I finally got a gf. Been together 9 months now, in all aspects but a few things about physical appearance (hey, im not a great catch either so) she's the woman of my dreams. She's been my first and only for everything, while she's had one ex bf and a few other sexual partners. I can truly see a future with her.One small fucking problem. I have a small dick (4") and apparently small balls too. She made a comment on how small my balls are the second time we had sex. She's made a few comments since. I let them roll off me because I don't want to seem like a butthurt little bitch but that shit stings. I could live with that if that was the only thing, but it gets worse.I can't remember what prompted it, but she mentioned once that one of her sexual partners hit her cervix. She said the sex was bad because he didn't care to make her cum (I can from penetration but it takes a bit of finesse). That one hurt. Then, she once slipped up and called it small in a way that can be construed (but was definitely not intended) as calling it "a little guy" when i pulled it out. I fucking know, but ouch. Then one time we were cuddling and looking at her instagram feed. Usually its all cutesy shit but up came a post of some ripped black guy with a fat ass in some fuckass maid outfit or some shit, but he was wearing a g string or something similar that highlighted his frankly massive bulge. I commented on his dumptruck. She went "oh i was focused on his bulge." Fucking alright.Just today I was walking around on campus late at night while on a phone call with her and was like 90% sure i saw some guy jacking off through his window. I commented on it and she jokingly said "and you didn't stick around to see?""Nah I don't want to see that""Idk I'd want to see what he's watching. And see how big his dick is."It's genuinely getting to the point of suicide fuel. The sex is good despite my size but the thought that she thinks back to her other partners sometimes makes me want to rope.
>>82469004>the sex is goodlol maybe for you but not for her. shes going to cheat with bbc and you know it. its better to accept it
>>82469004I'm so tired of seeing you talk about your goddamn dick.
>>82469004Obviously some sph larp but i kinda wish it was true to dunk on you. My friend what the fuck are you doing lmao, youve lost all self respect the moment you let her insult your balls and thought not showing her consequences for insulting your manhood was the way to NOT act like a little bitch lmao.
>>82469004Well, here is your first big challenge in this relationship: communicate your feelings. These things clearly bother you and exacerbate your insecurity surrounding your size. You need to tell her that. And if she is actually worth a fuck, she will accept it and curb her language for you. If she doesnt, you need to be willing to let her go. I, myself, am about three and a half to four inches like you. Only one of the women I ever dated made a negative comment on it (called it a little fella) and I told her then and there not to do that. I didnt snap and attack her or throw a fit or anything, I just calmly said not to do that because I dont like it. She never did again. You can do the same and the biggest and hardest part of relationships is communicating effectively.
>>82469300shouldnt roasties know by default that making fun of their bfs penis size all the time is bad lol. imagine the reverse>oh sorry sweety i didnt know that calling your vagina loose and your tits small and pathetic wasnt nice
>>82469346You would think so, yes. But sometimes people arent aware just how insensitive or hurtful their comments can be so you just communicate it. Their response to it shows their true character and tells you whether or not they are worth keeping around.
>>82469300I've told her I'm insecure, I just dont think she realizes that any sort of ogling or thinking about dick size makes the insecurity flare up like mad, because to be fair, it is an overreaction and I'm typically a very chill person. As I said, she only slipped up once when calling it a little guy and never once again. I think she could tell it hurt me when she did. I just worry about coming across as a whiny bitch boy because we've made clear to each other that we're both adults and we can think people outside the relationship are hot, we just don't act on it. So policing that and going "no actually, you cant mention dicks that arent mine at all" feels a little like I'm going back on that agreement. Hell, we've both been like "damn did you see the ass on that girl?" and whatnot and she doesn't seem to get insecure about it at all.
>>82469532>She went "oh i was focused on his bulge.">idk I'd want to see what he's watching. And see how big his dick is."
>>82469555I've been up for 24 hours cause insomnia is a bitch and i'm not getting your point cause im fucking exhausted. in plain english please?
>>82469562>it is an overreaction>she only slipped up onceHas mocked your balls and penis, has oggled at some blacks dude bulge, talks about wanting to see another mans dick size.
>>82469581Call me a cuck ig but I've ogled other women's ass and tits in front of her and her response was basically "yeah i understand where youre coming from because I would too if I was a guy." Turning around and telling her to avert her eyes after that or whatever would make me feel like such an insecure hypocritical fuck. The comment about wanting to potentially peep on a dude jerking off to see if his dick is big or not is a real kicker for me though.
>>82469616ok but if you are so enlightened and open minded about your relationship then stop complaining and feeling bad about things you endorse and support.
>>82469697i wish i could, man. i really fucking do. the feeling would go away if i was even just average but i couldn't even get that.
>>82469721Youre not a cuck you are a proper retard
>I wish my body was different so that i wouldnt have to stand up to my girlfriend bullying me which im not gonna do because im chill
look anon, she needs bbc. you know it and she knows it. maybe give her a pass once a month or work out a dont ask dont tell deal. >inb4 not a cuckits not cucked. cucking is a sexual fetish, this is realism
