Anyone else think that self harm scars on a girl are actually really hot? Like yeah, it's pretty terrible that you're suffering so much to do that, but fuck they look pretty
>>82475674i think theyre pretty but im a woman who has them, really light ones since i havent cut in years tho. i have a few on my chest too and i think those are prettiest
this makes me feel better bout embut ive had guys stop talking to me because of them
>>82475674they're just marks and people who pretend to be attracted to them are adolescent-brainedgrow up.
>>82475746Because they certainly have no other meaning but mental instability. Them being attractive doesn't mean that it's ever a good sign to see them on a girl.
hot until they start talking about why they cut themselves and its always some dumbass bullshit everytime. "my parents hated me" i was cheated on" you dumb slut you were 13 your parents tried to save you from being cheated on
>>82475716Are you single tho >>82475746You single?
>>82475770The real reason is BPD which makes any dumbass bullshit that happens to her seem like it's the end of the world.
>>82475674I think they're hot in the sense that I want to abuse her and cut her more, but yeah generally it's not a good sign
>>82475674That doesnt look pretty at all. Especially because of the scabs. Cuts are gross lol. I dont think I could ever fetishize cutting scars. Not even because I care about a bitch, honestly they can slit their throats and I would feel happier. Its just bad looking and probably feels nasty to grab onto and like a piece of the skin falls off lol or you reopen the cut. Yeah thats not that cool, fucking ugly whores should have slit their pussies instead and sold their bean online in a jar. How much would a roast beef go for? Somebody would collect them, I have 15 pesos for a roast beef and and bean mega combo
>>82475674No. Self harm scars say something about someone's personality, and it is ugly.You can get the same effect as self-harm by dunking your head in a bucket of icewater. So why cut yourself? Because, ultimately, self-harm is about the attention. These are people who play the victim to manipulate others. If that were not the case, there would be other ways to cope with their issues and achieve their goals. And on men or women, this speaks to that very specific type of personality, the 'I shouldn't have to ask' one. The girl who will get mad you didn't do something she hasn't told you she wanted, because she thinks of herself as a perpetual victim and lacks the proactive drive to try to solve her own problems or act in order to get what she wants. Your time spent with these people will be spent putting out fires and regulating their emotions for them, then getting blamed for not making them happy despite the fact all your effort is going into trying to keep them happy.Never waste your time on a cutter. Even BPDemons are more redeemable and more easily managed.
>>82476313Oh damn, this bro has seen some shit
>>82476247technically i am but i have feelings for someone so uh, yeah
>>82476379You should lower your standards and date me rather than just wanting your stupid abusechad
>>82476401my standards are low cause i date short morbidly obese retards who cheat on me
>>82476441Lower your standards even more and date me, I'm only slightly overweight and I'd never cheat. Also stop being a bigot and using hateful terms like the r slur
>>82476441Are you morbidly obese yourself?
>>82476313that's not true and is reductive, isnt it? it sounds like you've encountered a specific part of the population that you engage with and are making sweeping, specific, generalizations based on thatmy mother self-harmed out of desperation, but she's only ever done it once because of specific circumstances and never talks about that night as a result. when i started doing the same thing, they're so easy to obscure that no one knew I was doing it back then and I know for sure there are a lot of people the same way. it's like taking throwing back a couple of aspirins. some people make posts weirdly bragging about not being able to function without it, but others just swallow it and move on with their daythe thing is, as with any group, some people do things for attention. whether it's cutting yourself or posting threads on here, there will always be people who want to be seen or heard. doesnt it seem ironic to call such people perpetual victims on r9k of all places?
>>82476313>Self harm scars say something about someone's personalityYeah it says they're an S-tier cutie pie. I would not even consider dating a woman unless she was scarred up
Is it cool if I ask about why?Not being a cunt, I actually wanna know what the psychology behind it isI get extremely mixed reactions to mineI hide them, and they're all in places obscured by summer clothes, but so when people go see them, we're already pretty close to each otherI guess location of the scar probably changes how people feel about them too
>>82476450im autistic ill say that word if i want to sorry>>82476461im only a little overweight, actively losing it tho
>>82475674Its because your monke brain is telling you she is a strong woman capable of killing an animal to protect your children. However, the monke brain does not realize how unfit a woman with self-scars is for the purposes of reproduction (she will kill your children the moment the baby screams on the first night arriving at your house).
>>82476549NTA but I like scars because they're aesthetically pleasing. I don't care where they are though I do have favorite locations. I think it's also something to do with my inability to externalize anything; people with scars have externalized their problems in a very literal way
>>82476640This is sort of changing topics, but do males like generally find scars to look nice?Like, non-self-harm even, just a scar that's on a lady
>>82476472>Anon plays the victim to manipulate just like I just said cutters do.I appreciate this illustration of my point.
>>82475674To girls with self-harm scars, would you find it weird if I were to ejaculate on them? What about kiss/lick/bite them?
>>82476705I mean it's odd but how am I gonna be mad if the guy is excepting them
>>82476693I can't speak for everyone, but I find any and all scars hot on ladies. Even burn scars as long as they aren't completely facially disfiguring. I suspect that there's a large contingent of guys who enjoy non self-harm scars though given the popularity of anime waifus with scars like that Balailikaika chick from Black Lagoon.
>>82476715I have been needing good news; thank you, anon
>>82476705i would find it uncomfortable and gross personally
>>82476728What kind of scars do you have and where are they anon?
>>82476313Thermonuclear truth bomb
>>82476693I can't speak for all males, but I find scars interesting and aesthetic, the whole "it tells a story" aspect. I find the natural, raw and real appealing, so a scar is a unique feature point on a woman's body that intrinsically draws interest and causes me to feel for her and ask questions.
>>82476753>samefagging because no one agreed with youlel
>>82476621>im autistic ill say that word if i want to sorryI guess you can reclaim it but its still a not nice wordEither way please lower your standards and date me
>>82476745I have average cut scars on my upper thighs and arms, four deep cut scars on one leg, and three cigarette burns on one arm (burns not self harm)I haven't done it since I was a teenager, it's been long enough that they're all white
>>82476791>and three cigarette burns on one arm (burns not self harm)How'd that happen?
>>82476770That also makes sense; you do see a lot more guys now that prefer women to not wear makeup and things like that, when I was a kid, that just wasn't a thing
>>82476776i dont think i can date someone whos gonna freak out when i say words like that because i say them frequently and when im upset i cant control my speech
>>82476772>everyone I don't like is a samefagtake your meds
>>82476791Those are all great scars. Good that you're not self harming anymore though. I used to know a girl who self harmed by putting cigarettes out on herself, I really liked the shape and the way she arranged them.
>>82476795I uhI was not liked by my school peers lol
>>82476809>anon went to a Korean manhwa high school
>>82476814Based if true. A Korean girl with self-harm scars who was also bullied and abused by peers? My interest is peaked, she's hitting all the buttons.
>>82476824Unfortunately her character almost always dies and then her brother gets revenge through martial arts and cellphone based magic powers
>>82475674let this love find me. a girl will forever love you if u compliment her scars
>>82476808Damn, thank you This sounds sort of weird, but ever since I got burned, I always kind of had respect for people who would do that on purpose lol>>82476814lmfaonahhh, the south is just wild like that, nothin to do, kids get rambunctious
>>82476848I compliment girls' scars all the time and they give a weird look and tell me to fuck off. I've been kicked out of so many Hot Topic stores you have no idea.
>>82476862Right? I fucking wish you could compliment a girl's scars without coming off like an unhinged weirdo.
>>82476806Just lower your standards and settle for me. Stop being so picky. Why can't you just take the options you have?
>>82476882are you gonna scream and cry when i say retard and faggot? then no cause itll never work
>>82476862maybe im just not talked to enough LOL
>>82476889nta but I'd call a faggot retarded with my scars showing kek
>>82476893Flaunt your scars more! Can't get compliments without showing 'em off, right?
>>82476855I would burn you, but only because I hate women and want to inflict pain on them. Does that make you respect me?
>>82476922It makes me wanna finger fuck and peg your asshole while you're confused and scared because at first you thought you were in control of the situation I'm not joking
>>82476933What if I overpower you and fingerfuck and peg YOUR asshole?
>>82476938I would love it if anyone could ever pull that off, but I have long since lost hopeyou're gonna have to go in the boi harem with the others
>>82476933I very much doubt you would be able to pull that off, you seem small and meek like most women. I mean, you already got bullied by some teenagers. But I appreciate the spunk, I guess, if you're good I might let you play with my asshole.
>>82476947I could definitely overpower you. My penis is small so I'd steal your strap-on and peg you relentlessly while pretending that I was hung like a real man.
>my small penis gives yet another female the dreaded ICK
>>82477038Asshole, you scared her off by stealing my convo. I was gonna jerk off to her scars.
>>82477050>An image depicting spider man pointing at spider man pointing at spider man. A truck is visible in the background.
>>82476961grown man should still be able to rape with a micro; grind that shit in there, champ>>82476954my spirit is unstoppable, my swag is invincible; I will be going up to the hilt
>>82477068>I will be going up to the hiltI'll hold my shit in for days so you're just getting sewaged on
>>82477068This is definitely a male, but I'm gonna go jerk off anyway to the thought of wrestling, pinning down and slowly burning the arms of my self-harmfu
>>82477081as if that would stop me>>82477082>malenahhh, I've just been online long enough to know what little fuckers like that actually want, and when I can tell they want it, I gotta go for it lol
>>82477125>as if that would stop meI was trying to make the other guy mad I'm actually the micropenis guy. I'd still poop on your plastic dick though. Want to know what half an inch of semi-hard dick in your ass feels like ;) ?
>>82477135ew, not if you're into it lol
>>82477158It's too small for me to get into it unless you have the flattest ass on earth
>>82477181I am anorexic and I can put my feet behind my head, we can make this work bb, you just gotta BEElieve
>>82477206Oh no, anorexic and covered in scars? You're my dream woman. Do you have bpd too? I will marry you right now and then rub my itty bitty peepee all over your butthole.
>>82477135>I was trying to make the other guy madI had already left to jerk off, I'm cured now, you can have her
>>82477229She's anorexic so at this point I would be willing to fight you to the death in ritualistic combat for access to her butthole and hand in marriage. Good choice to just move on, no need for things to get ugly.
>>82477219I've got bpd, BPD, manic-depression, ocd, prion disease, TLC, and TiVolet's make some of the most depressed children the earth has ever seen
>>82477238Can I eat some of your brain tissue so I can get prions too? Our kids would be super fucked up I've got all sorts of maladies and ailments and personality disorders. I only want your butthole tho so you gotta find someone else to impreggernate you
>>82477262I would let you eat my brains, but only if I get a baby out of it desu, sowwy :c
>>82477308If we do anal enough you might get preggers from it, no harm in trying!
>>82477326whoascience can go anything these days
>>82477465Anything except give me a bigger dick but don't worry I got big huge loads. I just worry that you'll absorb the loads and start gaining weight. Need you to stay an anorexic goddess instead of a cumbloated giantess.
>>82477485we'll see that's why you always have to finish in a vagina; you're right, you can't cum in someone's mouth, obviously, but you can't cum in someone's butt either because that's literally just boofing cum, gets absorbed
>>82477496But vaginas are scary and I don't understand them! Can I get most of the way in your butt and then just finish in your vagene? The less time I'm in there the better.
>>82477510HmmmmmmmmmmmYeah, okay
>>82477516Oh great I was really worried there for a second. I can brave horrors for an anorexic cutie but I'm still a coward at heart. Do you have a super scary vaginer or is it one of those sandwich looking ones that I can just pretend is weird food?
>>82477526>pretend is weird fooddude you have no idea how relieved I am you said that; it looks like cornbread
>>82477547m-maybe it won't be that scary to me then. I love cornbread. Oh I know! I could cum on it and it would be like butter! Buttered cornbread isn't scary at all, I could eat that all day.
>>82477562niceyeah you get it
>>82477640Happy to get it. Maybe one day I'll get my anorexic scarred up bpd waifu too.
>>82477657God bless, I hope so
>>82477674I think it's the other guy who handles the anorexic self harm bpd waifus but thanks you anon, good luck in your endeavors as well.
>>82477699ope, fuck; thank you anon; I wish you luck too
>>82475674no. i dont want my future wife to have them
>>82476313I agree but im not touching a bpdemon
>>82475674I have them but dont see the appeal it just looks like someone was drawing but with a razor