>the type of advice reddit gives to incels
>>82624721the bluepill advice is unironically just as helpful as the retarded redpill "PUA" shit. at the end of the day, the only thing you have control over is your confidence, so ultimately that is all that matters. If you're not a chad, too bad, but you can control your confidence around people and that will attract them.
>>82624721Guys who pull regularly don't understand that when she starts talking about all the guys she hooks up with, she thinks you're gay. When she feels comfortable with girl talk around you, you're either marked as the gay friend or the emotional punching bag beta she keeps around for fun.>>82624777>the bluepill advice is unironically just as helpful as the retarded redpill "PUA" shit.>If you're not a chad, too badIt all just gives more credibility to the black pill. There's no point in trying unless you're willing to degrade yourself, at that point just stay home and play video games.
>>82624819basically this or she is setting out intentionally to break your spirit. She knows nothing hurts worse when you have feelings for a girl is to see her with other men, or worse have her talk about what she did with other men with you. That is just plain twisting the knife behavior.
>>82624819>It all just gives more credibility to the black pillNo you fucking retard. Go outside and look at couples and you find fat, average looking guys with girlfriends all over the place. CONFIDENCE, not just around women but in life.
>>82624835I never see unattractive young men with girlfriends irl
>>82624721Yeah when a girl tells you all about the dick she is getting some where else that's when you know she wants you
>>82624844Yeah there's plenty of OLDER ugly men with decent women. But young women do not want or date ugly younger men.
>>82624844Well I do. I'm not talking about 4/10 unhygenic retards that look retarded. But I see average guys that are fat, even obese with girlfriends that are normal sized and look attractive. I live in a small town though so maybe that plays a role in that.But sincerely, please if you are sincere about wanting a girlfriend, wanting advice then know that confidence and social skills will get you one, those two are more important than anything. If you have that AND a lucrative career then obviously it's easy mode, you can look like Stavros Halkias and get pussy. But even if you're not rich you just need to be pleasant to be around.And if you sincerely are autistic and incapable of this, and I do mean incapable I don't mean the blackpill cope of "I'm going to tell myself its over because its comforting" I mean if you genuinely struggle because of some kind of disorder then there are also autistic women out there, not the larping kind but actual autists. godspeed and remember the only reason you ever embrace the blackpill is out of comfort, because its so much easier to give up than believe anything will ever get better, it's a weak mentality.
>>82624882young women want to date young men, generally. it's just that young men are awkward/creepy/broke/incels. if you're not any of those things women your age would rather date you than someone older.
>>82624721incels are either autistic or retarded pieces of shit.
>>82624888>But I see average guys that are fatI see guys with girlfriends taller than them, but never fat or otherwise below average young men
>>82624888>someone finding a golden solution for getting pussy on no pussy boardsome things just don't change
>>82624893Funny how you just had to throw awkward/creepy/incels in there. Most young men are none of those things but almost all young men are broke
>>82624922It's not so much a solution as it is a truth and the only thing you have actual control over. You don't need to go into specifics beyond that, the PUA grift is a waste of time that will only turn you into more of a robot than you already are, women will pick up on you autistically deconstructing their behavior. That doesn't make it easy, it just means that if you are serious about getting a gf then the only thing worth working on is your self confidence, obviously make sure you're not a disgusting tard walking around with shit and semen on your clothes.
>>82624777Rp pua got me laid.Bp bs got me ignored.Slot that into your world view
>>82624982well I stand corrected then. But I figure whatever RP PUA shit you were doing, it was about exuding confidence around whatever woman you got laid with. I sincerely do not believe that specifics matter, the deconstruction and all that shit is just a waste of time. You just need to be pleasant to be around, but not a doormat because that way you become their "buddy"
>>82624721What a strange question, if a girl started telling me about her 'hook-ups' I'd think "oh okay, she's a whore, don't want anything to do with that," I wouldn't be upset about being friend zoned. Maybe reddit really is 80% bots wtf.
>>82624966>it's the truthnigga, it's your shitty theory on how dating works, just like hundreds of others that were posted on this boardno reason to trust you
>>82625042you'd lose the opportunity of getting to know her better and finding the beautiful gem in her difficult past? are you gay?
>>82624893Women should settle for awkward/creepy/broke/incels. It's dumb that females only want chads. They deserve so much less than what they want
>>82625042reddit is 80% bots and then 20% of people that look like this
>>82624882>Yeah there's plenty of OLDER ugly men with decent women.They married before Tinder Apocalypse.>But I see average guys that are fat, even obese with girlfriends that are normal sized and look attractiveYeah already existing couples can have their husband going fat, alcoholic. But not new people. You dont know how did he looked when they met (well for one thing he 100% was tall )Also when guy goes fat it just mean he is unhappy.
>>82625131>Manly chest hair>Bear mode>Nordic hairdo>Fully Non-patchy beard>High quality looking glassesI don't know who the person in the background is, but he could pull some women alright.
>>82624888>And if you sincerely are autistic and incapable of this, and I do mean incapable I don't mean the blackpill cope of "I'm going to tell myself its over because its comforting" I mean if you genuinely struggle because of some kind of disorder then there are also autistic women out there, not the larping kind but actual autists.You headcanon was ok during boomer times but like their "firm hanshake" is a history now.Inceldom is now mainstream and a new normal your gaslighting blame on incels doesn't reflect reality in the year 2025.
>>82625131Is she his mom?
>>82625360It's absolutely true that it is mainstream and a real problem. It's still true that confidence is the only tool you have out of it. I'm not here to tell you that dating apps are the answer, they're not. Avoid it, it's just a waste of time.
>>82624777WRONG.>In psychology, self-efficacy is an individual's belief in their capacity to act in the ways necessary to reach specific goals.>A person with high self-efficacy views challenges as things that are supposed to be mastered rather than threats to avoid.>In contrast, people with a low sense of self-efficacy view difficult tasks as personal threats and are more likely to avoid these tasks as these individuals lack the confidence in their own skills and abilities.>In a Norwegian twin study, the HERITABILITY of self-efficacy in adolescents was estimated at 75 percent. The remaining variance, 25 percent, was due to environmental influences not shared between family members.
>>82625014>Stands corrected>doubles down on bsFucking reddit tier midwit normfilth
>>82625340you've listed things redditors think are manly
>>82625340That's a woman he had sex with.
>>82625429>imblying everyone can solve challenges>just grow inches here and there brah
>>82625420>It's still true that confidence is the only tool you have out of it.Looks and/or money is out of it.Confidence is like driving skill, its necessary to drive a car, but its useless if you dont have car in teh first place.
>>82625495Looks are out of the question because you can't control how you look. You can however work on other things. Again, I beg you to go on walks and look at real life couples and I promise you not all women are walking around with 10/10 chads. But if you want to lay down and give up then you're free to do so.
>>82625530>Again, I beg you to go on walks and look at real life couples and I promise you not all women are walking around with 10/10 chads. Ive seen plenty to understand i cant compete with them.>But if you want to lay down and give up then you're free to do so.I just hired escort and instantly got laid.
>>82624721>brings up casual hooks up in a convo with her friendsis this an american thing? why would a normal functioning adult bring this up?
>>82625573>letting a cum dumpster pleasure youeww
>>82625530Looksmaxing is real and got me laid.Why are you here trying to educate people in your horseshit world view when you're just observably wrong about everything you believe?
>>82625614All modern women are cum dumpsters.There is reason why do they buy so much bc pills.
>>82625631>#yesallwomeninsecurity projection
>>82625624ill leave, peace and all the best
>>82625651Rare moment of clarity for retarded redditor
>>82625624What did you do to looksmaxx?
>>82625441What's your point? Do normies abhor full beards? Are glasses sacriligious to wear? Do women in general dislike hairy chests in men? I'm not saying he's the most attractive man in the universe, but these 'reddit standards' will still have their appeal outside of it.>>82625444She made a good pull
>>82625440>normfilth>not a virgin>listens to PUA adviceyou're the biggest normalfag here bro
>>82624721chubbytuba gives off bad vibes. why does he like to find out so much about his female friends? i think it's to blackmail them into having sex with him. he's definitely an abuser.
>>82624835>Go outside and look at couples and you find fat, average looking guys with girlfriends all over the place.So what? All that means is those guys aren't as much of an evolutionary dead end as I am.
>>82625979Work out and switch wardrobe.Also treat women like absolute shit.Now drowning in pussy
>>82624835>CONFIDENCE, not just around women but in life.Acting confident gets your ass beat
>>82625014You need to be a doormat in order to be considered pleasant if you're ugly and not intimidating
>>82626432this, dark triad only works if you're attractive. if you're ugly women will just think you're a bitter, unpleasant, school shooter weirdo
>>82626447no reason to ever be nice then
>>82625530I dont see guys that look like me with girls
>>82624721yeah redditors are retards who live in a fantasy worldignore them
>>82626613I just despise the way they're so insistent and act as if they were so morally superior when they are anything but.They're SO fucking retarded and evil. I wish they'd all just burn to death honestly
>>82624721You need to make romantic/sexual interest clear from the outset. If she doesn't reciprocate move on. There is no reason to talk to a girl otherwise
>>82625042Faggot. He's complaining that she's a whore and he bailed on her as a result. He wasn't mad about being friendzoned but that she was bragging about being fuckmeat.
