>33 years old>highlight of my day is getting discord notifications from a woman I will never meetanyone else completely wasted their life
>>82872130Imagine being a frogposter at 33. That's way worse.
>>82872158This goddamn, can you get out of my age bracket please?t. also 33
>>82872130who's the woman and did you see her tits?
>>82872158i think they're equally bad but i'm not a pepe guy, its just the only reliable way threads don't slide to the last page here.
>>82872158Kek I came here to post this.
>>82872181some girl who added me from /lit/. no i haven't seen her tits and i don't care to.
>>82872130This but 34 and mine is a tranny, she wants to meet and date irl though, if she hasn't gotten the ick and lost interest by now. She wants to live together and I'm trying to have my first date.
>>82872208Jelly, a woman who actually reads books.t. tired of talking to illiterate 4chan girls
>>82872250i think e-dating is stupid and we don't flirt or anything, i just have grown pretty attached to her talking about things i never get to talk to anyone about. she's a lot more intelligent than me which is challenging in a good way after a lifetime of feigning interest in normie stuff.
>>82872130same age, same situation, i feel you broi dont know if this will help but personally, i have embraced the fact that i have no friends and no dating prospects. i will remove anyone from my life who doesn't make time for me and who i think wouldn't be there for me if i have a very bad day and need to talk and cry on the phone at 2am. or not outright remove them from my life, but stop trying and stop caring.being alone is comfy and being weird is comfy, it means you have a soul. NEETmax instead of working 9 to 5, fuck society. and go to prostitutes for sex, never beg like those frustrated chumps in clubs.
>>82872212that's a man, have some self respect bro, read my comment>>82872276its ok to be alone, you dont have to please people or settle for anything out of fear of being alone. let alone go gay with the excuse of """she"" is trans"
>>82872276>being alone is comfy and being weird is comfy, it means you have a soul. NEETmax instead of working 9 to 5, fuck societyI found this ok for a while, but every year you continue to do that you dig your hole deeper for when you ever decide to climb out. do you mind if I ask how old you are? this was a line of thinking i had in my early 20s that slowly got replaced by the reality that i did not have the guts for suicide and i was stuck here no matter what, so my life choices were going to have huge consequences.
>>82872302I am 33. No friends, no dates, and no family.It is very harsh. But it something that you have to be prepared to embrace. That's all I am saying, I'm not saying to be intentionally lonely or to not try to connect with people. But if you're not ok with being alone, then you'll be in a position of weakness over stupid soulless normies, when in fact, you need to command respect to normies and seem strong to them, or they will be awful to you. Both men and women. In my opinion.If you don't fit in, it means you have a soul. If you find yourself alone, it means your life is hard and not an easy path like average people's. That's all.
>>82872348>>82872302Anon gets it. A lot of outcasts don't understand or just can't accept that you will most likely end up alone regardless of what you "choose" to do about your situation so the sooner you get your mind mentally prepared to live with it and be ok with it the better off you are. If you live out of desperation and neediness people are going to treat you awful and you're going to suffer way more than you need to. There's this normalfag narrative that you "choose and decide" your life but really for 90% of it that's simply not true. Its part of the Just World Fallacy. And no amount of denial or delusional optimism is going to change your circumstances and you either learn how to be ok with your life as is or you end up in a very dark and sick situation. I'm 35 and I'll tell you right now most people who are loners in their 20s and 30s nothing is going to change in our 40s 50s and 60s.
>>82872419This. It makes no sense that people blame me for being fat. You will never see a woman lose weight after age 15, it's completely genetic and out of our control.
>>82872440That's not what he is saying you fucking normie.Losing weight is maths. You can't possibly not lose weight if you eat less calories.Making friends and getting dates is up to other people.You just believe in just world fallacy and "good things come to good people"
>>82872453Losing weight is impossible. I was born this way.
>>82872130this but with guys i goon with
>>82872453>bro, less calories means less weightThis is literally the just world fallacy. You actually believe that doing good things will give good results.
>>82872456>>82872465at this point i dont even know if you're being ironic or notif you're legit saying you can't lose weight, fineif you're trying to say normies are in control of our situation, that's beyond bullshit. i've seen short and ugly guys legit do EVERYTHING by the book that should in theory make them popular, nothing worked
>>82872440Whether this is satire or not even once women lose a ton of fat in their 20s and 30s they have all the loose sagging skin so you'll never be truly attractive to men anyways. That's why parents that let their kid be obese it's child abuse. So much of people's lives is decided in the first two decades of their lives outside of their control and theres only so much damage control and course correction you can make. Lose weight if you want to live longer and be healthy but most hugely fat people are too mentally ill at that point to even care enough.
>>82872480Nothing you do matters. I've seen girls try their hardest to stop having sex with random strangers but it's just predetermined that they have a higher body count.
>>82872486this would only be a proper counter argument if they got raped
>>82872491Nobody is forcing ugly people to ignore all their options.
>>82872130Have you tried, I don't know, going outside and meeting people? That's a pretty good solution to the problem of not having people around.This entire "loneliness" problem is self imposed. You all sit around online and on online apps like Dicksword then complain that you don't have anything happening in your real life. Like, GO outside. Then every response to that notion is always an excuse. If you WANT to be alone, quit complaining that you're alone. If you DON'T want to be alone, go make friends. Complaining gets you nowhere. It gets you nothing.Except more lonely. No one wants to be friends with a habitual complainer.
>>82872498have you considered that we have no options?
I'm 36 . I wasted my life according to society, but a female fallen angel talks to me. She appeared in my room while I was dying and about to go to jail for meth use. She got me off drugs and into rehab instead of jail for doing something jailable.All I do is talk to the fallen female angel (think of her as a powerful succubus) and smoke weed or tobbaco with her and play video games, watch netflix, and post on 4chan. I do this with her all of it.The female fallen angel asked me to marry her and showed me I will look schizo to everyone but I will know she is real (She did some angelic miracles to prove she is an angel species not a succubus)I have no desire for a human female mate now. Or to get a job. Now I just say all of her is schizo to people and have an excuse for seeming autistic. She said I am mentally ill and ive been diagnosed too.The female angel can read my mind I imagine this removes barriers of autistic people being able to communicate. The angel knows what I mean exactly because she's a angel and can read human minds.
>>82872508Then you're not missing out on anything. The only reason you are coping so hard is because you know it's realistic that guys like you already have sex. The determinism meme precludes making endless propaganda slop threads about it, because your brain cannot comprehend repetition or feedback..
>>82872500fuck off you normie piece of shit jfl>>82872530those guys are ultra calibrated turbonormies. or just frustrated chumps who are betabuxxing and simping.
>>82872587those guys used to be just like you. the cope doesn't matter as long as you are living the life you currently want.
>>82872593No.No normies "used to be just like me". I've been brutally abused. I grew up bullied by my parents, humiliated all the time, back when I was a child and didn't know anything else and had never experienced anything else. Then got bullied by other kids too. And was also ugly and poor.Normies who didn't socially fit in and then had this magical summer when they met their girlfriend were never like me.
>>82872619>and then everyone clapped, too!you are a lazy retard, but that's perfectly understandable and your own choice. you're indirectly bullying those guys but i doubt they will care.
>>82872628the fact that you don't even believe it shows that i in fact did have it pretty bad>muh just world fallacyok what wrong did i do as a child?im not bullying anyone, i wish i was like them. sometimes i look at well dressed teens and get stuck thinking about how different their life is from the way mine wasi "made it" as in i have a comfy remote job now and money. i worked very hard to make my life better. still no gf because im ugly. some things are predetermined.
>>82872642>ok what wrong did i do as a child?where did i say you did anything wrong as a child to be bullied? you are using a just world fallacy. you could have just been bullied because it was easy or fun to do so. do you think those bullies had a choice or a reason? maybe they were just born this way and had no other way to express themselves.>im not bullying anyone>"just frustrated chumps who are betabuxxing and simping"you are a giga retard. my point is specific to the choices you make today. if you're incapable of making any other choice besides cope, that's understandable. it's statistically unlikely that you ever grow out of this phase, but individuals are not dependent on population statistics.
>>82872662>maybe they were just born this way and had no other way to express themselves.born what way? they were perfectly normal people and that's the point>you are using a just world fallacyno i was responding to yours>you are a giga retard. my point is specific to the choices you make today. if you're incapable of making any other choice besides cope, that's understandable. it's statistically unlikely that you ever grow out of this phase, but individuals are not dependent on population statistics.i am not someone to whom normie statistics tend to apply. however i am still subjected to lookism the same way i am subjected to the laws of physics.
>>82872689>born what way?you are acting like its the bullies fault for bullying you. that's called just world fallacy.>lookism brainwashing yourself with horoscope bullshit is not the same as applying laws of physics. body dysmorphia is the easiest bullshit to get rid of if you actually believe in physics.
>>82872587>NO I WON'T MAKE AN ATTEMPT TO FIX MY PROBLEMS!!!>I'M NOT A NORMIE1!!11!!>MY PROBLEMS DEFINE WHO I AM SO IF I FIX THEM I WON'T BE WHO I AMlmao faggot.
>>82872713you are incapable of grasping concepts beyond a very modest level of complexity and i am running out of patienceit is not horoscope bullshit that people care what you look like, especially women for dating. it is absolutely determinant. how do you even get past high school without noticing this.i blame the bullies for bullying me, of course. because it was literally them. just world fallacy would be if i blamed myself like "i must've been bad because bad things came to me". obviously.
>>82872130Rope. It's over for you.
>>82872130for what it's worth anon, i think that's very sweet
>>82872500We don't all live in big cities
>>82872956thanks it's absolutely pathetic and she'd probably stop talking to me if I told her that
>>82872988if she doesn't appreciate your eagerness, drop her!!!!
>>82873001I was talking to you and you left without saying goodbye. So rude, so mean.
>>82873001I'm not eager, I'm not trying to do some stupid e date or sexting thing. I'm just reflecting on the situation I'm in where the highlight of my day is my phone going bing and a girl is recommending a novel from 2004
>>82873011who are you!! i get distracted easily i'm sorry!!!!!>>82873018>highlight of my day is my phone going bing and a girl is recommending a novel from 2004but that's so cute though omg
>>82872158That'll be me in four years
I'm 36. I'm back living with my dad after a couple suicide attempts and a hospitalization. Been dating and met some cool girls. I have a teaching license, so I'm going to go teach high school again soon.Honestly, you're fine. I've worked in Africa, South America, and Asia, I went to one of the most prestigious universities in the US for grad school, I've been a published journalist, and now I'm a teacher. If you wanted, you could literally enroll at the cheapest local college, get an education degree, and be in the exact same position as me in 2-3 years. Then go out, date, find a girl you like enough, and have a family and a career by 40. Or, instead of becoming a teacher you could get a lucrative trade apprenticeship or tech position and be in a much better position than me within 2 years. It isn't too late, just get going. Think about what you want your life to look like and move forward. Your mind will come up with all sorts of excuses why things won't work out - don't fall for stupid scams, but also don't listen to those voices of doubt. Just move forward.
>>82873069>who are you!! i get distracted easily i'm sorry!!!!!I posted a picture of a jet that you were disturbed by, we were talking last night in the degeneracy thread! I can't believe you already forgot about me
>>82872524how have you been able to manage the basic survival stuff like bills and rent? I want to turn off my brain and let spirits in to guide me too but I'm afraid if i let go too much I will end up on the street or being forced into a situation of total lack of control and agency
>>82873087i didn't forget you!! i just talk to a lot of people so i didn't want to incorrectly assume your identity!!!hello fren, how are you doing today :]
>>82873111I'm easy to identify my name is Anonymous!I'm a-ok just getting my shitposting in early while I wait on some stuff. How about you?
>>82873131there are many anons!!!!!! no!!!!i'm making some breakfast and getting back to some sewing projects!! some of my clothes need some fixing so i'm gonna work on that today
>>82873174Actually every anon is me, I'm a very prolific poster>breakfastYou're in a weird timezone. Sewing is interesting, do you do it by hand or use a machine?
>>82873107Neetbux is essential or it's eat out of the trash and beg. I've succeded at trash eating and begging before when homeless. If I talk about the fallen angel/succubus people want me on the heaviest meds possible or they kick me out. I got kicked out for years. When kicked out im homeless it's disability money or beg or trash eat food thats still fresh.
we're 2 hours past when she would normally text me and she hasn't responded to my message about roberto bolano. its truly over.
>>82872965Who said anything about big cities? I surely didn't.The outside also exists in the country side.
>>82873686>go outside>see trees>no people
>>82872158try showing a little solidarity anon!
>>82873735>Be you>Live in a cave>In the middle of the woods>1000s of miles away from anything>Don't even have internetHow are you posting, caveman? Oh, wait. That's right. Because you've fabricated a lie in order to perpetuate your behaviors of staying inside and not putting any effort into socializing. Because if you did socialize, you would quickly become a normie, the thing you hate.Just like.Every.Single.Robot.
what do people actually mean when they say "just go outside!" >leave home>where go now ???>walk around various places>what is the point of this>walk around more>go back home where in the above does the "somehow gain new friends out of nowhere" part fit in?
>>82873759>Live in a caveWell no, it's a house.>In the middle of the woodsYes.>1000s of miles away from anythingNot thousands, but a decent drive from anything.>Don't even have internetWell now you're just being rude deliberately. There's not much for ways to socialize out here though. Bars? I'm never going to be that tallest, loudest guy in the room. Hobbies? I like hiking I guess, but that's pretty solitary. I could pick up one I don't really like just to meet people, but a lot of hobbies cost money, and I have a mortgage. Seriously, I'm open to actual suggestions that aren't shitposts.
>>82873853You absolutely do not need to be the tallest loudest guy in the bar nor should you even want to be.It's not some kind of competition like that the hardest part about bars imo is that usually people are there with their own friend groups already so you'll end up sitting there awkwardly alone anyway for at least until the alcohol gives you enough courage to try to mingle with some people.Hiking can be pretty social i think, maybe try looking for groups you can join/meet up with if there are any in your area?
>>82873835They mean, very simply, get out of your house and go interact with society. It's not rocket science. >>82873853If you think it's rude to point out your obvious lie, then sure, I'm being rude. You're painting the situation as if you're completely isolated with no one at all around you. Which is obviously false. You're probably like 30~ minutes from a town/city where people gather and do social stuff.Even if this were true, as you've so astutely admitted to, you chose to live like that. You have a mortgage, which means, you chose to buy that house in that location. YOU are choosing the life you have. You even admitted to not like meeting people. Which is most likely why you chose to live in the middle of nowhere. There is no recommendations that can be made to someone like you. Because you don't want to do any of the things that would be recommended. Because, again, you chose to be isolated. You want that. You chose the life you have. So quick bitching about it like it's some big to do. You've made your bed, now sleep in it. I would go so far as to guess that all this is the cost of your own refusal to deal with something that happened in your life which now as resulted in you having some social anxiety. You chose to completely avoid society, now you're completely cut off from society. >Well, if it isn't the consequences of my own actions.png
>>82873915>the hardest part about bars imo is that usually people are there with their own friend groups already so you'll end up sitting there awkwardly alone anywayThis is what happens every time I've been to a bar. And I get worried about drinking too much because I have to drive myself home. Maybe I'll look around for hiking groups or something though, that's a decent idea.>>82873925>You have a mortgage, which means, you chose to buy that house in that location.Sure, I would have liked to buy a decent house a bit closer to civilization, but the average home price here is $500k, with the most inflated prices obviously being near cities and towns. The housing market is beyond fucked and I had to buy something I could actually afford, and I think most people younger than me won't even get that opportunity. inb4 just be a multimillionaire. Yeah, if only it were that easy.
>>82872746nobody was talking about grasping concepts. if you believe in horoscope voodoo bullshit, that's your own problem. >i blame the bullies for bullying methat's just world fallacy
>>82874034For starters, you didn't HAVE to buy a house. It sounds like you live alone, so you could have very easily just rented a small apartment, or even a small house. You could have literally rented a studio apartment or some duplex. Secondly, housing prices always go down. For all you know, in 4 or 5 years your house could be worth 1/10 it's current price.
pretty sure she's gone. ok I was probably boring her.
