there is too much information about this online and i am not sure which ones are necessary or not. i am not on birth control which is scaring me so i bought condoms and plan b pills. i shaved my pubes for the first time in years and it is giving me ingrowns, i hope it will look normal soon. i have no idea how other women achieve a smooth appearance. they also say be careful what you eat, don't eat anything with a strong odor or your genitals will smell weird. i am honestly so nervous about getting fully naked next to a man. we have kissed and dry humped before, then i started getting uneasy thinking about what will happen next and stopped. mentally it is so overwhelming. i have been teasing him for a while so he thinks i must be a freak but i am actually a turbovirgin with crippling anxiety. i am going to send my best friend a live location and regular updated because i am lowkey terrified of getting murdered. he is a great guy and i noticed zero red flags, but it's the paranoia in me.
>>82690319So is he your boyfriend or not? You won't have to freak out if you stop fucking strangers.
don't do it, you can never trust guys, I can say this because I did the same thing to the nervous girl and dumped her for no reason
>>82690326we are not officially dating yet but i would still be nervous either way>>82690330i really don't think he would do that
>>82690382>we are not officially dating yet but i would still be nervous either wayso you're a whore
>>82690400no..? i have literally never had sex retard
>>82690407so? youre having sex before marriage, before even dating, so if you ever break up with him or dont start dating then you're officially damaged goods
>>82690414you should talk about that to someone who cares
>>82690417Nta but why did you ask the question then? Ooh its because you are a guy, right
>>82690319>i shaved my pubesDumb fuck. Now instead of a nice soft fluffy pussy he'll be getting rough unpleasant stubble rubbing against him.
>>82690424i asked about how to prepare before having sex, not what retarded faggots think about pre-marital sex
>>82690319It's always a gamble on whether or not a guy likes pubes, but honestly if you had just trimmed them back it would have been fine. Smell is your biggest concern yeah, but if you wash properly down there, use something like Summer's Eve or whatever that neutral ph bullshit is, you're probably good to go. Eat a can of pineapple or two. >i bought condoms and plan b pillsJust warning you, plan b is the nuclear option. ONLY take it if it's not a safe day for you and you are sure he actually nutted in you, like actual sperm leaking out of you and everything. It is very disruptive to your hormones. For everything else, it will be fine. Men really are just happy to be getting there with you. Just be aware that since you said he's not officially dating you, there's like a 90% chance he's going to bail once he gets your virginity, and that will hurt figuratively and literally since it was your virginity.
>>82690439Whatever nigga, its such a shame people here are brain dead cattle that will still respond
have sex in clothes or under covers or at night
You should have trimmed instead.
>>82690319never had sex with a foid either, this will be very good info for when/if i finally get to sex foid for the first time. i also wonder what a moid should do to prepare for the encounter
>>82690473It's an entire minefield that deserves its own thread
>>82690435>>82690468it's the first time and most moids are not into hairy pussy so i can't risk it. i will not show up with a stubble, i will try to keep it as hairless as i can>>82690450i mean what else can you do though, i am not planning to just start birth control and i would rather endure hormonal disruption over potentially getting pregnant>>82690462sex with clothes on is honestly so underrated, i don't understand the point of being butt naked at all and even the thought of doing that next to another person makes me uncomfortable
>>82690503>I mean what else can you do though...The condoms? That you bought? And don't let him bullshit you that they're uncomfortable and he can't feel anything? I am dead serious do not use plan b casually. ONLY if semen gets into vagene. Try your best to avoid that.
>>82690450>there's like a 90% chance he's going to bail once he gets your virginitymore like 99%, for him it's the holy grail, a nice fuck with no commitment
>>82690503>i don't understand the point of being butt naked at allYou are baring yourself to them and shows you trust them.>even the thought of doing that next to another person makes me uncomfortableYou are just nervous. We all are for our first time. It's actually very enjoyable being next to him afterwards. The podt sex cuddles are the best!
>>82690319Wash your ass with soap. Too many times the reek of ass odor ruined the experience when going down on her.Shaving clean is optional i would say. Trimming it down to 3-5mm is completly fine. You dont get ingrows, its cleaner and i think it looks nice. >>82690473Same for guys. Wash your ass and balls real good. Shaving is more nuanced. Trimm everything around and shave shaft and balls. Never try trimming with a machine near your balls... t. knower
>>82690520i really want to have unprotected sex so i don't trust myself to be able to make him use a condom but i will ask>>82690532why do you guys keep claiming this? he is not that type of moid at all
>>82690567>why do you guys keep claiming this? he is not that type of moid at allit's just the way guys are
>>82690567>he is not that type of moid at allThat's pretty weird how much you're trusting him right now when you literally led with "I'm so paranoid I'm sending my best friend live location updates."
>>82690583i am not paranoid because of him specifically and i don't care if we don't end up dating but the concept of being alone with a moid in a private setting is dangerous for obvious reasons
>>82690597>i don't care if we don't end up datingso it's a hook up, slut
>>82690607why do you care more about titles than i do?
>>82690561>Never try trimming with a machine near your ballsskill issue, just don't fuck up
>>82690503>i will not show upNona, please reconsider and make him work for it (for an extended period of time) in a real relationship.Please. You don't have to be married but please don't be pumped and dumped. Just consider my words a warning. I am a man.
>>82690567Have you discussed protection yet?If he doesnt bring his own condoms, you should reevaluate your trust in him. Not bringing your own condoms that you know fit, is just immature and stupid.
>>82690634i'm just horny and i don't know why we have to overcomplicate these things like why does it matter if it leads to a relationship or not, what do you think is going to happen if i don't make him wait?
you do not prepare. you only endure
>>82690663no we have not discussed it. i think he would definitely bring his own but i bought some just to make sure nothing goes wrong
>>82690670If you surely have no particular feelings about any of that at all, then sure. If you're just horny it might be a mistake, though.Just trying to stop you from being hurt.
>>82690701he would never hurt me
>>82690717You have horny brain. Consider my words. Don't be an idiot.
>>82690737people entering relationships don't have horny brain?
>>82690786By definition, no. The idea is that you at least enjoy each other's company or like an idea of them entering a relationship. You can make mistakes too, entering a relationship, just like you can make a mistake wanting a dick inside you.
>>82690818i don't want to wait, i am getting impatient because i have waited for long enough
this is the most low quality bait i've seen you niggas falling for>am paranoid so will send locationto ''he would never hurt me'' >>82690717>being alone with a moid in a private setting is dangerous for obvious reasonsto ''we have kissed and dry humped before'' like nigga what? have you done that shit in public??>>82690319
>>82690319 >i noticed zero red flagsLmao
This is the not the board for these posts, go back to crystal cafe cuntoid
>>82690319You're overthinking way too much. Trim, don't shave (avoids razor burn and ingrown), eat some fruit/fruit juice, make yourself wet or get lube (baby oil is fine, coconut oil is better). You'll be fine. Get excited in a happy way rather than nervous in a worrisome way. Have fun. Let go and don't get all in your head. It helps to focus on your partner (gets you out of your head)
>>82691290are you too retarded to understand what i was saying? i am not scared of him specifically in the sense that he will pump and dump me, but the concept of being alone in private for sex. and yes we made out and humped somewhere that was semi-public, not in a house.
Hope he takes a whiff of your fishy smell and pukes on you ruining it all
>>82690319Could you please go away from my incel board? It's painful enough to have to interact with normalfags irl, I don't need this shit in my digital incel box. Go ask on >>>/adv/ instead. In the meantime I have posts to make seething endlessly at the universe.
>>82690319Average fem""cel""" post.
