Can I be an incel if Im not a virgin? I feel like I probably could get a gf in all reality however I really hate dating as that and intimacy makes me anxious and scares the fuck out of me a lot of the time. I dont really hate women either as much as I hate the hookup culture, the fact that women (that Ive been around at least) seem to almost chase higher bodycounts and other shit that women often perpetuate.
