>>82485033
thats not even bare standards, most of my exes or guys i talked to were morbidly obese, under 5'5, and some were balding. and they didnt even really love me because my exes cheated on me. my requirements used to just be "keep me around and let me call you my boyfriend"

>>82485033
r/9k users can't even get those types of women meanwhile I'm fat blading incapable of love and I've had a steady gf for like 3 months now.
They're all going to say it's the women who are whores and who only want X but in reality it's just that most of the men here are emotionally stunted little boys with zero personality and suck to be around. It's ok for women to have some standards you fucking losers.

hi im femcels

its nice for the first few months and then they lose interest

i give up

>>82485056
>but in reality it's just that most of the men here are emotionally stunted little boys with zero personality and suck to be around. It's ok for women to have some standards you fucking losers.
That's not true, the women here are emotionaly sttunted little girls who just want some crazy fucking guy to abuse them
>>82485055
Uh huh, sure

>>82485071
I won't lose interest in you but I have to own you completely

>>82485072
i cant exactly prove it to you but ive talked about this in about a hundred different threads in the last month

>>82485104
cass, by any chance?

>>82485108
If you can't prove it to me, please leave
I'm actually a secret epic samurai, just can't exactly prove it :3

>>82485055
Are you the femcel I was talking to on here a few days ago? I'm incapable of loving someone if that rings a bell.

(months) packed into every byte

two of them were honest about it and were looking for emotional connection
the other ones were just attentionwhoring

>>82485033
>have hair
Time to kill myself

>>82485055
>morbidly obese, under 5'5, and some were balding.
where did you even find men that unfortunate

>>82485119
yeah im that one, i remember you. i think i stopped replying after a while and im sorry about that

>>82485118
do you want me to doxx them or something?

>>82485164
twitter and reddit mostly

>>82485191
>i think i stopped replying after a while
It's fine, no need to apologize. Do you still think you won't find love? Your post here makes it sound like your requirements have changed, are you more optimistic now?

>>82485191
>do you want me to doxx them or something?
Of course not, just show messages of you confronting them cheating, otherwise you're lying

>>82485191
>i think i stopped replying after a while and im sorry about that
>me femcel btw
Please leave my thread

>>82485191
>twitter and reddit mostly
lmao
fuck you

>>82485191
>twitter and reddit mostly
what communities and subreddits?

>>82485245
idk, my optimism varies cause sometimes ill feel really good and hopeful and then it comes crashing down. i want to have something better than those but i sometimes feel like itd be impossible. its confusing

>>82485251
one of my relationships was from when i was 14 (6 years ago) and i didnt keep the discord messages because he deleted his account and i didnt care to look at them

one was from 16 and we talked on whatsapp cause he was a thirdie and i dont even have that number anymore

i also talked to my third partner on whatsapp but im not scrolling 1.5 years of texts to get to the part where he cheated on me, unnecessary heartache for a 4chan thread

>>82485314
shtwt mostly for twitter and i mainly used r/teenagers for reddit

>>82485359
So they were all e-relationships?

>>82485359
>its confusing
There's no reason not to pursue something better. The guys you've been with were not great and made you feel bad, repeating that again and again isn't going to yield better results. Were they even good relationships prior to the infidelity? It seems like maybe you've just been in a string of bad relationships and have internalized all of that into some kind of idea of you being undeserving of anything better. I imagine shtwt isn't really crawling with good dudes looking for healthy relationships anyway lel.

>>82485359
>shtwt mostly for twitter and i mainly used r/teenagers for reddit
oh but when i do it i'm a groomer

>>82485033
All femcels are always looking for a provider sadly, never wanting to settle for me or picking abuse-chads who are just toxic failed normies

>>82485359
i don't feel bad for you you ghosted someone who was talking to you

>>82485416
If you're talking about me, she didn't ghost me. We were talking in a thread here, there's no obligation to keep responding.

why do you people keep making up the most random topics to discuss 'femcels'? its so weird and cringe, just fucking go to /soc/

>>82485381
yep. i hate irl dating

>>82485394
they werent, and they would put me down a lot. definitely internalised a lot of the things they said. i want to try for better next time but at the same time i dont want to make that potential partner deal with my bad feelings

shtwt is definitely not a good place to find love, most are cut fetishisers too which is gross

>>82485439
You're a simp, this why you not getting women
>>82485450
Anon wants (you's) and the current meta is femcel posting I'm sorry

>>82485465
>they werent, and they would put me down a lot
You should try for better. Everyone has bad feelings. It's normal in a relationship to lean on each other from time to time. You're not really making your partner do anything, they like you and caring for you is just an expression of their affection for you. You'd do the same for them anyway, right? I don't even really get warm feelings for people and I've never minded talking people through things or trying to make them feel better. It's just part of normal human behavior or whatever. Thinking of yourself as a burden isn't productive.

>>82485486
>You're a simp, this why you not getting women
I've been in a surprising number of relationships and I'm voluntarily not doing it anymore because I'm incapable of love. I just mimic the actions and say the things I'm meant to say and it's revolting. I'm not enough of a psychopath to ignore the pain that causes, fortunately or unfortunately depending on your viewpoint.

>>82485055
>>82485071
date me u fake femcels

>>82485497
i would do the same for them, but the idea of opening up to someone and expressing my bad feelings scares the fuck outta me. i worry itll scare someone off even if they have bad feelings too. idk

youre a good person btw, i really hope you can find someone like you or someone who really understands your inability to feel love so you can still get the affection and companionship you want

>>82485597
It's hard to open up, I have a lot of issues with it as well. I don't think it's a very rational fear though, people will tolerate a lot of scary things if they care about the other person.
Thank you, I hope you can find someone that treats you well too. You seem like a perfectly decent person and there's no reason you won't find someone nice.
I have to go, but I suppose we'll probably run into each other again. Take care anon, nice talking to you.

>>82485033
I stopped trying to meet femcels. Utterly nothing going on with them. Not ability to think no hobbies nothing. But they come with drama emotional baggage a d yeah nooo.

I lucked out met a woman outside of here. Things are 300 times better. I'm actually upset with myself I wasted so much time trying to meet women I thought would understand me understand the things we do internet culture what not. But turns out femcels are just worse than men. Can't even be friends with them they just have nothing worth dealing the drama they bring in.