Legitimately how do I stop being afraid to talk to grills? I can be cordial with them and have normal conversations but flirting and actually trying to get with one is nerve wracking. I'm insecure and spend a lot of time alone don't really have a social life but it's by choice I prefer to just chill alone so I don't have to worry and stress about dealing with people and the anxiety it causes me . I can make girls laugh sometimes but I'm nervous to actually invite into my life/situation and have her see who I really am. I don't think she would still like me if she knew what I really think of things
Jokingly make fun of them, and also give them genuine compliments that are not about their looks. Just say what you are thinking but be sure to not overdo it. If they like you they will eat it up. If they see you as a friend they won't mind, if they don't like you at all they will make it very obvious they are uncomfortable. When you progress further with one, slowly start giving her compliments about her looks, be polite at first and then slowly get more spicey. Besides that is just talking to them like normal people: Avoid asking too many questions, but try to find out what you differ on massively and what you have in common massively, since that is the most interesting. Come from the perspective of getting to know them, instead of getting them to like you, if they like you (even as a friend) they will eat it up.
>>82892026imagine you're talking to a fat man instead of a woman
>>82892026the thing I've noticed across my experience with women is that the thing that makes a girl flip from being neutral to me to suddenly being really interested is essentially subtle bullying.I have no idea why but this drives women crazy in a positive way. Even if it's not immediately apparent. Take for example the last place I worked there was this girl from the office who would talk to me when she came into the break room. We would just have general chit chat and then one day after she told me she was vegan I kind of bullied and teased her a bit about it, about the semantics of veganism etc. She didn't necessarily respond positively in the moment, but after that she basically became obsessed with me. And the more I did this kind of teasing to her the more she became obsessed.
>>82892026Since their creation, they were designed to be submissive whores. Knowing this you must try to dominate them socially and they'll get very wet when you show everyone that she's beneath you. Lastly, look for girls being extra cute and feminine for you. Also, yes you gotta have the look they want or you'll end up like that on 9/10 in Indian guy who got 4 felonies.
>>82892026I don't have an answer, just came to say I struggle with the same shit. it's like a visceral fear whenever I have to make small talk or be in close proximity to them. it's extremely hard for me to look alot of them in the eyes too, usually from a mix of untrust and not wanting to give too intense of eye contact. the eye contact thing especially irks my soul, because sometimes it freaks people out, other times it gets me unnecessary attention I don't want.
you're asking the wrong people for real
not your personal therapist bro
