>>82888087
>Most women are soulless beings
And yet, in this situation the woman was the loyal one while you caved to your animalistic instincts and only backed out because it was too much work.
You are just as soulless, yet also a hypocritical faggot.

>>82888087
>amazing relationship
>still wants to cheat
this is why ill never date. im kinda like your gf, loyal, autistic, okay body and okay face. i cant imagine giving myself to someone and them still thinking "ive never tried another woman so lets go fuck one" or "damn shes kinda average i wanna fuck something better". ill never be good enough for anybody. theres no point, i cant let this happen to me. you are evil anon, evil and disgusting

>>82888087
>wahhhhh I can't ruin my relationship with my loving gf
Why can't you just be content when things are going well for you? Don't you care about your gf at all? Cheating is disgusting.

>>82888087
on one hand, i'm glad for the girl because you won't outright cheat on her
on the other hand i fucking pity her for putting up with a hypocritical unfaithful piece of shit like you, at this rate it won't be long until you actually do cheat on her when you find a girl who looks remotely more interesting than the vapid dating app breeds out there

sigh.
some people don't know how good they have it until they lose it.
die.

>>82888121
you forgot the part where he says she's not even her looksmatch, if you or any other women fear getting with guys like OP then stop only going for guys out of your league, men like that will always feel like they owe you for letting you be with them and they know they could get pussy elsewhere.
of course you're not going to learn and you'll simply keep ignoring regular men so you use men like me as a scapegoat.

>>82888117
if it's any consolation, the idea only popped into my head after she admitted to cheating on her first (and only other) bf because he turned out to be gay and wouldn't have sex with her. I thought that if she could be controlled by her lust, then I wouldn't be so bad either. I know the parallels arent 100% but that's my defense.

>>82888087
Anon, i dont know who you are, but i kinda of had the same thoughts with my gf now, the difference is that we are only together for a little more than a month. And she is already pregnant from me btw. I got desperate to cheat because once a child comes out of her, my life will be a prison to this woman and kid. And also the fact that i frequent nightclubs and college party environments, and it seems like women can smell when you have a "healthy" relationship and sex with other women, and they somehow feel challenged by it and they want you more. I never got more female attention in my life than in this last month btw. But dont cheat nigga. This will leave you souless. Specially when its a girl that makes everything for you. What does the other woman offer you? Sex and thats it. You partner now offers much more. And desu, pussy sorta feels the same everywhere, just the thing surrounding it is different.

>>82888117
>>82888121
>>82888121
Agreed with the three nonas/anons trashing you cuz if you really love someone they should be enough for you but also it's a good case study
But any girls should NOT let this destroy your ability to believe in love
For example I have been talking to this girl for a year and we both care a lot about each other but she isn't ready yet but I can't imagine myself going out and talking to other girls and starting over so I am waiting for her...

>>82888183
That's a shitty defense. It is always amusing how cheaters will always deflect and blame the other partner rather than ever accepting the blame themselves.
Your girlfriend deserves better than you, and you should take a long look in the mirror and reflect. Not that you, will, cheaters rarely will stop. Maybe you'll stop actively searching it out, but if an opportunity shows itself naturally you will definitely cave.
People like you are the soulless ones who can't even use an ounce of self control. Sad, for both you and the girl.

>>82888190
>And also the fact that i frequent nightclubs and college party environments
The fact you're getting invited to parties means you're not really much like me. I've been deprived of female attention my ENTIRE life until my current gf. So socially awkward I've only been invited to one party to this day.

>>82888190
>I got desperate to cheat because once a child comes out of her, my life will be a prison to this woman and kid.
For the girls in this thread, please know that not all guys think like this... this is kinda brutal though

>>82888216
Bro, i was an incel until last year too, and i lost my virginity to a prostitute and had a failed hook up where my pp couldn't get hard. She is my first gf too

>>82888224
DESU I'd expect most women to think like this. But this dude is a real piece of work.

>>82888224
>For the girls in this thread, please know that not all guys think like this
No woman use this site nigga
>this is kinda brutal though
Growing up without teen love, thats brutal. Its an endless path of mistakes, anger and sadness moving forward now.

>>82888211
>cuz if you really love someone they should be enough for you
Truthfully, I'm not really sure I'm capable of sincere unreciprocated love. I don't even think about my parents unless they call me, and all told they did a good job raising me. Likewise for my siblings and close friends from highschool. Close relationships simply don't occupy a lot of my mental real estate compared to the average person.

>>82888215
My only sin is lusting after other women. On the day to day of our relationship, I know what a good partner does and I do it. I care to see her happy and I don't mistreat her. I actively foster healthy relationship behaviors that she (and I) was lacking going into our relationship. All told, we've done a lot of growth and maturing together. I won't deny that I am fully to blame if I cheat, but I doubt she'll find a person who clicks with her and treats her better apart from that.

>>82888087
>carry conversations
They arent used to that. The way girls sleep around is they just get approached bluntly and they arrange a time and place. Not a lot of talking. They dont use their brains so forget the whole 'character' or 'personality maxxing' bullshit. Its all a lie. If you see a girl you want to fuck and she is dropping loads of hints back to back, just get her number and arrange a place to fuck within the very first 8 messages. Even if she says no, you have played the absolute best possible moves. Dont fall for the shygirl, dignity bullshit they try to spin to see if you will fall for it. Cut right through it. What makes it incredibly easy is to talk to them the way youd talk to a prostitute but make it subtle since they have inflated egos. Use double speak and innuendos. KEEP IT WITHIN 8 MESSAGES. Even if after 8 messages, nothing is arranged, stop replying and cease communication unless she drops the act and her very next message is an address and a direct blunt invitation to fuck her brains out.

There, I just gave you absolutely EVERYTHING you need to know.
>if she signals x 5
>get number and ask directly what you want
>maximum of 8 messages
>either you fuck or you move on with your day

>>82888211
it is honestly so hard not to lose hope when i see this shit all the time. i know it doesnt actually happen THAT much but its fucking hard man

>>82888277
Checked
>I don't even think about my parents unless they call me, and all told they did a good job raising me.
Maybe sad but this is something entirely different
Your girlfriend is supposed to be unique singular person in your life
If she was trying to cheat on you the same way you were trying to cheat on her, would that not make you love her less?
But don't sell yourself short and act like you're destined to end up a certain way; self-awareness is no excuse
Remember that people change over time

>>82888372
Honestly it happens way more often than it should and I sympathise with you
The problem is that if I say that men should be better and that I'd never do that I'd be called "performative" which merely reinforces the toxicity.
At this point I kinda think it would be really nice if people who thought like this and value trust and authenticity could get together and help each other out by listening and advising navigating relationships with how rough it is out there.

>>82888400
> If she was trying to cheat on you the same way you were trying to cheat on her, would that not make you love her less?
It truly depends on the reason. I have a small dick, so if it was to get railed by some hung dude with no emotional attachment, I think I could get over it, though I'm not sure I'd enjoy the sex as much after that. If there was emotional attachment involved on her end, yeah I would mind.
>self-awareness is no excuse
It isn't. I know what I'm doing is wrong. I simply do not want to die having only had one body to my name while my gf has had 5. It feels unfair and like I've missed out on a core part of life that I want to make up for while I have the chance. Responsibility says I shouldn't, but as long as she doesn't find out, it's no harm no foul. I am fulfilled if I can sleep with even one other woman, and our day to day relationship continues happily ever after. Perhaps even better because I no longer resent the fact that she has more experience than me.

>>82888087
Don't give up anon! I'm sure you can find a girl to cheat with if you look a bit harder. Maybe try prostitutes?

>>82888216
>So socially awkward I've only been invited to one party to this day.
>>82888245
damn that's brutal
ironic that here I am typing this having just gotten asked to go to a party (well more like a Halloween dance event) by a male friend and I definitely don't feel like talking to other girls there cuz I am really attached to a girl I have been talking with for a year and it would suck to destroy all this to what? recreate that somehow not even 1% with random girls??? ... but yeah different strokes for different folks I guess.

>>82888262
>DESU I'd expect most women to think like this.
Women have their problems stereotypically for sure including being attracted to toxicity and being superficial etc. but is it really that common for them to think "I better cheat on this guy before he gets me married and pregnant?"
that's psychotic

>>82888275
>No woman use this site nigga
lol if only you knew how wrong you were cuz I'm literally referring to one
but eh I get it, I used to say that too

>>82888372
ugh yeah when
>>82888296
literally the message right above you is saying to treat all women like soulless whores
yeah this disgusts me to even think about

>>82888449
>It truly depends on the reason. I have a small dick, so if it was to get railed by some hung dude with no emotional attachment, I think I could get over it, though I'm not sure I'd enjoy the sex as much after that. If there was emotional attachment involved on her end, yeah I would mind.
bruh wtf
>people like this have relationships
ugh

>>82888224
Oh I do think like this. I'm just not a fucking moron, so I'll never have kids. I know multiple normie men fathers at my workplace and all of them are living in their self-made prisons, complaining about it every day. Kids are annoying, expensive and destructive for your sex life and testosterone levels (look up testosterone drop after becoming a dad).
There's a good reason why most high IQ men don't bother with marriage and kids.

>>82888211
ahh this gives me some hope

This guy is an animal. He is functionally identical to whorish women with an attraction to the cock carousel and a willingness to shit on a decent partner. None of his weak excuses stack up.

Given his instincts, the only acceptable course is to split with his gf because he obviously doesn't care for her. The cheating is unacceptable and also a sign that this guy should be with the vapid whores he wrongly imagines to be beneath him rather than a loyal and personable gf.

>>82888537
>treat women like soulless whores
Because they are. If you ever catch a woman acting like shes all soft and has a soul, its because she doesnt consider you attractive or fuck material. She sees you as a simp and she is selling you a mask. Once you run into women that see you as fuck material, it truly does not matter how old they are, the truthful and hungry little whore comes out. Take the average teenage girl that likes boybands, the shit they write on their social media would make a streetwalker blush. Ive personally seen 13yo girls discuss which One Direction member would use which hole. Im not even fucking kidding, they are THAT degenerate. All those grooming stories you hear constantly, have you ever wondered how that works? Do you seriously believe that these innocent little girls just decided randomly for no fucking reason to start listening to strangers and taking orders from them? Usually the way it happens is some horny little whore gets tingles from some blunt and violent thug, he invited her over, her holes get resized, she does that a few times and when she sees that the guy genuinely doesnt give a fuck about her, she feels humiliated and cries rape. The reason why I know this is because an acquaintance of mine slept with a 13yo girl and he showed me the messages right before he got arrested. It broke my worldview. He was talking to like 6 different girls from 2 different schools. Never liked the guy but this stuck with me. Last I heard was he got eviscerated in prison by some schizophrenic thief doing 40 years for involuntary vehicular manslaughter.

>>82888211
>she isnt ready yet
anon, im sorry to tell you this but you are being played. They are all ready the second they hit puberty. You are being turned into a fallback option. Im telling you this now because the level of pain you are going to go through will genuinely wreck you. My advice is to put your cards on the table and leave if she says 'no'. Your time and energy is being wasted just so some girls confidence levels can be maintained long enough for her to get the courage to go after the guys she likes. I say Guys in plural because those kind of "shy" and reserved chicks always end up being thee biggest whores who breathe and exist off of attention. Trust me on this one, please, dont do this to yourself. Dont let your wishful thinking walk you into thee most painful and soul crushing years of your life.

>>82888087
>If you don't give them pussy tingles in the first conversation, you're done, even if they find you physically attractive.
no, you're a stupid fucking retard. you dumb fuck. regardless of whether you're attractive or not, using dating apps is only for setting up the date you fucking retard. they don't wanna be wasting their time on there if they haven't even met you yet. but i'll let you slide on this one since i used to think that part of the date was on the platform like you currently do

>>82888996
Im not talking about dating apps, im talking about IRL. All it takes is proximity and minor rapport which depends on how the girl looks at you and if she starts spamming signals. Smartest move is to jump right after the first cluster of signals but do pay attention to how she engages with others to determine if she is signaling interest towards you. On some cases they signal to everybody if theyve gone 1 month without dick.

she deserves better if you even considered this cheating

cheating is based don't listen to all these pussies who got cucked