Am I gay? I've only ever been romantically attracted to men, but I have a much easier time jacking off to straight porn, but it needs to be said that since I've been doing hardcore gooning and edging sessions for the past 6 or 7 years, I've gotten totally desensitized to the point that nothing excites me, and I feel like I'm doing it out of habit, I also started questioning this gay stuff in the same time period so I don't really know if I'd be super into gay porn if I wasn't desensitized, how do I determine it? I just can't have any romantic feelings whatsoever for no matter how hard I try, but they come naturally for guys I like.>inb4 get on grinder and test it outNo, I'm saving myself for marriage, and whilst on the topic, are gays really promiscuous?
>>82690411OH and one more thing, In middle school when I wasn't so used to jerking off, I developed a crush on a male classmate, and I would vigorously jack off to him and it would feel amazing, and I would actually fantasize about sex, unlike with women where I usually fantasize about other acts that aren't necessarily sexual in nature.
>>82690411>romantically attracted to menusually that's a good sign that you're actually gay and not like "porn gay">have a much easier time jacking off to straight pornthis sounds like the reverse situation of straight men who end up going down the rabbit hole and start jacking off to tranny/gay porn. as you've pointed out, it's because the brain seeks out novelty and if you're constantly jacking it you eventually get bored of the usual stuff>are gays really promiscuous?yes, very.
>>82690617Well I want a long term monogamous relationship, and I'm still not 100 percent sure what I am, what should I do?
>>82690831Gay here just dont go on grinder and or gay clubs that's the one stand land outside of that normal shit
>>82690411Most are very promiscuous, but there's some out there that aren't, but they're very hard to get a hold of. I have a cute gay friend that refuses to use any dating app and gets shy easily. I remember when his friend set him up on a date and he was gushing when talking to me and all sad when he got ghosted for a bit. I would've gone gay for him but he friendzoned me before I could do anything.
>>82690965>>82691000Then how do I find non promiscuous ones?
>>82691056Non-sexual clubs or get other gays to hook you up with a man
You are gay as fuck you need put down
>>82691146There are special sex clubs? I thought all clubs were sexual? I have no friends and don't know anyone, can I approach guys on Instagram?
