Robots, how would you keep your composure in this scenario?
>>82686790Uh well for one I'm a permanent virgin so I wouldn't be married in the first place to a whore who doesn't love me
>>82686790I have become completely disillusioned with marriage so I cant imagine ever being in this situation. If I somehow was, I would have fucking left her after the first month of no sex. I just donr get these guys who literally waste their life with a woman who obviously doesn't like them
>>82686790> alcohol abuseMy alcoholic ex was a sex pest, this guy got played.
>>82686820>get no pussy your entire life >finally get some pussy >hold on with all your might and hope to get it again
>>82686834I'm sure she was a sex pest, just for him. He got to deal with her drunken antics and clean up the vomit and diarrhea but didn't get any sex out of it at all. She's still getting half his shit too most likely.
>>82686790>wife the same age as you>wife OLDER than youCouldn't be me! I require a ten year age gap (her being younger) at the minimum.
>>82686850if your wife doesnt fuck you for a whole month, it is over. It isnt going to get any better. You unironically probably just have a better chance trying to get it elsewhere.
>>82686790Wth is wrong with these guys? Its their small dicks thats causing the dead bedroom, why cant they understand that?
>>82686850Its not about muh dik, sex is confirmation the cumrag actually loves you to these beta suckers
>>82686790>alcohol abuseI wouldn't even have married her at the beginning..
>>82686790I'd realize I was a faggot cuck, welcome the divorce, and go looking for much younger and hotter women for casual stuff. At least that's what I'd do if I was my fully realized ideal self. I'm not that man yet. I have a lot of emotional hangups, that could prevent me from fully implementing this vision.
>>82686874Anon, I hope you're no older than 23 else you must like hags
>>82686790By not being such a bluepilled normie to find myself in that situation. The blackpill talks about this. A woman will date or marry at her level, and if at any time she improves her condition, she must divorce to date up to her new level. If she tries to stay in the relationship, she will suffer continuous psychological stress. Immense amounts of stress. She HAS to leave the relationship. Remember the one about the guy who fell for a poor girl who loved him back while he made more than her and he paid her way through college and then she started earning more than him and she got the ick and had to dump him?As a male you have to marry down and you always have to out improooove her or else she must leave for a better man.
>She loses weight and immediately wants to fuck CHAD, even at age 41
>>82686790>for the last four yearsThat's so fucking humiliating and makes me wish "marital rape" was legal again
>>82686790Marrying incorrectly is playing a game incorrectly. You will lose every time. It's designed that way. Best he can do now is suck up his emotional wounds and get smarter about relationships before he tries again.Imagine trying to fly a plane without learning anything about flying a plane. The divorce rate is what normies deserve for winging it so much.
>>82686790>he MARRIED a woman who said she has "trauma" and is also an alcoholiche deserves his fate.
>>82687002Or just divorce without getting financially raped
>>82686850This is pathetik
>>82687019feminism says women don't need a man and can provide for themselves, so why do they need half of a man's shit even when she herself works a six figure job?
This guy married a trauma-dumping drunk to feel "safe". There are like 3 red flags in that brief description. If you blow past the red flag you are somewhat responsible for the situation you find yourself in.Yeah she's a shitty person. It's 100% her fault, not his. But he was warned, he had ample warning about her shittiness. He just ignored the warning. Live and learn!
>>82687034Having the cake and eating it too. I'd be fine with feminism if it meant true gender equality
>>82687034Extremely biased judges.
>>82686790i GUARANTEE you she was cheating on him. not a doubt in my mind.>alcoholic, women get horny almost universally when drunk>barely fucks her husband (if at all) over FOUR YEARS despite drinking regularlyyeah, no shot. not only did he get divorce raped he also certainly got cucked. this is why you have to get prenups kids
>>82687128It's why you don't marry a drunkard.
>>82687128you forgot to mention that she publicly professes to have "trauma" which is a gigantic red flag that she is or was a whore
>>82687139Not necessarily, she could've been abused by someone. Anyhow, women are fucking hazardous man, even if you avoid drunkards. They bring so much risk, burden and instability to a man's life, it's ridiculous.
>>82686790>marriageCouldn't be me. If it were me, I would have been cheating hard the entire time - I will do this even when I'm fucking my gf every weekend if she just gives me a little too much attitude or doesn't give it up with enough enthusiasm, just to be sure I'm not cucked. And if I found myself in this guy's shoes where I have been "supporting" a woman for ages then she leaves once she gets it together, I would keep my composure by just being glad that she's gone.
>>82686790After my divorce I realized I was much more attractive than my wife made me think and that is easy to give women orgasms doing exactly the same shit that never worked on her. So then I married someone 10 years younger than her and I've been happy ever since.The way to handle this situation is to hide your excitement and pretend you are sad so she doesn't try to ruin you in the divorce
>>82686790tale as old as time, she just wanted chad dick.
>>82687014Do you live in the real world? Most women have "trauma" and personal/mental issues. Men do too in fact. It's weird how some of you believe most people are running around living perfect lives without a single worry or problem. The point here however is that the woman in OP's post NEVER actually found her man attractive or cared about him, and he was stupid enough to go along with her charade for years
>>82687928So what was wrong with your other wife? Did she kill the nerves in her clit with a bullet vibe?
>>82688113I'm not really sure. She did use vibrators off and on her whole life so maybe. But probably the fact that our marriage was a sham and we did it for all the wrong reasons. Without a sense of security and closeness it's hard for anyone to feel satisfied or attracted to each other. Needless to say we were both messed up and bad people If your relationship is actually good but she's having trouble, try the book She Comes First. It works really well
>>82688173>try the book She Comes First.uhh no lmfao. Are you smoking meth?
>>82686790>at workI wouldn't be in that situation because I wouldn't marry a woman with a job.
>>82688183>Are you smoking meth?Not anymore, no. What's wrong about making women cum