Why do people do this? Help it make sense; the worst part is that it's the kids who suffer the most.
>>82799924I want to do this, the responsibility of having a mini me would fix me.I am scared of pregnacy but if my future boyfriend wants a baby, I will not deny him.
>>82799924>Why do people do this?You put too much faith in peoplePeople are just retarded
>>82799941>, the responsibility of having a mini me would fix me.unironically used to believe the same, but I also got the belief I'd be a terrible parent and/or partner>I am scared of pregnacyI constantly hear this, but my grandma and mom said it's meh. why are women so scared of pregnancy?
>>82799924Having your kids grow up in the same home as their grandparents is a good thing albeit as long as you're living there too.
>>82799924Yeah, it's a shitty situation.I'm a hopeless loser, but I just want to fuck a lot; and not have a kid that I can never support.Yet somehow I still get to be incel as fuck for life, while other losers spawn kids,
I approve (if they are white and have a large family to help raise the child because they can just pump out a kid and have the family help look after it whilst they get their shit together its not the end of the world and im bored of this faggy anti natalist narrative someone has to fuck stop outsourcing breeding to the third world to import)
>>82799953NTA but I've been told the same. >"Having a baby will make you be disciplined and stop being unfocused"
>>82800004to me it's more like, if I have something I HAVE to take care of, and to take care of that I HAVE to get out of my hole, I could do it for that something.>but anon, you are something you have to take care ofI don't give a flying fuck about myself. external locus of control born out of shitty, powerless childhood hits hard
>>82799953Because women can die from it duh. The chance nowadays may be low, but it used to be high and it's just a genetic memory. Trauma response can linger up to 5 generations.And honestly it is just freaky be cause quite literally your body is being invaded and conquered by another organism to serve it.
>>82800049>Because women can die from it duhthere's more chances to have a genetically-malformed kid than dying, even with wild humans>your body is being invaded and conquered by another organism to serve itcomparing babies to cancer or tumors isn't very wholesome, bud
>>82799924>stay-at-home wife and husband living in multi-generational householdthat's not really that impressive
>>82800024>I don't give a flying fuck about myself.considering that you started with "would fix me", I sincerely doubt it's not about you.
>>82799924do you really believe you need something other than sex to have kids? do the math
>>82800518>considering that you started with "would fix me", I sincerely doubt it's not about you.it can be summed up to me needing something external to care about my situation
>>82799924I don't think having a kid was their intention OP. They're just two broke as fuck people who bonk uglies all the time because they're too poor to afford to go places. And sometimes birth control fails or a condom breaks and you end up with an accidental kid
>>82800613Are you trying to appear selfless?
>>82800664no? it's a selfish reason
>>82800676>I don't give a flying fuck about myselfyou're throwing statements like this only to contradict them later, you may indeed, be a woman
>>82799924I'm the child of someone who got pregnant in high school, and honestly, it's pretty nice to grow up surrounded by grandparents, uncles, and aunts. But outside of getting pregnant in high school, my mom wasn't a massive fuck up so we moved out eventually. I get the argument if its about completely deadbeat parents who leave their parents to raise their kid though. Grandma and Granpa have a life (and probably other grandkids)
>>82800024I agree to be honest