>>82885213
Yeah why not? I used to have a huge crush on a girl who was abused really horribly as a child. I've dated a few girls who were sexually assaulted. It's really common and it's not anything to be ashamed of. The problem really is whether you're able to let someone in and accept their love or not. Rape really causes a lot of damage to you in that way.

>>82885213
yes, just not by me, sorry

Yes, but you'll prob need therapy to be able to accept it with a very stable and patient partner.

>>82885213
whores cant be raped, though

the thing is it was done by my step dad and for the longest time i blamed myself

I can only afford damaged goods in this economy

if she works through her issues and doesn't become a whore or a miserable person because of it yeah definitely. in fact i would love her more because that shows great strength

>>82885213
She can, but can she love anyone? My ex was molested as a child but she had gone through intensive therapy immediately after and had fully come to terms with it and was functional. You can be too.

>>82885235
Wrong dumb MFer a raped girl is now called a SLUT and can never be loved because she'll always burn every bridge.
Don't be a retard (oh wait that's impossible for you)

>>82885412
she doesnt want to be loved, anon

she wants to be raped

the more violent it is, the better

>>82885301
Why did you blame yourself?

>>82885213
i havent been raped but i was molested and assaulted and yeah we can.

ive had successful relationships, its just harder than someone who hasnt gone through that

>>82885213
LMAO fuck no. You're unlovable and deserve what happened to you.

>>82885213
nope its over for you RIP

>>82885457
idk for some reason i thought that if i dressed "provocatively" it was my fault

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>>82885481
>>82885498
Attack of the chuds

>>82885213
My ex was raped once and I loved her, it didn't change anything.

>>82885481
why would you say that i deserve it.

>>82885565
because this is 4chan and he's being edgy

>>82885565
dont take it personally

hes wrong, no one deserves that. hes just being edgy cause he thinks its funny.

my rapist said that i actually wanted it because my pussy got wet

>>82885565
not him but you were probably dressed like slut

>>82885638
He's wrong. Just because your body is programmed to respond to sex doesn't mean you want it

>>82885664
You're right, see here >>82885516

>>82885213
love isn't real in the first place, but if you mean can one be in a stable lasting relationship the answer in my experience and observation is no.

>>82885301
>>82885516
How common is this? Knew a girl with the same story
stop being a whore btw

>>82885705
as someone who was also assaulted its very common to blame yourself

also a literal child is not a whore for being raped by an adult but alright

>>82885516
"asking for it" is a real thing, even if females don't understand it. it's like when a cat goes into heat and shoves its ass in the air and yowls at the top of her lungs. does she know what sex is? no, but she's very obviously asking for it and biologically programmed to do such. girls dressing slutty and putting themselves around virile men is the same thing.

>>82885720
I know about the child part but they tend to become whores later anyway

>>82885727
That's an awful thing to say.

>>82885728
sure okay whatever

personally i didnt become a whore (other than selling "nudes" when i was 11 years old lol) im just fucked up mentally

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>>82885757
Face it, you're just a whore since young age. At 11 I knew not to "sell" nudes

>>82885727
i just wanted to wear fun and cute clothes...

>>82885213
Multiple times? Sounds like she's retarded and deserves it

>>82885774
sorry, are you blaming an 11 year old for selling themselves online? that is genuinely unhinged

>>82885804
it was my step dad and he made me feel like it was my fault!!

>>82885808
Absolutely, if you sell yourself at any age you're a whore end of story. How fucking stupid are you to not have the common sense to realize that is wrong since like age 9? Try to gaslight yourself and others but shit's obvious, next you're gonna tell me you didn't know it was wrong what the step dad was doing even back then? Pathetic trying to shift blame over selling nudes. Anyway, got any of the old material lying around? I could goon right now if I'm being honest

>>82885810
stop replying anon. i understand youre upset and i get it, i really do. but they are just trying to get a rise out of you, they find it funny.

it was not your fault, you did not deserve it, and you are a victim.

this thread made me feel despair for my ex who was molested as a kid and after we broke up became a heroin addict and is probably dead now.

>>82885824
it doesnt work like that. i was made think nobody would believe me anyway.

>>82885720
unless its a whore child from a whore mom checkmate foid

>>82885824
I feel like this is bait but women do have huuuge fucking mouths but they NEVER do anything useful with them
>inb4 sex jokes

>>82885830
you want cp? alright man whatever

literally blaming a child for being groomed and assaulted btw

>>82885851
Was the step dad pimping you out? No, you said *you* were selling it at 11. A dumb bitch since 11

>>82885810
That is what abusers will do. And if you tell anybody? You are gaslighted by everyone like even my mom did when her boyfriend raped me.

>ohh nona, he's a nice guy, he wouldn't donsomething like that! Quit lying.

It's why I'll never forgive anyone. It wasn't until he did it while she was home and I was screaming did she finally believe me. I never got over this and I hate everyone because of it even after years of therapy and being put on almost every single mood stabilzer there is.

>>82885862
>being put on almost every single mood stabilzer there is.
Which one is your favorite? Tier list?

>>82885862
What happened to your mom and her boyfriend, where are they now?

>>82885859
i was in 5th grade, i didnt even know algebra dude

and im not the person with the stepdad, i was molested when i was a child (like 2-4 yrs old)

>>82885810
That's terrible. I hope he is in prison now.

>>82885893
Well duh you can't compare a 2-4yo being abused to a 11yo selling her nudes willingly like a whore
>>82885896
Lmfao retard

>>82885901
yup he is in prison

>>82885907
brother i went through both.

i was molested at 2-4 years old by my preschool teacher which led me to sell my nudes when i was 11

>>82885915
>which led me to sell my nudes when i was 11
That's just how you cope with it, shifting blame

Every girl I dated(two in total) was raped. But it's OK because I was the one who raped them. I would feel like she's gross and dirty if someone else raped her. That's actually why I dumped the first one. She went to a party and "got raped". Code for being a cheating whore. Rape is rarely rape because 99% of the time she was asking for it or engineered events purposely so the outcome was all but inevitable.

>>82885213
idk post pussy, tits and maybe feet and lets find out together

>>82885922
>She went to a party and "got raped". Code for being a cheating whore. Rape is rarely rape because 99% of the time she was asking for it or engineered events purposely so the outcome was all but inevitable
trvke

>>82885235
>It's really common and it's not anything to be ashamed of.
Are you posting from africa?

>>82885301
That sucks anon, sorry. Being exploited by someone responsible for your safety is the worst kind of betrayal and happens more than some realize so you are not alone. Many have found a way so it's possible. I hope you get some pro help to recover.

>>82885919
yeah but again i was 11 and struggling to cope

i also cut myself to the point i had literally over 100 cuts at some point. i still have scars. i was desperate for attention and i sold cp as a desperate attempt to cope and take back my sexuality

>>82885841
mine was the same, but she ended up getting married and having a kid, so they don't all end up that way; i don't expect her marriage to last but at least her kid gives her purpose.

>>82885963
Did you take back your sexuality, whore?

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This thread is a bit too upsetting

Anon, I am incredibly sorry for what happened to you, but 4chan is absolutely the worst place to find sympathy. It's full of rapists and pedophiles who get off on your pain and you deserve better than that

>>82885991
im not gonna entertain you because you are just trying to make me angry.

bye bye anon, i am not giving in to your misery

>>82886027
You didn't take shit back, you just whored yourself out to pedos online and probably got off during it. Wouldn't be surprised if you still do just thinking about it

>>82886027
you remind me of my ex. i really hope you find happiness and peace away from what happened to you someday.

>>82886054
thanks anon, that means a lot.

especially on this hellscape of a site that is 4chan

>>82886091
please stay away from drugs no matter how bad it gets and get professional help for what happened to you. so many people overcome this shit and live great lives.

>>82886099
yeah i stay away from all substances, i dont even drink. mostly cause of physical health issues

but yeah im working on it in therapy currently

>>82885213
are you cute?
are you cute as a person?
if no to both then the answer is no

>>82886043
Genuinely interested what your deal is. only scenario where where I harass rape victims is if feminists killed my entire family or something on that level

>>82886110
It's called being a 4chanigger and it's incurable.

>>82886137
Calm down retard this foid is clearly like 18 tops

I wish I was raped desu

>>82886164
>*rapes u*
:3

>>82886164
no one wants to rape your neovagina

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>>82886137
oh, I'm talking with an actual rapist

>>82886110
>"rape"
>"victims"
i am laffing

>>82885875
None of them. They're all shit. I hated the clonzepine the most followed by depakote. Those gave me nothing but side effects. The geodon is really the only one that works for me but I hate it because again side effects.

>>82885887
Mom is by herself now since I eon't associate with her or family. The boyfriend was a jail but I don't care to see how he is doing. I hope his life is a living hell with everyone harassing him for being a pedo.

>>82885213
No, her pussy is utterly broken. This is science

>>82885213
The girl I love was raped. Rapist has been dealt with, just the others who upset her now. I love her, to the absolute bottom of my heart, love her more than she knows. Love, real love, not sexual fantasy. I love her.

>>82886748
He doth protest too much

>>82886703
Not broken, just dirty. Homeless dudes and crackheads dig half eaten takeout from dumpsters for a meal. And crackheads are some of the cheapest prostitutes to buy sex from.

>>82886756
>crackheads are some of the cheapest prostitutes to buy sex from.
And they're still worth more then you, isn't that funny anon.

>>82885638
>>82885680
foids can consent to rape so what's the big deal?

>>82885213
is this anya? id still take you back in even if you were raped

>>82885213
Probably not because you have bpd and will ultimately hurt or push away most kind guys

Reading the thread, a few were raped as children. How affected are you today by it?

>>82887093
Fucked up completely for life. I'm broken and there's no fixing me.

>>82887309
Fucked up in what ways?

>>82885839
this person is doing reverse psychology to fuck with your head dont let them abuse you remember it was your fault and always is

>>82885912
why? what did they do wrong?

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>>82887309
It's ok to be a little broken anons. We love you anyway. Do your best

>>82885213
DESU I wouldn't.
I want my first time to be with someone I love and trust the most, to share this unique developmental milestone with the person I want to spend my life with.
For that I want a virgin-virgin marriage. So theres just curiosity and exploration, innocence paired with desire, no pressure to perform or do anything other than finding out how each others bodies react to certain stimuli that they've never felt before.
Its either that or I'll just die a virgin. I'd rather never sleep with anyone than sleep with the wrong person and/or under the wrong circumstances.

I believe a girl who isn't a virgin, including one who's been raped has forever tainted her view on this most intimate of human experiences. I could never share this core human experience for the first time with her.

>>82886091
>especially on this hellscape of a site that is 4chan
nigger you're on the site by choice fucking retard

even raped once they are probably not date-able from my experience. Tried twice and both were literally the most worst experiences in my life.

>>82887403
I'm >>82886436 and >>82885862. I'm really fucked up. I don't trust people at all. Even my therapist. I don't trust the other people in the group home I'm in. I don't trust the doctors. I cannot trust anyone.

I've been in and out of the psych hospital so many times. I'm on a boatload of medications and I have to take them all or I'll get kicked out and end up homeless. I cannot be around my mom or family because of the trust issues and how she ignored me. My childhood and teenage years were hell because of it. Hardly any if the meds work, and of the few that do, they have major side effects like even the geodon, or are addictive like the klonopin I'm on.

I have nightmares almost every night. I get scared when one of the other girls bring in their boyfriends. I cannot look at myself in the mirror and think of myself as a sexual being or I have a total meltdown. I shut myself off and have gotten in trouble for doing so. I cannot talk to people because I always shut down. I have a lot of thought blocking because of the trauma. No amount of therapy or meds will help.

Everything bothers me. Esp loud sounds. When ms schizo hasvanother episide, I start to shake because she raises her voice. The staff knock loud on my door just to tell me a meal is ready or when they do their checks. Thankfully, I'm allowed to keep headphones on.

I'm just that broken. I cannot be saved. The only good benefit I have is shelter (for now) and I'm not required to work. I get neetbux that I don't have to give much for to the group home for rent. Sonthe rest can go towards a cell plan so I can have internet like I do now.

>>82887452
I'm not just a little broken.

>>82885301
pedos will literally get with single moms solely so they can molest their daughters
getting raped isn't the victim's fault to begin with, but when it's a stepparent it's especially not the victim's fault

>>82885213
can you describe your fav rape session in gut-wrenching detail and make it as lewd as possible

>>82887600
i actually HOPE this is some BPD hysterics, honestly.

morbid question, but how the fuck do you still have the will to live? this level of mental fuckery is like memory loss or chronic pain or something. i'd want to sign an agreement where doctors can peacefully and painlessly end my life.

what keeps you going? or does this all just become 'baseline', at this point, like you're used to it...?

>>82887600
>tfw I could fix her

>>82887600
Can you still remember the smell of his dick/cum? What if someone wanted to save you and you could lose yourself completely in him.

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>>82887722
reading this as the emo troll from Tails Gets Trolled tbqh.

ok, so I wasn't raped as a child.
So I wasn't really abused either.
That makes me immature for being a neet and not wanting to work?
I can't be considered broken?
I'm just being a baby that needs to grow out of it?

NO.
I don't care if I don't have any trauma badges like the rest of you.
I'M NOT A FAKE.
I DON'T DESERVE TO BE RIDICULED.
FUCK YOU GUYS.

>>82887600
>>82887722
r9k bullying rape victims wasn't on my bingo card for the night, oh well, if you want a friend wich i think is unlikely i'm here, i'm also mentally fucked but in another way

>>82887672
It is one of my uncountable diagnoses. The doctors use it as a blanket diagnosis for us. Even ms schizo has it despite not having most of the criteria needed. That and bipolar is also one of the blanket ones as well and anxiety.

I don't. I've tried suicide many times. I tried overdose and was saved. I cannot get a gun, and even if I could, I'd be too scared to get it, and wouldn't even get to the point of using it. I tried hanging but I was saved then and now since it was so painful that I cannot do it again. I cannot go up at a tall height because I'm scared of heights. Even the hospital and doctor I go to can only be on one level because of it. I'm hopeless. I didn't like the psych hospital because they have the locked unit on the 3rd and 4th loor. There's also boredom since the books are those stuoid trashy romance novels that the older staff alwaus buy at the dollar store. Not like I can read anywau because of the adhd that they won't allow me to have the medications that do work like the adderall but it's schedule 2 so no, not allowed. But hey! We'll allow you to take a llt of benzodiazepines because they're schedule 4. It doesn't matter if nurses are the ones who come in and give them to us and make sure we swallow and don't cheek them.

The only reason I keep going is because it's a bad thing for someone to die. It's also good to allow a person to live in suffering. I hate moralfags like this. If they had to suffer as much as this, they'd be begging for it. I feel for those with chronic pain like another girl here that has to take ineffective meds daily for her back pain because le opiates are BAAAAAD!!!

>>82887897
i hope you find a way to manage this and live the best life you can. healthy amount of adderall, maybe whatever works to reduce the crazy (that isn't just sedating you and sweeping it under the rug).

do you reckon it could galvanise you into helping others in a similar position, maybe? something you'd be passionate about, sense of purpose that isn't just staying alive for staying alive's sake.

>>82887964
a psychologist got blacklisted from the APA because she published a paper suggesting that most childhood abuse victims are fine and not traumatised. in fact, constantly telling them they're supposed to be traumatised might be CAUSING the harm.

i don't know if that's the case, but surely it'd be better that way round? an average diddle victim without therapy/counselling just has a normal life, that'd be great.

>>82887954
If there was a way, I would have by now. I'm just that broken. The only reason I comply is because I do not want to go back to the psych hospital. That just makes things worse for me. I at least have some freedom here like being able to have a phone to use for internet. Unfortunately it's lights out at 11pm so I'll have to turn it in. Thankfully I can have an mp3 player.

It sucks here. It's cold outside, but because a staff member here is in menopause and is hot, she has the ac on.

>>82887964
>>82887983
Most obvious samefag.

>>82888068
Do you have any like, plans to make friends or follow life normally after you leave that place or?

>>82887964
What do you get off to these days

>>82888118
i have always had weird sexual proclivities and whether or not thats related to being diddled i think is irrelevant. i do like ddlg, cgl, ageplay, but its mostly because i generally just have a childish and submissive personality and like being taken care of, i dont think it has anything to do with my assault, i generally am disinterested in things that remind me of that experience like belts or choking.
i also love hairy fat dudes and the two people who assaulted me dont fit that description at all
so tldr i dont think it influenced anything much

>>82888131
Look at the post times. Even a person who is a fast typer cannot read that, then type up that reply in short time. It's the MO of a certain shitposter. She must have woken up since her standard spam is in the catalogue.

>>82888129
i agree the internet takes this shit too far. before Discord i remember it was Tumblr. probably LiveJournal before that.
really weird "TW: about my abuser" shit and...THAT'S your standard for abuse? and now the current generation actually buys into it.

there are genuine victims though, and i'm sure plenty of people who were raped end up with trauma/long-term problems from it. from people i've known, you're 100% correct about the shame. like your friend, they're not the people who are going to publish/broadcast it. that shit's a late-night PRIVATE conversation between friends.

>>82888142
Well feels like every girl I meet is into that shit anyway, except hairy fat dudes, fucking disgusting 2bh

>>82888202
hey man leave fat dudes out of it, nothing like burying your face into man pubes and feeling their soft hairy belly resting on your forehead hnnng. or pressing onto you during backshots. i <3 fat hairy men raghh

>>82888225
Never reply to me again actually

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Rape victims showing vulnerability in a thread with a rapist trying to legitimately hurt them as much as he can through the medium...
I think threads like this are why I like this site. It's disgusting and horrible but I will never find anything like this anywhere else. Dark sparks of the long dead magic of the internet. A completely novel experience.

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>>82888227
sorry for hornyposting anon i wont do it again

>Meet discord girl
>Mentions getting abused literally on the first call
>Falls in love with me
Why, and why is this common, and why does it happen? Why share that fast?

>>82888214
You can quit samefagging. It's obvious it's you. You have zero variation other than changing your filenames and larps you use. How many larps do you have now? I haven't seen your slog larp in awhile. Did you kill it like your pedro/guraposter (your only good one) larp? Also, nice job melting down over d4 j00z in that one thread. Oh and the necrobumping and same spam your always post.

>>82885551
as long as you understand some people are horrible but that some people are not horrible, we can survive in this world by avoiding the horrible and sticking with the nonhorrible

>>82888268
is she nonironically underage? women are retarded when too young. same with men

>>82887600
I'm in love with a girl who exibits simmilar behavior.
SA'd as a child, tho no rape AFAIK, dad died of a heart attack infront of her eyes when she was 7, mother had psychosis, tried to end herself sending my crush to the foster system, went back to mom and had an abusive stepfather, then back to the foster system, or the psych ward, then back to crazy mom again.
extreme trust issues, BPD, OCD (the bad kind, like having to check the fridge door exactly 5 times), claimed asexual and really hates any kind of sexual "degenerate" stuff has had episodes even discussing the topic, anorexia BMI < 17, multipe involuntary visits to the psych ward, self harming behavior, hypochondria / medical paranoia, general paranoia (e.g. can only shower with the lights out bc she thinks there are cameras in her bathroom) some auditory and visual halluzinations, panic attacks and going catatonic when stressed, NEET, doesn't leave the house unless nesseccary, depression, lives in a government subsidized group home, has a legal guardian despite being 22yo, constant nightmares and sleep issues.

Do you have any tips what else I could do to help her other than just being there for her literally 24/7, talk many hours a day every day, 1000+ whatsapp audios per day, even if she texts me at 4am that she can't sleep I'll answer within minutes.
I encouraged her to buy a (cheap) piano and start practicing
I got her into playing vidya with me
I got her to shower and brush teeth regularly
I got her to use dream journaling and other techniques to have her sleep through most nights without waking up and even have some normal dreams
I got her to start eating more healthy and at least not loosing any more weight
I got her to walk to new stores and places in town she's never been to, buy plants, lego models, plushies etc.

All those I consider pretty basic.
Is there any more advanced stuff someone in your situation would want?
Been doing that for the past 1.5 years every single day without pause.

>>82888335
No, not underage

>>82888336
maybe im just a bitch but what is the point of being with someone like this? a person like this needs to be in a ward unironically not in a relationship. this is like finding a stray cat that got hit by a car and instead of taking it to the vet you drop feed it for 5 hours a day

>>82885213
Rape has lost all meaning
MeToo made it anything from actual tape to a woman regretting having sex with a man and claiming it afterwards

>>82885213
Obviously. I would be very patient and understanding.

>>82888336
Anon, Leave. You're killing yourself.

>>82888418
Let him do it we all gotta learn

>>82888336
You have a variety of labeled maladies with standardized treatments already developed. Read a book.

Don't know if I had outright OCD but I did do rituals like that, broke myself out plainly because there were too many to handle and I needed simple causality. It felt like hyping myself up to stab myself in the kidney but I managed the first step with sheer will. Then it was convincing myself to power through it every time something bad did happen, until good things started happening too.
Be there for her, She'll be primed for bad consequences happening and will notice them everywhere, so you have to remind her of the good things, or the bad things that didn't happen. When bad 'consequences' do happen you have to reason with her to keep going. Emphasize the reward of breaking free forever for the cost of a few consequences more.

Rape sperm is strongest sperm

>>82888481
i'm not female either, but i have had those conversations with female friends who have been raped (either in the past/childhood, or with a current-bf who IS abusive and i believe it, sure).

obviously people are different, but that was one of those 3am tough conversations. it's difficult, there's probably crying, gritted teeth because of the shame. and yet some people just spill it all on Twitter because it's 'healing'. ...is it? seems like the WORST idea if you were genuine, without ulterior motives.

none of this is to knock people who find outlets for it, though. if it fucks you up a bit and you write something down or turn it into art, i think that's great. i've also worked with women who worked at rape shelters, and their own experiences are part of why they went into those jobs.

>>82885213
Yeah. People are more than their worst times.

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>>82888383
...because I love her and I'm retarded and think she's my soulmate.
And yes, stray cat is pretty accurate to the point I tease her with that as a nickname.

I'm an antisocial retard who basically never had any close friends.
I've probably talked more with this person than literally all human interaction on this planet combined including my own parents. it is NOT an exxageration when I say 500-1000 whatsapp messages per day, including many multiple minute long audios, videos, and voice chat.
I had a tool that analized my whatsapp chat, it broke after displaying +99,999 messages, 500,000+ words written, 2000 pics and 15,000 audio files...
That was after knowing her for about 6 month and is more than a year ago.

pic related was around the 3 month mark of knowing her.

>>82888418
>>82888480
I shall not, and I will not learn.
I will save her or die trying (not being a Neet, having a M.Sc. STEM university degree, and being the only child of 65+yo millionaire boomer parents who'll probably just gift me a fully paid of house on my wedding day will probably make my job of saving her a lot easier tho)

>>82888496
I've read books, I've diagnosed several issues before even her therapist did (tho I didn't catch all), but standardized solutions only work so well as every individual is different.
Anyways I was asking more along the lines of reassuring her and making her life easier in little simple ways rather than "curing" her issues.
>or the bad things that didn't happen.
>you have to reason with her to keep going. Emphasize the reward of breaking free forever for the cost of a few consequences more.
Thanks, this sounds useful tho.

>>82888481
>victims should be quiet
Rapist

>>82886748
>>82886748
Too add.
The fucking rapists get their brains splattered on the asphalt. I'd make it slow too, I want to watch them scared, watch them suffer. And I can feign injury to approach. Cunts. The girl who saved my life was raped, rapist is jail, but there is another, I hunt, I hunt and I hunt, I am angry at rapists, furious, for what he did to her

>>82885213
That's just sad. I don't wanna be sad.

>>82885213
yes, if she's able to let herself be. and to find someone who will love her instead of just victimizing her more, for that matter.

>>82885213
i dont think so, no
>it wasnt my fault waa
ok go blame your rapist then, but sex has consequences, consensual or not

>>82885213
Depends on if she put herself into that position.
A slut who was cockteasing or asking for it? No.
Genuinely random and unprovoked, sure. I'd fuck her gently and hard.

>>82885213
Any girl can easily be loved if she settles for incels. But you'd rather be raped again than do that.

>>82890036
so if it was her step dad who thought she was dressed too provocatively?

>>82888092
None at all. I don't have anything. Some here they call lifers. Ms schizo has been here since it opened. I may be one unless I get kicked out. I won't be able to live a normal life. I tried a volunteer job and freaked out in a few minutes. I've already been here for a year.

>>82888336
I don't have any. Sorry.

>>82887093
i wasnt raped but i was molested as a child

personally it really had an effect on me but ive learned to deal with it. it can be hard on certain days but it also just depends person to person

>>82888268
personally i share that stuff as soon as i can to not only get it out of the way but also so that they know the baggage that comes with me lol

>>82890042
yeah well personally i settled for an incel and was just further traumatised. theres a reason women dont like incels.

>>82888597
I know exactly what you mean. I had a mother who intentionally refused to give my schizo brother meds in favor of "gently comforting him" (read: guilting and forced love bombing) for hours each day, until he deteriorated to complete insanity now. completely a non-function muttering mess and effectively a 35 year old pet, though they both abuse eachother and he beats her. She did it out of "love" just like you. I really, sincerely grapple with the idea of killing her sometimes for inflicting a fate worse than death on him. She's been more or less disowned by her entire family.
You're the same, that's why you don't want to """cure""" her even though you can.
You'll get what you deserve.

>>82890369
NTA but did you settle for an incel as in "an involuntary celibate" meaning just a guy who's been down on his luck/had a skill issue when it comes to getting girls, or an incel as in a member of this retarded internet subculture of whiny asshats?

>>82888415
What the fuck is a child supposed to do to stop someone older than them you retarded edgelord? They can't stop it physically, and being kids they're dumb enough to believe that they'll get in trouble if they tell someone, so usually it just keeps going on until they get old enough to get away, or someone else finds out about it.

We should just go back to hanging rapists.

>>82891361
both i guess. the term incel has been soiled by the internet culture around it so any man who is just genuinely not doing great in life should avoid it. women will avoid you like the plague if you reference inceldom

>>82891425
Agreed desu I just say I'm a kissless virgin because I don't want to be identified with people who spend 10 hours a day posting on the internet about how the universe should spontaneously generate them a girlfriend. I mean I still want one but I prefer to spend my free time having fun with my hobbies. Was your incel into the internet culture thing?

>>82891444
he kinda was? like he lurked 4chan every once in a while but he didnt really openly express any of the opinions or views incels usually have.

>>82885213
Yes but I'd find her being weird about sex incredibly annoying. Well adjusted women with good childhoods are high maintenance enough as it is.

>>82891475
Ah then I wouldn't really call him one unless you suspect he was omitting it or something. What did he do that you say further traumatized you etc?

>>82885727
So of your daughter was raped by her step dad youd give him a pass of she was "asking for it" by dressing provocative? You sound like a shit parent and a weak man. Thankfully there is a 100% chance you will never be a father.

>>82891500
well he was overly sexual all the time, he lovebombed me like crazy, and just disrespected my boundaries. he claimed to be a virgin incel so idk

i was also a minor at the time and he was in his 20s

>>82885213
>canna hoe who been raped a lotta times get some love?

>>82891557
Ah classic, I've actually been lovebombed and dumped too. What did you learn from it? Any protips for recognizing "clever" lovebombing that's not too obvious?

>>82891580
ill be honest im not the person you wanna go to advice for lol but i can give you some general tips. just look out for someone going way too fast, someone saying they love you super early on. but the biggest red flag is if they pull away and then are super lovey dovey when they come back, that is textbook lovebombing

>>82891652
I asked because I assume you've probably become super paranoid by now and I'm autistic so I'll probably fall for it again. The push-pull thing is so obvious in hindsight but for some reason my response was just "hmm what could they possibly mean by this?"

>>82891339
nah, I just put "curing" in quotation marks because from the actual psychological literature I've read, a lot of those conditions simply do not have a "cure", its an ongoing lifelong process of being able to handle the symptoms and deal with the emotions.
If I could cure her issues with the snap of my fingers, I'd do it in a heartbeat, even if it would mean she'd never talk to me again, as her happyness is more important to me than even her being in my life.

Even tho she probably doesn't realize it, but she has helped me at least just as much as I've helped her.
while unilke her I was never a depressed NEET, I did my university stuff etc, but I was an anxious nervous mess who couldn't really talk to people without stuttering, I never did anything except my usual autistic routine, I was basically a fucking robot.
She gave me purpose, my confidence levels have increased exponentially since I've known her because I just don't give a fuck anymore about all the anxious "what could he/she think about me" thoughts when interacting with normal NPC's, because they don't fucking matter, they are NPC's.
I started working out and doing self defense classes (lost 20lbs of fat, then gained 15lbs of muscle over the past year, I'm close to a six pack now), I started doing more activities myself like going to a museum or a restaurant or something, because I knew to encourage her to leave her shell, I had to give a positive example.
I have a purpose in life and I have to be strong for her, because I know she cant be strong for herself.

>>82891747
no yeah i get what you mean. im also autistic so very relatable lol

its hard to catch on when youre attached so try to spot it early on, itll save you

>>82891966
I had it done to me by a fellow autist too that's like a stab in the back. Guess your incel ex was probably very ND too?

>>82891999
yeah he was def some type of ND. it does rlly feel like betrayal when a fellow autist/ND person betrays you like that

>>82892095
So why do you come here to vent btw where 60% of replies will just tell you to go get raped again or to grow a dick and rape yourself etc?

>>82892152
idk at this point honestly. there are anons who are scum of the earth but the ones who arent are actually way more compassionate than the average person imo

>>82892343
>the ones who arent are actually way more compassionate than the average person
Those are probably just autists and/or traumatized ones with enough of an overlap in symptom manifestation to feel more relatable desu, and with a 50% chance of turning out to be fucked up later.

>>82892356
yeah probably true. idk it just feels nice to get encouragement from someone who actually understands, esp when youre feeling down

>>82892369
Do you do CBT or other techniques for when you're down?

>>82892378
i do yeah, therapist recommended. i have a lot of different coping mechanism, some healthy others not so much

highly recommend cbt for anyone having a tough time in life. it feels so fucking corny but it does really work

>>82892540
I want to do CBT but I can't afford it so I just do stuff I looked up online like breathing and relaxation exercises + taking my SSRIs. What do you do that works best?

>>82892548
well im fairly certain you can look up cbt exercises online

my therapist has a specific plan for me about how to talk to myself and how to change my mindset, she said the best first step is talking positively to yourself (yes, corny, but it works)

>>82885213
Yes, but only by chad

>>82892793
Any tips for finding the right therapist for a traumatized victim who's been through several that didn't work?

>>82892913
it can be hard but i firstly recommend a female therapist, they are almost always better. secondly i would say find one that specialises in whatever flavor of issues you have, and if you want to try cbt i recommend finding someone who specialises in cbt

>>82885429
Is this some kink shit or something? What you talking about nigga, it's really not that uncommon and they get loved all the time.
>>82886027
Yeah just ignore this asshole, you were a child at 11 too lol, don't blame yourself it's okay.
>>82887897
Damn sucks you can't even cheek the benzos, save them up and do a bunch at once. Hope things get better for you

>>82888597
I've never been with one this extreme but a few BPDs including violent ones. Just reassure her and be trustworthy, you're overthinking it. I'll be honest I don't think this will turn out well but you'll learn, I get it's your first time, just know you'll split up. Also if she's afraid of sex will it be a sexless relationship/marriage, have you had sex?

>>82891580
You're a kissless virgin, how is that love bombing? You've never truly seen it

>>82887897
>swallow
When he came, did you swallow?

>>82893097
we're both virgins.
I'm possibly leaning towards being asexual myself or at least have reeeeeeeally low libido.
Like, I have this idealized romanticized version of what sex is in my mind, where its just... idk, like cuddling but closer, the closest and most connected you can ever be with a person, basically after you have complete 100% trust in a person, you use this epitomal act of intimacy as the intertwining of souls with the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.

I would only ever want to have sex after marriage anyways. When I've found the person I want to be my life partner.
For me, just the idea of having actual IRL sex with someone would require such immense trust for a person, to give an example I would only ever feel comfortable getting intimate with another person if I hypothetically would also feel compleately comfortable and at ease when they were to hold a loaded gun to my head, literally putting my life in their hands. In my mind its the greatest sign of trust and connection you can share with another human being.

I'm not even at that level with her yet, as I've only known her for 1.5ish years.
I wouldn't currently sleep with her even if she offered, I'd ask if there was anything wrong with her and If i should call a doctor.

>>82885213
Sure, why not. Bonus points if you're into this and guy would like rapeplay.

>>82885301
If anything, this makes it more justifable.

In any case, I assume it was real rape, not some
>opsie, I got drunk like a retard and woke up to guy I don't like so I'll call rape to avoid consequences of being dumb slut

i wish non-consensual rape didn't exist.

>>82885213
only if she didn't cum. just kidding, only if she did cum.

>>82893025
Even if I could, it really wouldn't do anything. I've been on them for so long, they have little effect on me. I think the real reason they keep me on them is so I don't go into withdrawal, which doesn't matter since I never had withdrawal symptoms even when I was cut off cold turkey.

Thanks, anon. It's been a typical day in the drama household. I'm just back in my cubby hole just browsing here while listening to music in my headphones to drown out everything.

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>>82888214 (Dead)
>wE'rE nOt ThE sAmE
Not the the same person, huh? Proven yet again via an IP nuke which according to the archive was deleted at the same exact time along with your normal spam. You are too obvious and noticeable, nona. Try harder since you are supposed to be a really oldfag (e.g. Chanology old), yet you act like a newfag. You might want to have your sister smack you next time with the back of her hand instead. Maybe also at the same time beg her for a slave job at the company she just got promoted at with her new six figure salary. If you are lucky, maybe her rich doctor fiancee may find someone to hook you up with instead of you praying to God daily that he will magically make a man appear into your room to be your bf.

>>82895757
wth happened here?