I hate being a failure. I can't make friends irl or even online. I feel like no one really understands how I feel, I'm either too socially awkward to hold a conversation for long, or too shy to even try to start a conversation with anyone. I've been a NEET for most of my life. How can I improve or try to develop social skills?
>>82677678>feel like no one really understands how I feelget used to that lmaoi'd tell you but it's a no girls allowed club
>>82677678Go to church with your family, find a community there
>>82677678why not just be my gooner gf and we be happy?
>>82677678If you're a biological female, you could be a drooling retard who only talks about turtles and guys would still want to talk to you.>Did you know that the Terrapene ornata is a vulnerable species in the United States and Mexico?>U-um wow that's so cool>Did you know I had three turtles>Um wow!>I'm thinking about getting another turtle and maybe turtel babies and whole turtle family.>That's so cool! Can I visit some time?>Can you wear a turtle costume? I have four species of turtle costumes, 1. Terrapene ornata but that's reserved for me and my Terrapene ornata future turtle pet, 2. Prochelidella cerrobarcinae which is by the way extinct by 118-110 million years and is based on my artist rendition (i only draw turtles), 3. Pelomedusa subrufa if you want, but it's homemade, 4. Chelus fimbriata which by the way I owned one but he got killed by another turtle, it was very gruesome did you know?>Wow... I guess that's crazy. I think that you know, giant galapagos turtle is->IT'S A FUCKING TORTOISE DIP FUCKING SHIT>OK... I'm so sorry>DON'T FUCKING GET IT WRONG NEXT TIME>Okay sorry, are we still friends? I love turtles too...
>>82677678I sense this thread getting a gazillion replies just before you start ooging and simiping remember that "she" is probably just young and unemployed and gets tons of opportunities to meet people (even in this thread, even i would wanna be her friend if she was nice I'm also lonely)She probably just ghosts everyone who tries to be nice to her including you, Women don't go through real loneliness and this thread will serve as proof. And finally for your question practice talking to people even if they are boring, and hang around in crowded public places to get used to being around people, you could also learn social skills from videos on YouTube some of them are smart
>>82677678try do things one step at a time. small goals you want to set and achieve. is it to hold conversations? is it to try go outside somewhere? set that and try work towards it. service people like store clerks and waiters basically are paid to be nice to you, thats a good place to start.
>>82677690uhm okay. thanks for the advice tho >>82677706sounds cool but im not really trying to get into a religion atm.
>>82677678Keep trying, if you say that you can't do something then you have already failed. Also how you feel is just that, a feeling. In the end it's irrelevant how you feel about anything, and I'm not trying to be rude by saying that.
>>82677678Id like to try to be ur friend if possible anon. I have About 4 friends and I feel very grateful that they speak to me at all. I feel like having a conversation with me is a joykill ngl
>>82677743not op but most moids are really mean. the only ones ive ever got along with were autists but its hard to hold conversations when you both aren't that good at socializing :c
>>82677748I don't usually ghost people, but sometimes I just don't know what to say and it just takes me a while to reply, I'm really insecure about how to act around new people to make a good impression, thanks for being nice! <3>>82677762Thats a good idea actually >>82677774Yea i get it, thx tho
>>82677790Sounds good, If you are really interested, we can talk :3>>82677799Yea ik. I'm grateful people are being nice to me here :<
I wonder how many guys have fallen in love with OP who she conveniently had to cut out of her life to continue pretending to be a "failure". Surely it's in the double digits by now.
>>82677799>its hard to hold conversations when you both aren't that good at socializingI like other autists precisely because they aren't good at the annoying song-and-dance that gets called "socializing". They just talk about shit they like. What do you like?
>>82677845You're falling for bait my nigga
>>82677815>I don't usually ghost people, but sometimes I just don't know what to say and it just takes me a while to reply, I'm really insecure about how to act around new people to make a good impression, thanks for being nice! <3 I was actually being mean but I'll be nice, just ask people what's up ask them a lot about themsel and ask open (not yes or no) questions. To break out of your insecurity you need practice you could even go on /soc/ and Just talk to people until you realize how breaking the ice works, keep track on what the interesting people do that makes them interesting and adopt that, also you don't need to think a lot about what you say, at the beginning of a relationship you Just talk a lot to people no matter about what
>>82677815Fucking lie all women ghost stfu you fucking roastie. You see men as disposable tools nothing more. Once they are no longer fun you simply drop them.
>>82677842Lmao, I'm definitely just trying to get some advice. Maybe make some friends. I know people here are weird tho, but I don't care.
>>82677829Hi i dont have discord but can make one , Idk what other apps people use to talk to eachother . Im not posting my instagram lol
>>82677845i get nervous irl when im asked most of the time, or else people don't ask at all. but i mostly like movies or else seals ^^>>82677851let a nigga live
>>82677867sounds like the answer to my question is not 0 then
>>82677678>How can I improve or try to develop social skills?It's literally just exposure therapy anon. You're never gonna get better if you don't put yourself into situations where you have to socialize. It's not easy, but it will get easier over time.
>>82677857Oh lmao, I didn't really notice, sorry, but thanks for the real advice now >>82677866It's not my fault if you don't have a good relationship w women. Maybe your rudeness is the problem. Fuck off
>>82677888Yea i get it. I've been in therapy for a few months now, idk if it's really helping. Maybe I should try more, thanks for the advice >>82677884oh okay if you get discord lmk. ^_^
>>82677885What kinds of movies? Got any seal plushies?
>>82677902are you open to other people talking to you? what's your discord?
>>82677954just one and it was a gift.. don't want my own money to deal with yet !! i like any type of movie though, horror or weird art films are my favorite
>>82677973Do you like stuff like Lynch and Aster? What are some of your favorite titles or directors?
>>82677678whats your discord? Want to vidya with me?
>>82677981ive seen midsommar but that's about it and its fairly popular but i really liked it (^_^;)if u have any other suggestions id probably like them too
>>82677955Yea ofc! My dc: berryslova
>>82678003Deal. dc: berryslova ^_^
Just date a guy and be his housewife. Unless you're a 2/10 gorlock with fucked up tits, fridge body and evil personality, even then I think some poor bastard will be desperate enough to take you in.
>>82677678Would you rather be able to make friends easily and be totally indifferent to touch, but said friends also constantly demand that you seek out people who want to touch you?
>>82678021Sounds fair but I'm not looking for a bf atm. I want to improve my personality first, maybe someone else will take your advice
do you think you would be good at modern world of warcraft
>>82678007Midsommar was good and I even liked Beau is Afraid by him though it's like a one-man inside joke, but that only makes it better. Add periapts in Discord if you'd like to chat.
>>82677678Go read some books and develop a goddamn personality. You don't need to develop social skills, you need to develop some brains in that empty fucking head of yours.
>>82677678>girlfailure>girl>failureFemfaggotanon, I..
>>82678034Probably?>>82678038Thx for the advice, rlly sweet.
>>82677743Who is who in this scenario, anon? O_O
>>82677678Why do you do this to us?>can't make friends irl or even online. I feel like no one really understands how I feel, I'm either too socially awkward to hold a conversation for long, or too shy to even try to start a conversation with anyone. I've been a NEET for most of my life.Yea, wow. You're so special and different. Literally evil. Face it, you'll find some man and you'll get married and have children while the rest of us rot in our bedrooms dreaming about someone like you. Thank you for making your presence known, I'll now make you the woman I fantasize of for the next week. You're so quirky and relatable and incel-core, now have fun with your 100+ replies as you dream about the impossible
>>82678046Love you too, bby.
>>82678054It's demoralization bait to elicit exactly the response you're giving. I understand the feels m8 but we need to stop replying to these threads.
>>82677678What country do you hail from?
>>82678070You're right, I'm sorry. I just wonder why these people do this.. I'd rather just be genuine and get responses from that rather than pretending to be some 'foid'. I don't understand these people
>>82678188You missed the time to be genuine here. I miss it a lot too, but /r9k/ is never going back to being a place where that can happen unless our mods actually start to give a fuck.
>>82677678>i fucking hate being a girlfailureits impossible for girls to fail. It's Men that are expected to make something of themselvs, for women its a hobby to finance all their consumerism shit
>>82678228lol I'm just talking about how I can't make friends and am socially awkward. You can gtfo if you don't find this failure enough
>>82678297>lol I'm just talking about how I can't make friendsQuit your fucking bitching. Pic is rel.
>>82678042I feel bad you didn't get a (you) from OP, so here's one tripnigger!
>>82678297>lol I'm just talking about how I can't make friends and am socially awkward.drop your tag and i guarantee people will start talking to you
>>82677866shut the fuck up, retard lmfao. i ghost women more than they ghost me. i don't actually think i've ever gotten ghosted now that i think about it. i just had a girl at my job ask me if i knew what ghosting was after she started noticing that all the women there want to lick my hole. completely random question by her, probably because she thought i ghosted her when she's just being retarded instead
>>82677815>don't usually ghostSo you have ghosted people before
>>82678399Na i dont. I've been ghosted, tho.
>teehee I can't make any friends so I'll just go to the lonely virgin board and bait demoralized and suicidal menwake up retards this isn't a good person
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FGTvPqHxYEM&list=RDFGTvPqHxYEM&start_radio=1&pp=ygUZYXMgaGVhdmVuIGlzIHdpZGUgZ2FyYmFnZaAHAQ%3D%3D
>>82678431So, does talking about my current situation, asking for advice, and trying to make friends make me a bad person? Wtf r u on
>>82678489Yes it makes you a bad person to knowingly come to a place filled with depressed men to get attention
>>82678431I know, that's why I insulted her. All women should be insulted. It's good for their inflated egos.>>82678489You're a bad person because men never demanded that you be better. It's not your fault, darling.
>>82677678Go to crystal cafe, this is the board where mentally ill people post porn amongst most male virgins stuck here to consult with others on when the appropriate time would be to blow our brains out.Personally, I'm going to blown mine out when my dad passes.
>>82678532Even if we concede that women have no agency, that's no reason to treat them nicely. If anything you should be even more vicious with them if you're operating under that assumption.I prefer to think they do have agency and they act like shit humans because they can get away with it.
>>82678556I think they're literal retards without agency, but it doesn't mean I treat them nicely. Women deserve to be punching bags, while the men that enable their shitty behavior deserve to be lined up and shot.
>3 hours ago>64 repliesCheesus fuck, you thirsty simps.
