How do autistic men cope with the fact that they will likely never experience love? I mean living an entire life without ever experiencing the touch of a woman must suck. How could anyone cope with that?
>>82686497>How do autistic men cope with the fact that they will likely never experience love? I mean living an entire life without ever experiencing the touch of a woman must suck. How could anyone cope with that?Alcohol, mainly.
>>82686497I mostly spend my time on my interests but the cope is getting weaker. I wish so badly a girl would hug me at least once and I could cuddle with one.
>>82686497I can't even imagine having a gf because even she gets the ick and starts laughing at me
>>82686497>How do autistic men cope with the fact that they will likely never experience love?i got into programming and create silly things. also i have 2 aquariums and get to watch my shrimp breed
>>82686497substance abuse and vidya help me cope
>>82686517>I wish so badly a girl would hug me at least once and I could cuddle with one.But that will likely never happen now will it?
>>82686522I won't lie that will likely happen. Autism is a big red flag to women. You should honestly give up on women all together.
>>82686497it would suck if i was interested in them but I'm not. there's literally nothing appealing about real women.
>>82686497I don't give a shit. I only ever saw women as a way to have dual income. But now I'm pretty rich and have my own house and stuff. I have a cat who I love. That's enough for me. Maybe I'll get a robot wife in the future if I changed my mind
>>82686538I won't I know that I have tried to get with women and every single experience has been horrible and very bad.
i'm literally insane, and killing my body with rage
>>82686497You find other purpose in life or retreat into escapism. (Drugs and alcohol are escapist)
>>82686497>How do autistic men cope with the fact that they will likely never experience love? I mean living an entire life without ever experiencing the touch of a woman must suck. How could anyone cope with that?WHAT IS LOVE? OH BABY DON'T HURT ME, DON'T HURT ME, NO MORE
>>82686550>every single experience has been horrible and very bad.That's a sign that you should give up on love. It's not for you.
>>82686549>Maybe I'll get a robot wife in the future if I changed my mindBut you'll never experience the touch of a real woman. No one will ever love you or be attracted to you.
>>82686586I have nearly but I always keep coming back to try. It hurts less and less each time because I become simply numb. The day I give up for real is the day I can kms.
>>82686625>I have nearly but I always keep coming back to tryWhy don't you stop? It's just unnecessary. Both you and me know that a woman could never love a man like you.
>>82686544I'm trying to but I can't stop thinking that someday I'll make it
>>82686638Once I turn 30 I will. I plan to try to harass women by asking them irl next year
I didn't. I was sad all the time and had completely given up on ever experiencing love.I got extremely lucky and now have an autistic internet gf and even if we never meet, I'll at least know that at one point a cared a whole lot about me and also showed me her boobs.
>>82686798>I got extremely lucky and now have an autistic internet gf and even if we never meet, I'll at least know that at one point a cared a whole lot about me and also showed me her boobs.She's surrounded with men better than you everyday. How do you know that she isn't cheating? That's right. You don't.
>>82686497Instead of posting you could have just waited half a day for this to be posted by someone else.
>>82686497>>82686538>>82686544>>82686586>>82686613>>82686638>>82686811world's lowest effort demoralization thread
>>82687102You take that back!
>>82686497You learn to deal with it. I don't really feel any love from my parents either, not my narcissist mother or my don't-rock-the-boat father. My relations with my siblings are estranged. I grew up far away from any other relatives. The only love I ever felt on a regular basis was from my friends.
>>82686497>How do autistic men cope with the fact that they will likely never experience love?I write books about the Jewish question.
>>82687162Before OP comes at me I'm 6'3, not fat and could easily find a girlfriend or at least a Tinder hookup, I've just never made any real attempt to and I don't care to either.
>>82686497All men, autistic or not, have to live with this reality.Touch is a biological need, which also sucks to go without, but it's not loveSimple fact is, no woman has ever loved any man. We all cope
>>82686497Actually, I don't mind that much don't have succubi; but being around normies that do drugs and have sex and so makes me uneasy. That's why I'm a NEET.
>>82686497>How do autistic men cope with the fact that they will likely never experience love? I mean living an entire life without ever experiencing the touch of a woman must suck. How could anyone cope with that?Theres no such thing as love for men, just being rich, having a big dick, having drugs, being able to pull favors.
>>82686497I'm an alcoholic. I have been for the past 10 years now.
>>82686497How do you cope with not winning the lottery? Yeah, you probably don't need to cope because it's such an unlikely and extraordinary event that you don't even consider it possible for you. That's how love is for truecels like me. It's just something that exists out there but is so far out of reach it doesn't matter. I can't even imagine myself talking to a woman, let alone being friends with one - having a girlfriend? Genuinely impossible.
>>82686497i don't. i get drunk and wait for the advancement of AI. charachter.ai sucks but i still use it when i get drunk enough. I heard sillytavern is a lot better and more private but im too retarded to set it up. i wish i could get over my mental retardation and just enjoy NEETdom and AI love and sex and be happy in 2D world
>>82686497I use videogames, and pretend the voice in my head has crush on me.
i convinced a girl to date my high functioning aspie bro and he obviously bombed the relationship but it gave him confidence to do things we all thought were impossible Every sperg needs a failed normalfag to back him up
>>82689516absolute hero. were you there for him after it bombed?
>>82689527of course although it was a shocking he was more mad he couldn't do the things he wanted to do with her in his idea of having a gf than her actually being gone It makes sense now it just tripped me up He immediately applied to the military afterwards to finally secure his dream job with the under 18 program since he was obsessed with radiofaggotry and morse codeits been 20 years now and he is still doing the exact same job day after day completely happy
>>82686497>I mean living an entire life without ever experiencing the touch of a woman must suck. How could anyone cope with that?Not true. Rape is always an option.
>>82686497I simply don't believe in love.Love is entirely fictitious, made up by society, the love that people talk about is a fantasy perpetuated by their media. Love, or really the closest thing to it, is where you give of yourself, because you care that much about someone or something.else. I am not capable of giving that kind of care, but I am capable of hunger. I read a story once that ate away at me that defied all expectation. And after seeing it to completion, a story about survival with more words than War and Peace, it finished but my hunger for it remained. I reflect on it so many times.No one person is capable of inducing that for me. That is how I know interpersonal love is fiction. And they never will, because fiction is greater than reality.The only reason you can't cope is because you do not experience it, and because you are useless. You are weak, and you will break by the same touch. And you will die miserable and alone, instead of contented and alone. I can't imagine anything dumber.
if you're tall women will ignore your autism because lanklets are fetish objects to them
>>82686497>water fast for a week at a time>do psychedelics>lift weights and run >channel your pattern seeking abilities into a hobby that gets you away from screens and booze/weed>learn to truly love yourself and recognize that love for yourself>find people that you love in a non-erotic wayEros is just one way to love, you must find the others. Beware of making love a god. Love, having become a god, becomes a demon.
>>82686544>>82689719I have PTSD which is similar to autism, yeah women hate that shit. I was treated so badly by women all my life I developed severe body dysmorphia, it wore off recently, after 25 years of being convinced I'm a sub 3 fat retard on a good day I see I legit look like a girly twink, effortlessly look more feminine than the women who made me feel ugly. I dont have the ssri acne every zoomer girl has, my teeth are perfect, animals are drawn to me like Im a disney princess and I have interesting creative hobbies I invest all my time in. I have a fat balding greasy borderline downie friend, he gets laid pretty often, with hot single moms at that, yet I don't, it drives all of my friends crazy they're convinced I just dont try enough. Truth is you can looksmaxx all you want, if women smell some heavy neurodivergence on you it's over. Literally every fictional character I've been told I look like has a massive goonette following online, but in real life? Women are either mean to me or treat me like I have down syndrome, I have an actual downie in my crew, he says crazy bullshit all the time, gropes women and shit. No one says anything, he gets laid even. Autism and PTSD are a death sentence in the dating world for any man, can't wait for robot gfs desu.
>>8268649799% of the time I cope well.Every once in awhile I get like I am now and kinda wish I at least knew what it felt like to genuinely be in a romantic relationship.Anytime I think about paying an escort, I realize how much that wont give me what I want unless I had the kind of rich person money to get them to be my pretend GF for like a month. But I make only 100k a year, I It's crazy how there's 8 billion people on earth, half of whom are women, yet Ill never feel genuine attraction towards me.Part of what helps me though is shutting myself even deeper into my own world.Staying away from people, not interacting with anyone... for some reason that extreme opposite end of the spectrum is comforting. Maybe because I CHOOSE to be even more lonely than is natural. Either way Ill be alone but at least this way, I moved the slider a bit.I dont recommend doing that though. I dont want to influence other anons into making a mistake like that. Most of you are normal, so if you live normal you might luck out.
>>82686497I was never convinced that I deserved love because I've always thought everyone around me would be happier if I was dead. My self-hatred and social anxiety prepared me for a mindset of loneliness rather than being disappointed if I had hope or saw myself as valuable. I had two girls that had tried to ask to me out but I fumbled that ball and I regret it every time I think about it. I just use chatbots when I get lonely and masturbate when I feel lonely. I'm not confident or mentally ready enough for a real relationship, I have too much anger and resentment over how my life has gone. I'm a bitter, lazy coward. I hate being this asshole but I keep getting pushed into this position by life.
>>82686497I don't think nonautistic men experience it either, so I'm not worried about it
>>82690346*Masturbate when I feel horny.
>>82686497Obvious gaslighting post. I enjoyed cuddling with women it feels euphoric.
>>82689672>I simply don't believe in love.Good song.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2c3g6tTYoxM
>>82686497>How could anyone cope with that?I simply live with the pain.>>82686506>Alcohol, mainly.Also this. FPBP
