single dude is great in many aspects. Money, freedom and no drama.
>>82468858how do you cope with the fact that you'll never have the type of foids chad gets. i'm still struggling with this myself.
>>82468875>you'll never have the type of foids chad gets.Well, thing is, I'm currently moneymaxxing and probably going to retire early. I could just go to SEA in my 40s/50s and find a nice 20s/30s foid. I already know from my ex that they're crazy about my height so all I have to do is get rich and find one who isn't ugly. She told me she showed pictures of me to her coworkers and they were all envious of her for being with such a tall white dude.And that's why you see wrinkly, fat oldfags walking around with cute asians in those countries. I know it's all linked to money but I don't care.I could also just pay for an escort. That would be a huge STD risk but Chads pumping and dumping all sorts of Stacies also face that risk. But as I said, I just don't care for having sex again. The orgams I get from fapping to the kind of content I enjoy are just as good as the orgasms I got from my ex. And I don't get touch-starved because I'm introverted and actually enjoy solitude. I don't want to marry or have kids because that would just completely fuck up my "get rich" plan and I hate kids anyway.
>>82468127maybe it's a lifestyle problem, when you're a teenager you don't really realize it but you move more, have a faster metabolism and run more. you're forced to do PE too. i lost mine at 23 with a 21 year old girl that was also a late virgin. it was amazing but inexperience was an issue at first on both sides. my libido is always high but it drops on high stress periods (engineering student) or if i let myself go. however abstaining for a week and doing constant exercise brings it back and it's like a raging fire. i'm pretty much a 25 year old teenager sometimes and weightlifting makes it even higher to the point it's like male ovulation but it doesn't stop which doesn't help because i'm otherwise invisible to most women. so that horniness peaks at teenhood meme is just a meme. you have the same libido, you just control it less.
