Women aren't capable of truly loving a man if he is subchad; the minute they face problems, they won't stay to work through them with the guy because they can always fuck off with their friends and get a new guy (unless he is a top guy, she'll be reluctant). Why do you think women initiate divorce more often than men? They have options, even after hitting the "wall".I think a lot of anons on this board have romantic delusions that need to be addressed. The minute you realize this, you set yourself free. Who can truly love you? Possibly your parents, a pet or loving yourself. Getting a straight woman to love you is like winning the lottery.
I have already realized this and it makes me so sad. It made me gave up on women because why even trying if they never love you?
>>82667446>because why even trying if they never love you?I mean I still play the lottery/gamble ever once in a while out of boredom, low stakes. It's something you just need to remind yourself of. The odds are low. You might get a honeymoon phase/sex out of a relationship but long-term remind yourself of this. It'll soften divorce/breakup.
>>82667545I am honest I do the same but I remind myself everytime that they don't care about me at all and I will not fall in love with them because you only get hurt in the end.
>>82667429>>82667446>>82667545>>82667644Having this mentality is the reason why you arent getting into loving relationships. Find out how to love yourself. And truly understand what that means. o7
>>82667694>love yourselfHello this is not reddit I think you posted on the wrong site. You can not love yourself if you don't get love from someone else. Learn how humans work and stop posting this bs. Love is always a external thing never a internal one.
>>82667429Any male who wants to eradicate that female bullshit from their psychology needs to understand this message and stop looking at the images. All that lust-provoking shit is false advertising.
>>82667694>Find out how to love yourself. And truly understand what that means. o7Why do women initiate divorce more often than men then? It's about 70%. >>82667712>yourself if you don't get love from someone else.Nah, it actually might be truth. You can't expect a woman to truly love if you are subchad. Look at divorce rates and see above. Who can truly love you? Maybe parents, a pet and yourself; you will always be there for yourself
>>82667694based anon!!!! albeit this is r9k so i don't think anybody is coming here for earnest truths or improvement
>>82667750>based anon!!!! albeit this is r9k so i don't think anybody is coming here for earnest truths or improvementYour partner will never love you as much as you can love yourself, expecting that is silly.
>>82667748A woman can not truly love you but that still does not mean that you can love yourself. This like trying to eat yourself to survive, won't work.
>>82667776realest shit anon.....
>>82667778>This like trying to eat yourself to survive, won't work.You have to take care of yourself to survive. A woman won't ever go above and beyond for me unless I am chad or she is my mother. I do all the work for myself out of survival and pleasure of seeing myself succeed. You need to snap out of normie romantic delusions. Only a mother/father (if lucky), a pet, or yourself is all you have for true love. The other forms of love are unstable.
>>82667794>realest shit anon.....Yeah, but men are better lovers than women lmao
>>82667813i think everyone has the capacity to be good loversi also thing everyone has the capacity to be shit lovers
>>82667803Taking care of yourself is a internal thing but you need a lot of external things for it. Same for love and I have only agreed with you that women will never love you. You can only love yourself if you get external love this is the only way. Denying this is denying basic human biology and psychology.
>>82667829>i think everyone has the capacity to be good lovers>i also thing everyone has the capacity to be shit loversthe capacity for love is higher in men than women.
>>82667829Women cannot love it is biologically impossible for them. They simply can't feel that way unless for their child. But certainly not for a man because they see men not as humans.
>>82667843idk how you would even prove this or quantify love capacity>>82667850wtf i can feel love :[
>>82667863You can't for a man even a chad is just a tool for you because of the things he has like good looks. I don't say you are lying just that you simply don't know it yourself. But women often lie to themselves to make themselves feel good and then do something completely different so the word of a woman is literally worthless.
>>82667835>You can only love yourself if you get external love this is the only way.There are different forms of love. Self love should be higher than romantic love since women arguably aren't capable of loving you if you are sub ideal. Anons have it flipped. >Denying this is denying basic human biology and psychology.a lot of our biology/psychology is driven by our desire to procreate/lust, love is secondary, and it's the men that often have greater delusions about romantic love.
>>82667871idk i think i would know myself more than youbut you might be able to read my mind (don't leak my thoughts plz!)
>>82667863>idk how you would even prove this or quantify love capacitywe have statistics that serve as a metric. again, look at who often initiates divorce, look at stability of gay marriage, look at domestic violence rates in lesbian couples, look at the stability of lesbian marriage compared to straight/gay, etc..
>>82667902okay i wrote stuff out because i had thoughts but frankly i don't even want to argue any of this. i just know i am capable of feeling love as strongly as anybody else :]
>>82667879There are never denied that but you simply can't love yourself if you get no external love, same as everything else for a human. I wish normalfags who say stuff like this could be put into social isolation for a few months with something to hang themselves. Most would be dead after a month.>love is secondaryFor most people yes never denied that as well but most people are very animalistic anyways.>>82667883You don't that is the thing you lie to yourself that you can love a man but you simply can't so anything you say is essentially worthless. Women would rather make up lies inside their head so they won't feel like the shitty people they are.
>>82667918lalala i love my friends and family lalala
>>82667917>i am capable of feeling love as strongly as anybody else :]only if he meets your ideal, anonette.
>>82667947Family maybe but not your friends I doubt that. And if then they are also women. Again you don't even know what love is but that is okay keep lying to yourself this is the only way for you not to get insane =).
>>82667970>>82667959i know myself and know i cherish, love, and value my male friends :]!!!!
>>82667990You don't but again no point in trying to even talk with a pathological liar.
>>82668008nuh uh i am telling the truthi will live it every day to prove it to the people who matter to me!!
>>82667990>and value my male friends :]!!!!anonette, we are talking about romantic love vs self life... anons need to prioritize self love > romantic because they are sub chad/ideal. self love > family > friendship > romantic
>>82667694Good one, you should try stand-up.You'd get sooooo many updoots on plebbit.
>>82668022So how many selfless things have you done for your male friends? Let me guess nothing.
>>82668029i've never dated anyone before </3BUT i would be a very loving gf !!!>>82668047if i listed the things i did i'd sound like the world's biggest sucker considering how some of them ended :[
>>82668109So nothing good to know.
>>82667712>>82667748>>82667850>>82668032>No!!!! You cant just tell me to stop being a nihilistic piece of shit!!! Thats like.. So cringe and le redditoid behavior!!!!!
>>82668382>>No!!!! You cant just tell me to stop being a nihilistic piece of shit!!! Thats like.. So cringe and le redditoid behavior!!!!!Anons live in delusions is the point
