im such a lost causei cant get a relationship im just obsessed with fictional men i feel like one of those reddit neckbeard weebs with a bodypillow girlfriendlike all i do is imagine me and him together and write about us and draw us and read fanfiction about him and everythingi know it sounds really stupid but idk i just hate leaving the house and talking to people ughhh
>>82885092Have you tried not being retarded and just talking to real men online?
>>82885092What makes you think the science autism is any better?
>>82885092me me me for the love of god pick me!(if you are a real bio girl)
>>82885092Real men will only tolerate you for access to holes. Every romantic gesture, every sweet nothing. It's all for hole access. Love is a myth and I don't blame you for chasing fantasy.
>>82885111i dont think it is its just more socially acceptableidk id rather tell ppl my special interest is science or something and not a specific fictional character
>>82885116how is me exposing myself and my embarrassing as hell life being a pick me oh my godddd
>>82885092Dont worry since youre a woman this literally has 0 impact on your social standing
>>82885092Who's your husbando though?
>>82885142yeah honestly youre right maybe this is whats best for me
>>82885092OH MY GOD MY SISTERRRR I KNEW I WASN'T THE ONLY ONEE. MY FAVOURITE IS LURKING FOR LOVE. > in all seriousness though, the solution is to stop having these idealized scenarios. We need to ground ourself. See the world for what it is. These fictional characters were made for us to specifically like them. But IRL men are not like that. Talk to people. Go out. Just stop playing dating Sims girl I am on that journey too.
>>82885173ill be honest im hesitant to say because it is genuinely embarrassing but maybe ill share if youre really interested in it
>>82885189im ngl i dont play dating sims i just get weirdly attached to fictional characters. autism i guesslike if it was dating sims maybe it would be less embarrassing idkbut yeah youre right honestly
>>82885214Trust me, dating sims are like the bottom of the barrel. I thought about buying a body pillow of him. But I 100% relate to your post, and girl, it's fine. I think it's because modern media pushes us to unrealistic ideas of love. Meanwhile, the whole world is going to shit. Escapism is nice when you're first at it, but then it just sucks your soul. Save yourself. Meet people and have REAL conversations. Not som fake scenarios.
>>82885092have you tried playing videogames with a friendly guy and falling for him and being happy together?
>>82885254yeah maybe that'd be better. my character also isnt from a super popular show so theres basically nothing out there
>>82885157You would get the same response, no normies give a shit about quantum field theory or computational biology. The only thing that would be different is that knowing the structure of the universe you would realize how...mundane and revolting the current structure of the world is. Also, people will only be crueler because they know you can help them generate income/energy.
>>82885266i havent but i do like videogamesmaybe i could get unhealthily attached to a real man idk
>>82885195I'm just curious, I never understood people who feel things for fictional characters.
>>82885285yeah but theyre not actively made fun of, i am. ive genuinely lost friends over it cause they think im insane
>>82885306where you from? what vidya do you like? would you play a modded minecraft playthrough with me for months and move in together
>>82885320Who cares about the approval of morons?
>>82885306>get unhealthily attached to a real manDon't get unhealthily attached, it's not good and leads to shitty relationships.
>>82885283Which one?? LFL is so niche i hate it. The game should have so much more attention. It's like the only dating sim that isn't deranged and NSFW. And the dude is so cute. But if it helps I have played some pretty deranged ones too. Like What1WoulndtDo. That one was batshit crazy, and horrible, 0/10.>but yeah girl, just take care and don't rush things. Enjoy life and company. Get out there, get some hobbies do things you love !
>>82885309no yeah i get what you mean.this is so embarrassing so please please dont judge me but its a character called gilfoyle from silicon valley. again, embarrassing as fuck idk why i like him so much the show isnt even that amazing
>>82885321yeah i like minecraft, id be down for thatbut i mostly play story based games and some horror, im currently playing detroit become human
>>82885343nah he cute, he like mine. Don't worry
>>82885343I can't judge because I haven't watched the show. Looked him up and he's a bit similar to me (long dark hair and similar glasses) lel. What is he like/what do you like about him?
>>82885364hes honestly kind of a dick in the show but like in a funny way if that makes sense. like i find him funny and just something about him got me idk. and yeah hes also very much my type
>>82885360okay but where are you from. are you in the US server regions or EU. and are you able to move in wtih me ?
>>82885389im eu basedand idk if i wanna move in with someone else, im fairly happy in the country i live in currently
>>82885389You should probably take things more slowly like just talk to people online first before trying to move in, especially if you have mental issues.
>>82885411>and idk if i wanna move in with someone else, im fairly happy in the country i live in currentlywell then how you gonna date anyone... eurofemanons never wanna actually date they just like talking about it.NL here>>82885542no
>>82885562i just like where i live, i dont wanna move outside my country. my family and ancestors are so tied to this country and town where i live so i dont wanna move
>>82885583okay then don't go on r9k looking for guys to talk to when you're not gonna commit.jesus christ.any femanons that actually are looking for something serious?
>>82885607im not being serious because i dont wanna move in with someone i dont know? okay man
>>82885647you should stick with fictional guys cause i can already tell you'd be a dogshit dreadful girlfriend. fuck off
>>82885647Yes clearly you need to go from being a shut-in with an unironic husbando to moving into another country straight away kek.
>>82885677oh yeah totally cause like that will definitely end well. lol this fucking guy is so weird
>>82885166I mean pick me as your bf
>>82885343not to be rude but he looks gay and your tastes are bad and you're a bad person and i hope he kills himself in my opinion
>>82885708maybeif you give me contact info we could talk maybe and i could get an unhealthy obsession with you lol
>>82885729okay man whatever. i love him so i dont care what you think.
>>82885092You sound cute, I hope you find the love you need. Despite what people here say it is real.
>>82885803thanks dude, thats rlly nice
>>82885733Sorry, I'm an American and you are a euro. I won't leave my homeland and you don't want to leave yours. It isn't meant to be. Hope you can find a male to obsess over. And I hope I can find a female to obsess over. Good luck to us all.
>>82885888yeah alright, i can respect thatgood luck to you too anon
>>82885320have you ever thought about the fact your losing friends because your insufferable to be around and people do not have the heart to tell you? it has nothing to do with your interests whatsoever. people with weird interests manage to make friends especially when it relates to fandoms so i dont see the fandoms or what you like being an issue, its you. (im saying this as a femanon who wears weird clothing and has no friends, the only reason i know people do not like me is because i do not put in any effort towards maintenence/socialising which is my fault alone)
>>82885254>I think it's because modern media pushes us to unrealistic ideas of love.such as?I don't think finding a person who you really like and who really likes you, and they never had a partner before you, and never want a partner after you, and you are the only person in their eyes for the rest of your lifes is unrealistic.people who have a bodycount of 0 and want to die in old age with a bodycount of 1 with the person they trust and love the most in this world in their arms.And isn't that all thats required for the "happily ever after"-fantasy?I am pretty sure there are women who think this way, and I know for a fact there are men who think this way because I am one.doesn't mean Its likely I'm gonna find one of those women and/or if we actually vibe with each other if I find her, but I don't think its an unrealistic ideal to pursue.Hell, I think its the only ideal worth pursuing in this material plane, as I'd rather not bind my eternal soul with the wrong person, I'm either going to find the right person or I'm gonna leave this plane unbound.
