Have you found love here? It seems impossible. Even when a fembot makes a thread asking for a bf, she ends up ghosting or something. It's like they want to wallow in their own misery.Also, where cute blackie?
>>82673852Yup. Instead I found an autistic neet woman in reddit. Ends up improving my life significantly. Can actually have conversations with her. She's not just looking for someone to entertain her and now I realize women here are just fucking useless and deserve to be alone. I wish the simps would realize the same thing and leave then in the trash where they belong.
>>82674440Where did you find her? I also think women who are not into 4chan are way better even if just a bit. Only the worst scum of womankind is posting or lurking here.
>>82674440pls share method I've e-dated femanons and would like to level up to Redditors, but I have no idea how to proceed over there
>>82674440>>82674449>>82674453thoughts on cold approaching women? might be the best thing to do desu, adding fembots here is depressing since they just ghost you
>>82674449>>82674453>>82674495I wouldn't say so. You are a lover on 4chan. If you cold approach you'll only fuck it up and put yourself in a worse position. If not just that utter feeling of getting rejected.Thing is any advice I can give you.guys wouldn't like.I do not chase after women. I do not post looking for women. I make no mention of looking to date or anything else. What I do is post about my hobbies what I enjoy and what I am looking for. People I can talk to, share and engages my hobbies with someone else. These women come out of the wood works to message me. Most of them are utterly useless and expect you to carry the conversation. Learned that women without hobbies or interests are the main offenders of this. So I purposely let people know I'm only looking for those who have hobbies and interests. This filters many out immediately. I also don't act like a simp and act like I need them to exist in my life. If they come in great but if they choose not to be around whatever I'm still doing my own thing regardless. This for some reason gets me more messages from women than not. It's fucking confusing and blows my mind but whatever. She ended up messaging me of her own accord. It was a night and day difference. Yoy cab just tell by talking to her that she is also looking for the same things I am. Has things to talk about and wants to engage.I take it this way if a woman likes you she will make time for you. That you should not be chasing at all. You also need some kind of skill or passion and be fucking autistic about it. I wish I could give better advice than this but this is how I carry myself and it just works. I do not know why nor do I care honestly. Women have really ruined my view of them and I stop catering to their needs and their bullshit. So if I get a woman who isn't what I am looking for I tell them I'm not interested in talking and just delete them. Holy fuck does this cause a few of them to get mad. Mines passed the filter.
>>82674495Cold approaching does only work if you are chad in every way or at least not autistic. And you can't even know what the person is like.>>82674611The main problem is like you metioned most of this women will exepct you to carry the conversation. I also drop this kind of woman immediately, I am not a jester, a conversation is always a dance and if your dance partner won't dace with you then there is no point. The main problem I see here are first where do you even post and second how do you even make sure that they don't just friendzone you?
>>82674780Well I made posts on reddit r4r. I tried here for two decades and the quality of women here has only degraded. Out of the hand full I've spoken to only two were of any substance and of course they already had boyfriends. It's whatever at the end of the day. The friend zone is a weird one. It's why I mention up front I want to do things with people. It turns out when you are constantly doing stuff together that friend zone stuff sort of evaporates. They end up developing feelings for you regardless if they are in a relationship or not. Has caused me drama a few times in the past. This is what I mean about not chasing after women. Giving them the feeling that your life will be the same with or without them. But if you, not even sure how to explain, I suppose give then this feeling that you improve their life just being around they will break rules and find ways to be with you. It's so damn odd that I am unsure how to even explain it. It's like preemptively friend zoning them until they show their worth and it short circuits something in their head. Wow a man that isn't chasing after me what does he got going on? You can't pull this off unless you have something going on. Which is why I mentioned having an autistic amount of passion in your interests and hobbies. Something about that opens up doors in their head. You should not and never should be chasing after women. From my experience that has been the biggest turn off for women.
>>82674875I did spoke with two great women on here but both ended up ghosting me but yeah overall the women on here are the lowest trash.I don't want to make a woman cheat this is disgusting and I don't want to talk to women who already have bfs to begin with. I know what you mean with the other things women are very weird creatures, that they care more about you if you care less about them. The thing is that my interests are usualy not things women like at all or even care about. I love history and could talk a lot about it, finding women who also like that is very rare.
>Also, where cute blackie?They don't last long here. They get boyfriends almost immediately and move on
>>82674960My interests are electrical engineering, programming(both embedded and game design). Yes most women will not like a lot of our interests, but those who do will seek you out. But you cannot be chasing after them otherwise they will fly off. Yeah the ghosting thing can be a problem but when shes into you she will go out of her way to do things for you. If she is doing that you have a hook in her and she will not ghost on you. The women who just want entertainment and to yap are the ones who ghost the most. The ones who actually engage with your interests and hobbies will stick around for much longer. It is why I filter them up front with my hobbies and interests first. Of course I get those retards that say "Oh I love nerds" then has actually nothing to talk to a nerd about. I delete these fucking people immediately. They are the most prone to ghosting and I prefer not to waste my time with them just because they have a pussy.You have to be able to advertise yourself without their being this guise of looking for women only, which is one of the biggest mistakes many here make. It is 2025 and women are more wary over men like this whether they know it or not. If you go about doing shit like M4F type shit youll more likely find nothing than if you went M4A or what ever. Your passions interests and being able to be autistic as fuck about them has to shine in your post. You let them come to you. You let them put effort into you. Youll know if you got her because she will go out of her way to do things for you, without you even having to ask. If you start chasing start catering to her youll lose her. Its such an odd and fucking stupid dance I utterly hate it yet... it works. I just fuck man I hate this shit soooo much. Yet here we are.Also I have a feeling ghosting is something western women do. Eastern women do not seem to do this much if at all. Though I know many have this need to date within their own race.
