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>can't lead conversations
>can never think of a good response to a comment someone made to keep a convo running
>can't determine when it's my turn to speak in groups
>don't get invited out by friends
is conversation a learnable skill? i don't think it is. i've tried and tried but i almost never care about what other people are saying and even when i try to force myself to the above happens. not to mention whenever i talk to people for more than 30 minutes i burn out and disassociate. is there any hope?
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>>82486125
>is conversation a learnable skill?
kind of. you can improve your vocabulary and get better at articulating your thoughts but being able to easily come up with responses is just a normalfag thing. they have lived normal lives with normal experiences so they can always relate to other normalfags and easily chime in
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>>82486125
Yeah men only want to talk to cute girls. But, theres not nearly enough for ever man to have one. So they tried to brainwash us into believing we were weird for not enjoying male company, they actually invented the word friend out of thin air basically. Thats not a real thing. There are no friends dude, thats just a result of extreme poverty. You dont have to talk to men, in fact you look gay as fuck for talking to another guy. If I see you talking to a guy and its not like strictly business im probably gonna assume youre an incel who has been brainwashed.
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>>82486183
>Yeah men only want to talk to cute girls
i would like to be interesting to my friends. not reading the rest
>>82486152
>they have lived normal lives with normal experiences so they can always relate to other normalfags and easily chime in
i thought as much, i just hoped that i wasn't years behind and that there was a chance of being conversational in a reasonable amount of time
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>>82486248
Lol dude the world is not like this weird male friendship simulator. You look so fucking retarded talking about friends. Like half the people outside are missing limbs dude you look like a wannabe Disney character.
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>>82486125
I think just trying to talk to people is the wrong approach. Bear with me here because the advice im gonna give our is purely hypothetical and im too lazy to apply this but ive thought about just watching movies or something and then writing my thoughts on the movie, rehearsing talking about the movie in a way thats engaging and not "yeah it was cool i liked it" and then trying it out on people. Or not a movie, a game. Or whatever.
I say this because when I observe people who are good at talking, they can often just talk by themselves with very little outsider input.
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>>82486332
>I say this because when I observe people who are good at talking, they can often just talk by themselves with very little outsider input.
this is a really good point. my friend does this a lot and other people will just add comments



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