let's say you finally get your first gf/bf, and you are khhv no more. it's a very good relationship and you're glad you got lucky on your first try. then after 2 years together you randomly develop an obsessive crush bordering on oneitis on your partner's friend, and spend many many months agonizing about it. it lasts over a year. just when it actually starts getting worse (you always felt "safe" assuming it to be an unrequited dumb crush, but you start to see subtle signs that say otherwise), your partner seems to make an excuse to cut off their friend. everything goes back to normal, and you never acted on the crush.would you take it to the grave or admit to the crush and risk being dumped for that after many years together?
>>82884821I mean, you never did anything? What's there to confess?That's like confessing you told a joke about robbing a bank one time.
