>>82909512
stfu with your larp faggot

>>82909516
its not larp you fucking retard i hate my fucking life this stupid bitch wont leave me ALONE she keeps following me and texting me

>>82909512
>guys im really ugly and omg this mid woman who has interest in me wont leave me alone!!!! i hate women!!!
even ugly untermensch men are stacy only

>>82909537
she literally doesnt even care about me she cares about the person i presented to her is. why am i not allowed to be mad that she wont leave me the fuck alone im tired of it let me be miserable in peace

>>82909542
you are such a faggot man i hope you kys

>>82909512
dang reminds me of when this foid invited me to lunch with her friend group and I had to sit there like a stuttering retard while they all laughed (probably at me)
never trust foids, you will soon become the group jester to her and her "friends"

>>82909545
ill probably ddo it in a couple months but literally what the fuck am i doing wrong is it wrong to want someone who actually cares about me

>>82909547
they probably wanted to see you jerk off in front of them

>>82909547
shes not even like that shes autistic (i think) and into old nintendo shit but i just want to be left alone to draw. i hate when people talk and its something im not interested in it's mindnumbing

>>82909554
it's too late bro, if you didn't set boundaries day 1 they'll just keep pushing for more

>>82909561
i dont know how im horrible at social queues. i barely want to talk to her in the first place id rather just draw. what do i even do now i was considering just blocking her after the semester ends because shes changing campuses or something

>>82909567
just block or ghost but only once you're 500% sure she swapped campus in case she makes your life hell mode for the remaining of the semester

>>82909573
i want to do that but i would physically live with the guilt it would hurt me. i dont know why im such a faggot but anyting bad i do on purpose i keep with me as physical pain

>>82909575
welp if you're not gonna do that, you'll just be her entertainment slave/human meatbag she can yap at till she gets bored

>>82909580
ugh i fucking hate foids. why do i always get treated like this its so fucking annoying. i could give less of a shit about you because you dont care at all about me

>>82909587
such is life man, too late to back out now anyways

>>82909600
is this how it will always be? no one caring about me just being some foids yap meatbag until she gets with chad again? like she literally told me about how she has madeout in her car a ton like okay why dont i just shoot myself then

>>82909606
>she literally told me about how she has madeout in her car a ton
yeah, you're filling the role of yap meatbag/vent meatbag cause she knows you'll just sit and listen
she obv wont yap at Chad tho because she already unloaded everything on you

>>82909542
why dont you tell her straight then? instead of complaining online and if she is actively taking an interest in you (even if its in whatever persona you presented) then there's a level of care, but it is just not coming from you anon

you dont have to force yourself to care about her because its impossible to do, but you do not have to humiliate her by letting her follow you around and put effort into something that is not clearly worth the effort either I think, its sad all around

>>82909619
ugh whats even the point. shes so fucking clingy too.
i met up with a friend inbetween classes instead of her following me around and she texted me and asked me where i was. constantly invites me over to her house too.

>>82909624
Have some self respect and do something about it. I agree with the other Anon that chimed in, sad all around situation

>>82909623
>why dont you just tell her straight then?
what would i even say? "I actually fucking hate you and id prefer if you never talked to me again"
i dont know social situations i just cant take it anymore

>>82909625
what could i even fucking do?
i dont know how to manage these situations.
i barely have any friends and the ones i do dont make me deal with this shit because we actually talk about stuff i like.

>>82909632
Probably just straight up tell her you don't like her company BUT she could make your life hell if she wants to fuck you up for fun

>>82909637
exactly. she could alienate me from other people and just fuck up my life. i cant deal with how people treat me now i cant let it get worse

>>82909628
just say "i dont really wanna talk to you, it is nothing personal" , if you attack her she'll use it against you probably, neutrality is better for some reason, atleast from what ive seen

it is better to be seen as slightly mean for blowing somebody off like that rather than the friendship ending and her somehow putting the pieces together that you didn't like her then shittalking you, women are like that.

This has to be a troll post.

>oh no guys, random foid wants to be my friend and keeps making an effort to include me.

Wtf is wrong with you

>>82909647
but ive already spent so much time talking with her and i respond so enthusiasticly. if i just suddenly stop it she'll probably constantly question me about it

>>82909655
sorry that not everyone is a chad tier socialite like you.
i dont like being constantly talked to or invited to things. i like crying and sleeping. my other friends dont overwhelm me by constantly texting me and inviting me to things. especially since im a spineless loser who cant say no to things.

>>82909512
Just give her the dick already. But of course you'll post some retarded excuse as to why not because this is a troll threat

>>82909665
she has literally shown no interest in me romantically or sexually. why even respond with this if youre not going to read what i wrote.

>>82909657
okay, you do not have to go dry on her but the sooner you be honest the better, just say something along the lines of "I just don't think we should be friends, the constant messaging/invites makes me uncomfortable, yada yada yada" fill in the gaps but be as neutral as you can be when talking about it,

i feel weird disecting woman logic but i've seen similar situations irl

>>82909680
ugh knowing her shes going to try and "fix" it though.
>"oh im so sorry ill accomodate you"
and then probably just message me slightly less. i want it fully gone

>>82909664
>oh no guys, she keeps inviting me out.
Oh no how awful

Fakecel, volcel, troll

>>82909690
i.dont.fucking.want.her.attention.
we barely have anything in common and she only talks about her interests and its CONSTANT. i get overwhelmed easily and its making me really depressed. im sure youd be so perfect in this situation anon but im not you. im a retarded fucked up loser who can barely talk to people without crying.

>>82909688
be firm about it, it'll save u anon, its better to be seen as a cunt for this reason alone , also it might help that after you talk about it, if she doesnt change, just stop interacting with her as much, its like not giving a druggie money.

>>82909674
I did. She's obviously really interested in you which is why she keeps inviting you to things. She even told you that she likes to make out in her car *hint hint*. Invite her over to your place to play vidya or something, put on some music and provide alcohol and snacks/dinner. Try to casually bring up sex or romance at some point. See where things go.

Why not? What do you have to lose? Why not try something different for once in your life? Do you want to be a zero self esteem virgin forever? At least try to form a human connection with this girl who clearly wants to spend time with you.

>>82909701
even if your a loser,a loser's gotta stand up for themselves aswell

>>82909701
id feel bad. i cant live with guilt it ruins me physically. im already trying to throw her off by ghosting her for hours but its not working.

>>82909703
how is she interested in me? just talking to me and inviting me over isnt interest its just having someone over to yap to while chad is gone. she just broke up with her bf not too long ago so shes just using me for attention as rebound probably. im an ugly retard no one would be interested in me

>>82909705
i dont deserve to stand up for myself. im a pathetic loser who can barely do anything properly. why do i deserve to have self respect

>>82909708
I understand, and thats fine, but think about my words as resentment towards somebody will create a far worse guilt for yourself than standing your ground

>>82909721
not really. i hate most people i interact with.
i dont feel guilty about it because they probably hate me too.

>>82909712
>just talking to me and inviting me over isnt interest
Yes it is. It's explicitly interest in being around you, and is a sign she is interested in more.

>someone over to yap to
So tell her that you feel overwhelmed with all the conversation and want to just do an activity together with minimal talking. Play some Nintendo games. Or say you want to draw her while she plays. Drink wine with her. Put on music. Light a fucking candle. See what happens.

> im an ugly retard no one would be interested in me
Literally just a skill issue. Even if you're an ugly retard you can still get laid. Just don't think about how ugly or retarded you are and press forward anyway. It happens all the time, ugly nerds meet at cons or D&D groups, fuck like rabbits and end up married with kids. I've seen it happen a few times.

>>82909712
>becomes single
>invites him over and likes being with him

Fakecel, volcel, troll

I'm leaning toward troll. Next he'll be like, she keeps offering to blow me but I just want to cry!

>>82909717
why does anybody deserve anything anon? why do we deserve love? or sex? or marriage? or kids or anything worthwhile ?

its not a question of deserving it, its a question of why do i need it? and self respect is one of the most important things anybody could have, no matter how much you hate yourself

>>82909743
telling a girl that you get overwhelmed by conversation is probably the most pathetic thing you could do. im holding myself to at least a higher standard

i dont even want to get laid i want someone to care about me. why would i want sex with someone i dont like

Personally i would just do what i used to do when i was younger and saw anyone, just run away and if you cant then just refuse to speak. It is a woman anyway she wont beat you or anything like a lad would did back then if they thought you were a prissy type.

>>82909751
volcel ig.
no one has shown explicit sexual or romantic interest in me though so not sure where that puts me.

>>82909758
if ive made it this far without it why would i need it now. i have not earned the right to respect myself.

>>82909766
i cant run away because we share classes and I cant refuse to talk because shes always next to me. i cant just ignore her to her face.

>>82909759
>telling a girl that you get overwhelmed by conversation is probably the most pathetic thing you could do.
Why? It's honesty. If you say it confidently she will respect that because women love confidence.

>m holding myself to at least a higher standard
You literally just called yourself an ugly retard lol

>i dont even want to get laid i want someone to care about me. why would i want sex with someone i dont like
Well first off sex is a massive confidence boost, which it sounds like you need. It proves that a girl finds you attractive. But if you don't want that, I respect that. So then don't fuck her. Hang out with her, get to know each other, build a connection. And THEN have sex if/when you like an care about each other.

It sounds to me like you're desperately looking for reasons not to do this because you're self-sabotaging. You know that if you succeed it'll shatter your image of yourself as a pathetic loser and you're scared of that. Well I tried to help but that's a big psychological block which posts on 4chan are unlikely to fix.

>>82909777
well, if your in uni, which lets give you the benefit of the doubt and say you are, then you could try going to the lecture hall late as possible and find a seat long after she has sat and just act like you didnt notice her. If you arent in uni, well go ask your mum i suppose she will probably give better advice than this place will.

>>82909788
ive gotten to know her and i dont care about her. i do not want to spend more time than necessary with her. i am not self-sabotaging anything because there is nothing to sabotage. i just do not want a deeper connection with her

>>82909797
im in uni but my lectures are in super small rooms cuz the classes dont have a ton of enrollments. so she's always gonna see me and be near me

>>82909801
Fine. Then tell her honestly that you aren't interested in spending more time with her. Be confident and fucking stand up for yourself. Just say it.

>>82909805
no because she's been so nice that id live with that guilt forever. plus she could also make my life hell within that lecture.

>>82909812
>I don't care about her
>I'd live with the guilt forever
Do you care about her or not? Make up your goddamn mind. I can see how you got into this situation.

>she could also make my life hell within that lecture.
Be polite with her. But firm. And if she starts shit then deal with it. Stand up for your self.

>>82909826
just because i dont care for someone doesnt mean i dont feel guilt at harming them. i consider everyones feelings much above my owns so i feel guilty hurting people even if i despise them with my entire being.
how do i "deal with it"? i dont have confrontation i hide and cry

>>82909835
Ok then fine. This situation is impossible, you must continue being a spineless pushover and suffering forever. Stupid thread.

>>82909847
damn. why even try. i was just born wrong
thjanks for the advice at least. ill try to remember it while im crynig

>>82909850
>damn. why even try. i was just born wrong
This is the self-defeating attitude you must conquer if you wish to be happy in your life.

>>82909512
how did you get to become friends with a foid?

>>82909512
Leave then nigger. I hate it when people humblebrag about how they have friends and they hate being with them. You don't know how it feels to truly be alone. The only person I have left in this world who I care about is my dad, and even then, he acts like a total asshole sometimes.