anyone here ever deal with an obsessive online estalker? i'm sure he'll dox me eventually. guy doesnt hate me but will probably fuck with my life if i keep ghosting them.
>>82580556Sorry I'll stop I just wanted to talk to you
>>82580556yes i deal with the same bullshit I will end my life if he ever doxxes me, and drag his ass to hell someday.
>>82580556>obsessive online estalkeri wish but I'm ugly dude so no woman cares about me
>>82580556yeah. it sucks. makes me scared to be known at all.
>>82580589I'm a dude who was estalked by another dude once. He kept finding my accounts and messaging me positive things, it was kind of cute but neither of us were gay.
>>82580556I have been accused of being a cyberstalker many times, most recent case is because I had mutual friends on discord with the dude and because I joined local discord servers (we live in the same general location)the other dude lived a ocean away and allegedly wanted a restraining order against me even tho he was making people pick sides and dragging out the drama by MONTHS, not days or hours, but he kept recruiting people into his hate gc he made about me and accused me of being the stalker even tho he was the one who kept getting involved in my life. Tldr; I don't believe you're actually being stalked, you probably started mutual discord beef and talked to person obsessing over you's friends and now you think you're being stalked because their friends tell them what you're doing
>>82580556Where to find an obsessive online egf? She can stalk me too but I want something more personal than just a stalker you know?
I know a dude that adds me every 5 months to ask news about this girl I stalked for 150+ days, we both stalked her I guess. I kinda moved on from her though
>>82580598>>82580574do you guys just ignore it? im tense as fuck. i didn't care for the longest time but the reality of it has all come to me. the thought that he'll share photos of my family with his freak friends infuriates me. i'm not a girl btw this is some aggressive bpd lite guy who's convinced we're best friends and says he wishes he was me.
>>82580624nah this person obsesses over every detail of my life and talks about me in servers literally every day. he doesn't actually hate me, he's like an extremely aggressive bpd orbitter who wants to message me every day.
>>82580642as a girl who was already relatively cautious, i was lucky i never gave away any details that could track me down, only personal things on an emotional level. so he'd just obsessively find anywhere i would post and casually mention the name of my childhood stuffed animal or something my mom did to scare me. i eventually just quit the site entirely for six months. when i went back i never saw him again but i still try not to mention anything that would remind people of how i used to post just in case. he gifted me semipermanent paranoia.really sorry that you're dealing with this anon, but i think all you can do is ignore him or try to track him down and take legal action if possible. short of that, there's nothing productive to be done. which i know makes you feel helpless, but try to be brave. he can only bother you as much as you let him. it might help if you try to pity him, so his taunts don't make you annoyed as much?
i think im becoming an estalker what do i do
>>82580685thanks for the advice. i'm sure i will be doxxed eventually, i know it's possible. i don't care what he says about me but i think he'll try to fuck with my life which is the issue. all i can think about is privating everything including my family's social medias and changing my name.
>>82580812well, i would try to figure out how he would dox you. try to dox yourself first; find the leaks, then plug them. maybe you need to leak fake info to him to throw him off the trail, delete your socials, or what have you, but at least give it a shot.
The worst is what happened to us with the asshat larping and manipulating your emotions through post here. I am to hear you remember me and know me for me and can ignore all of the horrible things that that person did. It's just like this thread, he tries to say that because I am there for you and stayed for you because I love you that suddenly I am unhealthy. He is just projecting and attempting to twist things to hurt us. I'm so proud of you for ignoring him and his bullshit
>>82580556>obsessive online estalkei wish, people keep saying i wouldnt but i really do want one that is atleast a girl too....
>>82580556Nah, my opsec is just too good. I'm like an internet panther. Lurking in the shadows, ready to pounce.
>>82580792Just imagine the NSA and friends are logging and analyzing all your online activity and act accordingly. People had God back in the olden days to keep them in line and now we have complete surveillance to put the fear of God back into the minds of people to help them to not mess up their life by doing something stupid. You don't want to go to court and get all your weird stalkery behavior exposed so don't do it. Just imagine getting stalked by a built gay dude and you know how unsettling it is for the recipients.
>>82580865Mike, you need to get a life, man. Seriously.
>>82581118I have a life, it's the people who intrude on it and attempt to harm it is the issue. But don't worry, I'm almost through this bullshit and home again
>>82580556They won't. You won't like the answer to this, but those types even don't do that unless you are doing something really cruel or harmful towards them. In that case the answer is to be a decent person and ignore their presence until they attach to someone else.
I think I figured out who was trying to cryptopost about me on here and was worrying me so much after talking to another femanon on discord and needless to say I'm very disappointed
