my self-delusion that i'm going to achieve normalnigger status one day and settle down with a wife and kids is the only thing keeping me from suicide, let me be deranged

eating won't solve all the problems either, but it's nice to have

>>82685717
Anyone who says being in a relationship won't solve your problems is lying. I was in a relationship for a year and that was one of the few times I wasn't depressed. This is cope.

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>>82685743
Pic-rel is not and never was real life, anon. You fell for a poster.

>>82685717
I was in a relationship and it did actually solve all my problems thoughbeit and they only came back when our relationship ended

>>82685837
>>82685858
Not OP, but let me take a wild guess here: the girl initiated the breakup and it came out of nowhere.

>>82685927
As the second guy, I had anticipated the breakup for about a year, and I'd say it was mostly a mutual growing apart. What are you imagining? I don't think I know this stereotype

>>82685969
It solved all your problems, but you were in a relationship you felt was falling apart for a year straight... this is why dialogue with neurotypicals is impossible; words have no meaning to you; you're like automata or that Chinese room experiment; the lights are on, but no one is home

>>82686081
I think you might simply be reading things into my words way beyond what I'm actually intending. Yes, it solved my problems, and yes, I saw the end coming from pretty far away. Is your idea that the end of the relationship, or perhaps the causes of that end, was a problem not solved but actually brought by the relationship?

Fairly typical autistic problem. Despite how it seems to you, we have no idea what you are thinking, and we can't read your mind. You have to actually explicitly communicate your ideas if we are to be able to discuss anything.

>>82686121
>solved all my problems
>things were falling apart for a year straight
There's no need to read deeply into anything here, the contradiction sits right at the surface. I'm sure it has deeper roots too, but it's right there. It's astounding to me how you still can't see it.

>>82685717
I was in an e-relationship with a girl that treated me like shit and it still made me happier than I've been in years

>>82685717
most people on this board are normfags. beigh social/having friends or a gf probably would solve most of their problems.

>>82686180
Stop acting like a retard, anon. It's especially repulsive when combined with that arrogance. Of course I see it, I even explicitly called it out to ask if that's what you were talking about. The reason I hold to what I said is because I consider neither the falling apart (as you put it, but as I wouldn't) nor the reasons for it as problems. Not all relationships end or "fall apart" because of dramatic contradictions or conflicts. It was nice all the way through, but we recognized we were growing uncomfortable and that we'd rather not keep going for much longer so we eventually stopped. No wonder you find it so aggravating to speak to people desu

>>82685717
shut the fuck up retarded faggot god i fucking hate this logic
having a place to live isn't gonna solve all your problems either and yet i don't see you trying to live under a bridge

Thanks for your input.

>>82686233
>It was nice all the way through
>we were growing uncomfortable
These are your words this time, no paraphrasing, and taken from a single sentence. Can you still not see it? It's truly baffling.

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>>82685717
>you're fucking deranged if you think having someone who loves you and cares about you is just going to solve all your problems

>>82686316
Are you a forever-alone?

>>82686353
I've been in relationships before, but I've always had the balls to actually try and look at things as they were and not live in a world of passivity and euphemisms. In my world, if we're growing uncomfortable, that is a problem in and of itself; I don't want to be uncomfortable nor do I want my girl to be uncomfortable. Considering you broke up over this, it seems it was a problem to you too. So, then is it pettiness or stupidity that keeps you from seeing the contradiction in what you're saying?

>>82686081

Being in a relationship where you regularly nut raw inside of a female gives you a deep, psychological sense of purpose. All must be going according to plan, because you're getting the chemical feedback that you've successfully mated. Doesn't matter if everything on fire and the writing is on the wall, your subconscious tallies that up as a win.

It's only a problem when they're gone and the regular mating sessions stop. Something has gone terribly wrong, and it hits like a freight train. Total loss of purpose, total loss of meaning.

When he says "It solved all his problems" he means it. There's only one problem that can truly exist, the lack of purpose. Financial shortfalls, personal discomfort, individual tragedy, those are just setbacks to be overcome. The sense of purpose is still intact, and that's all that really matters.

You've got to dig a little deeper. You shouldn't act like a know-it-all if you can't figure shit out for yourself.

>>82685717
No one believes it's going to solve ALL your problems. Part of the blackpill is that it often brings tons of new problems. But you cannot ignore that historically, a wife and family was and still often is huge motivation for working men.

>>82686353
>>82686442
Or maybe you have some childish notion where problems require for someone to be the bad guy so since your ex wasn't a bad guy you couldn't possibly have a problem with her/your relationship?

>>82686466
I'm starting to unironically sympathize with women.

>>82685717
>you're fucking deranged if you think being in a relationship or getting laid is just going to solve all of your problems
But my only problem is I don't have a relationship. Everything else in my life is sorted out.

>>82686503

Why? What about my post in particular?

>>82685717

Shut the fuck up. Everything i study in college brings me closer to fucking a clingy asian girl. every dollar i earn brings me closer. Every time i work out it brings me closer. Everything i plan is planned to keep my brain active and muscles strong enough to earn the love of a clingy asian girl. When i get out of college I will go back to the factory or maybe weld in alaska 12 hour days 7 days a week to immediately upgrade my current living arrangements so i can impress a cute clingy impoverished filipina and have sex with her.
There is nothing that matters other than getting a clingy asian girl. I have wanted a clingy asian girl for YEARS and i will get one as soon as possible.

>>82686552
I got one by being a depressed hikineet still living at his mom's, doing drugs. Why are you going through all this trouble? Especially if you're not even aiming for EA, but SEA monkeys instead. Are you brown and 5'2?

>>82686592

I live in an RV with my white mom. I am extremely sober and 5'9 half chinese. 22 years of age. Skin is chinese dark, eyes are american wide.
But i have one problem, i can only date authentic asian girls because i can only perform repetitive manual labor after having vegetables rice and fish or soke kind of meat with fish sauce.

My white mom is horrified of the stench of my always fresh food and likely so is everyone else not 100% asian.

I am also afraid of cultural differences. I cannot stand consumerism so no ABGs.

>>82685717
It will and i'm tired of pretending to care about your demoralization.

>>82686727
>I cannot stand consumerism so no ABGs
Based.

Still, though, you don't need to do anything crazy to get a Filipina gf. Sure, if you want a good woman, as those are rare, but you sounded like you just wanted a clingy one and were desperate for it.

>>82686822

Nah fuck that. Go hard, get rich, build shit. Just don't forget to socialize. Can't let your CHA stat atrophy.

>>82685717
my egf is supportive and encouraging and I feel like I have something to live for for the first time maybe ever, certainly in over 20 years. It's scary because I know she can't wait forever though

>>82686881
How old are the both of you and how did you meet?

>>82686934
34 and 27, r9k post, also there has been some really hard stuff it's the most scared and at times hurt I have been in a long time as well

>>82687026
Yeah, I've dated a girl from here and never again. Wishing you luck, though.

>>82685717
The thing itself will not, but getting your life in order so as to facilitate its occurrence absolutely will.

Not other people's problem that you autists always fixate on the specifics.

>>82686822

I do want a good woman. I stayed virgin because i was told i was going to get a cute virgin girl. I COULDVE if i wasn't homeschooled MOM. Anyway I suffered much and refuse to throw my love and body away to a girl who doesnt match me.

Anyway
She must be virgin, clingy and not fat and not black.
Must not have gangster praising habits. Must not have gangster relatives that are not entirely villified by her or her family.
Must not consoom (labubus or drugs)
Must like eating lots of fish and vegetables and fruit.
Must not have a genetic disposition to getting fat at 26.
Must be flexible enough to touch toes while standing and squat with feet touching ground.
Must be smart enough to not put themselves in rape centers like parties or night walking. I dont do these why shuld they?


I reject 6 girls in college. Because i know it wont last due to ideological differences, gangster relatives that arent completely villified, obvious future obesity and serious consumerist tendencies on their part. Especially vaping , drugs , drinking and now labubus. I will be just be forced into poverty amd they'll just leave me if that happens.

My dad made a mistake with my consumerist mom and my male bloodline shall never forget the hardship brought upon him because.

>>82687198
>labubus
Wait, that's a real thing? I thought South Park was just taking the piss at Sanrio merch, lol.

>>82687317

NOOOO THEYRE REALLLLL. I legit heard a girl said she bought a 150 dollar Llama labubu when i went to eat at the cafeteria. A double cheeseburger with a stack of fries is only 11 dollars here !!!!
But man the people who go here are WHACK. That was the most tame thing.
Theres a whole bunch of stories.

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>>82685717
Huh, I guess oxytocin just doesn't exist then.

>>82685717
To some extent, but loneliness and isolation will always be worse no matter what is your situation if being alone is certainly worse than not, I will laugh if someone has depression while having parents, a girlfriend and friends nearby, because it is a complete joke and they are the clown