Genuine question, how is it my fault if my parents sucked at raising me? I know the world doesn't owe you anything and I should just myself up by the bootstraps, but I got an awful childhood with awful parents with incredible abuse heading into my teenage years, my pace of learning how to be an adult is very slow. Is a person who is raised by good parents somehow not have an advantage to life over me?
>>82670841nobody is at fault
You could've been born with low functioning autism and people would still say it's your fault. This sociopathic world is the plaything of archons.
>>82670841>how is it my fault if my parents sucked at raising me?It's not your fault, though you might just need a hug and someone around you to remind you constantly that it's not your faultI'm in the same shoes, anonI'm like 27 and I'm just about to graduate college, way slower than everyone else
>>82670841I had severe mental abuse growing up also my mom neglected to teach me basic life skillsNow my parents are wondering why i can't take care of myself and i'm failing out of college and blame me. Okay you boomer fucks enjoy not ever getting grandkids and me killing myself
>>82670841It's not your fault, but at some point you gotta stop blaming your parents for your life/behavior, and take responsibility for yourself. Yeah, people don't all start at the same starting line, it sucks, but that's life.
>>82671107Ok.>>82671121I have multiple mental illnesses, half of which originate from my upbringing.>>82671127>I'm like 27 and I'm just about to graduate college, way slower than everyone elseGood for you anon, I get ribbed for not having things done but they need to understand I'm doing them and I DO get them done I just need time..>>82671137>I had severe mental abuse growing up also my mom neglected to teach me basic life skills>Now my parents are wondering why i can't take care of myself and i'm failing out of college and blame me. Okay you boomer fucks enjoy not ever getting grandkids and me killing myselfMy Dad didn't teach me anything either, literally nothing, he's super lazy and fat. And my Mom wasn't even PRESENT in my life for like 8 years. Now she's always going on about how I'm a loser, I don't owe you anything, not to mention when you were in my life you beat me. Btw don't kill yourself, I know life sucks but I like sticking it to the wealthy jews by staying alive>>82671141>It's not your fault, but at some point you gotta stop blaming your parents for your life/behavior, and take responsibility for yourself. Yeah, people don't all start at the same starting line, it sucks, but that's life.I know I know, most the time I blame myself actually
>>82670841it's not your faultpeople just feel uncomfortable with the fact that some people have genuinely bad livesthey want to believe that "bad things happen to bad people" even though it obviously is not true
