I'm 21 and I live with my mother and brother. I feel living with them is holding me back in terms of being independent and becoming my own person, but I don't exactly want to move out. I'm in a lucky position where I can live without major expenses, I only pay for internet and food. Rent prices are really high and I don't want to be getting cucked like that especially when it's not absolutely necessary. My good friends are becoming actual adults and I've been stagnant for the past 3 years since I started working. There are hobbies that I want to try as well but I think being in the proximity of my mom and brother is causing this procrastination. Every day I'm met with reasons that I should get away from them. Any advice is appreciated
im sure you dont want to hear this but youre still very young op. your friends becoming adults have their own struggles and becoming an adult is a lifelong process. i do recommend living on your own sometime in the next few years though itll def make you learn a lot about yourself and your habits and how to change some bad ones into good ones. maybe reach out to those good friends who you feel are becoming adults and talk about their when theire lease ends and consider moving into a bigger place with one or a few of them to make rent a bit easier to handle. living with friends isnt always the easiest but it can be a lot of fun and teach you a lot as well. best of luck op but your 20s are meant to be for floundering around and fucking up and growing up. you may have thought your teens were for that nonsense but it keeps going until you die
>>82732296youre only 21 faggot. stop whining, get a job, build a house and move out. you have your entire fucking life ahead
