>be me 22 at a new job>well dressed, groomed, etc>do everything i'm told>friendly attitude>have an anxiety problem>get told before i leave today by the manager "you have a big problem"Is it even worth trying if I'm fucked socially? I don't want to go on disability but the world is cruel. I might check myself into a psychward if I'm fired.
>>82688399Have you tried drugs? Legitimate question.
>>82688399Just thug that shit out for the first 3 years, you'll gradually stop giving a shit about what others think or your work's quality in general
>>82688403if you're talking about prescription im on antidepressants lol
>>82688399this is very specifically i stop giving a fuck about my work unless i know the people there like me. its absolutely not about how good your work is, trust me.
>>82688432i think this is my problem honestly. ive worked at places before where i was treated like shit by indians and it ruined me. i think im scared it will happen again.
>>82688399what was the context of what your manager said?
>>82688432>>82688406im traumatized by jeets basically but good advice
>>82688513are you fucking retarded? OP was on his way out of the fucking workplace for the day and as he's walking out his manager observes him and slips that line in, implying he knows about OP's anxiety issue. you dumb fuck
>>82688525what the actual fuck is this? im the first person who you replied to and yeah im indian but what the fuck does "its not about your work ethic, its about people liking you" have to do with indians?I just suddenly stopped feeling sorry for you.if acting like a normal person around you "people" still evokes this kind of response, then you can forget about anyone having your best interests in mind. i hope you get replaced. kill yourself.
>>82688449im >>82688553they do this to other indians too, because thats just how they are. theyre automatons that just want to extract every bit of value that they can, and youre an automaton that cant stop ranting about jeets despite plenty of indian people not being like that. i genuinely hope youa nd these new immigrants get into a race war and get rid of both sides, just like i hope arab states turn against israhell while they wipe out the sand people. win - win.
>>82688553>>82688531>>82688513this all has to be the same person lol
>>82688399>"you have a big problem"What is this big problem?
>>82688428You might want to consider recreational drugs, they take you places you normally wouldn't go. Just don't go crazy...LSD and Ecstasy completely neutered my anxiety. But thats just me.
>>82688513that's all there is to it. i was working with the assisstant manager and when i was punching out they were sitting with the actual manager and i was told that i have a big problem apparrently. i worked all day then the assisstant manager comes in the hour before i clock out and all of this occured lol.
>>82688581no idea how to get that, everyone is fair skinned at my workplace
>>82688553theres a cultural difference they were all immigrants at that place
>>82688580having a small panic attack when there is a new person working with me is all i did
>>82688399>"you have a big problem""What's that?"
>>82688531Maybe OP had the back of his pants rip and his butt cheeks were on display, this post is kind of vague
>>82688449>>8268852575% of indian girls are molested by 'jeets and half their prostitutes are underage, shive raped 9 year old rukmini, kind of like muhammad raped 9 year old aisha, and instructs followers to "take a child on your travels" because they are "pure", which they try to do when they come to western countriesyou should not even view these people as human, it is only because of naive white leftists that they are allowed to exist at all
>>82688658imagine if kamala won the next guy would be hitler 2. i think that's what pol wanted to happen desu.
>>82688576nope, id screenshot it but im not the second two you linked\>>82688603yeah then just move. im sick and tired of working with new immigrant indians. its especially annoying in my case cause they expect to act like they would with other indians and they basically treat you like a little child they can order around and then get pissed off when you arent okay with that. They have a certain way of acting and are extremely resistant towards changing it. just work somewhere with less indians or complain to HR
i just want some time to work and not be treated like an idiot or there is something wrong with me. thats how it was with the indians/bangladesh. i just need some time to adapt because i always feel im not good enough.
>>82688658>video of an arab guy while talking about indians>haha let me assault this random guy pissing outdoorsimplying white people dont piss outdoors? implying that asians (especially the chinese) dont piss in public places a lot? ive seen tons of white people piss out in public, and this was at night in a big city. what a fucking coward lmao
>>82688684like i said here >>82688683 this is just how they are. theyre crude and dont know how to say things in a nice way, because thats how they are to each other too. just report the faggots to HR and be scathing about it.
>>82688637guess what now buddy? that person knows you're afraid of them. they could stick their thumb right into your eyeball and you wouldn't do a thing. number one rule when you're new at a job is don't show fear or anxiety. other men sniff that out instantly. and now that guy knows that..... you're scared of him
>>82688525I'm >>82688406Wtf does my post have to do with jeets?
>>82688399>34 at new job>poorly dressed and groomed>do things my way>cold, quiet, and distant>have autistic confidence and disregard for social etiquette>got employee of the month yesterdayStop jerking off and eat some meat, anon.
>>82688701i think ill try to see it as a challenge now. that i need to show im not afraid because that's apart of control. thats exactly what happened at my old job and im afraid of it happening again.
>>82688428It's over why even try start rotting like rest of us
>>82688598I know this thread is for race debating or whatever but firstly you shouldnt do drugs at work and secondly you have to go seek out the sources on your own. It should be pretty obvious how (talking to people) and you shouldn't be afraid of talking to druggies since they're losers.
>>82688726exactly. you have to show that you aren't afraid because otherwise everyone will keep taking advantage of you. you don't even need to be 'tough', you just need to not show fear as a minimum
>>82688737because its admitting defeat and i dont want to be the same person forever. i dont want to be scared of life and instead contribute to it without letting time fly by. i want people to depend on me but im too self consious. i was in isolation for nearly a year before and i eat my own thoughts.
>>82688721lmfao, cockhole. employee of the month? we're not all working at walmart like you where you're expected to be autistic to not lose your mind, my friend. they probably also feel bad about all the wrinkles and shit on your face. i just have a feeling you're a rough looking 34 year old. i'm only slightly younger than you but because i take care of my appearance, i don't look like the inside of a well used baseball glove
>>82688774you're right, anon. the easy way out is rotting, the hard and more fulfilling way is trying. you always have rotting as a backup, but may as well give it a try while you can
>>82688553saaaaaaaarasaaaaaaaaaaarsaaaaaaaaaaaaarsaaaaaaaaaaaar
i also triggered some tranny and they stalked me for some time and im not too sure if they are a janny on here. i want them to leave me alone and i really don't talk online because i feel like i might encounter them again. i got the feeling they might be in this very thread. my life is fucked right now but at least i have this job going for me.
>>82688852>t wagie
>>82688399I also have severe social anxiety, its over for me
>>82688852this entire thread is basically my trauma dump because of how mistreated ive been by minorities and the lgbt
>>82688879yeah okay buddy i'm sure you do. maybe if you tried learning how to manage your own body when someone is looking at you then perhaps your anxiety would fade instantly. have you ever actually tried? you will never know the path i came from and yet i still tried and i still blend in just fine, rough around the edges but i blend in because i've put in effort into getting better at these things like being around others
>>82688918>learning how to manage your own body when someone is looking at you then perhaps your anxiety would fade instantly.What the fuck does that mean
>>82688918>>82688925this has to be the same person.
>>82688942No I have no idea what hes trying to say by "manage your own body when someone is looking at you"
>>82688950>>82688942>>82688925braindead zoomers don't realize that they can take control of their own system by just paying a little attention inwardly. you're as useless, clueless, and irresponsible as women
>>82688972>braindead zoomers don't realize that they can take control of their own system by just paying a little attention inwardly. you're as useless, clueless, and irresponsible as womenfuck you schizo
>>82688985>>82688972give me a sign that you are my stalker
>>82688399I'm 22 and like this. Just fake being social bro, I had the do that since I got a part-time job as a cashier. You eventually stop giving a fuck as time goes.
>>82688399i also struggle with social anxiety but the best cure is going out and doing it every dayyou will make a fool of yourself but it gets easier!
>>82689022>>82689023its like 2 replies every minute just say my name already stalker lol
>>82689052um idk who you are or who these other people are that are replying to youmay i have context
>>82689061take this its context>>82688852
>>82689069oh :[ idk if that is what's actually going on here but maybe it'd be a good idea to leave so you feel more comfortable? nevertheless, it's good you have this job! it'll be good exposure therapy to help you improve your social skills :]!
>>82688399holy shit everyone get in, anon is the first person to suffer from a new form of pussyism, he calls it "anxiety"literally toughen the fuck up you pathetic fucking excuse of a man
>>82688399Just work at a warehouse like me. The coworkers hate me for being 'too quiet' and introverted or whatever, but the company itself doesn't give a fuck; they just need bodies on forklifts, and preferably not under them.>t. millennial
>>82689102people can have anxiety disorders retard
>>82689130>people can have anxiety disorders retardand how do they fix them? dont you fucking dare say meds
>>82689155they don't they just deal with em retard
>>82689102>toughen the fuck upNot OP, but I viscerally hate guys like you who think you're hot shit going around being needlessly irascible and bellicose all the fucking time. No, that's not what 'being masculine' is about; if anything, it just makes you an emotionally stunted child cosplaying as an adult, and I love it when you meet someone else with the same mentality and you both wind up fighting each other over nothing (that is, because you can't just behave like adults and acknowledge that not everyone is on demon-hours). Explore and understand the full spectrum that is human emotion, you degenerate troglodyte.
>>82689161yes they do, and its called exposure therapy. you have a lack of exposure, you need exposure and a lot of it
>>82689166you hate me cuz im not gonna cuddle you and tell you your feelings are justified. literally get the fuck over it. go outside, practice. dont sit in your fucking bedroom and complain about social anxiety
>>82689185>yes they do, and its called exposure therapy. you have a lack of exposure, you need exposure and a lot of itYou know some people do that and it doesn't work right, like for years, and nothing changes at all
>>82689202>You know some people do that and it doesn't work right, like for years, and nothing changes at allwhat is your argument? you're just making excuses as for why you do nothing to improve your situation. if you havent spoke so much as a "good morning" to a single stranger today, then fuck off with your fake problems
>>82689225I'm saying for OP and others, they can do "exposure therapy" all they want and it won't help
>>82689194No, I hate you (types) because you're fucking insufferable. Always running your mouths, always prattling on about some nonsense or other, always bragging about the things you have and trying to rub it in the faces of people who you think don't (or really don't even want). You fill every space with words, with noise, giving absolutely no regard to the fact that other people exist, and don't want to hear it. You cut in lines without looking around first, you never put the carts back, you change multiple lanes or wait until the least attosecond to turn into a parking lot WITHOTU SIGNALLING ONCE, and as if that weren't bad enough, you take it as a personal insult when other people refuse to entertain your bullshit or placate your sensitivities. You neurotypicals are the reasons why we live in a fucking circus of a country (and not just the U.S.), and why we can't ever get anything productive done, built, or accomplished; the powers that be are too busy keeping you entertained by jiggling keys or a sportsball in front of you, upon which you so graciously fixate while neglecting your responsibilities as parents, guardians, teachers, workers, and overall decent human beings. It's honestly a shame covid didn't take more of you, but I guess that's the thing about pests: no matter how hard you try, they just keep coming the fuck back. God I fucking hate you people so much, it's unreal, and the fact that I have to listen to you barely-literate mouth-breathers each and every day is clearly punishment for a wrongdoing several lifetimes ago.>No Nut November? No, I have a better idea: No NOISE November. Everybody shut the fuck up for a month, but I know that wouldn't work, because more than a few of you blew your brains out at the very prospect of being told to stay home and be quiet for two weeks. Fuck.
>>82689231>and it won't helpthis is peak self-loathing. you are literally your own worst enemy. this is the source of your problems. I have nothing left to say to you. you are dismissed
>>82689254It's a fact dude, for some people it works, for some people it doesn't, look it up google is free
>>82689262>It's a fact dude, for some people it works, for some people it doesn't, look it up google is freeare you trying to be retarded on purpose?> for some people it works, for some people it doesn'tthat describes literally everything. you gonna skip chemo someday because "eh for some people it works, for some people it doesn't"not pursuing something because it might not work is not going to work for you in life
>>82689289>that describes literally everythingNo it doesn't retard. You're denying a fact
>>82689295you have an obligation to exhaust your options. fuck off
>>82689297You must have really low IQ or something
>>82688399I have the same problem with severe anxiety. Makes me throw up and shit.I don't want to go on disability either, but I'm honestly more worried if I can even survive on my own with disability.Where I live, all I hear is that its not enough money to even scrape by in a shitty apartment.
>>82688399>you have a big problem Wasted check what does that even mean lol you do have problem if you cant fucking socialize or explain yourself. Appearances dont mean shit if your awkward as you clearly are
>>82688399Congrats, keep working this McJob until you get fired soon, and then you have actual documentation of your disability and can get on benefits for being unable to work. A lifetime of carefree NEEThood awaits!
op here, this thread had a lot of good advice and really made me understand if my anxiety is a disorder and if it's something i can possibly overcome.
