lets say there was a poster on r9k, how do you get them to like you?what secret rizz strats are optimal to getting a user to want to interact with you?hrrmmm.....my current strat is be nice and friendly and express enjoying their company. its not exactly working. hrrmm....
>>82623646>my current strat is be nice and friendly and express enjoying their company.Either turn it up or off completely.
>>82623651i want them to LIKE talking to me, not bait them with ragebait. i dont want to be associated with something they hate or angry....>just bee yourselffairly milquetoast resultsNOT optimal, but im not exactly good at this whole rizz social trash
>>82623646It helps to not be disgusting
>>82623646you don't. either they like talking to you or not. trying to get someone to like you rarely works, and even if it does you'll feel like a fake and won't be able to enjoy it
>>82623795>just be pleasant, delightful, charming, lovely and attractivehrrmmm....well you see... if i was like this, then i wouldnt really be on r9k. i would have a harem of horny legal teenage girls to love on. or atleast a girlfriend or something!asking a robot to be lovely is like asking a piece of shit not to stink. i dont think it works like that
>>82623646Are you expressing it to them or anonymously in a way that can't be traced back to you or recognized by them? Are they even aware you exist?
>>82623935>Are they even aware you exist?i dont think so. i may not have thought this through very thoroughlyyou make a very compelling point, and i dont know how to react besides acknowledge that it is a problem
>>82623970Many anonymous posters are anonymous because they fear emotional vulnerability. Revealing your desire for someone gives them at least a small degree of power over you, at least the power to definitively reject you. It's an understandable fear, but fear without courage precludes glory. Any gain requires risk. Consider stepping out of your comfort zone.
>>82624017ok. ill consider it while i go make some grilled cheese. how do i step out of my comfort zone?i just want to be their friend and i may or may not admire them
>>82623646Who is it?? Why do you like them?? Is it a namefag?? lol
>>82624059>how do i step out of my comfort zone?Post things that would allow them to recognize that you're talking about them specifically. Post things that would allow them to identify you. Best of all would be contacting them directly (which may not be possible) and telling them these things instead of posting them anonymously in a way that's indistinguishable from narcissist bait.
>>82624118hmmm ok i think ill just uhhhh avatarfag i suppose, and slowly build up my rapport and "rizz" stat with them on threadshrrmmm yeah that sounds great. itll be like a one of those dating sim games. i never played any but i sure heard a lot of them. they dont really make them in my flavor where you violently beat girls and do cool evil stuff with them, so i never really liked themyeah thatll work out great hehe
