>mfw my life has objectively been the same as it was 10 years ago>still broke, still no friends, still no gf>and yet subjectively, i'm not the same man I was 10 years agoIt's weird, like all I did was experience some stuff and made some memories, and I guess along the way it changed my mindsetIt really is all in your head
If you want big changes you gotta take big risks.
>>82467987you are just coping. you are even more miserable than back then and know it.
>>82468080More of a "small changes that accumulate over time" kinda guyMy mound's still small but it's growing>>82468084Ecclesiastes 1:18, anonI was set up for failure, anonI'll tell you my story if you'd like but the gist of it is that everything that has happened to me so far has been without my consent
>>82468132>More of a "small changes that accumulate over time" kinda guyI think it depends what you want it life. If you expect something average, stable job, gf and wife, then that mentality is fine.If you wanna make it big or above average, small steps don't really work, you have to go all in.
>>82468197>I think it depends what you want it life.I'm just here to have a good time, manMake some memories while I'm at itI'm decent at *making* friends/talking to girls, but I was never really able to make them stayCould be that I cared too much, or cared too little, but one by one everyone leaves my life in the end>If you wanna make it big or above averageWhat does it mean then, to make it big? To have more resources than the next guy? To have a bigger body?I eat well enough, I jog 5k almost every morning, I'm in school (again) at 27 and with this new diploma, I'm looking at six-figures in 5 yearsI've never understood folks who chase material wealth, and then complain that they're unhappyI've always been... content, to say the least
>>82467987in a billion years those memories will still be there. they are the only constant. not what you did or what you didn't do. but only your memories. so don't worry anon.
>>82468389I've decided to worry regardlessThat anon was right, big change = big riskTo get the things you want, you have to lose the things you haveBig changes...
