I just had a very nervous obviously gay man trying to start a conversation with me and good lord I suddenly understand all the complaints women make about shy guys being creepy I need to change things up immediately because man I really don't want to be seen by women in the same way that I saw that guy
>>82599757What was the interaction like anon. I want the deetz.
>>82599757Except women hate shy guys from simply existing, not for the shy guy talking to them.
>>82599815Yeah but imagine the ick they get if they do. A shy guy, a less than human waste of air that chad could be breathing is talking to YOU.
>>82599757I'm a nervous gay man and I did this to someone a few days ago. How disgusted were you anon?
>>82599757How do men feel about anxious women? I always try to flee conversations, im getting better but I still turn embarrassingly red. Is that creepy
>>82599864Men are okay with anxious women provided they are cute like their heckin anxious anime waifus. They hate you if you're indian or fat though.
hahaha that's hilarious
>>82599864I've always found them cute, There was a cashier at a nearby store that hardly said a word and wouldn't make eye contact and I crushed hard on her.>>82599880>They hate you if you're indian or fat thoughNot true. I'm just shy myself so no one is going to be forward enough to get the ball rolling.
All men need to experience gay men hitting on them to understand what women go through every fucking day.I remember there was this one gay guy clearly trying to work up the courage to ask me out or something and it was just weird and made me not want to go to that store anymore. Some were more direct which is better because you get the rejection out of the way fast, and its even somewhat flattering, but the ones taking their time made me realize that's what women deal with when guys are plotting on them slowly.
>>82599994i don't get ityou simply ignore the behavior and if he continues tell the guy you're not interested with the driest most asperger stare possible
>>82599994>i get soooooooooo many people hitting on me all the timeFuck off Chad
I was waiting in line to use the diving board at a public pool with my sister and this guy with painted nails started awkwardly trying to join in on the conversation with me and my sis. It was really annoying if I'm being honest but I tried to be polite, I can understand where women are coming from sometimes, like dude take the fucking hint lmfao.
I've been groped a handful of times and a guy stuck his finger in my ass when I was a kid so I've always been extremely sensitive to the anxiety men can caused. Especially when they're larger and stronger than you are. Men are scary if they're stronger than you, and all men are stronger than you if you're a woman. I'm a smaller guy so I've always had to deal with horseplay and getting shoved around. A large man without self awareness is like dealing with an untrained dog. I'm convinced it's one of the reasons for tall man bias, too. A lot of them learn how much bigger and stronger they are than their friends early on. This makes them more aware of how they make people feel. A lot of tall dads are very relaxed and gentle too, which will obviously influence them.If it were possible, every man should have to spend a day with a man that's a little too much to handle. Too much unsolicited contact, too much horseplay, too much aggression, too much pressure. Most men don't know what it feels like to have a man ignore you when you say no and they're bigger and stronger than you so what can you even do about it?
>>82599994deviant faggotry that is entirely opposed to our sexual being is not equivalent to women being hit on by a short guy, but women think it's equivalent, and that's telling.
>>82599864You should carry a gun so you don't have anything to worry about.
>>82600153>but women think it's equivalent, and that's telling.That's my point. I even remember when I was in a group and a guy told a story about how a gay guy hitting on him made him uncomfortable, then the women chimed in and said that's basically the female experience with men. But also keep in mind that most men are bigger and stronger than them, so its like you being hit on by a big bear gay nigga that could curl you like a dumbbell.
>>82600475It's not equivalent. Women want big bear men to rape them and they have rape fantasies.
>>82600141You can still fight back. You only submit out of fear, because you're afraid of the pain that results when you smash your untrained knuckles into someone's jaw.
>>82599757It's the neediness that makes a guy creepy. The desperation for intimacy. Not mere shyness. Shy people don't hit on random strangers BTW.
>>82599864It's very cute and activates our latent male rape instincts
>>82599757You find it creepy because you're not attracted to them. As the replies to >>82599864 point out, if it were a cute woman doing it you would have loved it and found it endearing and lovable. It's the same for women getting hit on. Ugly dude does it: creepy. Chad does it: exciting and makes me wet.
>>82600956It's weird that op doesn't have enough self awareness to realize this
Idk, maybe its because the guy that hit on me was obviously a bottom. But i didn't really minded it. I just told him "I dont swing that way" and he just said "Ah, sorry for bothering you then haha"
>>82599757Looking like a twink I have gay guys hitting on me often.. The good thing is you can get free drinks out of them at the gay club and then disappear when they go to the toilet. They only girls interested in you are the mentally ill, jpop or kpop fans. So essentially you are fucked being a twink straight guy
>>82603464>The good thing is you can get free drinks out of them at the gay club and then disappearMaybe you deserve to be alone, nonny.
>>82603464>you can get free drinks out of them at the gay club What were you doing at the gay bar on the first place?>So essentially you are fucked being a twink straight guyHit the gym and became a twunk
>>82599815No, I'm sorry. They don't hate shy guys. You're probably just an impolite incel creep
>>82599757well anon tell us in detailwhat did he do that made you feel that way?
>women view the average average man the same way we do faggotsWas that supposed to make them sound more sympathetic?
>>82599757this is the exact reason i don't ever want to talk to a woman ever. i'll get confidence for a second and then i'll remember "oh yeah, i'm sub 5 and have poor social skills." and i'll call it right there. I hate women so fucking much bros, but really it's not their fault. I'm mad I can't ask them out, but I can't ask them out because of so many men before me who poisoned the well, and made men seem scary. I hate men so fucking much. and women too. It's over.
