BPD is basically just a condition where anything triggers an autistic meltdown in a chick 24/7. Is that right?
>>82889196Interesting. BPD to me feels like its part of the autism spectrum. Its basically extremely low functioning emotional regulation, like, these people cant fucking control their emotions and act on primitive instinct
>>82889196>emotional parasite for women.no thats just being a woman. BPD evolves them like a pokemon into somehow something far worse
>>82889230Maybe, but they purposely create difficult situations because they have to be on an emotional roller coaster at all times
NoThey are demonsThey will act perfect and mirror you at the start. Then when they figure out you're hooked they will suck out every drop of your soul and emotion with their manufactured crises and discarding you
>>82889254I dont get why you niggers talk about BPD chicks in this cryptic way. Just say they will emotionally harass and treat you like shit
>>82889272the cluster b types are just demonic theres no other way to describe them
>>82889183>male>diagnosed bpdtwo dice are rolled. one decides how long the mood lasts, 5 minutes to +12 hours. the other dice chooses the mood, empty, depressed, "happy", and destructive. repeat until suicide. a random mood change can be trigger by anything.women more or less do the same thing but are shit at hiding it.
>>82889291males with bpd do not hide it either, do not spread ur bpdemon propaganda HERE because the men are just as bad
>>82889296honestly yeah, i feel bad saying that now i dont think ive met a bad histronic person
>>82889296I thought histrionics had sex and wore topless outside
>>82889291The way you describe BPD is similar to how normies think bipolar works
>>82889230BPD is caused by either neglect or abuse from the parent during the foundational stage of trust developmentThey seem autistic because they appear to be unable to 'comprehend' trust, love, loyalty, or other abstract positive interpersonal concepts: thats because their brains adapted to the abusive environment and internalized 'the lack of object constancy' for love/trustSo any time they perceive you as withdrawing, their instincts tell them 'you will now be abandoned' and when you open up and get close they think 'you will now be abused'This does look like autism and is misdiagnosed as Audhd in many women, due to the meltdowns and the spacey weirdness, but it IS bpd meltdowns from being unable to integrate the good in others (thanks to their shitty homelife tripping their factory settings to be set to 'trust no one/lone wolf' mode)The split back to extreme black/white thinking in arguments is tied to this. Because to the BPD person, like the autistic, emotion is barely real and hyperreal simultaneously: and it only expresses the way it was 'formed' at age 3 by abuse:neglect; that is, everything is either GOOD or BAD; and GOOD and BAD can not be a spectrum.Everyone with BPD is a ticking time-bomb. one day, you WILL trigger them to 'split' you into good or bad, and you WILL be evil in their child-mind, and they WILL try to lash out and destroy you. Like a child.Thats why I hope abusers get the rope. Evil begets evil
>>82889183Nah, it's more about unstable emotions and fear of abandonment. The retards on here conflate it with bpdemons (AsPD + BPD/NPD + BPD), so don't listen to those people who say they're all evil pieces of shit, it's literally not true
>>82889183bpd doesnt exist. it is terrible behavior justified by psychiatric "science"
>>82889338>BPD is caused by either neglect or abuse from the parent during the foundational stage of trust developmentI feel like BPD is kind of like bipolar in the sense that 90% of the people that develop these conditions are autistic (in the case of bipolar, ADHD)If you think about it both bipolar and BPD are kind of like evolved forms of aspegers and ADHDWho knows if those 10-20 percent who are bpd without autism are just undiganosed.
>>82889350Rejection sensitivity syndrome is already part of both ADHD and autism though
>>82889350this anon gets itBorderlines have a fundamental breakdown in integrating the constancy of abstract connection/trust (e.g. love) in their interpersonal relations and models of other people (as in, to the borderline, there are two anons: the 'nice anon' who is nice to her and the 'evil anon' who she is convinced is abusing her because he disagreed with something or did not comply with an anxious delusion.)BPDemons are often the ones who were abused rather rhan neglected and there is a genetic propensity for Borderlines who 'border' NPD and pass the abuse along, because they are primed to see only evil and they are instinctually abusers. Usually cultural artifacts too - low culture families (i.e. beating, parents who showcase toxicity, sexual abuse) create these more often...the demon aspect is inheritedbut for those who border adhd, or anxiety, or depression, its often neglect or trauma related and manifests as delusional insecurity that rots the relationship from within when they are unable to integrate any perceived 'lies', 'abuse', 'mistreatment' (for a normal healthy relationship the borderline usually leaps 10 steps past the trigger to an imaginary crime informed by their foundational trauma) and you are unable to hold a rational conversation until their mental state recedes from the 'split' and the emotional regression.You cant reason with a toddler; you hug them or leave them alone to tantrum and reconcile later. The same must be done with the borderline. But dont get it twisted, these are all rearguard actions - it is a war you will never truly win unless they engage in longterm multifactor (DBT, CBT, etc) therapy that teaches deep integration of other peoples actions into their interpersonal modeling.
>>82889392Oops i didnt refresh in time! I agree there is a genetic factor as well. My ex was a victim and inherited borderline from her mom. I have a propensity for it as well from my family but thank god I educated myself.As a neuro expert how do you advise people to a) manage themselves and b) manage a partner / loved one with BPD?Is there some magic bullet supplement or cognitive excersise we can look into
>>82889390Yeah, but in BPD it's not just sensitivity, it's identity instability and emotional regulation issues on top of it. ADHD/autism rejection sensitivity is reactive and BPD's is existential (It hits their whole sense of self instead of just mood)
>>82889398I understand the logic behind it but cant empathize with them. Like bitch just chill xD
>>82889403>Eating disorders for foids are like 100% overlap,Wait what ED chicks all have BPD?
>>82889422Yeah i only learned this much after 2 years of hell and then deep research and reflection in why neither of us could 'just chill' although i found it much easier; i had a healthy childhood and just had a week emotional state as neuroanon mentionedyou cannot reason with people unaware or uncaring if their condition. just find someone stable
>>82889470I dont have bpd but have audhd went through childhood trauma bla bla bla but I have insane relationship abandonment anxiety and delusional thoughts, like constantly thinking person im talking to hates me. Very insecure and crave validation tooI never externalize these feelings though and am self aware of them. I noticed that I also tend to eventually hate people im dating or am friends withIs this like some sort of quasi bpd
>>82889574Not that anon but I'd say nah, sounds more like trauma adaptation mixed with anxious attachment. You mirror some bpd traits but it's more secondary, like defense mechanisms rather than core instability. If you're self-aware and don't externalize it, it's prolly just unresolved stuff amplifying your neurodivergent wiring
>>82889183Straight up demons. I have a BPD sister and she basically started out really bad, like she was sabotaging others and even emotionally manipulating others at a very young age and I mean like the age of 3. If you get involved, she will completely turn everyone on you. There's nothing you can do besides walking away entirely.
>>82889596r u sure she isnt aspd
>>82889596Please refer to >>82889350 and educate yourself
>>82889584That makes sense since I also dont hurt or manipulate other people around me. Im prob not in the bpd schism
>>82889602She went to a psychologist and was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. I'm not exactly the kinda guy who leans into these things mostly because I think psychology is an incomplete field that barely scratches the surface of the human psyche. I've looked in depth and studied as much as I could really find til about the age of 18, sometimes I even go around and look at current studies or even thesis paper whatever on the subject. These psychologists don't know what the fuck they're dealing with and the medication they give to these people with borderline are ineffective (Source: https://www.cochranelibrary.com/cdsr/doi/10.1002/14651858.CD012956.pub2/full). When psychologists aren't handing out drugs like candy to demonically possessed people, they are arguing with each other over what the fuck they're even talking about.
>>82889602More like NPD. Aspds are more about physically beating you into submission
>>82889609Well then especially with the lack of projection or manipulation means you're processing it internally instead of deflecting like a bpd would, so most likely just hypervigilant from your trauma, not inherently disordered. Keep that self-awareness and it'll mellow out as you gget older
>>82889183its that, plus during that meltdown she'll fuck 3 deadbeat loser guys behind your back and then ghost you
>>82889613There is no bpd approved medicine tho
>>82889627They still medicate people with BPD tho
>>82889183All women have BPD desu
>>82889673Based generalizer
>>82889649Hopefully with cyanide chloride>>82889673I want to have sex with a BPD chick in mania so bad robots hype them up so much
I keep reading about attachment issues, emotional roller coasters and manipulation. Those don't sound that bad when the alternative is being alone forever and life sucks. Worthwhile effort for a doomed loser. One BPD girlfriend, please.
My gf said she has BPD but has not done anything abusive to me, just be completely obsessed with me, possibly because I'm one of stark few people in her life who's shown her genuine kindness. But she self harms sometimes and it upsets me knowing she does that. She's also had two suicide attempts since I met her and now I get really anxious whenever I don't hear from her for more than a few hours because the last one came out of nowhere.What do?
>>82889726She just internalizing her retardness then
>>82889724Dude imagine dating a chick who throws tantrums for no reason all the time and is constantly guilt tripping you, high chance of her cheating on you and constantly threatening suicide. Also she goes from love to despising you in like a hour. How is that not better than peace and solitude
>>82889726Haha have fun when she turns on you and in turn turns your life into hell dumbass
>>82889746You just feel like you're dead inside and to the world when you've had peace and solitude your whole life. The excitement and affection I would get would make me feel alive and happy. I don't see that crazy behavior as a deal breaker knowing I at least tried and got someone to love me. I can continue having peace and solitude if she leaves me, and I will at least have nice memories. A BPD angel for someone desperate enough.
>>82889815Maybe ur just ADHD brained and you'd rather be stressed than bored, in that case you would probably love dating a bpd chick, free cortisol and adrenaline glitch
>>82889272Because it's not just emotional harassment and being treated like shit. They weaponize all your own love and care against you, doing everything they can to hurt you as badly as humanly possible, and they'll take great sadistic pleasure in doing so, thinking it's all entirely justified.Then they'll pretend to apologize and start the cycle all over again, keeping you strung along as long as possible to maximize your pain.
>>82889183The worst part about BPD is how common it isThat's a lot of traumatized children being produced... both male and female
>>82889272A bully will emotionally harass you and treat you like shit but eventually stop once you nut up, start working out, fight them (and win), etc. A BPDemon doesn't care. It will consume your life essence until it destroys you.
