Dude, it could be a million reasons why, especially things we could not know over 4chan. Even if I take whatever excuses to come up with at face value, there is too many unknowns for anyone to give you the perfect advice. Ultimately, you gotta learn to love yourself before trying to love anyone else. People will smell your desperation for company and desire for approval miles away. So try to work on that there.

>>82519665
>Ultimately, you gotta learn to love yourself before trying to love anyone else
Not Op but please can all normalniggers who say this just be fucking put into isolation for one year with a rope so they kys after having nobody who cares about them. YOU CAN'T love yourself until someone else loves you that is psychological impossible.

Sounds like it's time for you to attain an imaginary girlfriend. She's the only woman you could have mutual love with, let alone eternal mutual love.

>>82519691
This. Furthermore, most normalfags in relationships are just as broken and insecure lol, if they followed their own advice nobody would be in relationships.

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>>82519665
Youve tricked yourself into thinking this way

>>82519833
Maybe I don't have a sense of perspective but sometimes I see someone all "I'm sad and lonely and I failed at life" and then you find out they've been in a relationship for a good amount of time. Like, huh, sounds like you got everything going for you.

>>82519665
>Im tired of being an unlovable incel
Then stop identifying as an incel and change your behaviors.

>>82519676
Not OP, but I really don't get what "love yourself" and "work on yourself" even mean.

>>82519977
Loving yourself, simply put, just means that you don't need another person for you to feel good about yourself.
The reason people who don't love themselves constantly need relationships is because the other person becomes their validation. The other person makes them feel good about themselves. Which inevitably causes the relationship to collapse. Because it is by its very nature, unsustainable.

Working on yourself is simply just improving your mentality. One of the results of improving your mentality is increased physical health. But, if you don't work on your mentality, and jump to something like working out, you'll fall back into old patterns eventually and say something like "working out doesn't work for me".

Both of these things hinge on challenging your beliefs about yourself and actually doing deep introspection.

self improvement is a larp dont listen to these normalfaggots

>>82519665
Same, anon. I can't even get a GILF to pound on a regular basis.