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So about 1 year ago, I was fat and looked like shit. I did a 180 and started working out, I dress better and have better hair, etc. Before no girl would ever look at me in public and was basically invisible. Lately I've been in weird or awkward situations and I don't know how to properly act. I don't even think I'm that good looking so my social anxiety is still there. I'm still a 33 year old virgin.

Examples.
>Guys with girlfriends try to "shield" their vision from looking at me or put an arm around her and pull her closer when I walk by.
>When working out, there are like 5 benches next to each other empty, and they always pick the one next to me even when there are empty ones.
>I've noticed other guys in the weight room staring at me, not in a curious way, but more like a size-up or a challenge
It's like I've gone from being invisible to being seen as some kind of competition. I'm not used to this and it makes me feel just as awkward as before, just for a different reason.

Anyone else deal with this shit after getting in shape?

https://www.reddit.com/r/AsianMasculinity/comments/1nt2hcr/how_should_i_act_now_that_my_appearance_changed/



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